Eros Matters

In this powerful episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores what it means to embrace sexuality while living with chronic illness or disability. Intimacy is a human right—not a luxury for the able-bodied.

Dr. Martha debunks common myths, reframes pleasure beyond penetration, and offers practical tools for adapting intimacy to your body’s needs. From vibrators and lubricants to communication strategies and emotional connec...

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the painful but important topic of infidelity. Why do people cheat? Can trust be rebuilt? And should you stay or go?

With research-backed insights and practical guidance, Dr. Martha offers a compassionate roadmap for navigating betrayal, rebuilding emotional safety, and making empowered decisions—whether you’re healing or helping someone through it.

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In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the core of meaningful relationships—emotional connection. Whether you’re navigating the early stages of love or nurturing a long-term bond, she shares why emotional intimacy isn’t just nice to have—it’s essential for lasting connection, satisfying sex, and mutual growth.

With research-backed insights and practical tools, Dr. Martha unpacks what emotional closeness looks...

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee delves into the evolving landscape of non-monogamy, offering a compassionate and grounded guide for those curious about relationship styles beyond monogamy. Drawing from both historical context and modern practice, she explores open relationships, polyamory, swinging, and relationship anarchy—clarifying what they mean and how they function.

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In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee offers a welcoming introduction to kink, demystifying what it is—and isn’t—with clarity, warmth, and consent at the core. Whether you're curious or cautious, this episode explores the world of kink in a judgment-free way, helping listeners understand key practices, myths, and safety principles.

From sensory play and role-play to foundational frameworks like SSC and RACK, Dr. Mart...

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the often-misunderstood topic of sexual desire discrepancy—when partners want sex at different frequencies or in different ways. She unpacks the difference between low sex drive and mismatched desire, sharing real client stories and research-backed insights on how to navigate these intimate gaps with compassion and clarity.

From hormonal differences and cultural expectat...

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee dives into the tender topic of postpartum intimacy, exploring how couples can stay connected emotionally and physically after having a baby. She shares real stories and research-backed insights on the impact of parenting on relationships, highlighting challenges like exhaustion, shifting dynamics, and emotional distance. With practical strategies—from scheduling intimacy to build...

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the realities of postpartum intimacy, offering heartfelt guidance on how couples can reconnect emotionally and physically after having a baby. She shares common struggles like exhaustion, shifting dynamics, and emotional distance, and provides practical strategies such as scheduling intimacy, creating couple time, and building emotional safety. Backed by research and rea...

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee demystifies the world of adult toys, sharing how they can enhance intimacy, pleasure, and communication — whether you're exploring solo or with a partner. She addresses common myths (like fears around addiction or desensitization), offers practical tips for having "the toy conversation," and walks listeners through a beginner-friendly guide to choosing the right products. Sponsor...

Post-baby sex can feel like a faraway concept—especially when exhaustion, hormonal shifts, and feeling “touched out” take over. In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the physical realities of postpartum desire, why low libido is completely normal, and how new parents can gently reconnect with intimacy at their own pace. From self-compassion to non-sexual touch, she offers practical steps for navigating this ...

Menstruation is natural, yet it's often wrapped in stigma and silence. In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee breaks down common myths about periods, explores the latest menstrual products, and shares practical ways to manage period discomfort with confidence. She also discusses period poverty in Singapore and why open conversations about menstrual health matter. Whether you want to improve your cycle experience or si...

Painful sex isn't something you just have to "live with"—and vaginismus is far more common than most people realize. In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee sheds light on this misunderstood condition, explaining why it happens, debunking harmful myths, and sharing real client stories of healing. With over a decade of experience specializing in vaginismus treatment, she offers a compassionate, step-by-step approach to ...

Erectile dysfunction (ED) is more common than you think, but the real challenge isn't just finding solutions—it's knowing how to navigate the moment when it happens. In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee breaks down the physical and psychological factors contributing to ED, from medical conditions to work stress and performance anxiety. She shares real client stories, practical strategies for handling ED with confide...

Struggling with finishing too fast or taking too long? Premature ejaculation (PE) and delayed ejaculation (DE) are more common than you think—and they don’t have to be sources of shame. In this episode, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, clinical sexologist and relationship counselor, breaks down the causes, emotional impact, and evidence-based solutions for both conditions. From practical techniques and communication strategies to medical and p...

Want to be a better lover? Deepening intimacy isn’t just about technique—it’s about self-awareness, vulnerability, and genuine connection. In this episode, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, clinical sexologist and relationship counselor, shares practical tips for enhancing intimacy, from mindful touch and communication to trust-building and playful exploration. Whether you’re looking to improve emotional closeness or enhance physical pleasure, ...

Is watching porn too often a sign of addiction? What about relying on sex toys or frequent sexual activity? In this episode, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, clinical sexologist and AASECT-certified sexuality educator, breaks down the myths and realities of so-called "porn, sex, and toy addiction." She explains how cultural shame and misinformation often fuel unnecessary fears, highlights the difference between problematic behavior and normal ...

Masturbation is one of the most natural forms of self-discovery, yet it remains surrounded by myths and cultural shame. In this episode, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, clinical sexologist and AASECT-certified sexuality educator, explores the realities of solo play—debunking misconceptions, sharing research-backed insights, and addressing concerns around frequency, relationship status, and sex toys. She also unpacks how societal conditioning,...

Explore the science of sexuality with Dr. Martha Tara Lee, AASECT-certified sexuality educator and clinical sexologist. In this revealing episode, she demystifies sex, sexuality, and sexology, clarifying how these interconnected concepts shape our relationships and wellbeing. With over 10,000 hours of professional training and a doctorate in human sexuality, Dr. Lee breaks down common m...

Welcome to Eros Matters with Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Singapore's AASECT-certified sexuality educator and clinical sexologist since 2009. Each episode explores sexuality and relationships in our Asian context, going beyond physical intimacy to understand how cultural expectations and personal experiences shape our connections. Drawing from her decade of experience and recognition as one of Her World's Top 50 Inspiring Women, Dr. Lee cr...