December 18, 2024 • 45 mins
Your Humble Baddies are back, and they're putting a spotlight on the scandalous lives of the WAG (Wives and Girlfriends of Athletes) community. Featuring the one and only Keeta Hill, wife of NFL superstar Tyreek Hill, this show is about to blow the lid off the high-stakes world of WAG life. Get ready for a raw conversation as these women navigate the challenges (& triumphs of being in the limelight) while building their own empires.
In this episode, authenticity is the name of the game — and these ladies are here to shatter the stereotypes of the WAG culture! From balancing personal and professional lives, these women prove that they're more than just arm candy, and they've got the support systems to back it up. They dish out some no-nonsense advice to a listener dealing with trust issues in their relationship.
"W.A.G.s to Riches" officially premieres on Netflix – January 22. Don't miss out on the drama, the glamour, and the unfiltered lives! Tune in.
TEA SPILLED:
- We're back to NETFLIX, b*tches!
- Meet Keeta Hill - boss babe, tech mogul, and new mom
- The swag with W.A.G.s — our time to shine
- Screw the haters!!! Giving zero fucks on public perception
- High-profile or not, relationships take work—okay?
- The real deal: Supporting each other in the WAG community
- Dear Humble Baddies, my girl's been talking with her ex…
QUOTES:
"I think it's good to have my side of it — [to] totally let those people know who you exactly right, as a woman like you're not just somebody he just found." – Keeta Hill
"Don't let it get to you. You know what your husband's doing, you know what you're doing, and y'all have your solid relationship—nothing to prove." – Keeta Hill
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I guess it's been real quite over here.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
We have the most beautiful person.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
She's a bad ass motherfucker, the loveliness Keita Hill.
Speaker 4 (00:10):
I think there was some moments that were a little
you know, we have like moments that are real. We
have moments that we need to flare.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Up because some people don't get that, because I've seen
the opposite where the women get opportunities and the men
just shut it down.
Speaker 5 (00:26):
Y'all know me, I'm very like this. It was hard
for me to step outside of us to.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Make it extra.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Oh, we didn't know who you were until you got
with Chad. That's not for me to prove to you
who I am. I'm building a legacy. Do your research.
Who sharroversutto is?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Keita? I forgot to ask you this question.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
How did Tyreek feel when you told them that she
was gonna be on reality TV?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Like get in my way, never out of my name?
And like you one in the more one so.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
On b baby squad go d is you running on us?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I want you need? Maybe? Won't you kee me company?
Give me tell I just don't for you.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
When we get home, if you let me put it.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
When I at the town, Hey, guys, welcome back to
the Humble Batties Podcast.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I'm Surelle Risotto.
Speaker 6 (01:18):
I mean Ashley.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
We're just happy to be back.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
And I'm Alexis Welstodamayer and we.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Are so excited you guys.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
We have some amazing news to announce and we have
a special guest.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
That will be going.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
So we're gonna get into.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
It because we get into it, like, I'm so excited.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
You excited?
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yes, a big surprise, Yes we have, we have and
y'all been on my ass, like y'all literally been on
my ass?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Should I announce a special guest? So should I tell
them first?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
I think you should tell the secret first because it
makes sense about you know, our guests.
Speaker 6 (01:59):
I agree, it's a good intro for our guess.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Okay, I guess it's been real quiet.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Y'all.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
Okay, I right, you guys.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Y'all asked for it, and guess what we're giving it.
We're coming back on Netflix. Listen, y'all have been in
all my dms, in Charrelle's dms, like we miss you
guys on TV. And we have been working hard filming
numerous scenes, like working.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Hard and for months.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Yeah, and we're back. It was hard to keep a
secret for so long. But I'm tired of y'all harassing us.
We're tired of y'all harassing us.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
It was like, we know y'all got some cooking. We
just know it.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
We know it, But we've slipped a couple of times,
did we was yeah, but but you guys are right,
like we we missed being on TV. We missed, you know,
sharing our lives in that capacity. So we're really excited
to be able to share this news with you guys
and also have Alexis alone with this.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
This is all, by the way, they get total blame.
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Yeah, the producers were like, who else?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
I said, I gave them a list of very beautiful
friends of mine. It's just like Charrelle's. And we're happy
that you're on this journey with us.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
What a journey has been.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
I mean, to be in a setting and have the cameras,
it was a new experience for me as I have
not had that following, you know, And then what a
new journey, especially trying to transition from you know, my
relationship status and now this rediscovery of like you know,
dating and rediscovery of Alexis. So I just hope that
(03:47):
I inspire somebody that wants to, like, you know, be
on that same path or just like.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
You can do it.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
And I can't wait to see what's about to happen.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
It's gonna be fun. It's a fun journey. I mean,
this is what we signed up for. You know how
how TV works. I mean, we got to introduce it.
But before we go into it, we have the most
beautiful person. She's the sweetest, she's her boss. She's a boss.
(04:25):
She's a badass motherfucker. Yes, she doesn't ride her husband's coattail.
She has a lot of things that you know, accomplished,
very well accomplished, beautiful, a new mom.
Speaker 6 (04:38):
Yes, yes, don't like maybewhare.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Okay, before before we go any further, let's introduce the
loveliness Keita Hill.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Thank you so much for the introduction.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Wow, I'm like, okay, yes, we give our.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Hair you a but you are I'm super excited to
be on here today.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
Yes, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
And you know the thing about it, Kita, when I
first met you, we met at the NFL Honors You
honors and Tyreek came up to chat and he was like,
I want she wrote to meet my wife.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Whatever I said, I like her. She was telling me
I have an IT tech company. What you do.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
When we first met, I was actually getting into like
a real estate project and you were in the government contracting,
and it was like immediately clicked right there. We're like, oh,
you're doing some similar projects what I'm doing. I'm like, yes, yeah,
I'm getting into assistant living project where I'm going to
invest intest some homes and whatnot. But I'm also have
a software company that I invest into and then also
(05:44):
build myself. So but I also I started in the
fashion industry for a minute, you know, lived in Miami,
went to school, um, and then realize, you know, real
estate in tech is the industry I want to be honestly, Yes,
that's you can be mobile and you can grow it
like way faster than any other industry I think, honestly.
(06:05):
So that's why in those type of fields and connected
with Cherrelle on that on the real estate side.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
So yeah, I was.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Like, I like her, and now you connected with all
of us exactly.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
And I love that honestly because I feel like it's
a big to like find women that are in, you know,
industries that you want to be in and just women
that are just doing things, not just supper in Miami
and you know, living off of somebody and not really
trying to find something for themselves. So it's really good
to have a community like you guys.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Honestly, So our show is going to be amazing because
we have ladies that are amazing in so many different ways.
Like it's not your typical show. It's not just about
women being cute and you know, being behind their men
and that name. Like, we are all well accomplished women
in our own rights and very different and you'll get
(06:56):
very different know all of us, you know, in.
Speaker 6 (06:59):
Our own way.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
It's definitely drama and and but it's fun and I
think it's a different way of looking at like the
wag culture. Oh did you You didn't even say the
name of the show, Dan, I think that on purpose.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Well I was waiting.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I want to introduce you, okay, but we didn't talk
about wags. Of course, actually gave y'all a law hint.
We are on Netflix and the name of the show
drum roll. It's not selling anything. It's not selling Tampa.
It's called Wax to Riches. Wax to Riches.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
Yes, so you know wags. I feel like it's you all.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
You the HD, y'all like that.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
I mean, I was on a show called Wags, right,
But I feel like back then, like twenty sixteen, fifteen,
twenty sixteen, that era, it meant something different. Well you
know what I mean, they're like wags. Back then, really
it was tied heavily to our guys and what they
had going on. I feel like it's totally different now.
(08:10):
I feel like the women behind the men are We're
not behind the men.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
It's like we are our.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Own in our own right, like we have our own
situation going on. People are way more interested in us
really than they are them. You know, they just want
to know did the guys you know, make their touchdowns
or whatever? You know, But women, it's like we're out
here doing all kinds of things, you know, a.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Lot more interesting behind the scenes.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
Yeah yeah, but it's not even behind the scenes.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
And yeah, help them get their career even I think
this is going to surprise people in that sense of
it's different.
Speaker 6 (08:48):
The word wag has evolved, right.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
And and how how the whole thing came about is
I know, you guys were constantly on my neck about
where're selling Tampa we're selling town. But real estate shows
started fading away, so many out there, and I didn't
want to give up on our fans. I didn't want
to give up on myself. And you know, I was
(09:11):
just out there pitching.
Speaker 6 (09:12):
I was like, yeah, hustler and.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Amazing spokes studios. I love you guys.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
We worked hard and we were able to capture something
that wasn't just focused on It was like a docu
follow It's not just about me.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
It's about a group of beautiful.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Ladies and how they how they lived their life after
you know, their husband or boyfriend or fiance or ex
husband or or you.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Know a little fleeing long time flee.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Time has retired or they're you know, they're not in
the industry anymore. And I feel like, you know, we
put a lot of time and effort in this to
give our community what they're looking for. So we put
a lot of work in it. You know, people, the
fans are going to have their favorite. All we ask
you guys to do is to definitely support us.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Yes, watch, watch, Don't just.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Watch one episode even if you don't like it, just
let it keep running in the background while you watching dishes.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
That's the way.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
That's the way that Netflix works, Like you have to
continue to watch.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
It's based off ours.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
So if you guys want to continue to see us
on TV, make sure you watch. Tell a friend, tell
another friend, promote we out here. If y'all look in
the book us, we out there. We have.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
For a lone time, a good time in a long time.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Yes, well yeah, I mean I think you know, we
have the experience of being our reality TV. But I'm
just curious to know, Like, how do you feel. I mean,
you're already in the public eye, you know, being Tyreek
Hill's wife, I'm sure already comes with a lot, but
like the focus really is going to be on you for.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
It definitely is different when you're speaking about really what's happening,
because everyone has an obception of really what's going on
in relationships. Me like talking about it and making them
feel like they're involved is going to be a whole
different situation. I'm a little nervous, but I'm also excited too,
because I think it's going to help create the narrative
of really what's happening. You know, it's not what people
(11:21):
are saying and you know what they think about my relationship.
You know, oh for sure, they're making things up and
making whole storylines about something. So I think it's good
to have my side of it.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
And really, you know, people know who you exactly a woman, like,
you're not just somebody.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
Yeah, we've been together for We've known each other for
ten years, so you know, it's been a long journey,
long journey, but you know now we're actually you know,
solid and really trying to build a relationship, which I
think a lot of people can relate to. Like, not
relationship perfect and not every marriage is perfect, Let's be honest, right,
ours is in the media. But when I like talk
(12:02):
to other girls, like especially girls that are you know,
on the on the team with us, they tell me
about their problems and I'm like, it's I don't really
have certain situations that are bad, but you know, some
other girls are going through hell of a lot because you.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Got to idi you are you guys are a high profile? Yes, yeah,
and I have.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
To just know that, you know, people, that's just what
it comes with, right, So how do you deal with that?
Speaker 3 (12:27):
And what do you tell those girls that are like
looking up to you and how to handle.
Speaker 4 (12:31):
Yeah, I mean I haven't I mean I mean, how
I deal with it now is just kind of just
don't like let it get to me. Like number one,
don't let it get to you, and just know that
you're in this position. You know what your husband's doing,
you know what you're doing, and y'all have you all
solid relationship you know? Yeah, yes, nothing to prove. And
that's the main thing. You try to picture perfect on Instagram.
(12:52):
Like that's one thing that I don't you know, like
we'll take pretty pictures, you know, sometimes we'll have the
pictures will be going through, like we'll have like a
whole photo shoot, and you know it might not even
be like as you know, as perfect as that picture looked,
but like that happens, you know, So I just don't
let it get to me, honestly, you know. But if
(13:13):
there's other women out there that are going through the situation,
you know, you know, I would love to help, but
like I don't really get that many women like reaching
out to me, like saying, hey, like how you deal
with this? But if you know, if they were to
I would definitely be able to help them. I'm sting
they're watching them, but they're not asking and you know,
telling me out there because people.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
Are totally scared to reach out, but you've let them.
Speaker 4 (13:36):
Know, yes, like they can ask questions like I'm here
to you know, talk about my story and how I'm
able to manage this being a wife to especially in
that you know, Limelight definitely different.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
Is it's because when you first meet her she's very quiet. Yeah,
a lot of people underestimate you because they just say, oh,
it's a pretty face, but.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
You most definitely that's I mean, I just don't even
like I could just get like insecure about like, oh,
you're so shy, but you know what, I think, what
you want to think sometimes like I'm not in no
rush to anything like anything, but that that's kind of happening,
you know.
Speaker 6 (14:27):
Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
I think it's the best, especially like where I'm at.
You know, it's like you can't get worked up. So
many things that could work me up, but all the time,
I have a daughter now, like she needs to full on, like.
Speaker 5 (14:40):
Yes, you know your mental emotions.
Speaker 6 (14:43):
How is being a new mom with that?
Speaker 4 (14:46):
Honestly, I'm really excited I had a daughter because you
wanted a girl. So he worked out. Yeah, he look
like and she looks just like me, but super blessed
and I had a really good pregnancy. Honestly, like being
in being pregnant with you know, there's difficulties, but like
(15:08):
the labor, I was in labor for eight hours, push
for like ten minutes.
Speaker 6 (15:12):
Listen, having a baby in general, it's just a miracle.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
As soon as y'all posted it was ready to go,
they took that ran another.
Speaker 4 (15:25):
I'm like, Okay, she needs to be in DIORA. She
needs to be the face of it. I feel like
kids will appreciate that you did that for your child. Yeah,
you're already arientizing on your baby. Okay. I meant to
buy her investment home so she has it under her name.
I feel about it.
Speaker 6 (15:45):
Chum, that's right, that's I love it.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
So how do you feel we want and bring it
back to the whole TV world when you you know,
we had a few scenes, we all had a few
scenes together. How was it different for you? How did
you feel about everything?
Speaker 4 (16:00):
I feel like doing it with you guys made it easy.
Like I was happy to be able to like really, yeah,
it's like I feel like we connected pretty It was
just like natural, you know. I think there was some
moments that were a little you know, cringe that and
that's what I mean, just whatever, like you kind of
have to just go with whatever is going to create
(16:23):
the scene. Right.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
Yeah, that's what I've like realized.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
You know, you have like moments that are you know, real,
we have moments that we need to flare up. Every
moment or every scene is like, okay, there's got to
be a flair moment, So what is that flair moment
that we need to exactly?
Speaker 3 (16:41):
It seemed like get that we all did a great job, but.
Speaker 6 (16:48):
Hilarious, it wasn't even there to yeh need to.
Speaker 5 (17:01):
I had to question the Alexis.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
A few times. Girl.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
I'm really curious edited videos. So yeah, you know, we
we have to see this, but you know how they're
gonna edit it. It's going to be a total different.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (17:21):
Sure, I'm a little nurture, but you know.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
That is my biggest cost.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
That's the thing about reality TV. Everyone's not gonna like you,
no matter how good you trade, no matter how great
of a person you are. You can be known as
a villain on TV and be the sweetest heart exactly.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
You're not here to to make everyone happy and sign
up relate to you.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
That's what you signed up for when you when you're
doing reality TV actually has been in the game long
the longest here on this platform.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
You have Okay, well.
Speaker 5 (17:56):
You you can't tell.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
The like when you shoot shoot with you like you
know how to like take a scene.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Like Yeah, I feel like, especially at your when we
had an event at your house, I feel like, for.
Speaker 4 (18:16):
Sure, Yeah, I said, Okay, this is a whole different.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
Turn it up. Actually, what you got.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
You gotta pully bitch, don't don't get.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
To carry aways cute.
Speaker 6 (18:36):
I mean, I think a.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
Part of being a reality TV is being able to entertain,
but in a realistic you know what I mean, whatever
your normal reaction would be, just turn it up a
little bit, like entertaining. You know. It's not that you're
acting fake or whatever. It's like we're on TV. We
want to see something. You can't just sit there.
Speaker 5 (18:55):
It was difficult me.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
That was a big challenge because y'all know me, I'm
very like this, but like it was hard for me
to step outside of it to make it extra.
Speaker 5 (19:05):
Yeah, I just didn't know how to.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Tap into that really not making it extra because I
don't want to just yeah, you have to have a voice.
Speaker 6 (19:14):
You're not yeah, you got it.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
Whatever is in your head, say that, don't leave it there,
you know, whatever the opinions you have, whether.
Speaker 4 (19:23):
Things to your relationships. Yeah, like sometimes I'll hold back,
but I see that even like being an actress or whatever,
you have to have to.
Speaker 5 (19:30):
Just let it go, let it out, let it.
Speaker 4 (19:32):
Yeah, people that I want to think that, but I
did too much or you know, I'm pointing out something
like people want you.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
To they want they want to know what they want.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
Closer together when you're able to like have those argument,
you know, they want to.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
They want to see what's inside of our world.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
Yes reality, that's right, and we showed a lot of it,
for sure. We show everything. But it's going to be
it's it's worth a watch, Yeah, it really is. It's
a good time.
Speaker 4 (20:05):
And I love how they did like different everyone had
their own like little story, you know how you mentioned
like you know, everyone had to create their own life
in this show, you know. So it's like being able
to see everyone's different relationships and not everyone's going through
the same thing, right, So I.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Feel like everyone in the audience will be able to
identify with somebody for sure, and then on top of that,
identify with someone else like this happened to me, or
this happened to a friend of mine, or I can
feel her, I agree.
Speaker 4 (20:34):
With her, right, Yeah, someone that.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
We'll see that's gonna change everything.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
But overall, I think.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
The biggest thing is, even though you know, we had
our times where there were crazy moments, we all came together. Yeah,
we supported each other in the wagon industry or whatever.
Speaker 4 (21:04):
And that's how it should be, honestly, like what's yeah,
I'll take it too.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Yeah, no, friend, it's going to be perfect. You know,
it's always going to be some drama somewhere in there,
you know, but it's not to collect it. That's the
biggest I think that's what we show. Yeah, that's real.
Speaker 4 (21:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
I love that authentic side though, because they did, you know,
I feel like it's a misconception with.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
Reality is like everyone knows each other. No, we don't know.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
Each other like we like that. We were getting to
know each other. We're learning each other. So it was
very raw, you know.
Speaker 3 (21:39):
I thought that was also, Yeah, because it's a new
territory for a lot of us, you know, to be
like to try to be around people that you don't
you don't know, toly hang with yeah, So I think
the biggest thing for me was, I mean I knew
you ladies, but some of the ladies they looked at
me like like I got with ch had I built
(22:00):
everything up?
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Or you know, they didn't know your storyline. Yeah, that's
a lot of people.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
I wouldn't even say story They didn't know who I
was as a person, who Cherille was. They and not
even just the group of ladies, even people today because
you know, of course we're in the blocks trending right now.
We didn't know who you were until you got with Chad.
That's not for me to prove to you. I know
I'm building the legacy, So do your research who char
(22:29):
Result was?
Speaker 6 (22:30):
Now?
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Who do your research? Who I am and what I built?
And I had to at one point it got to
me a minute for a minute, feeling like I had
to respond like we didn't know, we didn't know who
you was until you got with Baby. Check my resumes,
(22:51):
you know, period.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
Just expanded because I mean, I'm in the limelight.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
I felt about and that's how I.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
Connected with you. Yeah, because I was like, you know
what this girl is. I feel like I'm talking to
my little.
Speaker 4 (23:05):
Twin like she has but you should. You should let
her mentor you should.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Because you have so many things that people don't know
about the same and it's like you can't tell your
story because you with the high profile exactly and.
Speaker 4 (23:21):
They don't even think that I'm really doing it exactly.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Well.
Speaker 5 (23:24):
They cast such a huge shadow.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
You know, we're behind that shadow because these these big
personalities that people gravitate to, and then now when it
becomes personal, they feel like they can like talk, like
touch them, and you know, they feel like they can
relate more. But to have the ladies now come in
the forefront of that, I think it's exceptional, just because
(23:47):
we do have a voice.
Speaker 5 (23:48):
You know, I'm seeing the trend. I don't want to.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
I don't know if it's really necessarily a trend, but
I'm seeing a lot of influx. I feel like I've
been in this round for twenty years and so to
see a lot going up and down. I'm seeing the
influx of women now being endorsed. We're seeing you know
that I saw Lionel Messi's wife now being in an ad.
Speaker 5 (24:12):
For with a sneaker company together.
Speaker 1 (24:16):
You're seeing women are getting business opportunities and they're in
in their own right in fashion and everything you can imagine.
So it's been a big time and a big year
for us to all come out and be like, you
know what, this is.
Speaker 5 (24:32):
Who we are minus that.
Speaker 3 (24:34):
My question for you, Ashley, because I sit back and
watch for the longest Feel was in the limblight nine
has reversed.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
How does that.
Speaker 3 (24:42):
Make you're you're in the lomlight? Big time question? And
Feel is in the back supporting you. How does that
make like? How does that affect you guys? Relationship? How
does that make him feel? I think honestly we are
a good balance. And you know, I never really understood
what that really meant, but when you think about things
(25:04):
like this, it makes sense, like he has really he's
our biggest supporter by the way, Like he loves the
Humble Bodies podcast. He's always looking for the episode. Yes,
he is our biggest supporter her. Yeah, so I think
(25:28):
it kind of just worked out naturally, Like you know,
I was his biggest supporter when he needed it, and
now he's mine, you know what I mean? You know,
I do think there has to be like a balance,
you know, for myself that I kind of have to
battle with, Like, you know, because I still want to
(25:48):
be like wife and mom and do all those things.
But he really be having like everything on lot so
I can really focus and do it I need to
do in the limelight whatever, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6 (26:01):
So it's like it just kind of naturally shifted.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
You know. That's a good thing.
Speaker 6 (26:06):
No, I'm so grateful.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
I'm so blessed, and I think he's like the best husband.
Speaker 6 (26:12):
Like I don't know, I don't know how I got look.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Like I'm not really like he's really really good, Like
he's a great father. He really holds it down for
me when I'm out and about doing things.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
Support but sometimes he'd be like.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
Now he's still be watching it and he very much
the boss, but he understands like, okay, I was you know,
the person you know bringing home the money. I mean,
you know, we're still good on that end, but like
(26:48):
now he sees us my opportunity.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
So he put in a lot of time and work.
Speaker 6 (26:53):
And he and he's where he's at. He's where he
wants to be.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
He wants to be home retired with his kids, like
to them how to play, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6 (27:02):
He's where he's wants to be.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
It works out, you know it really works out actually,
like yeah, just it really wasn't nothing to it. It
just he's where he wants to be and I'm where
I want to be, you know what I mean. We're
both happy in our own space.
Speaker 6 (27:19):
Yeah, you know, I feel.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
Like it's better that you're able to have a transition
where he sat down out of long light and you're
able to be in the limelight, because like having it
at the same time, you feel.
Speaker 6 (27:28):
Like that would you know.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
I have a lot of friends who, like, you know,
they're both like important people, like famous people, and I
do feel like sometimes it seems like it's competitive, you
know what I mean, and it can get to yeah,
but you know my I mean I can only speak
on my experience. I do think, yeah, it helps to
have just somebody in your corner and then somebody yeah performing,
(27:56):
I mean, unless you're just with some I mean, I
don't know. I don't think that competitive capetitiveness can show
up regardless even if you're not like in the limelight.
But I do feel like, you know, it's benefited me
that he has already like met his dreams of being
you know.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
What I mean.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
He's working on things on his own, but it doesn't
require him to, you know, and he's it's not pushing
you back, like he's not being selfish exactly.
Speaker 6 (28:22):
Yeah, So yeah, that's lovely. It's a good space. It's
a good space to be.
Speaker 4 (28:30):
He's like, I'm ready to sit back and like you
shine up.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Yeah, beautiful reminds me of a mini.
Speaker 4 (28:40):
Just comedians and I just want to like they love to.
Speaker 6 (28:47):
Me.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
The way he runs up, like no I can't. He's
just so fast, and the way he jumps, he's that
he's an athlete, like that, you're next to athlete.
Speaker 6 (28:59):
In the diction.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
Definitely in a transition phase where he's going to be
retiring soon. So now we're kind of like seeing like
what is that going to be? Like, you know, he
wants to be a coach or like a head coach
or whatever. It's like, you know, I want to still
be doing my thing and doing my investment. So it's
like we're just figuring that out. Now, what is that
going to look? Like?
Speaker 2 (29:17):
Yeah, you know, Keida sitting over there looking like the
first lady.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
To be the president, like, okay, what are you doing?
Speaker 6 (29:28):
Like, but people want to see this like and that's
what I love.
Speaker 3 (29:33):
Like we're all in different stages of we're we can
all you know, we're all very in similar situations but different,
you know, and we can all learn from each other.
Speaker 6 (29:43):
We've been there, whatever, whatever.
Speaker 4 (29:45):
Different phases, like we've all been through, like we're going
to reach right, right, you go through.
Speaker 5 (29:51):
At least, yeah, because it's different being in it.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
Because your husband is active, he's an active athlete, active
player very much.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
You know. That's yeah, and been through that.
Speaker 5 (30:03):
I didn't ye.
Speaker 3 (30:07):
Your wag, you know, relationship was post postirements.
Speaker 5 (30:13):
That that's a different journey.
Speaker 4 (30:15):
And sometimes it's almost I don't know better, but like
I feel like the guy is more mature, Yeah, situation,
but you know they already went through that.
Speaker 6 (30:23):
Phase and you're not. You know, well, I guess, yeah,
I just I didn't.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
I don't know how it feels to even I can't
even say I dated, uh, you know athlete. Yeah, I
didn't date him as an athlete, even though he thinks he.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Still could play.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
But I didn't experience everything that you guys had to. Yeah,
but I felt like I was the guy when when
I felt like I was an athlete when I was
in the military and and the guy was dating me
because I would have to leave training all the time.
Speaker 5 (30:59):
Yeah, it's not a great comparison actually, because you.
Speaker 2 (31:02):
Would that is.
Speaker 3 (31:08):
I'll be gone for a year or I mean that's
the feel for two to three weeks, right, So it
was different.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
It's crazy all.
Speaker 6 (31:16):
These experiences, you know, we live some lives.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
You know, like when I said, when I sat there
and said twenty years, I was like, damn life, I
really been.
Speaker 5 (31:26):
It's been twenty years.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
And to go through all Stars and Olympics and and
you know, we were blessed that we didn't have to
trade teams so much.
Speaker 5 (31:36):
So my children got to be like secure.
Speaker 1 (31:38):
That's another thing that got to be in one space
for a long amount of time.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
And just really the you know, just.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
The schools and the people that we've met over time,
and just the communities we build, and it's just it's
just so interesting to look back at it when you
really see like all that we've been through, you know,
in our different past to bring us all really connected.
Speaker 4 (32:02):
Now, all different stories.
Speaker 6 (32:04):
Yeah, I was trying to say, you said it right, Yeah,
it's hard.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
I don't know if I could have I mean, you know,
the women beyond chat now, yeah, I imagine how they
are he was, so I can only imagine what you're
dealing with now.
Speaker 5 (32:19):
I'm at the end of it.
Speaker 4 (32:20):
So he definitely had his moment.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
You know.
Speaker 4 (32:23):
That's why we had a ten year journey. It's not
the you know, naive about it, but now he's realizing,
like it's bigger than you know, yes, the girls and
bigger you know, the nights out, you know, like better
to have like a foundation of family and.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
What you're to do after.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
That time by itself fast, you feel like money to
look at a lot of people spend for sure, you
want to sell a woman that's like you know.
Speaker 4 (32:54):
Exactly and throw your money. You can have the money,
but nothing, you know.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
Y'all young athletes, y'all better listen to this.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Get y'all a smart ass, you know, right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (33:10):
Yeah, it was that way we get to Ashley's transition
where she's the one in her.
Speaker 5 (33:20):
Out.
Speaker 4 (33:24):
You can't for the women out there.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
Set that up.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
I'll set that up a little class, a little wag,
transition into face.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
That you can transition, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (33:38):
There's hope, there's hope. It's not perfect, have our issues,
you know what I mean. There's definitely adjustment and stuff.
Like that that we both had to definitely like pay
attention to and put effort in areas and fix things.
(34:00):
But it's possible, you know, to have a relationship that works.
You know, it's possible to be on TV and have
a relationship that works, because I know a lot of
people feel like once you're on TV that kind of
puts like a pressure on your yeah, on your relationship,
and a lot of relationships.
Speaker 6 (34:20):
Don't make it, you know.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
But I think you know, whatever your relationship is like
in real life, it's gonna shine through on camera and
if it was going to end, it was probably gonna
end regards it just probably like made it come faster,
like you know what I mean. Yeah, but it's possible.
Speaker 4 (34:42):
Like I have a question for all your ladies. I
feel like, you know, when you get married or you
get a relationship, like you're supposed to become like one right, yeah,
you feel like when how like I guess, how did
you get to that transition where you felt like, you know,
you plan things together. It's like this is what we're
doing together, family's doing it. You know, we're doing this
in together. We're doing you know, living life together. And
(35:02):
you know it didn't feel like it was like, oh,
this is what I'm doing, this is what you're doing. Yeah,
you know, like dating stage, do you feel like you
made that you could see a clear transition getting there now?
Speaker 3 (35:12):
I think everything was gradual for us. I think maybe
that one of the last things that I feel like
we were one on was like financial.
Speaker 4 (35:21):
Yeah, I think that's the biggest one on it.
Speaker 5 (35:23):
That's the main I should have just said it like
that because I feel like it's per household. You know,
what does that look like? What's the dynamic look like?
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Obviously you know there's different levels on the roster of
what who's getting what too, so it's also like you
know what does that look like? You know from clothing
and investing and how much you can put in and
what you can sprinkle and you know that is a
difference too.
Speaker 5 (35:50):
So I think it's per household.
Speaker 4 (35:51):
Yeah, And like gaining that trust to you of like okay,
like I can like build this idea with you without
feeling like hesitant because you never know.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
Yes, I mean it's time the conversations and like you
know your man, you know, and you just got to
like I feel like just keep having like if there's
like a certain thing that you feel like you want
to connect more on. You just got to keep talking
to them about it over and over repetition. With my situation, yeah,
(36:23):
we Yeah, it was levels. Finances definitely came. I wouldn't
say last because he saw that I was, Yeah, I
was doing my thing and I was a business woman.
So he invested. He pour, He's like here, yes, what
else you need? Yes, here, I'm going to help support
you with this. Here's my bank account. We got the
point where here's my bank account, pull out whatever you
(36:46):
want to do whatever. So I think it just depends
on the person and men and women whichever one whoever
is the bread winner, they will see they know who
they're dealing with. They all know if you make any
smart decisions.
Speaker 6 (37:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
And with my situation, we had children so young and
with the mare, like you know, my sacrifice was to
be with the children. They were back to back and
and he could trust that he can go do his
job and I was at home doing my job with staff,
with our households, making sure we had the best vacations,
(37:24):
things that things were.
Speaker 4 (37:25):
Taken care of on the family conditions.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
Yeah, so like that was my that was my portion,
That was my main job, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (37:32):
So that was supported in that way. So I just
think it's per different in each scenario, Yeah, every single one.
Speaker 4 (37:40):
Yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
Before before we get into humble batties, Kita, I forgot
to ask you this question. How did Tyreek feel when
you told him that she was going to be on
reality TV.
Speaker 4 (37:51):
Surprisingly, he wasn't as like, like scared about it. I
thought he was gonna be like, no, we're not doing it.
I don't want my business out there. Like he did
have moments like that. His first moment was like okay,
because he met you and he was like, okay, she
seems solid. She's with Otro Sinco, and she seems like
she's doing her thing. And he felt like.
Speaker 3 (38:09):
It was a good, good thing, a good company exactly,
that you would be a good, you know, person to
have in my life that's in her own thing and
you know, supporting or your husband and whatnot.
Speaker 4 (38:22):
So luckily it was very positive. But I think he
had some moments where he didn't want to be on
the show himself because you know, some of the producers
would come to him like trying to get like yeah
after the questions that were like he's like you know,
like producer to come up to him, like, so, what
do you think about the you know, what's happening in
the media. He's like, I don't want to talk about that.
Like today we're having you know, an ultrasound for my baby,
(38:46):
Like we're not we don't even trying about drama that's
in the media, right. But like those moments he would
be like, I don't think it's a good thing. You
shouldn't be on it.
Speaker 6 (38:52):
I think they know.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
You know.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
He wanted to be more about me, Like he's like,
focus on what you're doing, Like, don't you know, involve
me whenever you can. But I don't want them, yes, exactly,
And that's what's his biggest thing is I don't want
to take over. You know, this is about you and
the girls on the show. I don't want to come
in and they're trying to you know, over overshadow me.
(39:16):
For sure.
Speaker 3 (39:17):
Yeah, So that's as main I've seen the opposite where
the women get you know, opportunities and the men just
shut it down.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Oh for sure.
Speaker 4 (39:26):
I was really happy that he didn't, just because it
is it's you know, good to be like involved with
like other women doing their own thing. And you know,
creating that.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
I think that's what makes a healthy relationship too. Yeah,
like having your own stuff, you know. And if your
man is not supportive of you having your own thing,
then he wasn't.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
It's not healthy. Quickly going to realize that, right, Well.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
We are excited that we have met you brought you
in too. We're a family now.
Speaker 3 (39:55):
Yeah, we love you.
Speaker 5 (40:00):
I happen to be here. We're auntie.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
You don't say that word like baby for the baby.
Speaker 6 (40:22):
I would want Toby.
Speaker 2 (40:29):
Next time.
Speaker 4 (40:29):
Yeah, we gotta do something.
Speaker 6 (40:31):
Sure, Okay, we that title.
Speaker 3 (40:34):
Y'all took it for bixes too, I guess.
Speaker 5 (40:38):
But I was just trying to say we got we
got her.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
You know new mom.
Speaker 5 (40:42):
It's you already know she looked good.
Speaker 4 (40:46):
Yeah, thank you?
Speaker 6 (40:48):
All right, Yeah, I got the Humble Baddy.
Speaker 2 (40:50):
So Keita answer it.
Speaker 6 (40:52):
You're ready, Keita.
Speaker 4 (40:53):
I guess I don't know what.
Speaker 3 (40:56):
I haven't read it, so it could be anything. Sometimes
they get kind of crazy.
Speaker 6 (41:00):
All right.
Speaker 3 (41:01):
This one's from David in Atlanta. Okay, you know that's
where I'm from.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
Okay, I'm right down the street.
Speaker 6 (41:08):
All right.
Speaker 3 (41:08):
It says, hey, Humble Batties, So my girlfriend is obsessed
with your podcast ex girlfriend, and I'm a huge fan
of Nightcap.
Speaker 6 (41:16):
With Shannon and Chad.
Speaker 3 (41:18):
Okay, but now I'm in a bit of a situation
and I need your advice. I've been planning to propose
to my girlfriend. I've had the ring for months, but
recently I found out she's been deleting messages from one
of her exes, a parent. He's been hitting her up
and she's been responding. I also found out they went
(41:39):
to dinner last weekend when she told me she was
out with her friends. Oh, I'm going crazy because I
haven't confronted her about it. Now I'm sitting here wondering
do I confront her, do I hold off on the proposal,
or is it time to call it quits?
Speaker 6 (41:55):
Help me out, ladies, what would you do?
Speaker 4 (41:58):
I mean, I would definitely confront because if you're going
to marry somebody, let's be honest, let's just go ahead
and clean the slate. But also, they're not married yet,
so I think that he shouldn't just call it a
quits because but like, being married is different than dating, Like, yeah,
you're playing the field, Like maybe she doesn't feel like
you want to commit I mean, I don't know the
whole scenario. So if you know, depending on if she
(42:20):
feels like you're not doing enough, she needs to maybe
go back to her ex because whatever, he is showing
up and he's like showing that he wants to be
with her. So showing that to your woman, letting her know, like, hey,
I'm taking this serious. I want to marry you. If
you have like you want to be with be with
ther ex, do it, but I want to be with you.
You know, let that be known first and then make
your decision before you just you know, cancel her out
(42:42):
just because like doing that because.
Speaker 3 (42:44):
A response a lot of people go jump to straight
to cutting off, like you never know what that person
is feeling, like how long they've been waiting.
Speaker 4 (42:53):
So you're getting married, okay, Like this is serious. You
want to go with your ex, go to them, but
I'm going to take it to this. You know, I'm
ready to take it to the next level.
Speaker 2 (43:12):
Whatever you're doing right now, you have.
Speaker 4 (43:14):
The decision to either be done or come with me
and live in our life.
Speaker 3 (43:18):
You're a very level headed person. That's why I married Yeah.
Speaker 4 (43:26):
Yeah, because yeah, if you love her, you want to
make sure. Okay, but but you don't miss out on
the opportunity.
Speaker 1 (43:33):
But there's definitely some things that need to be talked about,
like going to meet up with him, saying you're that
the line you know.
Speaker 2 (43:41):
But don't you don't know like she's saying, you don't.
We don't know the whole, the whole story story, So
you don't.
Speaker 6 (43:46):
Know her side.
Speaker 3 (43:47):
We don't know her side, We don't know what has
been done to have that conversation.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
And you have to really be honest.
Speaker 3 (43:53):
Both parties have to really be honest with themselves and say, hey,
this is what I feel like.
Speaker 4 (43:58):
This is the reason relationship even stronger. It's having like weird,
tough conversations. I feel like that's yep.
Speaker 2 (44:06):
Well we what was his name?
Speaker 6 (44:08):
David?
Speaker 2 (44:09):
David?
Speaker 3 (44:09):
Thank you for supporting us, So we're gonna claim it.
We're gonna speak it into existence. This is your wife.
We're claiming it. Thank you for supporting us. Thank you
for supporting Nightcap.
Speaker 2 (44:20):
We hope we Kita and your you know what you're
going on.
Speaker 4 (44:26):
I hope that helped.
Speaker 6 (44:27):
Yeah, appreciate you.
Speaker 3 (44:29):
All Right, guys, you can find us on humble batties
dot com.
Speaker 6 (44:34):
Right is that it?
Speaker 2 (44:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (44:36):
Girl, is your website and you can find me on
social media.
Speaker 6 (44:43):
Ask you Nicole.
Speaker 5 (44:47):
Underscore, statam are own Instagram, our.
Speaker 3 (44:49):
Beautiful key to go ahead and tell them where they
can find you, girl Peter Hill on Instagram and myself
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Speaker 2 (45:02):
Everywhere there's humble Bag.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
So tune into the show. Yes, tune into the show.
I love you guys.
Speaker 2 (45:10):
Thank you guys for supporting us.
Speaker 6 (45:12):
Thank you,
I guess it's been real quite over here.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
We have the most beautiful person.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
She's a bad ass motherfucker, the loveliness Keita Hill.
Speaker 4 (00:10):
I think there was some moments that were a little
you know, we have like moments that are real. We
have moments that we need to flare.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Up because some people don't get that, because I've seen
the opposite where the women get opportunities and the men
just shut it down.
Speaker 5 (00:26):
Y'all know me, I'm very like this. It was hard
for me to step outside of us to.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Make it extra.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Oh, we didn't know who you were until you got
with Chad. That's not for me to prove to you
who I am. I'm building a legacy. Do your research.
Who sharroversutto is?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Keita? I forgot to ask you this question.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
How did Tyreek feel when you told them that she
was gonna be on reality TV?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Like get in my way, never out of my name?
And like you one in the more one so.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
On b baby squad go d is you running on us?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I want you need? Maybe? Won't you kee me company?
Give me tell I just don't for you.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
When we get home, if you let me put it.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
When I at the town, Hey, guys, welcome back to
the Humble Batties Podcast.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I'm Surelle Risotto.
Speaker 6 (01:18):
I mean Ashley.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
We're just happy to be back.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
And I'm Alexis Welstodamayer and we.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Are so excited you guys.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
We have some amazing news to announce and we have
a special guest.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
That will be going.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
So we're gonna get into.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
It because we get into it, like, I'm so excited.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
You excited?
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yes, a big surprise, Yes we have, we have and
y'all been on my ass, like y'all literally been on
my ass?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Should I announce a special guest? So should I tell
them first?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
I think you should tell the secret first because it
makes sense about you know, our guests.
Speaker 6 (01:59):
I agree, it's a good intro for our guess.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Okay, I guess it's been real quiet.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Y'all.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
Okay, I right, you guys.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Y'all asked for it, and guess what we're giving it.
We're coming back on Netflix. Listen, y'all have been in
all my dms, in Charrelle's dms, like we miss you
guys on TV. And we have been working hard filming
numerous scenes, like working.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Hard and for months.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Yeah, and we're back. It was hard to keep a
secret for so long. But I'm tired of y'all harassing us.
We're tired of y'all harassing us.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
It was like, we know y'all got some cooking. We
just know it.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
We know it, But we've slipped a couple of times,
did we was yeah, but but you guys are right,
like we we missed being on TV. We missed, you know,
sharing our lives in that capacity. So we're really excited
to be able to share this news with you guys
and also have Alexis alone with this.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
This is all, by the way, they get total blame.
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Yeah, the producers were like, who else?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
I said, I gave them a list of very beautiful
friends of mine. It's just like Charrelle's. And we're happy
that you're on this journey with us.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
What a journey has been.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
I mean, to be in a setting and have the cameras,
it was a new experience for me as I have
not had that following, you know, And then what a
new journey, especially trying to transition from you know, my
relationship status and now this rediscovery of like you know,
dating and rediscovery of Alexis. So I just hope that
(03:47):
I inspire somebody that wants to, like, you know, be
on that same path or just like.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
You can do it.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
And I can't wait to see what's about to happen.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
It's gonna be fun. It's a fun journey. I mean,
this is what we signed up for. You know how
how TV works. I mean, we got to introduce it.
But before we go into it, we have the most
beautiful person. She's the sweetest, she's her boss. She's a boss.
(04:25):
She's a badass motherfucker. Yes, she doesn't ride her husband's coattail.
She has a lot of things that you know, accomplished,
very well accomplished, beautiful, a new mom.
Speaker 6 (04:38):
Yes, yes, don't like maybewhare.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Okay, before before we go any further, let's introduce the
loveliness Keita Hill.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Thank you so much for the introduction.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Wow, I'm like, okay, yes, we give our.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Hair you a but you are I'm super excited to
be on here today.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
Yes, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
And you know the thing about it, Kita, when I
first met you, we met at the NFL Honors You
honors and Tyreek came up to chat and he was like,
I want she wrote to meet my wife.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Whatever I said, I like her. She was telling me
I have an IT tech company. What you do.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
When we first met, I was actually getting into like
a real estate project and you were in the government contracting,
and it was like immediately clicked right there. We're like, oh,
you're doing some similar projects what I'm doing. I'm like, yes, yeah,
I'm getting into assistant living project where I'm going to
invest intest some homes and whatnot. But I'm also have
a software company that I invest into and then also
(05:44):
build myself. So but I also I started in the
fashion industry for a minute, you know, lived in Miami,
went to school, um, and then realize, you know, real
estate in tech is the industry I want to be honestly, Yes,
that's you can be mobile and you can grow it
like way faster than any other industry I think, honestly.
(06:05):
So that's why in those type of fields and connected
with Cherrelle on that on the real estate side.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
So yeah, I was.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Like, I like her, and now you connected with all
of us exactly.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
And I love that honestly because I feel like it's
a big to like find women that are in, you know,
industries that you want to be in and just women
that are just doing things, not just supper in Miami
and you know, living off of somebody and not really
trying to find something for themselves. So it's really good
to have a community like you guys.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Honestly, So our show is going to be amazing because
we have ladies that are amazing in so many different ways.
Like it's not your typical show. It's not just about
women being cute and you know, being behind their men
and that name. Like, we are all well accomplished women
in our own rights and very different and you'll get
(06:56):
very different know all of us, you know, in.
Speaker 6 (06:59):
Our own way.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
It's definitely drama and and but it's fun and I
think it's a different way of looking at like the
wag culture. Oh did you You didn't even say the
name of the show, Dan, I think that on purpose.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Well I was waiting.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I want to introduce you, okay, but we didn't talk
about wags. Of course, actually gave y'all a law hint.
We are on Netflix and the name of the show
drum roll. It's not selling anything. It's not selling Tampa.
It's called Wax to Riches. Wax to Riches.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
Yes, so you know wags. I feel like it's you all.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
You the HD, y'all like that.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
I mean, I was on a show called Wags, right,
But I feel like back then, like twenty sixteen, fifteen,
twenty sixteen, that era, it meant something different. Well you
know what I mean, they're like wags. Back then, really
it was tied heavily to our guys and what they
had going on. I feel like it's totally different now.
(08:10):
I feel like the women behind the men are We're
not behind the men.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
It's like we are our.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Own in our own right, like we have our own
situation going on. People are way more interested in us
really than they are them. You know, they just want
to know did the guys you know, make their touchdowns
or whatever? You know, But women, it's like we're out
here doing all kinds of things, you know, a.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Lot more interesting behind the scenes.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
Yeah yeah, but it's not even behind the scenes.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
And yeah, help them get their career even I think
this is going to surprise people in that sense of
it's different.
Speaker 6 (08:48):
The word wag has evolved, right.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
And and how how the whole thing came about is
I know, you guys were constantly on my neck about
where're selling Tampa we're selling town. But real estate shows
started fading away, so many out there, and I didn't
want to give up on our fans. I didn't want
to give up on myself. And you know, I was
(09:11):
just out there pitching.
Speaker 6 (09:12):
I was like, yeah, hustler and.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Amazing spokes studios. I love you guys.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
We worked hard and we were able to capture something
that wasn't just focused on It was like a docu
follow It's not just about me.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
It's about a group of beautiful.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Ladies and how they how they lived their life after
you know, their husband or boyfriend or fiance or ex
husband or or you.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Know a little fleeing long time flee.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Time has retired or they're you know, they're not in
the industry anymore. And I feel like, you know, we
put a lot of time and effort in this to
give our community what they're looking for. So we put
a lot of work in it. You know, people, the
fans are going to have their favorite. All we ask
you guys to do is to definitely support us.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Yes, watch, watch, Don't just.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Watch one episode even if you don't like it, just
let it keep running in the background while you watching dishes.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
That's the way.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
That's the way that Netflix works, Like you have to
continue to watch.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
It's based off ours.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
So if you guys want to continue to see us
on TV, make sure you watch. Tell a friend, tell
another friend, promote we out here. If y'all look in
the book us, we out there. We have.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
For a lone time, a good time in a long time.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Yes, well yeah, I mean I think you know, we
have the experience of being our reality TV. But I'm
just curious to know, Like, how do you feel. I mean,
you're already in the public eye, you know, being Tyreek
Hill's wife, I'm sure already comes with a lot, but
like the focus really is going to be on you for.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
It definitely is different when you're speaking about really what's happening,
because everyone has an obception of really what's going on
in relationships. Me like talking about it and making them
feel like they're involved is going to be a whole
different situation. I'm a little nervous, but I'm also excited too,
because I think it's going to help create the narrative
of really what's happening. You know, it's not what people
(11:21):
are saying and you know what they think about my relationship.
You know, oh for sure, they're making things up and
making whole storylines about something. So I think it's good
to have my side of it.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
And really, you know, people know who you exactly a woman, like,
you're not just somebody.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
Yeah, we've been together for We've known each other for
ten years, so you know, it's been a long journey,
long journey, but you know now we're actually you know,
solid and really trying to build a relationship, which I
think a lot of people can relate to. Like, not
relationship perfect and not every marriage is perfect, Let's be honest, right,
ours is in the media. But when I like talk
(12:02):
to other girls, like especially girls that are you know,
on the on the team with us, they tell me
about their problems and I'm like, it's I don't really
have certain situations that are bad, but you know, some
other girls are going through hell of a lot because you.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Got to idi you are you guys are a high profile? Yes, yeah,
and I have.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
To just know that, you know, people, that's just what
it comes with, right, So how do you deal with that?
Speaker 3 (12:27):
And what do you tell those girls that are like
looking up to you and how to handle.
Speaker 4 (12:31):
Yeah, I mean I haven't I mean I mean, how
I deal with it now is just kind of just
don't like let it get to me. Like number one,
don't let it get to you, and just know that
you're in this position. You know what your husband's doing,
you know what you're doing, and y'all have you all
solid relationship you know? Yeah, yes, nothing to prove. And
that's the main thing. You try to picture perfect on Instagram.
(12:52):
Like that's one thing that I don't you know, like
we'll take pretty pictures, you know, sometimes we'll have the
pictures will be going through, like we'll have like a
whole photo shoot, and you know it might not even
be like as you know, as perfect as that picture looked,
but like that happens, you know, So I just don't
let it get to me, honestly, you know. But if
(13:13):
there's other women out there that are going through the situation,
you know, you know, I would love to help, but
like I don't really get that many women like reaching
out to me, like saying, hey, like how you deal
with this? But if you know, if they were to
I would definitely be able to help them. I'm sting
they're watching them, but they're not asking and you know,
telling me out there because people.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
Are totally scared to reach out, but you've let them.
Speaker 4 (13:36):
Know, yes, like they can ask questions like I'm here
to you know, talk about my story and how I'm
able to manage this being a wife to especially in
that you know, Limelight definitely different.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
Is it's because when you first meet her she's very quiet. Yeah,
a lot of people underestimate you because they just say, oh,
it's a pretty face, but.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
You most definitely that's I mean, I just don't even
like I could just get like insecure about like, oh,
you're so shy, but you know what, I think, what
you want to think sometimes like I'm not in no
rush to anything like anything, but that that's kind of happening,
you know.
Speaker 6 (14:27):
Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
I think it's the best, especially like where I'm at.
You know, it's like you can't get worked up. So
many things that could work me up, but all the time,
I have a daughter now, like she needs to full on, like.
Speaker 5 (14:40):
Yes, you know your mental emotions.
Speaker 6 (14:43):
How is being a new mom with that?
Speaker 4 (14:46):
Honestly, I'm really excited I had a daughter because you
wanted a girl. So he worked out. Yeah, he look
like and she looks just like me, but super blessed
and I had a really good pregnancy. Honestly, like being
in being pregnant with you know, there's difficulties, but like
(15:08):
the labor, I was in labor for eight hours, push
for like ten minutes.
Speaker 6 (15:12):
Listen, having a baby in general, it's just a miracle.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
As soon as y'all posted it was ready to go,
they took that ran another.
Speaker 4 (15:25):
I'm like, Okay, she needs to be in DIORA. She
needs to be the face of it. I feel like
kids will appreciate that you did that for your child. Yeah,
you're already arientizing on your baby. Okay. I meant to
buy her investment home so she has it under her name.
I feel about it.
Speaker 6 (15:45):
Chum, that's right, that's I love it.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
So how do you feel we want and bring it
back to the whole TV world when you you know,
we had a few scenes, we all had a few
scenes together. How was it different for you? How did
you feel about everything?
Speaker 4 (16:00):
I feel like doing it with you guys made it easy.
Like I was happy to be able to like really, yeah,
it's like I feel like we connected pretty It was
just like natural, you know. I think there was some
moments that were a little you know, cringe that and
that's what I mean, just whatever, like you kind of
have to just go with whatever is going to create
(16:23):
the scene. Right.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
Yeah, that's what I've like realized.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
You know, you have like moments that are you know, real,
we have moments that we need to flare up. Every
moment or every scene is like, okay, there's got to
be a flair moment, So what is that flair moment
that we need to exactly?
Speaker 3 (16:41):
It seemed like get that we all did a great job, but.
Speaker 6 (16:48):
Hilarious, it wasn't even there to yeh need to.
Speaker 5 (17:01):
I had to question the Alexis.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
A few times. Girl.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
I'm really curious edited videos. So yeah, you know, we
we have to see this, but you know how they're
gonna edit it. It's going to be a total different.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (17:21):
Sure, I'm a little nurture, but you know.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
That is my biggest cost.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
That's the thing about reality TV. Everyone's not gonna like you,
no matter how good you trade, no matter how great
of a person you are. You can be known as
a villain on TV and be the sweetest heart exactly.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
You're not here to to make everyone happy and sign
up relate to you.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
That's what you signed up for when you when you're
doing reality TV actually has been in the game long
the longest here on this platform.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
You have Okay, well.
Speaker 5 (17:56):
You you can't tell.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
The like when you shoot shoot with you like you
know how to like take a scene.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Like Yeah, I feel like, especially at your when we
had an event at your house, I feel like, for.
Speaker 4 (18:16):
Sure, Yeah, I said, Okay, this is a whole different.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
Turn it up. Actually, what you got.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
You gotta pully bitch, don't don't get.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
To carry aways cute.
Speaker 6 (18:36):
I mean, I think a.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
Part of being a reality TV is being able to entertain,
but in a realistic you know what I mean, whatever
your normal reaction would be, just turn it up a
little bit, like entertaining. You know. It's not that you're
acting fake or whatever. It's like we're on TV. We
want to see something. You can't just sit there.
Speaker 5 (18:55):
It was difficult me.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
That was a big challenge because y'all know me, I'm
very like this, but like it was hard for me
to step outside of it to make it extra.
Speaker 5 (19:05):
Yeah, I just didn't know how to.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Tap into that really not making it extra because I
don't want to just yeah, you have to have a voice.
Speaker 6 (19:14):
You're not yeah, you got it.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
Whatever is in your head, say that, don't leave it there,
you know, whatever the opinions you have, whether.
Speaker 4 (19:23):
Things to your relationships. Yeah, like sometimes I'll hold back,
but I see that even like being an actress or whatever,
you have to have to.
Speaker 5 (19:30):
Just let it go, let it out, let it.
Speaker 4 (19:32):
Yeah, people that I want to think that, but I
did too much or you know, I'm pointing out something
like people want you.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
To they want they want to know what they want.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
Closer together when you're able to like have those argument,
you know, they want to.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
They want to see what's inside of our world.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
Yes reality, that's right, and we showed a lot of it,
for sure. We show everything. But it's going to be
it's it's worth a watch, Yeah, it really is. It's
a good time.
Speaker 4 (20:05):
And I love how they did like different everyone had
their own like little story, you know how you mentioned
like you know, everyone had to create their own life
in this show, you know. So it's like being able
to see everyone's different relationships and not everyone's going through
the same thing, right, So I.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Feel like everyone in the audience will be able to
identify with somebody for sure, and then on top of that,
identify with someone else like this happened to me, or
this happened to a friend of mine, or I can
feel her, I agree.
Speaker 4 (20:34):
With her, right, Yeah, someone that.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
We'll see that's gonna change everything.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
But overall, I think.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
The biggest thing is, even though you know, we had
our times where there were crazy moments, we all came together. Yeah,
we supported each other in the wagon industry or whatever.
Speaker 4 (21:04):
And that's how it should be, honestly, like what's yeah,
I'll take it too.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Yeah, no, friend, it's going to be perfect. You know,
it's always going to be some drama somewhere in there,
you know, but it's not to collect it. That's the
biggest I think that's what we show. Yeah, that's real.
Speaker 4 (21:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
I love that authentic side though, because they did, you know,
I feel like it's a misconception with.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
Reality is like everyone knows each other. No, we don't know.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
Each other like we like that. We were getting to
know each other. We're learning each other. So it was
very raw, you know.
Speaker 3 (21:39):
I thought that was also, Yeah, because it's a new
territory for a lot of us, you know, to be
like to try to be around people that you don't
you don't know, toly hang with yeah, So I think
the biggest thing for me was, I mean I knew
you ladies, but some of the ladies they looked at
me like like I got with ch had I built
(22:00):
everything up?
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Or you know, they didn't know your storyline. Yeah, that's
a lot of people.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
I wouldn't even say story They didn't know who I
was as a person, who Cherille was. They and not
even just the group of ladies, even people today because
you know, of course we're in the blocks trending right now.
We didn't know who you were until you got with Chad.
That's not for me to prove to you. I know
I'm building the legacy, So do your research who char
(22:29):
Result was?
Speaker 6 (22:30):
Now?
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Who do your research? Who I am and what I built?
And I had to at one point it got to
me a minute for a minute, feeling like I had
to respond like we didn't know, we didn't know who
you was until you got with Baby. Check my resumes,
(22:51):
you know, period.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
Just expanded because I mean, I'm in the limelight.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
I felt about and that's how I.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
Connected with you. Yeah, because I was like, you know
what this girl is. I feel like I'm talking to
my little.
Speaker 4 (23:05):
Twin like she has but you should. You should let
her mentor you should.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Because you have so many things that people don't know
about the same and it's like you can't tell your
story because you with the high profile exactly and.
Speaker 4 (23:21):
They don't even think that I'm really doing it exactly.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Well.
Speaker 5 (23:24):
They cast such a huge shadow.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
You know, we're behind that shadow because these these big
personalities that people gravitate to, and then now when it
becomes personal, they feel like they can like talk, like
touch them, and you know, they feel like they can
relate more. But to have the ladies now come in
the forefront of that, I think it's exceptional, just because
(23:47):
we do have a voice.
Speaker 5 (23:48):
You know, I'm seeing the trend. I don't want to.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
I don't know if it's really necessarily a trend, but
I'm seeing a lot of influx. I feel like I've
been in this round for twenty years and so to
see a lot going up and down. I'm seeing the
influx of women now being endorsed. We're seeing you know
that I saw Lionel Messi's wife now being in an ad.
Speaker 5 (24:12):
For with a sneaker company together.
Speaker 1 (24:16):
You're seeing women are getting business opportunities and they're in
in their own right in fashion and everything you can imagine.
So it's been a big time and a big year
for us to all come out and be like, you
know what, this is.
Speaker 5 (24:32):
Who we are minus that.
Speaker 3 (24:34):
My question for you, Ashley, because I sit back and
watch for the longest Feel was in the limblight nine
has reversed.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
How does that.
Speaker 3 (24:42):
Make you're you're in the lomlight? Big time question? And
Feel is in the back supporting you. How does that
make like? How does that affect you guys? Relationship? How
does that make him feel? I think honestly we are
a good balance. And you know, I never really understood
what that really meant, but when you think about things
(25:04):
like this, it makes sense, like he has really he's
our biggest supporter by the way, Like he loves the
Humble Bodies podcast. He's always looking for the episode. Yes,
he is our biggest supporter her. Yeah, so I think
(25:28):
it kind of just worked out naturally, Like you know,
I was his biggest supporter when he needed it, and
now he's mine, you know what I mean? You know,
I do think there has to be like a balance,
you know, for myself that I kind of have to
battle with, Like, you know, because I still want to
(25:48):
be like wife and mom and do all those things.
But he really be having like everything on lot so
I can really focus and do it I need to
do in the limelight whatever, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6 (26:01):
So it's like it just kind of naturally shifted.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
You know. That's a good thing.
Speaker 6 (26:06):
No, I'm so grateful.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
I'm so blessed, and I think he's like the best husband.
Speaker 6 (26:12):
Like I don't know, I don't know how I got look.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Like I'm not really like he's really really good, Like
he's a great father. He really holds it down for
me when I'm out and about doing things.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
Support but sometimes he'd be like.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
Now he's still be watching it and he very much
the boss, but he understands like, okay, I was you know,
the person you know bringing home the money. I mean,
you know, we're still good on that end, but like
(26:48):
now he sees us my opportunity.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
So he put in a lot of time and work.
Speaker 6 (26:53):
And he and he's where he's at. He's where he
wants to be.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
He wants to be home retired with his kids, like
to them how to play, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6 (27:02):
He's where he's wants to be.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
It works out, you know it really works out actually,
like yeah, just it really wasn't nothing to it. It
just he's where he wants to be and I'm where
I want to be, you know what I mean. We're
both happy in our own space.
Speaker 6 (27:19):
Yeah, you know, I feel.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
Like it's better that you're able to have a transition
where he sat down out of long light and you're
able to be in the limelight, because like having it
at the same time, you feel.
Speaker 6 (27:28):
Like that would you know.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
I have a lot of friends who, like, you know,
they're both like important people, like famous people, and I
do feel like sometimes it seems like it's competitive, you
know what I mean, and it can get to yeah,
but you know my I mean I can only speak
on my experience. I do think, yeah, it helps to
have just somebody in your corner and then somebody yeah performing,
(27:56):
I mean, unless you're just with some I mean, I
don't know. I don't think that competitive capetitiveness can show
up regardless even if you're not like in the limelight.
But I do feel like, you know, it's benefited me
that he has already like met his dreams of being
you know.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
What I mean.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
He's working on things on his own, but it doesn't
require him to, you know, and he's it's not pushing
you back, like he's not being selfish exactly.
Speaker 6 (28:22):
Yeah, So yeah, that's lovely. It's a good space. It's
a good space to be.
Speaker 4 (28:30):
He's like, I'm ready to sit back and like you
shine up.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Yeah, beautiful reminds me of a mini.
Speaker 4 (28:40):
Just comedians and I just want to like they love to.
Speaker 6 (28:47):
Me.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
The way he runs up, like no I can't. He's
just so fast, and the way he jumps, he's that
he's an athlete, like that, you're next to athlete.
Speaker 6 (28:59):
In the diction.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
Definitely in a transition phase where he's going to be
retiring soon. So now we're kind of like seeing like
what is that going to be? Like, you know, he
wants to be a coach or like a head coach
or whatever. It's like, you know, I want to still
be doing my thing and doing my investment. So it's
like we're just figuring that out. Now, what is that
going to look? Like?
Speaker 2 (29:17):
Yeah, you know, Keida sitting over there looking like the
first lady.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
To be the president, like, okay, what are you doing?
Speaker 6 (29:28):
Like, but people want to see this like and that's
what I love.
Speaker 3 (29:33):
Like we're all in different stages of we're we can
all you know, we're all very in similar situations but different,
you know, and we can all learn from each other.
Speaker 6 (29:43):
We've been there, whatever, whatever.
Speaker 4 (29:45):
Different phases, like we've all been through, like we're going
to reach right, right, you go through.
Speaker 5 (29:51):
At least, yeah, because it's different being in it.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
Because your husband is active, he's an active athlete, active
player very much.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
You know. That's yeah, and been through that.
Speaker 5 (30:03):
I didn't ye.
Speaker 3 (30:07):
Your wag, you know, relationship was post postirements.
Speaker 5 (30:13):
That that's a different journey.
Speaker 4 (30:15):
And sometimes it's almost I don't know better, but like
I feel like the guy is more mature, Yeah, situation,
but you know they already went through that.
Speaker 6 (30:23):
Phase and you're not. You know, well, I guess, yeah,
I just I didn't.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
I don't know how it feels to even I can't
even say I dated, uh, you know athlete. Yeah, I
didn't date him as an athlete, even though he thinks he.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Still could play.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
But I didn't experience everything that you guys had to. Yeah,
but I felt like I was the guy when when
I felt like I was an athlete when I was
in the military and and the guy was dating me
because I would have to leave training all the time.
Speaker 5 (30:59):
Yeah, it's not a great comparison actually, because you.
Speaker 2 (31:02):
Would that is.
Speaker 3 (31:08):
I'll be gone for a year or I mean that's
the feel for two to three weeks, right, So it
was different.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
It's crazy all.
Speaker 6 (31:16):
These experiences, you know, we live some lives.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
You know, like when I said, when I sat there
and said twenty years, I was like, damn life, I
really been.
Speaker 5 (31:26):
It's been twenty years.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
And to go through all Stars and Olympics and and
you know, we were blessed that we didn't have to
trade teams so much.
Speaker 5 (31:36):
So my children got to be like secure.
Speaker 1 (31:38):
That's another thing that got to be in one space
for a long amount of time.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
And just really the you know, just.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
The schools and the people that we've met over time,
and just the communities we build, and it's just it's
just so interesting to look back at it when you
really see like all that we've been through, you know,
in our different past to bring us all really connected.
Speaker 4 (32:02):
Now, all different stories.
Speaker 6 (32:04):
Yeah, I was trying to say, you said it right, Yeah,
it's hard.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
I don't know if I could have I mean, you know,
the women beyond chat now, yeah, I imagine how they
are he was, so I can only imagine what you're
dealing with now.
Speaker 5 (32:19):
I'm at the end of it.
Speaker 4 (32:20):
So he definitely had his moment.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
You know.
Speaker 4 (32:23):
That's why we had a ten year journey. It's not
the you know, naive about it, but now he's realizing,
like it's bigger than you know, yes, the girls and
bigger you know, the nights out, you know, like better
to have like a foundation of family and.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
What you're to do after.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
That time by itself fast, you feel like money to
look at a lot of people spend for sure, you
want to sell a woman that's like you know.
Speaker 4 (32:54):
Exactly and throw your money. You can have the money,
but nothing, you know.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
Y'all young athletes, y'all better listen to this.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Get y'all a smart ass, you know, right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (33:10):
Yeah, it was that way we get to Ashley's transition
where she's the one in her.
Speaker 5 (33:20):
Out.
Speaker 4 (33:24):
You can't for the women out there.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
Set that up.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
I'll set that up a little class, a little wag,
transition into face.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
That you can transition, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (33:38):
There's hope, there's hope. It's not perfect, have our issues,
you know what I mean. There's definitely adjustment and stuff.
Like that that we both had to definitely like pay
attention to and put effort in areas and fix things.
(34:00):
But it's possible, you know, to have a relationship that works.
You know, it's possible to be on TV and have
a relationship that works, because I know a lot of
people feel like once you're on TV that kind of
puts like a pressure on your yeah, on your relationship,
and a lot of relationships.
Speaker 6 (34:20):
Don't make it, you know.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
But I think you know, whatever your relationship is like
in real life, it's gonna shine through on camera and
if it was going to end, it was probably gonna
end regards it just probably like made it come faster,
like you know what I mean. Yeah, but it's possible.
Speaker 4 (34:42):
Like I have a question for all your ladies. I
feel like, you know, when you get married or you
get a relationship, like you're supposed to become like one right, yeah,
you feel like when how like I guess, how did
you get to that transition where you felt like, you know,
you plan things together. It's like this is what we're
doing together, family's doing it. You know, we're doing this
in together. We're doing you know, living life together. And
(35:02):
you know it didn't feel like it was like, oh,
this is what I'm doing, this is what you're doing. Yeah,
you know, like dating stage, do you feel like you
made that you could see a clear transition getting there now?
Speaker 3 (35:12):
I think everything was gradual for us. I think maybe
that one of the last things that I feel like
we were one on was like financial.
Speaker 4 (35:21):
Yeah, I think that's the biggest one on it.
Speaker 5 (35:23):
That's the main I should have just said it like
that because I feel like it's per household. You know,
what does that look like? What's the dynamic look like?
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Obviously you know there's different levels on the roster of
what who's getting what too, so it's also like you
know what does that look like? You know from clothing
and investing and how much you can put in and
what you can sprinkle and you know that is a
difference too.
Speaker 5 (35:50):
So I think it's per household.
Speaker 4 (35:51):
Yeah, And like gaining that trust to you of like okay,
like I can like build this idea with you without
feeling like hesitant because you never know.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
Yes, I mean it's time the conversations and like you
know your man, you know, and you just got to
like I feel like just keep having like if there's
like a certain thing that you feel like you want
to connect more on. You just got to keep talking
to them about it over and over repetition. With my situation, yeah,
(36:23):
we Yeah, it was levels. Finances definitely came. I wouldn't
say last because he saw that I was, Yeah, I
was doing my thing and I was a business woman.
So he invested. He pour, He's like here, yes, what
else you need? Yes, here, I'm going to help support
you with this. Here's my bank account. We got the
point where here's my bank account, pull out whatever you
(36:46):
want to do whatever. So I think it just depends
on the person and men and women whichever one whoever
is the bread winner, they will see they know who
they're dealing with. They all know if you make any
smart decisions.
Speaker 6 (37:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
And with my situation, we had children so young and
with the mare, like you know, my sacrifice was to
be with the children. They were back to back and
and he could trust that he can go do his
job and I was at home doing my job with staff,
with our households, making sure we had the best vacations,
(37:24):
things that things were.
Speaker 4 (37:25):
Taken care of on the family conditions.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
Yeah, so like that was my that was my portion,
That was my main job, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (37:32):
So that was supported in that way. So I just
think it's per different in each scenario, Yeah, every single one.
Speaker 4 (37:40):
Yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
Before before we get into humble batties, Kita, I forgot
to ask you this question. How did Tyreek feel when
you told him that she was going to be on
reality TV.
Speaker 4 (37:51):
Surprisingly, he wasn't as like, like scared about it. I
thought he was gonna be like, no, we're not doing it.
I don't want my business out there. Like he did
have moments like that. His first moment was like okay,
because he met you and he was like, okay, she
seems solid. She's with Otro Sinco, and she seems like
she's doing her thing. And he felt like.
Speaker 3 (38:09):
It was a good, good thing, a good company exactly,
that you would be a good, you know, person to
have in my life that's in her own thing and
you know, supporting or your husband and whatnot.
Speaker 4 (38:22):
So luckily it was very positive. But I think he
had some moments where he didn't want to be on
the show himself because you know, some of the producers
would come to him like trying to get like yeah
after the questions that were like he's like you know,
like producer to come up to him, like, so, what
do you think about the you know, what's happening in
the media. He's like, I don't want to talk about that.
Like today we're having you know, an ultrasound for my baby,
(38:46):
Like we're not we don't even trying about drama that's
in the media, right. But like those moments he would
be like, I don't think it's a good thing. You
shouldn't be on it.
Speaker 6 (38:52):
I think they know.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
You know.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
He wanted to be more about me, Like he's like,
focus on what you're doing, Like, don't you know, involve
me whenever you can. But I don't want them, yes, exactly,
And that's what's his biggest thing is I don't want
to take over. You know, this is about you and
the girls on the show. I don't want to come
in and they're trying to you know, over overshadow me.
(39:16):
For sure.
Speaker 3 (39:17):
Yeah, So that's as main I've seen the opposite where
the women get you know, opportunities and the men just
shut it down.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Oh for sure.
Speaker 4 (39:26):
I was really happy that he didn't, just because it
is it's you know, good to be like involved with
like other women doing their own thing. And you know,
creating that.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
I think that's what makes a healthy relationship too. Yeah,
like having your own stuff, you know. And if your
man is not supportive of you having your own thing,
then he wasn't.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
It's not healthy. Quickly going to realize that, right, Well.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
We are excited that we have met you brought you
in too. We're a family now.
Speaker 3 (39:55):
Yeah, we love you.
Speaker 5 (40:00):
I happen to be here. We're auntie.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
You don't say that word like baby for the baby.
Speaker 6 (40:22):
I would want Toby.
Speaker 2 (40:29):
Next time.
Speaker 4 (40:29):
Yeah, we gotta do something.
Speaker 6 (40:31):
Sure, Okay, we that title.
Speaker 3 (40:34):
Y'all took it for bixes too, I guess.
Speaker 5 (40:38):
But I was just trying to say we got we
got her.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
You know new mom.
Speaker 5 (40:42):
It's you already know she looked good.
Speaker 4 (40:46):
Yeah, thank you?
Speaker 6 (40:48):
All right, Yeah, I got the Humble Baddy.
Speaker 2 (40:50):
So Keita answer it.
Speaker 6 (40:52):
You're ready, Keita.
Speaker 4 (40:53):
I guess I don't know what.
Speaker 3 (40:56):
I haven't read it, so it could be anything. Sometimes
they get kind of crazy.
Speaker 6 (41:00):
All right.
Speaker 3 (41:01):
This one's from David in Atlanta. Okay, you know that's
where I'm from.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
Okay, I'm right down the street.
Speaker 6 (41:08):
All right.
Speaker 3 (41:08):
It says, hey, Humble Batties, So my girlfriend is obsessed
with your podcast ex girlfriend, and I'm a huge fan
of Nightcap.
Speaker 6 (41:16):
With Shannon and Chad.
Speaker 3 (41:18):
Okay, but now I'm in a bit of a situation
and I need your advice. I've been planning to propose
to my girlfriend. I've had the ring for months, but
recently I found out she's been deleting messages from one
of her exes, a parent. He's been hitting her up
and she's been responding. I also found out they went
(41:39):
to dinner last weekend when she told me she was
out with her friends. Oh, I'm going crazy because I
haven't confronted her about it. Now I'm sitting here wondering
do I confront her, do I hold off on the proposal,
or is it time to call it quits?
Speaker 6 (41:55):
Help me out, ladies, what would you do?
Speaker 4 (41:58):
I mean, I would definitely confront because if you're going
to marry somebody, let's be honest, let's just go ahead
and clean the slate. But also, they're not married yet,
so I think that he shouldn't just call it a
quits because but like, being married is different than dating, Like, yeah,
you're playing the field, Like maybe she doesn't feel like
you want to commit I mean, I don't know the
whole scenario. So if you know, depending on if she
(42:20):
feels like you're not doing enough, she needs to maybe
go back to her ex because whatever, he is showing
up and he's like showing that he wants to be
with her. So showing that to your woman, letting her know, like, hey,
I'm taking this serious. I want to marry you. If
you have like you want to be with be with
ther ex, do it, but I want to be with you.
You know, let that be known first and then make
your decision before you just you know, cancel her out
(42:42):
just because like doing that because.
Speaker 3 (42:44):
A response a lot of people go jump to straight
to cutting off, like you never know what that person
is feeling, like how long they've been waiting.
Speaker 4 (42:53):
So you're getting married, okay, Like this is serious. You
want to go with your ex, go to them, but
I'm going to take it to this. You know, I'm
ready to take it to the next level.
Speaker 2 (43:12):
Whatever you're doing right now, you have.
Speaker 4 (43:14):
The decision to either be done or come with me
and live in our life.
Speaker 3 (43:18):
You're a very level headed person. That's why I married Yeah.
Speaker 4 (43:26):
Yeah, because yeah, if you love her, you want to
make sure. Okay, but but you don't miss out on
the opportunity.
Speaker 1 (43:33):
But there's definitely some things that need to be talked about,
like going to meet up with him, saying you're that
the line you know.
Speaker 2 (43:41):
But don't you don't know like she's saying, you don't.
We don't know the whole, the whole story story, So
you don't.
Speaker 6 (43:46):
Know her side.
Speaker 3 (43:47):
We don't know her side, We don't know what has
been done to have that conversation.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
And you have to really be honest.
Speaker 3 (43:53):
Both parties have to really be honest with themselves and say, hey,
this is what I feel like.
Speaker 4 (43:58):
This is the reason relationship even stronger. It's having like weird,
tough conversations. I feel like that's yep.
Speaker 2 (44:06):
Well we what was his name?
Speaker 6 (44:08):
David?
Speaker 2 (44:09):
David?
Speaker 3 (44:09):
Thank you for supporting us, So we're gonna claim it.
We're gonna speak it into existence. This is your wife.
We're claiming it. Thank you for supporting us. Thank you
for supporting Nightcap.
Speaker 2 (44:20):
We hope we Kita and your you know what you're
going on.
Speaker 4 (44:26):
I hope that helped.
Speaker 6 (44:27):
Yeah, appreciate you.
Speaker 3 (44:29):
All Right, guys, you can find us on humble batties
dot com.
Speaker 6 (44:34):
Right is that it?
Speaker 2 (44:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (44:36):
Girl, is your website and you can find me on
social media.
Speaker 6 (44:43):
Ask you Nicole.
Speaker 5 (44:47):
Underscore, statam are own Instagram, our.
Speaker 3 (44:49):
Beautiful key to go ahead and tell them where they
can find you, girl Peter Hill on Instagram and myself
chire Resulto Underscore. Make sure you guys subscribe, follow like,
follow us on Apple.
Speaker 2 (45:02):
Everywhere there's humble Bag.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
So tune into the show. Yes, tune into the show.
I love you guys.
Speaker 2 (45:10):
Thank you guys for supporting us.
Speaker 6 (45:12):
Thank you,
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