Black Dad Unfiltered

How does age reshape a father’s love and leadership?

In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod explore how fatherhood evolves over time—from strict rules to soft wisdom, from survival mode to intentional legacy.

This raw conversation dives into structure, discipline, emotional growth, and the values we pass on as we grow older.

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What does it really take to protect your rights as a father? 💼

Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod in this eye-opening episode of Black Dad Unfiltered as they sit down with veteran family law attorney Randy Karmel to unpack the truths every father needs to know before stepping into family court.

Too many men walk in unprepared—misunderstood, misrepresented, and missing key information that could prot...

What does it mean to be a man in today’s world? 💭

Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod as they sit down with a powerful panel of men to unpack what manhood really looks like in the 21st century—beyond the outdated roles, beyond the pressure to “man up.”

This honest conversation dives into how men are navigating identity, emotional growth, purpose, and pain in a world that’s constantly shifting. From fatherhood and vulnerability to p...

What does it feel like to be a Black man in America today? 🖤

Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod as they sit down with Black men from different walks of life to explore the real, unfiltered truth—beyond stereotypes, beyond the headlines. This powerful episode dives deep into identity, community, vulnerability, and survival.

From emotional strength to racial profiling, from redefining fatherhood to finding brotherhood, these men ope...

Who Comes First: Wife or Kids? 🤔

This debate has divided opinions for years. Should a husband prioritize his wife to build a strong marriage, or should children come first because they depend on their parents emotionally and physically?

In this episode, our hosts Carlos V Spencer and Coach Rod explore relationship dynamics, parenting challenges, and lessons real-life experiences. We discuss the importance of balance, the impact of n...

 Join Coach Rod and Carlos V. Spencer as they sit down with attorney Sabine Franco to clear up the biggest misconceptions about prenuptial agreements! 💍💰

This episode dives into what a prenup really is, whether couples should consider one, and how it impacts relationships and financial security. 🤔❤️

Sabine breaks down the myths surrounding prenups, explains their legal purpose, and discusses whether they are a good idea or a bad i...

Are You Choosing the Right Partner? Marriage Advice You Need!

Is your approach to marriage all wrong? In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod explore emotional maturity, self-awareness, and the real reasons we choose our partners. They break down how emotional wounds shape attraction, why true love is about giving—not just receiving—and the key questions to ask before saying “I do.”

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Join us for an insightful discussion on the Media Influence on Kids: Black Father's Perspective. This episode explores how media shapes societal views on fatherhood, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of storytelling in shifting narratives.

Our guests share personal experiences on breaking stereotypes, navigating fatherhood in the digital age, and the role media plays in defining masculinity and parental ...

Join Dawn Petgrave, Coach Rod, and Carlos V. Spencer in a deep dive into relationships, emotional vulnerability, and personal growth. This episode explores the balance between independence and femininity, how women’s empowerment supports men in expressing emotions, and the importance of creating safe spaces for deeper connections.

Dawn shares her experiences as a wife and mother, highlighting how love, appreciation, and vulnerabilit...

In this bonus episode, Coach Rod and Carlos V. Spencer discuss how marriage can unlock hidden potential, promote personal growth, and bring divine favor. They talk about how important a supportive partner is to success and how spiritually connected partnerships establish the groundwork for long-term fulfillment.

This episode offers valuable insights on building strong, spiritually balanced marriages that lead to s...

Why do men cheat when leaving is an option? This question stirs emotions and sparks heated debates, but today, we’re diving deep to uncover the truth. In this thought-provoking episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, hosts Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod tackle one of the most controversial relationship topics.

Exploring the dynamics of emotional and physical cheating, they break down the "greedy vs. hungry" analogy, examine the fe...

Join this amazing episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, which explores the unconditional bond of a black father for their beloved daughters. This episode highlights how fathers can teach boundaries, self-respect, and emotional intelligence while setting high standards for daughters and how they should be treated in life and relationships. Listen to this insightful podcast on how to raise daughters who are prepared to face life cha...

Host Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod talk about the importance of communication, emotional intelligence, and finding a partner who values health and fitness. How do relationships actually function? In this episode, we uncover various realistic materials and things that are important for healthy relationships. This episode looks at how having the same spiritual beliefs can help both partners in a relationship. Join us as we break do...

Join this powerful episode of Black Dad Unfiltered as we discuss the journey from boyhood to manhood for Black men. This episode sheds light on the pivotal moments that shape young boys into strong, responsible men. We explore the influence of mentors, the importance of emotional maturity, and the role of community in guiding Black boys through challenging times. Discover how to navigate the pressures of growing up and how Black fa...

Join Carlos v. Spencer and Coach Rod on this episode of Exploring Intimacy: Vulnerability, Growth, and Connection. We discuss intimacy beyond just physical attraction, emotional connection, vulnerability, and self-discovery. Hear our special guest Dawn Petgrave, an Associate Counseling Psychologist, forensic psychologist, and life coach, as she explains how communication, emotional intelligence, and understanding can transform rela...

Navigating co-parenting can be challenging, but with the right mindset, it will be a rewarding experience. Hosts Carlos v. Spencer and Coach Rod speak about real-life co-parenting situations, offering strategies for open communication, mutual respect, and setting healthy boundaries. Discover how co-parenting dynamics can impact children and learn different ways to support their emotional well-being. Whether you're just st...

Join our hosts Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod as they navigate the complexities of parenting, sharing how discipline teaches boundaries and why emotional check-ins are crucial. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, modeling emotional openness, and navigating different parenting styles. Giving real-life examples to highlight the power of open conversations to transform fatherhood and build deeper connections with their...

Join hosts Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod as they discuss how Black Fathers can tackle the complex issues they face. In this unfiltered podcast, we welcome special guest Dawn Petgrave, who is esteemed Associate Counseling Psychologist, Forensic Psychologist, and Life Coach. Our guests engage us in raw conversations about how unaddressed trauma impacts emotional growth, relationships, and parenting. With expert insights, we d...

Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod on this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered as they dive into the profound role of fatherhood. They discuss why the best time to act is now rather than waiting for the "right moment" and how authentic conversations about black fatherhood can reshape the narratives. Hear about the importance of being present and showing love through actions, not just words. Discover how fathers guide an...