Messy on Purpose

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into relationships and what really makes some worth fighting for while others are easier to walk away from.

They talk about the foundation of strong relationships: communication, trust, empathy, and understanding. Whether it’s romantic relationships, friendships, family, or any meaningful connection, keeping a relationship good takes more than just love. It takes effort...

This week on The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about people who give strangers dirty looks for absolutely no reason.

You know the look.

The judgment.

The stare-down.

The random attitude from someone you have never met in your life.

And most of the time, it has nothing to do with you. It is insecurity, envy, projection, or someone being mad at their own life and aiming it at the nearest person.

Then we derail into the strange th...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee talk about the importance of making time to take care of yourself before life makes the decision for you.

They dive into why exercise, eating right, self-growth, and daily habits are not just things you do when life is easy—they are the foundation that helps you handle life when it gets hard.

Fylisha and Lee discuss how the choices we make now show up later, whether that&rsqu...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about scammers — because they are not just sketchy emails from a prince overseas anymore.

Scammers come in every form now. Phone calls, texts, emails, fake websites, social media messages, job offers, bank alerts, delivery notices, romance scams, fake support reps, and even people pretending to be someone you know.

And the scary part? A lot of them look real enough ...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee talk about the importance of having hard conversations and why avoiding them can slowly damage the relationships that matter most.

Hard conversations are not just necessary in romantic relationships. They matter in friendships, family dynamics, work environments, business partnerships, and every space where trust, respect, and communication are required.

Fylisha and Lee discuss why...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about food delivery services and asking the real question: is it even worth it anymore?

Cold food. Smashed bags. Missing items. Wild fees. Random delays. And let’s not forget the part nobody wants to think about — your food riding around in someone’s car that may or may not be clean.

We’re getting into the convenience of delivery, the questionable ...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee sit down with Linzie Lea, a fitness trainer who helps women ages 35–55 become the healthiest, strongest, and most confident versions of themselves.

Linzie shares her personal journey, how her own transformation led her to helping other women, and why fitness is about so much more than just workouts. It’s about habits, confidence, mindset, consistency, and learning how ...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about the communication differences between men and women — starting with the most dangerous one-letter text in a relationship: “K.”

Because let’s be honest… after a heated conversation, “K” can mean a lot of things. It can mean “okay.” It can mean “I’m done talking.” It can mean “you’re...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee celebrate the 250th Fourth of July with a conversation about gratitude, freedom, and what it really means to be proud to be American.

They talk about how easy it can be to take this country for granted when you’ve been blessed to live here, grow up here, or build a life here. While America is far from perfect, the freedoms, opportunities, and rights we have are something man...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about the subscription chaos that has officially gotten out of control.

It starts with streaming services somehow making it impossible to watch one show without needing three different apps, a password reset, and a mild emotional breakdown. Seasons are split across platforms, companies own half the services anyway, and somehow we’re still paying more to watch less.

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In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee sit down again with their friend Anthony Giovanni Elias for another round of film industry talk, creative chaos, and real conversation.

Anthony shares the exciting film ventures he has coming up, while he and Lee dive into their collaborations, what they’re building together, and where they see the film industry heading next. From creative projects to industry shifts, this c...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about taking up space — because yes, you’re allowed to exist, but no, that does not mean you get to block everyone else from existing too.

It starts with people standing in the middle of walkways like they’re the final boss of the grocery store aisle, and turns into a bigger conversation about shared public spaces, basic awareness, and the absolute chao...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into Lee’s new food series he’s working on with his chef friend—trying new places, finding the best dishes, and recreating them with their own spin.

But, as always, the conversation goes deeper than food.

Fylisha and Lee also talk about happiness, personal responsibility, and what it really means to take control of your own life. If something isn’t work...

This week on The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are going there.

Is making your child obese a form of child abuse? It’s a harsh question, but it’s one worth asking when kids are being set up for preventable health struggles because the adults in their lives refuse to take responsibility.

This episode is not about shaming children. Kids are not the problem. They are the ones depending on adults to guide them, feed them, teach...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into the difference between fake confidence and real confidence—and why the two can look very similar from the outside.

They talk about how some people show up bold, loud, and untouchable online, but are completely different in person. Is it confidence? Is it performance? Or is it just a mask people use to avoid doing the real inner work?

This conversation explores:

• W...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF, Fylisha shows up dressed as a banana — because honestly, why not?

Life is heavy enough. The world is serious enough. And sometimes the best thing you can do is laugh at yourself, find the humor in the chaos, and stop taking every little thing so personally.

This episode is a reminder that humor can lighten even the darkest tunnel. It does not fix everything, but it can help you breathe, reset,...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with Lee for a deeper conversation about one of his biggest passions: film.

Lee opens up about where his love for film started, what storytelling means to him, and how his journey in the film industry has shaped the way he sees creativity, people, and life. From the emotional connection movies can create to the work that happens behind the camera, this episode gives a closer loo...

This week on The Weekly WTF, we’re talking about something simple: being a decent person.

Put your cart back. Put things back where they go. Clean up after yourself. Don’t leave your mess for someone else to deal with just because you don’t feel like taking an extra 15 seconds to do the right thing.

Because honestly, the shopping cart says a lot. It’s not about the cart. It’s about basic respect, persona...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into the idea of what happens when “the party” ends… or whether it actually ends at all.

What does it mean when people say the party is over? Does that mean growing up? Slowing down? Changing priorities? Or does the party simply turn into something different?

Fylisha and Lee explore how the meaning of “party” can look different for everyone. For ...