Healing Broken Trust In Your Marriage After Infidelity

Love addiction can be a cruel experience for both the addicted person and their spouse.  It may be why your partner hasn't stopped the affair.

How terrible it is when you can't get the love object out of your mind and every time you see them you can't stop obsessing over them. 

Now not everyone experiences this and not every affair is like this necessarily...but we've all likely experienced limerence in our lives at one point or an...

In this episode Brad & Morgan talk about the difficulties of turning off feelings for the affair partner. 

Moving past the affair and getting rid of the feelings that you have for the affair partner can be a challenge many don't consider throughout the affair recovery process.

If you know someone who has gone through an affair or they are currently struggling with an affair, I would encourage you to tell them to listen to this show...

If you've just found out that your spouse has been cheated on you, this is what you really need to do. Unfortunately, you are not alone in affair recovery.  But fortunately you have choices.  You don't have to remain broken and lost.  

There is a step by step process to healing after betrayal that we give you in this podcast.  The choices you make right now wherever you are in the process are crucial to your longterm happiness.  Be...

We explain a necessary and important step to healing from an affair. We take a balanced approach to affair recovery because your relationship depends on it.  We are dealing with trauma and we are helping the marriage get back on track. We're not just helping one individual get back on track. And so that's what we are working for.

We talk about how we can have the betrayer become a supporter and nurturer and how that helps the betra...

How to understand the best strategies for communication and connecting with your spouse after discovering infidelity in your marriage.

Often times we try to heal after betrayal with the old patterns of communication that actually contributed to the affair happening in the first place.  We were caught in a negative cycle before the affair happened and before it was discovered.  Then after the affair is discovered our negative cycle ...

So many people think they can just stop going around the affair partner and it's magically over.  Some even talk to the affair partner and tell them it's over and it's not REALLY over for many reasons.  

Betrayed spouses want to believe their partner when their partner tells them it's over but there is still a lingering desire and a lingering problem that the affair partner may not believe it's over.  

The affair partner may not wa...

We lay out 6 ground rules for making your conversations productive when discussing the infidelity.  

Does Talking About The Affair Help or Hurt? Why We Loose Control When We Talk About The Affair(s)? How Much Is Too Much? Do I Want To Know The Details? Does Honesty Really Help?

We also talk about a crazy brain fact that explains why you loose control when talking about the affair and what you can do to keep your cool even when you ...

One of the big goals of this program, along with helping your relationship heal from betrayal is to help you create secure attachments with each other. 

If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/

You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon!

After the affair(s) life can feel like it's ending. Sometimes you just have no idea how to get back to normal. You still have to go to work and take care of children and you can't just stay in bed and nurse your own wounds. You have to go about normal life even though you're wrecked. So this episode is all about ways to manage the crisis after infidelity.

If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relations...

So many people struggle with feelings of ambiguity after discovering infidelity in their relationship. Many people want to know should I stay with my spouse or partner or should I leave? We talk about the pros and cons of both and give you sound advice on handling the feelings of should I stay or should I leave my marriage.

If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken...

Almost every couple, there is a period of ambiguity, that uncertainty that they go through. Are we going to stay together or are we going to be done?

If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/

You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon!

If...

Brad & Morgan answer a few listener questions in this episode.  One question is "I have been married to my spouse for 20 years. I would like to know how to fall back into love with my spouse."  We also discuss ideas to increase romance without pushing your spouse away after infidelity.

If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: http...

In this episode Brad & Morgan a listener question: "I learned about my wife's affair with her co-worker two months ago. She has since stop seeing this person and is trying to help me heal, but I still can't seem to stop thinking about her with him. I feel obsessed with knowing what happened. My wife is becoming tired of answering the same questions over and over and I feel worried that she will leave me just because of my obsession...

We answer the questions of: How do we work through our anger and talk about the affair without pushing the betrayer away? What you're doing that is making the trauma worse. What is PTSD? Why does it matter when recovering from infidelity? What specifically makes PTSD so hard to recover from?

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