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September 8, 2022 63 mins

Today’s guest is Jessica Harvey, a woman who is incredibly passionate in working and supporting men around their shadows and $exuality. She believes our suffering comes from shaming our desire, disconnecting from pleasure, and lack of relational tools. Most of us were given zero understanding of our emotional world, our nervous system, how to communicate, and how to self- and co-regulate. 

You are going to love this interview with Jessica. She refers herself as a geek by nature because of her scientist background but after years in the lab, she was miserable. Jessica shares her story from scientist to 'Shadow & $exuality' Coach and why its her passion to be a guide for men to achieve insight into what they really want, to understand how women might be perceiving them, and to transform stuck patterns into intentional relating skills that really work.

Jessica's Bliss Science program for men has emerged from all of the work she has done with hundreds of men in workshops, 1:1, and online programs over the past 8 years. She has spent many years studying with some of the most regarded and respected tantra and relationship teachers out there. Teachers such as Layla Martin, John Wineland, Christopher Wallis and Paul Muller-Ortega. Jessica and I crossed paths while we were both studying our $ex, Love & Relationship Coaching program ​under Layla Martin, many years ago.  It was great to reconnect and deeply acknowledge her for the work she is doing with men. 

Some of the juicy things she covers in our conversation:

  • Why withholding ejaculation is a powerful practice but not necessary
  • How a man can get in touch with his pleasure levels, inside their own body
  • What does sensuality empowerment look like for men
  • How can a man receive the love and desire he craves from his partner in a way that doesn’t come across needy 
  • A women desires her man to lead and take initiative but why do men hold back OR don't know how to stand in their masculine power and lead - this is so good!
  • Importance of polarity

You can find Jessica at:

https://www.bliss-science.com/ananya

https://www.instagram.com/bliss.science


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