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February 4, 2025 19 mins

Why are we always apologizing?

In this episode of Everything Hurts, Danielle and Cheryl ask you to count how many times throughout the day you say, “I’m sorry.” Even when it’s not your fault…They’ll wait…Was it a lot? Unfortunately, it probably was. They discuss research that uncovers how women actually do apologize more than men, as well as how angry men are seen as more influential than angry women. That’s right. Twelve angry men get a cinematic classic; a dozen angry women is “Karen” convention. We also talk about how women are typically dismissed when they question or don’t have something pleasing to say (a huge topic that’ll receive more attention in a future episode).

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Links/studies mentioned in this episode:

Why Women Apologize More Than Men: Gender Differences in Thresholds for
Perceiving Offensive Behavior


Why Angry Men Are More Influential Than Angry Women, Time Magazine

Urban dictionary - Karen

Mel Robbins

Mark as Played

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