Dennis Rox

Why are people so skilled at making goals or projections but so novice at knowing what it takes to accomplish them? 

In this thought-provoking episode, the hosts dive deep into the concept of "Life's Math," exploring why people often miscalculate the steps needed to achieve their goals and how this leads to suffering. Joined by first-time guest Jared, the discussion unravels the patterns of flawed perceptions, the rol...

Do you actually want that which you say you do? 

In this week's episode, the host delves into finding the elusive 'limitless fuel' that drives sustained motivation and creativity. They explore the metaphorical battle of moving upstream, dealing with ongoing responsibilities, and the challenges of balancing current obligations with future aspirations. The conversation touches on the importance of curiosity, practical s...

Are psychological and external barriers like family stress and past trauma gatekeeping our happiness? 

In this raw and introspective episode, Harris opens up about the stress and challenges he faces at home, particularly with his family dynamics and his father's overbearing approach to his finances. Joined by Eldar, Toliy, and Mike, the conversation dives deep into the concept of "invisible gatekeepers"—internal and e...

Are you stuck chasing distractions while ignoring your core truths? 

In this raw episode, Toliy and Eldar tackle the human struggle to align perceptions with reality. From Toliy’s vision of mentoring sales teams to Eldar’s push for shedding unreal baggage, they explore how attachments—whether to money, status, or comfort—block self-actualization. Using metaphors like a hamster wheel and an “unhackable program,” they unpack why pain,...

How important are shared experiences to our development and happiness? 

In this episode, the hosts delve into the importance of shared experiences and how they contribute to personal satisfaction and happiness. The conversation naturally transitions into a discussion about the impact of past traumas and the critical role of forgiveness and letting go of anger for personal growth. They emphasize the importance of critically thinking ...

How do people know what balance for them means?

In this thought-provoking episode, Eldar and the crew dive deep into the elusive concept of balance. Joined by special guest Warren, a long-time friend and first-time guest, the group explores what balance truly means in the context of human suffering, personal growth, and societal expectations. From the pressures of social media to the challenges of parenting, the conversation unpacks...

Why does unsolicited advice often backfire, and how can he change it?

In this raw and introspective episode, Mike, Toliy, Eldar, and Harris dive deep into the transformative power of pain and the journey of personal change. Toliy shares a profound epiphany about moving away from forcing advice on others to embracing compassion and patience, sparked by years of self-reflection. The group explores how pain drives growth, the pitfalls ...

What happens when you give or receive unsolicited advice?

In this emotionally charged episode of Dennis Rox podcast, the team dives deep into the complexities of giving and receiving unsolicited advice. Sparked by a heated disagreement between Harris and Toliy, the discussion explores why we feel compelled to offer advice, the consequences of miscommunication, and the personal insecurities that shape our reactions. From workplace dy...

"Am I a good friend, and what does it mean to be a good friend?"

In this episode, the hosts delve into the complex dynamics of friendship and self-examination. Mike raises concerns about his role as a good friend, questioning whether self-criticism and internal doubt are justified. The conversation touches on themes like consistency of character, mutual respect, and the true nature of friendship. Through various discussion...

Why do we act the way we do in pursuit of connection?

Buckle up for a no-holds-barred dive into the messy world of dating, rejection, and self-discovery with Harris, Eldar, Toliy, and Mike. What starts as a quest to “get girls” spirals into a raw, hilarious, and gut-punching look at why we hide our true selves. From barstool blunders to manic sleepless nights, Harris lays it all bare—his struggles with confidence, meds, and the pres...

Why do the closest people in our lives hurt us the most?

In this candid and emotionally charged episode, Harris opens up about his struggles with familial expectations, particularly his fraught relationship with his stepdad, who pressures him to abandon his current job for something more financially secure. The crew dives deep into the dynamics of seeking validation, the pain inflicted by loved ones, and the journey toward self-actu...

What’s it take to keep going when your mind screams “quit”?

In this Dennis Rox episode, Mike, Eldar, Toliy, and Harris tackle perseverance—from rock climbing grit to sales call grind. Mike shares a raw tale of battling a red trail, pushing past mental exhaustion to grab that last grip. Harris ties it to SEALs swimming the Hudson, wondering why his sales “drown proofing” hasn’t clicked. Eldar flips the script: Are we sabotaging succe...

How do small actions contribute to achieving success?

On this week's episode, the hosts delve into the complex notion of success, exploring how personal definitions of success can vary widely and often clash with societal or familial expectations. Through an engaging and candid discussion, they tackle questions about staying optimistic amidst setbacks, handling skepticism from loved ones, and redefining goals to fit a more pers...

How does self validation tie into faith?

In this thought-provoking episode, the group explores the reasons behind the credibility of the Bible and delves into the concept of truth through various lenses including religion, philosophy, and personal experiences. Josh shares why he finds the Bible accurate and reliable, pointing to its historical consistency and moral teachings. Eldar introduces Socrates' view on truth and challen...

Can power of collective happiness override personal desires?

In this episode, the hosts discuss the complexities of group dynamics and personal responsibility through the lens of a planned casino trip. They delve into the ethics of gambling, financial responsibility, and the impact of individual actions on collective success. Through a series of confrontations and discussions, the group explores how past experiences and personal min...

What role does ego play in our lives and how can we manage it? 

In this week's episode, the conversation centers around the ego as a preservation mechanism that protects us from facing harsh realities. The hosts discuss how ego is tied to trauma and how it can be tricked into facilitating learning by introducing social embarrassment. They explore the nature of ego through anecdotes, examples, and questioning its existence. The ...

How can someone change their life if they’re unhappy with where they are?

In this week's episode, the hosts discuss the importance of changing perceptions and mindset for personal growth, featuring Eldar's cousin Tolis as a special guest. They explore how holding on to wrong perceptions can hinder one's progress in life, emphasizing the need for true understanding of causality and action. Tolis shares his struggles wi...

What drives us to chase revenge—and does it ever truly satisfy?

In this electrifying episode, Mike, Toliy, and Eldar dive deep into the messy psychology of revenge, sparked by heartbreak, societal pressures, and the ego’s relentless need to prove itself. From breakup-fueled “glow-ups” to battling outdated norms, they unravel how the quest for vengeance often masks a refusal to face ourselves. Expect raw stories, unexpected detours—l...