The Terri Cole Show

Today I’m super excited to share an interview with Dr. Jody Carrington! Jody is a fearless advocate for authentic human connection in her speaking, writing, and clinical psychology. She shares so much about her personal story: From how her upbringing on a farm in the rural town of Viking, Alberta taught her that she couldn’t rest to the way her identity was challenged when she learned that her parents had been hiding a secret sibli...

Are family roles still running your life?

Do you feel like you're always the "responsible one" in your family?

Are you exhausted from being the designated crisis responder, organizer, or emotional go-between for your siblings?

Do you find yourself stuck in the same childhood role you've been playing for decades, even though you're a full-grown adult?

If you're nodding...

On today’s episode I’m interviewing special guest Gretchen Rubin, who transitioned from a successful law career to become a bestselling author, speaker, and happiness expert. She tells me all about how her quest to understand power, money, fame, and happiness led her to write bestselling books like The Happiness Project. In this episode, Gretchen shares her insights on redefining success, embracing change, and living a...

On today’s episode, I get to welcome my pal Case Kenny back to the Terri Cole Show! We’re exploring the themes of his new book, The Opposite of Settling: How to Get Everything You Want Out of Love and Life Without Losing Your Spark. He shares how we can redefine relationships to embrace independence, start dating already happy and complete, and find love that amplifies our true selves. If love is a part of your life (a...

Are you the go-to person in your family, always fixing, supporting, and listening — but feeling drained?

In this episode, we’ll explore how to create boundaries without losing connection, and why boundaries are key to protecting your peace. I’ll share my own story of stepping out of the “family fixer” role, the pushback I faced, and the identity shift that came with it. You’ll learn practical ways to set emotional boundaries that h...

I first met Candy when she interviewed me on her show, and now I have the pleasure of inviting her on to the Terri Cole Show! She’s an author, public speaker, and business expert who founded her first business before 21. She shares her very own story of creating the life she wanted from humble beginnings and offers some tips to build your financial literacy and help you create the life you want. Plus, she shares some common pitfall...

Today I’m sharing a chat with Stephanie Chinn, an expert on female solidarity and therapeutic arts practice. If you’re always guilty when you spend time on something “unproductive” like art, especially bad art, Stephanie has an important PSA: It’s okay to make bad art. In fact, making bad art is productive. If you want to hear all about that, plus Stefanie’s own journey with addiction and body positivity, today’s episo...

When you are upset, do you feel like you have to manage your emotions on your own? Maybe you don’t need to! These days, emotional self-regulation and co-regulation are hot topics. In today's episode, I'm gonna be breaking down what these terms really mean and taking a stand for the fact that we were really never meant to regulate alone. 

It's such a powerful process to be with other people and have the abi...

On today’s episode, I’m lucky to be sharing a chat with renowned feminist theologian Meggan Watterson. She shares the narrative of Thecla, a saint whose story was nearly erased from history, and describes how her story can inspire us to take back our own inherent spiritual authority. Tune in to uncover the transformative power you can claim when you know your own worth and reclaim your spiritual authority. Plus, how pi...

On today’s episode, we’re diving deep into Amber Rae’s transformative journey. She’s a best-selling author and speaker who broke free from a marriage that was really a friendship and chose to face real vulnerability instead. We chat about the challenges and triumphs of choosing authenticity over being a good girl. Plus, we chat about her memoir, Loveable: A Memoir, One Woman's Path from Good to Free. I hope you enjoy listening to t...

Are you only as good as your last huge accomplishment?

I want you to pause for a moment and think about how you measure your worth. Do you find yourself in that relentless cycle of head-down, go-go-go energy, telling yourself you'll celebrate when you get the big thing done? When you land the promotion, finish the project, and reach the milestone that feels worthy enough of your attention?

If ...

On today’s episode, I’m so excited to share a chat with Orion Talmay! She shares her personal story: how an abusive relationship shaped her life trajectory and propelled her to her current calling. Plus, she gives some tips for mirror work, inner child work, and manifesting that you can use yourself. We finished the show with some thoughts on the path to self-acceptance and self-love that I really think everybody needs to hear. I h...

On today’s episode, I’m sharing an insightful conversation with Vanessa Bennett, a licensed depth psychologist and co-author of It's Not Me, It's You. Together, we delve into the complexities of codependency and relationship dynamics, exploring how societal norms shape our understanding of love and attachment. Vanessa shares her journey from advertising to therapy and how she learned to value authenticity over attachme...

"I'll start dating as soon as I lose those 10 pounds."

"I can't go to that event until I find the perfect outfit."

"I'll put myself out there when I feel more confident, more ready."

Do any of these sound familiar? That little whisper in the back of your head that seems so reasonable, almost protective?

I want you to sit with this for a moment: underneath that whisper...

I felt so lucky to record this episode! On today’s show, I had my first chance to host world-renowned fitness and nutrition expert JJ Virgin. She’s been at the top of the wellness space longer than practically anyone else, and today she’s using her expertise to teach us how to age powerfully. I always say that we don’t get to choose whether we age, but we do get to choose how we age. If you choose to age without losing your strengt...

Have you been going through life confused about why the people you trust always seem to let you down? Or do you avoid trusting anyone because you aren’t sure who deserves it? You might have learned disordered trust patterns from your family of origin. On today’s episode, I’m sharing some strategies for identifying patterns that don’t serve you and getting clarity on who deserves a space in the front row of your life.

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I'm so excited to have Tim Chantarangsu on the show to talk about life as a comedian, being one of the OG content creators (he started *before* YouTube was a thing), family, food, and being a father. 

I met Tim on the set of Counsel Culture with Nick Cannon and was immediately drawn to how insightful and humorous he was. I hope you enjoy this interview as much as I did!

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Do you catch yourself saying…

I don’t want them to think…

I don’t want them to feel…

I don’t want to seem difficult…

I don’t want to hurt their feelings…

If so, this episode is for you because it’s about becoming a boundary boss without guilt. When we say, “I don’t want them to think,” or “I just wanted to be nice,” we’re self-abandoning and not setting b...

I'm thrilled to welcome my close pal, Jennifer Pastiloff, back to the show to celebrate the release of her new book, Proof of Life: Let Go, Let Love, and Stop Looking for Permission to Live Your Life. It's a call to arms to stop self-abandoning and no longer wait for permission, which I think is perfect for this community. ❤️

Jen has such a unique voice and wonderful sense of humor, and in this girlfriend ...