THE Amicable Divorce Expert with Judith Weigle

In this episode of THE Amicable Divorce Expert, you will learn the following:

1. The definitions of anger

2. Where anger fits in the seven Stages of Divorce Grief

3. Types of Anger

4. The importance of therapy and self-reflection to deal with anger.

5. The three types of Anger, and what is good anger.

6. Examples of using good anger to adva...

I. Mediation is an opportunity to compromise. To create a settlement that works for everyone.

1. 1. It’s not an argument.
   2. It’s not therapy.

II. People should know the law going into the mediation, and be prepared to work around the law for a compromise that benefits both spouses.

III. Typical Mediation Challenges and How to Handle Them

In this episode you will learn the following:

1. Divorce will unhinge anyone. It’s how people deal with divorce that will benefit them in their divorce and after.

2. You need the professionals who you hire for the divorce to care about you.

3. You need your soon-to-be former spouse to care about you as a co-parent if you have minor children, and as a negotiator when you work on your divorce se...

Spousal Support

1. Even though child support is considered more important than spousal support/alimony, spousal support is much harder to deal with both for the spouses and the legal professionals who provide service: Attorneys, Mediators, Divorce Coaches, Document Preparation person, Therapists.
2. History of spousal support
3. Not gender-driven, while gender plays a huge role when the woman makes m...

Episode 250: Can anyone Take the High Road in Divorce? w/Andy Heller, author, businessman

1. Define High Road as it pertains to divorce

2. What is the crucial hole in the self-help space that you saw with your own divorce, and wanted to fill with your book?

3. Topics that aren’t covered a lot in divorce podcasts, and are in your book
   1. Why shouldn’t one s...

I. Include everything in the marital settlement agreement and refer to the settlement agreement to avoid arguments   II. Avoid Arguments by Looking at all Aspects of the Co-Parenting Relationship a. Third Party to pick children up from school or after school event b. Pick-up Late Clause c. Asking for co-parent’s help in the other co-parent’s house d. When children don’t want to go to other parent’s house e. Attending childre...

In this episode of THE Amicable Divorce Expert you will learn the following:

1. Define Terms under the label of Gifted
   1. High-functioning Learning Disabled
   2. Gifted
   3. Neorodivergent
   4. Down Syndrome
   5. Autistic
   6. Retarded
   7. Dyslexic
2. Communication
   1. How do children and their parents communicate the children’s needs
3. Soc...

In this episode of THE Amicable Divorce Expert, you will learn the following:

1. That emotions will run rampant throughout the divorce.

2. How to manage those emotions.

3. The benefit in managing those emotions.

4. The timing of dealing with those emotions.

5. The importance of grieving before filing

6. The 7 stages of divorce grief, and th...

In this episode of THE Amicable Divorce Expert podcast, you will learn the following:

1. Different states have different laws.

2. New California law for pet custody: Best Interests of the Pets

https://minellalawgroup.com/blog/how-the-new-pet-custody-law-works-in-california/

3. How to Mediate Pet Custody
   1. Prior ownership
   2. Attachment between animal and pe...

In this Episode of THE Amicable Divorce Expert, you will learn the following:

1. Why Fear is part of Divorce

2. The importance of being honest with all aspects of the divorce

3. An easy way of researching assets and debts to verify accuracy in your spouse’s Discovery

4. Why lying on Income Tax Reports will come back to haunt you

5. How Honesty in the financi...

In this episode of THE Amicable Divorce Expert, you will learn the following:

1. How do you know if you married the wrong person?

2. The age at which we marry matters.

3. When do you call it quits?

4. Is the idea of being a young parent the same now as it used to be years ago?

5. When should a married couple have children?

6. How should a m...

1. Forgiveness is one of the 7 Stages of Divorce Grief
   1. It’s the last stage and the most important one in order to release anger, bring serenity, and become whole again. “Through the act of forgiveness, we cleanse ourselves  of the pain and anger that kept us stuck in the past,” Dan Mager, Therapist, in an article in Psychology Today.
   2. Forgiveness is for t...