October 19, 2023 • 39 mins
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Speaker (00:05):
M-O-W-M-A-Q-D-W-E-D-W-E , that's my name.
Mama Q.
M-o-w-m-a-q-d-w-e-d-w-e, that'smy name.
Mama Q, say it faster or slow,don't really matter, though the
U-E gets a minute.
Tongue tizzy, yo, hey, kindadizzy bro.
(00:25):
Who is she?
Mama Q?
Mama gave birth little ways, nogirth, 60 years ago.
No, I don't want.
Mo Q is a line and I tried toalign this double end.
Tundra petty, haha, it's one ofmy mantras.
Mama Q, I'm the first one inand the first one out.
Memphis, Tend to Key is mywhereabouts.
Don't complain.
(00:46):
Man saying stick it to onetopic.
I reply your mind is verymyopic with Mama Q.
You need better optist pickingand choosing to copy me.
Are you inspired?
Definitely.
No need to whisper gracefully.
I like it better off key.
Now let's see.
Do you remember me?
M-o-w-m-a-q-d-w-e-d-w-e, that'smy name.
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Mama Q.
M-o-w-m-a-q-d-w-e-d-w-e, that'smy name.
Mama Q, hey, hi, it's me.
Mama Q, I welcome you toMoments in Q In Q today.
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Hawaii, black business, hudu,hudu.
And are you kinky or not?
Hi, hawaii, I give you thegreen of the day and I'm
explaining the why of thisepisode.
Fall, I think, is finally herein Memphis.
Tend to Key, y'all.
Okay, we have gotten like ourusual 80 degrees, but for the
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past few days, our high has beenlike what?
79 in the high 70s, startingoff the day.
I mean ending the day andstarting the day.
We've been hitting like the 50sand the 60s.
So I think fall is finally here, but if you from the south,
like me, who knows, this couldbe summer part two and stuff.
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So keeping up with theHalloween vibe, you know what
I'm saying.
I'm going to talk more aboutspirits in my hudu section to
explain the type of spirits thatwalk with you.
I'm also going to talk aboutalafia, because I know if I
mentioned her a couple times inthe episodes previous episodes
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so it's about that time for meto tell you who it is, who she
is, and I'm also keeping mypromise to talk about what pet
play is.
So hope it gets you in thefestive mood.
Yeah, oh, my gosh y'all.
So when I talk back to you intwo weeks it will be November
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2023 is on an MF and mission.
I tell you to come out, so Ihope y'all enjoy your Halloween.
If you celebrate all Saints Day, what else do we have?
The other murtos and your dumpsupper if you choose to have it
with your ancestors.
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Black business.
I highlighted black business tobring awareness and my
experience with said business.
Unless I say it, it isn't apaid ad.
I am open to pay dads, but Idefinitely want to highlight
black businesses.
There's enough money for all ofus to get it all right, y'all?
Alafia Stewart I mentioned herbriefly in previous episodes and
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I wouldn't be shocked if Ihadn't mentioned her in other
episodes as well.
So I'm gonna give you more infoabout her if you don't already
know.
Her ifa initiation was featuredon PBS and if you go to her
website, if I'm not mistaken,you'll have a clip of it so you
can see it.
So, if I'm not mistaken,because I did learn about her
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from juju bae and I've beenfollowing alafia on her social
medias and I attended a classwhich I'll talk more about that
that she hope she co-hosted withjuju bae, if I am not mistaken,
I think she did not grow upChristian.
So that's pretty cool, you know.
So, like with a lot of us,especially well, yeah, with a
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lot of us in America, and I knowfor sure, within black
Americans.
You know Christianity is eitherbeaten or brainwashed and
doctorated, however you want tosay within us, and I don't think
her upbringing was like that,which I think is pretty cool,
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because during one of herclasses that I attended, she was
trying to find a way totranslate into one of the terms
I think she was trying totranslate what a godfather or a
godmother does in connectionwith someone who knows about
Christianity.
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Like I said, it had been amoment, but let me tell you some
more things about her.
According to her Instagram,she's an author, speaker, a meme
mood woman, is an excellentcomedic timer, okay, and so when
I was in one of her classesthat she co-hosted with juju bae
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, it was via Catlin books, which, unfortunately, they are
closing their doors.
I think they, catlin books,used to be in NYC.
They closed their doors lastmonth, in September, and I
cannot remember if they're goingto be online only or what not,
but it's not a black-ownedbusiness, so I'm not going to go
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into too much details, but anywho I had attended the class in
that class was E for one oh one,and so I learned a little bit
more about the Orishas duringthat class, and I thoroughly
enjoyed it because, again, as weknow, per usual when it comes
to learning shoot, it almostfeels like learning almost
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anything new or quote unquote,trendy, but when it comes to
learning things.
There are so many charlatansout there and scammers and books
written by people who have noexperience in the religion and
then from what I heard becauseyou know all I know is who do
for the most part, becausethat's what I practice is that
some of the things that you gothrough your initiations, you're
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not supposed to share withanybody.
So it's like kind of difficultto be able, I feel like in my
experience, to be able to learnmore about African traditional
religion and get a general ideawithout you know being fooled by
people trying to make a quickbook, whether they know about it
or not and stuff.
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So it was pretty cool to justget a basic understanding of Eva
.
One of the things that I reallyreally like about Alaphia is the
fact that she is a hugeadvocate and you knowing your
godparent, where the regardlessif it's godfather or godmother
within the religion, andensuring that you do not, like
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I've said before, get abused andtaken advantage of.
Because, like I said before,sometimes when people come in,
leaving Christianity and go intoATR or even going to who do you
know, some of them arereleasing their trauma and
hoping they're coming over to.
This side is better.
I mean, for me it was.
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But you know there's stillthose people out there that
exist.
They want to take advantage ofyou.
So she's tried her best toadvocate for people when they
start over on this lovelyjourney with Ifa of course, from
her perspective, but you knowshe doesn't vet anybody by names
, but she does say you know, hey, you know, make sure you know
this person's first and lastname, don't sleep with the
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godfather like all these, thesethings.
That are rules, just to makeyou as safe as you can be on
this lovely journey, and that'sone of the things that I really
really like about her.
She also answered this question,which I'm pretty sure a lot of
people give, but the way sheanswered it really made me feel
a little bit better.
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And if y'all didn't know my boothing, talk about me a lot
because I quote-unquote ramble.
I don't think I do.
I just like to provide details.
But she was able to succinctlysum up a question that I'm
pretty sure a lot of Ifapractitioners receive and, as we
know, ifa is an Africantraditional religion and so
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there are people that are notAfrican or part of the spore
that's in the religion, and alot of times black people are
asked.
You know how do you feel aboutthat, and so I'm paraphrasing,
of course, but the way Alaphiahad said it on her website which
that's the part I'mparaphrasing, but she even said
it when I was in the class withher in juju bang is that
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basically, she's like you know,she's not able to explain the
Orishas and nor make that typeof judgment.
However, it does raise aneyebrow when you skip your own
ancestral practice into thispractice, and that's something
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for me that I'm.
I know I shouldn't be makingthis about me, but the next up,
the next segment about who do,doesn't pertain to this, so I
guess I'll go ahead and say it,but it's been a kind of like a
struggle for me.
If you haven't noticed, is thatwhen I had met Tony kill I know
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I talked about him in the earlybeginnings of my episodes is
that?
You know?
I was ecstatic to read abouthim and I had this assumption he
was a black person, because youknow you're talking about who
do or whatever, and kind of findout I'm pretty sure he's white,
but he has.
From what I heard, he has beeninitiated in other religions and
stuff and the way he goes about.
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It is definitely notwhitewashing, but I can't help.
But it kind of reminds me ofwhat Jill Scott had wrote about
in ebony oh my gosh, like maybea decade or more ago when she
was asked or she wrote about itwhat have you about seeing
interracial couples?
And she said it makes her justwins W?
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I N C?
E.
And that's how I fell to likewe're talking about who do, and
here on this majority blackpeople, which is great, but in
this class there are a couple ofwhite folks and stuff and I'm
always leery about them becausewe know with history they have
shown us who they are, with someof them having the ability to
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whitewash anything that isindigenous and Africans have
done not even just Africans, ofcourse the indigenous practices.
That exists with the originalpeople over the different
continents, that's, in the world.
But we know with colorcolonization how they have
whitewash, downplayed, demonized, etc.
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Etc.
The things that the indigenouspeople did, you know, and trying
to make a quick book offerspirituality and stuff, and so
whenever I would see them and IWould see that they are not like
, like after a Latinx person,etc.
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Yeah, we'll make me just lookat them a little bit crazy and
stuff, especially within who do,because with who do, as we know
, that was taught as liberationFrom Massa.
So why are you coming over hereand stuff?
And again, I don't know a lotabout ifa so I can't really
really talk about that, but yeah, but here and her, explain that
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really.
You know, put things intoperspectives because, um,
sometimes we do know that us, asblack people, we seem to be
very open to people Coming overwith us, whether it's part of
the divine nine or ourtraditions, our colleges,
everything, even though thethings that we Create was
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because we weren't allowed toenjoy them.
And then they get to come overand Something like I just said
sometimes when they do come over, they take over and stuff.
So, yeah, me too I would winceif there was anybody I'm in a
majority black space that is notAfrican or part of the spore
coming over because you justnever know are they an ally or
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they're a colonizer.
You know I'm saying so, um,that was a great way that, um,
she responded and stuff and, um,I don't know.
I feel like it put things inperspective.
So, with all of that being said, per usual her info will be in
the show notes.
Who do?
Who do I get to the root of?
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Who do Conjure of thoughts thatpop into my head about
spirituality?
Come on, get this work.
As you know, my boo thing, mylove of my motherfucking life
and I are watching GodfatherHarlem.
Okay, we're now on season three, and it premiered earlier this
year.
In one episode, santarria wasmentioned by a human Character.
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His name is Jose.
Okay, so Santarria is an ATRthat began in West Africa and
involved once our Africanancestors Were abducted and
dropped into Cuba.
It then spread into LatinAmerica and the US and, per
usual, that's all I can sayabout the religion, because all
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our practice is who do so?
During the scene, jose, josewent to a Mathrina to divine if
he should involve himself in abusiness deal with bumpy Johnson
.
At that moment, a thought cameinto my head to talk about
spiritual teams and divinations,and I went through my scripts
because you know, I gotta havethem.
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I am 99% positive.
I never mentioned spiritualteams and for sure I mentioned
divinations.
So first I'm gonna just quicklytalk about divinations.
So, um, spoil alert, but it'snot a big spoiler alert.
But Um, jose, he decided todivine and he said that he
divines before making any bigdecision and I also do the same
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thing.
I'll either divine I'll divinefirst and just a double check.
When I get the download I'lltalk to my sister, or I will
talk to Pamela to help me, and Ithought that was pretty cool.
Now in this scene I'm PoppyJohnson, who talks about having
a legichi ancestry.
He saw the madrina and I hope Idon't mispronounce this word
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also bogey, which from what Iremember learning, is a bad
thing.
So anyway, he kind of scoffedat Jose when he was like no,
we're not gonna do.
Also go bow, also go bow.
I'm sorry if I'm mispronouncingit.
I used to know what that word,I used to know how to pronounce
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it correctly anyway, and he waslike shells, you're gonna listen
to shells.
And that kind of threw me off,because I do Understand that not
everybody Practices who do oranything like that.
But I had made the assumptionthat if he had gola gichi
Ancestry did, that part wouldstill be in him.
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But who knows, maybe because,bump, he doesn't like to say no
and he wanted this business ideathat he just was like who would
want to listen to the orisha'sto help make a decision.
But I encourage people to dothat, not necessarily orisha's,
because, again, that's not partof my religion, but you know
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divine with your spirit teams inorder to have them assist you
with big decisions and see ifthey can even help you with some
of the smaller decisions.
I think the divination is veryimportant and helpful and
navigating this thing calledlife.
So Let me tell you what yourspiritual teams are.
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It's usually your ancestors,spirit guides and helpers and,
of course, your higher self.
Now, higher self You'veprobably heard that before,
definitely by me, but One of theother names for your higher
self is your conscious, yourguardian angel or, if you're
part of an ATR, your ori.
Okay, your higher self is theone that has been with you and
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will continue to be with youeach time you Reincarnate.
If I'm not mistaken, I thinkyour higher self is also your
original soul, and your higherself was also with you when you
decided to talk to the divineGod, the Creator.
However, you describe thisspirit when you told them what
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you wanted to accomplish here onearth.
Your higher self also allowsThings to happen or not happen.
So, for example, if you're likeyo higher cell, give me a
million dollars, and you talk toyour ancestor, hey's ancestors,
help me get a million dollarsand if your ancestors like, yeah
, I'll do it, if your higherself doesn't think that You're
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capable, ready for whateverreason to get it, you won't get
it, because your higher self cansee the future and you have to
kind of think and of course,I'll go into more details about
your ancestors.
You have to think of, of yourancestors, of course.
They were human, are human,obviously, and they are who they
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were when they were here onearth.
So, obviously, if they werepetty people, they're petty in
the spiritual world and they aremore so the type of people that
will give you.
You don't want to come to themor know should I do this?
You know they're more of thepeople who give you opinions.
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There we go.
Your ancestors are opinionated.
You know what I'm saying, justlike anybody else, right?
Your higher self is more like aparent.
They run it.
You know.
I remember, because you know wetalked about Jujubei and talked
about Lafiyah with her RishaGod and, if I'm not mistaken,
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she had said to the parent likeyou know, if you want to give
your child a piece of candy,well, not your child, but a
child, a piece of candy, youknow you would go to the parent
first and ask if that's okay.
So that's who your higher selfis.
Your higher self is the one whosays, yeah, you're native of
things that you ask for.
Okay, I talk to my higher self alot.
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I've even seen my higher selfin dreams.
It kind of reminds me of angels.
Let me explain.
So I've seen artisticre-inditions of what angels look
like according to the Bible,and if I would see an angel,
that would freak me the fuck out.
And some people say that'sprobably why in the Bible it
says do not.
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What is it?
Fear not.
I think that my higher self,when they visit me in my dreams,
I feel like they come indifferent forms to make me feel
comfortable.
That's it.
I've talked to other people andtheir higher selves have
appeared as different type ofanimals.
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Some has appeared as humans.
So that's what I think I'm justto make you feel comfortable.
They don't have names per se,but you can ask them to give you
a name.
I mean to give them.
I mean, wait, okay, they don'thave names per se, but you can
ask for them to give you a name,if that makes any sense.
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The name that my higher selfsaid I could call them was
pretty ironic to me because itwhen I looked it up, I was like,
are you serious?
When I looked it up, it allflowed together and made sense.
So higher self is hilarious tome.
They don't hold my hands as muchas I would like for them to,
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because I'm very needy when itcomes to me working with
spirituality, but when they docome through, they come through.
I can't meditate to talk tothem, I have to write or just
dream.
Meditation doesn't work at all,they told me.
It doesn't work for me tocommunicate with them.
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So, even though I'm about totell you to meditate, I
encourage you to meditate or atthe very least, call your higher
self and just like, be like,hey, how yourself.
Come to me and just starttalking and develop a
relationship, just like you will, with your other spirits, to
see what would work, a best wayto work for them to work with
you, because, again, they cansee the future and we do know
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that energy in the universe canchange.
So what?
So what they might say is thebest interest for you now might
not necessarily stick, but atleast you can get a glimpse into
the future so you can get ageneral idea of the things that
you want to do, see if you're onthe right path for whatever it
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is that you said, that that youwanted to do when you get here,
and so, so you won't quote,unquote, waste time.
You know, I think it's great.
So, yeah, per usual, encourage.
I encourage you to develop arelationship, talk to your
higher self and just see how itgoes from there.
The next one is your spiritguides and helpers.
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Pamela, she has said a best wayto describe them is they are
advocates for you, like JohnnyCarcassan RIP Johnny Carcassan
so they advocate for you and forme.
I don't talk to them,unfortunately, as much as I
should.
They work well with memeditating.
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They have no problem with beingthere when I meditate.
So the reason being is because,when it comes to your spirit
guides and helpers, they canalso be your ancestors, they
could even be your higher self,they could be ascended masters,
they can be archangels or otherbeings, and so for me, with my
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spirit guides and helpers, someof them are already part of
different teams already.
So for me, if I call on them,it's almost like I'm repeating
myself with talking.
Although one of them is notpart of my spirit, my other part
of my spirit team, so I shouldtalk to them more.
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But because two out of three Italked to already, I'm not as
consistent as I should be and Iwould like to be with them.
But I do want to talk aboutascended masters and what that
is.
And ascended masters are peoplethat were here on earth and
they made such a huge impact andthey did not want to
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reincarnate and decided to juststay as ascended masters to help
out people.
Different people will saydifferent types of ascended
masters.
Some people say Buddha is anascended master, mary Magdalene,
jesus mom.
Some people will say Jesus isand Ascended, not ascended.
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I'm so sorry.
Um was, yeah, ascended master.
I'm not for sure because myascended masters is not neither
one of those people and stuff,but again, um, they can use
their knowledge of things.
You're ascended Well, not justin the masters, but definitely
your spirit gods and helpers.
They can use what they have tohelp you together Navigate this
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lovely thing called life.
Your last ones, but not theleast ones, are your ancestors
and they can be from yourbloodline or the bloodline of
when you reincarnate it.
But this is hella differentthan what other people think.
So, for example, I hear it,read it a lot on spiritual tick
tock.
Who do tick tock, where whitepeople will say, well, I should
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be able to practice.
Who do, because you know thisbody of monsters being
reincarnated and I could havebeen black in a previous life,
and it's like but right now,boot thing, well, not boot thing
, but I'm sorry, but right nowboo you white, okay, um, I
believe that's one of the thingsthat's taught within.
Who do is and, I'm pretty sure,other African traditional
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religions, but definitely who dois that we, when we reincarnate
, we reincarnate within ourbloodline.
So my last soul was black, theone before that, like, and I'm
even black today.
So it's like what fuck you knowI'm saying, and also that's not
a cop out, because that's pastlives and we're currently talked
about your present life, okay.
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So, yeah, let's not use that.
But if you reincarnate, whenyou reincarnate it, um, you also
did have ancestors, so theycould also continue to walk with
you as well.
But nine times out of ten, ourancestors are our bloodline from
either now or our last soul,and so, within your ancestors,
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you can have ancestral teamswith them based on their
knowledge that they had on earth.
So, for example, if yourancestor was an accountant, okay
, you should expect that theywill be good with money.
You can be like yo Accountantshelp me keep money, obtain money
and know what to do with it andmake great money moves.
If they were a business owner,they were successful.
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Hey, give me the knowledge thatyou had tomorrow in your
business.
Successful If they were arealtor.
Or they were just good withflipping houses hey, you know.
Help me figure out how I cansell houses, or help me find a
good house.
You know herbalist or agardener?
Hey, you know what kind ofherbs will help me because I
don't want to use Westernmedicine.
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Or what kind of Way should Ihave my garden girl, because I
don't trust the food that isbeing produced.
Again, there's so many thingsthat they can do, which is why I
keep a list of my currentrelatives and even myself,
things that we like to do andthings that we're good at, and
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this is another thing.
Not only is it great for you totalk to your family about your
ancestors that venerates them,of course, and you get to know
more about them, but also forother reasons, such as who do so
.
You can know who you can askfor help and that could help you
a little bit when it comes toDivining, to try to have a
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spiritual team, and you can haveyour ancestors broken into
different ancestral teams If youhave yourself a good Diviner
who can do that for you and youcan figure out the different
ways again, how to navigatethrough this lovely thing that
we called life.
For me, I love having teamsbecause I like it better than
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just Relying on God's last Jesus, and I know how that sounds and
I'm okay with that because inmy logical brain I'm thinking
okay, so many people are prayingto God's last Jesus To help,
that's a lot of people, andwe're gonna put all that
pressure on him, them, they,whatever like really.
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But in Catholicism it's notlike that and and of course I'm
not very versed in Catholicism.
But one thing I do know thatthey use saints to assist them.
They'll have whatever samebecause I'm not Catholic, you
can look it up but a saint tohelp you find things, a saint
for you To get justice.
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So I don't think it's very farafetch or even incorrect that in
with in Catholicism they havedifferent saints to assist them,
or rishas, lawas and a voodooand within Eva.
So how does this seem so of usso much of a stretch?
If we have it within who do, Idon't see anything wrong with
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that.
And also, speaking of who do,technically, bits and pieces of
this is not quote-unquote who do.
But just bear with me.
The reason I say that isbecause we all have ancestors,
obviously, duh, and we all havethe ability to have a higher
self.
So just using that particularpart of connecting with yours,
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with your higher self, and orconnecting with your ancestors
is not Not Closed practice inthat aspect.
Just that small part.
Okay, just that small part,because we all have ancestors,
blah, blah, blah.
Now there's other parts,obviously, that is, who do and
who do only so you know.
But this part that I'm talkingabout is not.
So there's nothing wrong.
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I feel like there's nothingwrong with trying to connect to
them and Developing a teambecause, again, speaking for
myself, if my honorable andlying ancestors are here and
want to help me, what's wrongwith me having them help me with
the things that they're good at, with their Strong suits, their
strengths and stuff?
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And this also goes into youwanting, and I'm sure I've said
this before, but no biggie, Idon't mind repeating it and
reminding you that you also needto educate them about what's
going on in the world right now.
Okay, yeah, maybe, depending onwhen they were alive, they
probably did know about theconflict within Israel and
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Palestine, but they might notknow what happened today.
You know, I'm saying, and Ithink you definitely want to
educate them and keep themabreast of what's going out,
what's going on currently withinthis world that we live,
because I don't really believethat all my ancestors are like
literally like Looking down onme 24, seven.
That's kind of weird.
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And so, finn, I'm not the onlydescendant, I'm not the only
descendant, and If I don't tellthem what's going on in the
world, they might not be able tohelp me to the best of their
ability.
Because, let's think about it,due to inflation, prices have
risen and so, back in their days, who knows, maybe a G Got them
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very far here in 2023, a G ain'tgonna get you that far.
So you know you got to let themknow because, who knows, they
might be like what you need to3,000 dollars for you know just
all these things and stuff.
And, of course, you know, if youhave an honorable and
enlightened ancestor thatrecently passed, they could help
educate your ancestors as welland stuff.
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But there's nothing wrong againwith you talking to them,
communicating with them andkeeping them abreast with things
.
That's going on just again, sothey can get a general idea and
help you.
Because I feel like the moreInformation that you give them,
the more you talk to them.
Of course that's giving themenergy.
Of course that's bonding andstrengthening your relationship,
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that that you have with them,but also that is allowing them
to understand why you're askingfor what you're asking for and
why.
It might seem like, for example,an exorbitant amount of money
that you're asking for, oryou're asking for a job that
makes X amount of money.
It's like the job that you havenow is making a decent amount
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of money and it's like, oh, butI got bills to pay.
You know what I'm saying.
So, again, it all comestogether so that way that
everybody can help you to thebest of their abilities.
And we already know the higherself is the one who's going to
be saying yeah or nay anyway.
But at the very least you cando again is talk to them so that
when you use divination to talkto them, that's not taking up
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too much of their energy andstuff.
You want to help and give themall the information they can,
because divining and having themtalk to us can take up a lot of
energy.
So, yeah, I think that and hereis, this is not the best
metaphor that I'm going to use,but just roll with it, okay.
So another thing for me is that, like, isn't that empowering
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and great to know that as youwalk in the sand, you have I
don't know thousands offootprints behind you versus
having one set of footprintscarrying you.
You know it's great to have ateam because you know there's no
I in team.
Are you kinky or not?
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I'm a proud kingster of theBDSM community.
Let me tell you about thislifestyle to see if you want to
come over to the dark side.
We got candles, alright, aspromised pet play.
So just a reminder from lasttime pet players and furries can
exist in both circles, but theyare different.
Pet players become the animalversus furries.
They see the animals as youwalk in the sand.
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They see the furries.
They see the animals as humans,walking upright, speaking human
language, etc.
So years ago, when I was with mylocal kinky community, I went
to a few classes on pet play.
You know me.
I'm always open minded andwanting to learn and I figure,
why not?
So the now married couple thatI mentioned last Thursday
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episode taught the class.
He was a wolf and she was akitten, and usually when they
are in pet play mode, she is thequote unquote submissive, which
means things are done to her,but she is usually in kitten
mode because that's the animalthat she identifies, okay, and
her husband is the pet owner orthe handler.
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Now, from what I've seen, petowner and handler and trainer
are three different roles, butwe're just going to talk about
the pet and the owner, okay.
So during the class he told usthat she eats out of a pet bowl
and that you have to be carefulthat there are some.
I don't know how they foundthis out, maybe it's on the
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containers, but there are somefood that cats eat that is not
harmful for humans.
So sometimes she would eatquote unquote cat food, okay,
and so, like when they're in petowner mode, she walks around
all four with her cat ears andher cat tails, she meows and she
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is just seen as a cat andthat's it.
I've also seen her in the petcages, because when I was at the
X my now X dungeon.
They had pet cages andsometimes they would place their
pets in there or they would puttheir submissives in there.
You know, people are into somepretty cool things.
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Okay, I cannot remember if Imentioned this before, but it is
what it is.
I'm the dungeon.
They used to have this eventcalled simple, your fantasy, or
bits and bytes, and when you'rethere at that event you get
introduced to kinky stuff andthat lets you know if it's your
kink or not.
And I'd like that because that'skind of a cheap way to get into
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different kinks withoutspending money.
Because I mean, it can getpretty expensive unless you use
pervertibles, which I'll talkabout that another time.
But say like, if you thinkyou're interested in whips, well
, whips can be expensive.
And if that's not your thing asa giver or receiver, why waste
time?
You know what I'm saying?
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So I decided to go to their petplayroom because, again, I was
interested and, yeah, at thetime I was wearing faux locks
because I wanted to see how Ilooked with locks before I got
them, because it's a commitment,and so I wanted to be a lion
and y'all.
I do have a great imagination,but I ain't lying and when I say
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I wasn't feeling that kink.
So I know that pet play isn'tfor me, but who knows, it could
be for you.
So if you think that pet playis your kink or you're curious,
first you need to decide if youwant to be a pet or owner and
then after that, if you decideto be a pet, you need to figure
out what kind of pet you want tobe.
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You're not limited to kittens orcats.
I've seen a pet dog.
I've seen a horse which, or apony as they call it.
I'll talk about that, both ofthose in a minute.
When I met the dog he were adog collar.
He had the dog leather mask andhe had dog Well, I don't know
if their dog mitts, but leathermitts.
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So he was on all fours.
So him and the kid, they wouldjust have fun or he'll chase her
around and stuff like that.
It was pretty cute.
I've seen pony play before and Ikind of feel like that should
be its own separate king versusbeing under pet play.
But whatever, I'll briefly goover it.
So pony play is like it sounds.
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You know, you dress up as apony, you have what?
The bit in your mouth and youallow somebody to whip you and
you might also, if you're strongenough, has some carry somebody
because you're a pony.
So yeah, I think at one point intime the dungeon wanted to have
a kink human lingerie I hopethat's how you pronounce that
word, but that basically justmean a zoo and stuff to show off
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all the different pets andstuff.
So yeah, another thing obviously, if you want to be a pet, after
you figure out what kind ofpets you want to be, you can
always go to the dollar store tobuy products that are cheap
enough, just see if you areinterested in it, and then from
there, you know, of course, youfind yourself an owner that's
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willing to treat you like a petor want to train you, and, like
I had said, what they said aretrainers very self explanatory
they would train the pet on howto act.
Yeah, that almost sounds likean owner and stuff.
It's like I said, it's a prettyinteresting kink.
It's not a kink of mine, but Imean this is Halloween, so, who
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knows, you can be into pet playat during Halloween and nobody
will look at you any different.
So good luck, you filthy animal.
Well, I've talked enough, cueout.
M-O-W-M-A-Q-D-W-E-D-W-E , that's my name.
Mama Q.
M-o-w-m-a-q-d-w-e-d-w-e, that'smy name.
Mama Q, say it faster or slow,don't really matter, though the
U-E gets a minute.
Tongue tizzy, yo, hey, kindadizzy bro.
(00:25):
Who is she?
Mama Q?
Mama gave birth little ways, nogirth, 60 years ago.
No, I don't want.
Mo Q is a line and I tried toalign this double end.
Tundra petty, haha, it's one ofmy mantras.
Mama Q, I'm the first one inand the first one out.
Memphis, Tend to Key is mywhereabouts.
Don't complain.
(00:46):
Man saying stick it to onetopic.
I reply your mind is verymyopic with Mama Q.
You need better optist pickingand choosing to copy me.
Are you inspired?
Definitely.
No need to whisper gracefully.
I like it better off key.
Now let's see.
Do you remember me?
M-o-w-m-a-q-d-w-e-d-w-e, that'smy name.
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Mama Q.
M-o-w-m-a-q-d-w-e-d-w-e, that'smy name.
Mama Q, hey, hi, it's me.
Mama Q, I welcome you toMoments in Q In Q today.
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Hawaii, black business, hudu,hudu.
And are you kinky or not?
Hi, hawaii, I give you thegreen of the day and I'm
explaining the why of thisepisode.
Fall, I think, is finally herein Memphis.
Tend to Key, y'all.
Okay, we have gotten like ourusual 80 degrees, but for the
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past few days, our high has beenlike what?
79 in the high 70s, startingoff the day.
I mean ending the day andstarting the day.
We've been hitting like the 50sand the 60s.
So I think fall is finally here, but if you from the south,
like me, who knows, this couldbe summer part two and stuff.
(02:17):
So keeping up with theHalloween vibe, you know what
I'm saying.
I'm going to talk more aboutspirits in my hudu section to
explain the type of spirits thatwalk with you.
I'm also going to talk aboutalafia, because I know if I
mentioned her a couple times inthe episodes previous episodes
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so it's about that time for meto tell you who it is, who she
is, and I'm also keeping mypromise to talk about what pet
play is.
So hope it gets you in thefestive mood.
Yeah, oh, my gosh y'all.
So when I talk back to you intwo weeks it will be November
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2023 is on an MF and mission.
I tell you to come out, so Ihope y'all enjoy your Halloween.
If you celebrate all Saints Day, what else do we have?
The other murtos and your dumpsupper if you choose to have it
with your ancestors.
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Black business.
I highlighted black business tobring awareness and my
experience with said business.
Unless I say it, it isn't apaid ad.
I am open to pay dads, but Idefinitely want to highlight
black businesses.
There's enough money for all ofus to get it all right, y'all?
Alafia Stewart I mentioned herbriefly in previous episodes and
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I wouldn't be shocked if Ihadn't mentioned her in other
episodes as well.
So I'm gonna give you more infoabout her if you don't already
know.
Her ifa initiation was featuredon PBS and if you go to her
website, if I'm not mistaken,you'll have a clip of it so you
can see it.
So, if I'm not mistaken,because I did learn about her
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from juju bae and I've beenfollowing alafia on her social
medias and I attended a classwhich I'll talk more about that
that she hope she co-hosted withjuju bae, if I am not mistaken,
I think she did not grow upChristian.
So that's pretty cool, you know.
So, like with a lot of us,especially well, yeah, with a
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lot of us in America, and I knowfor sure, within black
Americans.
You know Christianity is eitherbeaten or brainwashed and
doctorated, however you want tosay within us, and I don't think
her upbringing was like that,which I think is pretty cool,
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because during one of herclasses that I attended, she was
trying to find a way totranslate into one of the terms
I think she was trying totranslate what a godfather or a
godmother does in connectionwith someone who knows about
Christianity.
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Like I said, it had been amoment, but let me tell you some
more things about her.
According to her Instagram,she's an author, speaker, a meme
mood woman, is an excellentcomedic timer, okay, and so when
I was in one of her classesthat she co-hosted with juju bae
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, it was via Catlin books, which, unfortunately, they are
closing their doors.
I think they, catlin books,used to be in NYC.
They closed their doors lastmonth, in September, and I
cannot remember if they're goingto be online only or what not,
but it's not a black-ownedbusiness, so I'm not going to go
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into too much details, but anywho I had attended the class in
that class was E for one oh one,and so I learned a little bit
more about the Orishas duringthat class, and I thoroughly
enjoyed it because, again, as weknow, per usual when it comes
to learning shoot, it almostfeels like learning almost
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anything new or quote unquote,trendy, but when it comes to
learning things.
There are so many charlatansout there and scammers and books
written by people who have noexperience in the religion and
then from what I heard becauseyou know all I know is who do
for the most part, becausethat's what I practice is that
some of the things that you gothrough your initiations, you're
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not supposed to share withanybody.
So it's like kind of difficultto be able, I feel like in my
experience, to be able to learnmore about African traditional
religion and get a general ideawithout you know being fooled by
people trying to make a quickbook, whether they know about it
or not and stuff.
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So it was pretty cool to justget a basic understanding of Eva
.
One of the things that I reallyreally like about Alaphia is the
fact that she is a hugeadvocate and you knowing your
godparent, where the regardlessif it's godfather or godmother
within the religion, andensuring that you do not, like
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I've said before, get abused andtaken advantage of.
Because, like I said before,sometimes when people come in,
leaving Christianity and go intoATR or even going to who do you
know, some of them arereleasing their trauma and
hoping they're coming over to.
This side is better.
I mean, for me it was.
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But you know there's stillthose people out there that
exist.
They want to take advantage ofyou.
So she's tried her best toadvocate for people when they
start over on this lovelyjourney with Ifa of course, from
her perspective, but you knowshe doesn't vet anybody by names
, but she does say you know, hey, you know, make sure you know
this person's first and lastname, don't sleep with the
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godfather like all these, thesethings.
That are rules, just to makeyou as safe as you can be on
this lovely journey, and that'sone of the things that I really
really like about her.
She also answered this question,which I'm pretty sure a lot of
people give, but the way sheanswered it really made me feel
a little bit better.
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And if y'all didn't know my boothing, talk about me a lot
because I quote-unquote ramble.
I don't think I do.
I just like to provide details.
But she was able to succinctlysum up a question that I'm
pretty sure a lot of Ifapractitioners receive and, as we
know, ifa is an Africantraditional religion and so
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there are people that are notAfrican or part of the spore
that's in the religion, and alot of times black people are
asked.
You know how do you feel aboutthat, and so I'm paraphrasing,
of course, but the way Alaphiahad said it on her website which
that's the part I'mparaphrasing, but she even said
it when I was in the class withher in juju bang is that
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basically, she's like you know,she's not able to explain the
Orishas and nor make that typeof judgment.
However, it does raise aneyebrow when you skip your own
ancestral practice into thispractice, and that's something
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for me that I'm.
I know I shouldn't be makingthis about me, but the next up,
the next segment about who do,doesn't pertain to this, so I
guess I'll go ahead and say it,but it's been a kind of like a
struggle for me.
If you haven't noticed, is thatwhen I had met Tony kill I know
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I talked about him in the earlybeginnings of my episodes is
that?
You know?
I was ecstatic to read abouthim and I had this assumption he
was a black person, because youknow you're talking about who
do or whatever, and kind of findout I'm pretty sure he's white,
but he has.
From what I heard, he has beeninitiated in other religions and
stuff and the way he goes about.
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It is definitely notwhitewashing, but I can't help.
But it kind of reminds me ofwhat Jill Scott had wrote about
in ebony oh my gosh, like maybea decade or more ago when she
was asked or she wrote about itwhat have you about seeing
interracial couples?
And she said it makes her justwins W?
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I N C?
E.
And that's how I fell to likewe're talking about who do, and
here on this majority blackpeople, which is great, but in
this class there are a couple ofwhite folks and stuff and I'm
always leery about them becausewe know with history they have
shown us who they are, with someof them having the ability to
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whitewash anything that isindigenous and Africans have
done not even just Africans, ofcourse the indigenous practices.
That exists with the originalpeople over the different
continents, that's, in the world.
But we know with colorcolonization how they have
whitewash, downplayed, demonized, etc.
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Etc.
The things that the indigenouspeople did, you know, and trying
to make a quick book offerspirituality and stuff, and so
whenever I would see them and IWould see that they are not like
, like after a Latinx person,etc.
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Yeah, we'll make me just lookat them a little bit crazy and
stuff, especially within who do,because with who do, as we know
, that was taught as liberationFrom Massa.
So why are you coming over hereand stuff?
And again, I don't know a lotabout ifa so I can't really
really talk about that, but yeah, but here and her, explain that
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really.
You know, put things intoperspectives because, um,
sometimes we do know that us, asblack people, we seem to be
very open to people Coming overwith us, whether it's part of
the divine nine or ourtraditions, our colleges,
everything, even though thethings that we Create was
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because we weren't allowed toenjoy them.
And then they get to come overand Something like I just said
sometimes when they do come over, they take over and stuff.
So, yeah, me too I would winceif there was anybody I'm in a
majority black space that is notAfrican or part of the spore
coming over because you justnever know are they an ally or
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they're a colonizer.
You know I'm saying so, um,that was a great way that, um,
she responded and stuff and, um,I don't know.
I feel like it put things inperspective.
So, with all of that being said, per usual her info will be in
the show notes.
Who do?
Who do I get to the root of?
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Who do Conjure of thoughts thatpop into my head about
spirituality?
Come on, get this work.
As you know, my boo thing, mylove of my motherfucking life
and I are watching GodfatherHarlem.
Okay, we're now on season three, and it premiered earlier this
year.
In one episode, santarria wasmentioned by a human Character.
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His name is Jose.
Okay, so Santarria is an ATRthat began in West Africa and
involved once our Africanancestors Were abducted and
dropped into Cuba.
It then spread into LatinAmerica and the US and, per
usual, that's all I can sayabout the religion, because all
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our practice is who do so?
During the scene, jose, josewent to a Mathrina to divine if
he should involve himself in abusiness deal with bumpy Johnson
.
At that moment, a thought cameinto my head to talk about
spiritual teams and divinations,and I went through my scripts
because you know, I gotta havethem.
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I am 99% positive.
I never mentioned spiritualteams and for sure I mentioned
divinations.
So first I'm gonna just quicklytalk about divinations.
So, um, spoil alert, but it'snot a big spoiler alert.
But Um, jose, he decided todivine and he said that he
divines before making any bigdecision and I also do the same
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thing.
I'll either divine I'll divinefirst and just a double check.
When I get the download I'lltalk to my sister, or I will
talk to Pamela to help me, and Ithought that was pretty cool.
Now in this scene I'm PoppyJohnson, who talks about having
a legichi ancestry.
He saw the madrina and I hope Idon't mispronounce this word
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also bogey, which from what Iremember learning, is a bad
thing.
So anyway, he kind of scoffedat Jose when he was like no,
we're not gonna do.
Also go bow, also go bow.
I'm sorry if I'm mispronouncingit.
I used to know what that word,I used to know how to pronounce
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it correctly anyway, and he waslike shells, you're gonna listen
to shells.
And that kind of threw me off,because I do Understand that not
everybody Practices who do oranything like that.
But I had made the assumptionthat if he had gola gichi
Ancestry did, that part wouldstill be in him.
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But who knows, maybe because,bump, he doesn't like to say no
and he wanted this business ideathat he just was like who would
want to listen to the orisha'sto help make a decision.
But I encourage people to dothat, not necessarily orisha's,
because, again, that's not partof my religion, but you know
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divine with your spirit teams inorder to have them assist you
with big decisions and see ifthey can even help you with some
of the smaller decisions.
I think the divination is veryimportant and helpful and
navigating this thing calledlife.
So Let me tell you what yourspiritual teams are.
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It's usually your ancestors,spirit guides and helpers and,
of course, your higher self.
Now, higher self You'veprobably heard that before,
definitely by me, but One of theother names for your higher
self is your conscious, yourguardian angel or, if you're
part of an ATR, your ori.
Okay, your higher self is theone that has been with you and
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will continue to be with youeach time you Reincarnate.
If I'm not mistaken, I thinkyour higher self is also your
original soul, and your higherself was also with you when you
decided to talk to the divineGod, the Creator.
However, you describe thisspirit when you told them what
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you wanted to accomplish here onearth.
Your higher self also allowsThings to happen or not happen.
So, for example, if you're likeyo higher cell, give me a
million dollars, and you talk toyour ancestor, hey's ancestors,
help me get a million dollarsand if your ancestors like, yeah
, I'll do it, if your higherself doesn't think that You're
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capable, ready for whateverreason to get it, you won't get
it, because your higher self cansee the future and you have to
kind of think and of course,I'll go into more details about
your ancestors.
You have to think of, of yourancestors, of course.
They were human, are human,obviously, and they are who they
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were when they were here onearth.
So, obviously, if they werepetty people, they're petty in
the spiritual world and they aremore so the type of people that
will give you.
You don't want to come to themor know should I do this?
You know they're more of thepeople who give you opinions.
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There we go.
Your ancestors are opinionated.
You know what I'm saying, justlike anybody else, right?
Your higher self is more like aparent.
They run it.
You know.
I remember, because you know wetalked about Jujubei and talked
about Lafiyah with her RishaGod and, if I'm not mistaken,
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she had said to the parent likeyou know, if you want to give
your child a piece of candy,well, not your child, but a
child, a piece of candy, youknow you would go to the parent
first and ask if that's okay.
So that's who your higher selfis.
Your higher self is the one whosays, yeah, you're native of
things that you ask for.
Okay, I talk to my higher self alot.
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I've even seen my higher selfin dreams.
It kind of reminds me of angels.
Let me explain.
So I've seen artisticre-inditions of what angels look
like according to the Bible,and if I would see an angel,
that would freak me the fuck out.
And some people say that'sprobably why in the Bible it
says do not.
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What is it?
Fear not.
I think that my higher self,when they visit me in my dreams,
I feel like they come indifferent forms to make me feel
comfortable.
That's it.
I've talked to other people andtheir higher selves have
appeared as different type ofanimals.
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Some has appeared as humans.
So that's what I think I'm justto make you feel comfortable.
They don't have names per se,but you can ask them to give you
a name.
I mean to give them.
I mean, wait, okay, they don'thave names per se, but you can
ask for them to give you a name,if that makes any sense.
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The name that my higher selfsaid I could call them was
pretty ironic to me because itwhen I looked it up, I was like,
are you serious?
When I looked it up, it allflowed together and made sense.
So higher self is hilarious tome.
They don't hold my hands as muchas I would like for them to,
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because I'm very needy when itcomes to me working with
spirituality, but when they docome through, they come through.
I can't meditate to talk tothem, I have to write or just
dream.
Meditation doesn't work at all,they told me.
It doesn't work for me tocommunicate with them.
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So, even though I'm about totell you to meditate, I
encourage you to meditate or atthe very least, call your higher
self and just like, be like,hey, how yourself.
Come to me and just starttalking and develop a
relationship, just like you will, with your other spirits, to
see what would work, a best wayto work for them to work with
you, because, again, they cansee the future and we do know
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that energy in the universe canchange.
So what?
So what they might say is thebest interest for you now might
not necessarily stick, but atleast you can get a glimpse into
the future so you can get ageneral idea of the things that
you want to do, see if you're onthe right path for whatever it
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is that you said, that that youwanted to do when you get here,
and so, so you won't quote,unquote, waste time.
You know, I think it's great.
So, yeah, per usual, encourage.
I encourage you to develop arelationship, talk to your
higher self and just see how itgoes from there.
The next one is your spiritguides and helpers.
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Pamela, she has said a best wayto describe them is they are
advocates for you, like JohnnyCarcassan RIP Johnny Carcassan
so they advocate for you and forme.
I don't talk to them,unfortunately, as much as I
should.
They work well with memeditating.
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They have no problem with beingthere when I meditate.
So the reason being is because,when it comes to your spirit
guides and helpers, they canalso be your ancestors, they
could even be your higher self,they could be ascended masters,
they can be archangels or otherbeings, and so for me, with my
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spirit guides and helpers, someof them are already part of
different teams already.
So for me, if I call on them,it's almost like I'm repeating
myself with talking.
Although one of them is notpart of my spirit, my other part
of my spirit team, so I shouldtalk to them more.
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But because two out of three Italked to already, I'm not as
consistent as I should be and Iwould like to be with them.
But I do want to talk aboutascended masters and what that
is.
And ascended masters are peoplethat were here on earth and
they made such a huge impact andthey did not want to
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reincarnate and decided to juststay as ascended masters to help
out people.
Different people will saydifferent types of ascended
masters.
Some people say Buddha is anascended master, mary Magdalene,
jesus mom.
Some people will say Jesus isand Ascended, not ascended.
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I'm so sorry.
Um was, yeah, ascended master.
I'm not for sure because myascended masters is not neither
one of those people and stuff,but again, um, they can use
their knowledge of things.
You're ascended Well, not justin the masters, but definitely
your spirit gods and helpers.
They can use what they have tohelp you together Navigate this
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lovely thing called life.
Your last ones, but not theleast ones, are your ancestors
and they can be from yourbloodline or the bloodline of
when you reincarnate it.
But this is hella differentthan what other people think.
So, for example, I hear it,read it a lot on spiritual tick
tock.
Who do tick tock, where whitepeople will say, well, I should
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be able to practice.
Who do, because you know thisbody of monsters being
reincarnated and I could havebeen black in a previous life,
and it's like but right now,boot thing, well, not boot thing
, but I'm sorry, but right nowboo you white, okay, um, I
believe that's one of the thingsthat's taught within.
Who do is and, I'm pretty sure,other African traditional
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religions, but definitely who dois that we, when we reincarnate
, we reincarnate within ourbloodline.
So my last soul was black, theone before that, like, and I'm
even black today.
So it's like what fuck you knowI'm saying, and also that's not
a cop out, because that's pastlives and we're currently talked
about your present life, okay.
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So, yeah, let's not use that.
But if you reincarnate, whenyou reincarnate it, um, you also
did have ancestors, so theycould also continue to walk with
you as well.
But nine times out of ten, ourancestors are our bloodline from
either now or our last soul,and so, within your ancestors,
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you can have ancestral teamswith them based on their
knowledge that they had on earth.
So, for example, if yourancestor was an accountant, okay
, you should expect that theywill be good with money.
You can be like yo Accountantshelp me keep money, obtain money
and know what to do with it andmake great money moves.
If they were a business owner,they were successful.
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Hey, give me the knowledge thatyou had tomorrow in your
business.
Successful If they were arealtor.
Or they were just good withflipping houses hey, you know.
Help me figure out how I cansell houses, or help me find a
good house.
You know herbalist or agardener?
Hey, you know what kind ofherbs will help me because I
don't want to use Westernmedicine.
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Or what kind of Way should Ihave my garden girl, because I
don't trust the food that isbeing produced.
Again, there's so many thingsthat they can do, which is why I
keep a list of my currentrelatives and even myself,
things that we like to do andthings that we're good at, and
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this is another thing.
Not only is it great for you totalk to your family about your
ancestors that venerates them,of course, and you get to know
more about them, but also forother reasons, such as who do so
.
You can know who you can askfor help and that could help you
a little bit when it comes toDivining, to try to have a
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spiritual team, and you can haveyour ancestors broken into
different ancestral teams If youhave yourself a good Diviner
who can do that for you and youcan figure out the different
ways again, how to navigatethrough this lovely thing that
we called life.
For me, I love having teamsbecause I like it better than
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just Relying on God's last Jesus, and I know how that sounds and
I'm okay with that because inmy logical brain I'm thinking
okay, so many people are prayingto God's last Jesus To help,
that's a lot of people, andwe're gonna put all that
pressure on him, them, they,whatever like really.
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But in Catholicism it's notlike that and and of course I'm
not very versed in Catholicism.
But one thing I do know thatthey use saints to assist them.
They'll have whatever samebecause I'm not Catholic, you
can look it up but a saint tohelp you find things, a saint
for you To get justice.
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So I don't think it's very farafetch or even incorrect that in
with in Catholicism they havedifferent saints to assist them,
or rishas, lawas and a voodooand within Eva.
So how does this seem so of usso much of a stretch?
If we have it within who do, Idon't see anything wrong with
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that.
And also, speaking of who do,technically, bits and pieces of
this is not quote-unquote who do.
But just bear with me.
The reason I say that isbecause we all have ancestors,
obviously, duh, and we all havethe ability to have a higher
self.
So just using that particularpart of connecting with yours,
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with your higher self, and orconnecting with your ancestors
is not Not Closed practice inthat aspect.
Just that small part.
Okay, just that small part,because we all have ancestors,
blah, blah, blah.
Now there's other parts,obviously, that is, who do and
who do only so you know.
But this part that I'm talkingabout is not.
So there's nothing wrong.
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I feel like there's nothingwrong with trying to connect to
them and Developing a teambecause, again, speaking for
myself, if my honorable andlying ancestors are here and
want to help me, what's wrongwith me having them help me with
the things that they're good at, with their Strong suits, their
strengths and stuff?
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And this also goes into youwanting, and I'm sure I've said
this before, but no biggie, Idon't mind repeating it and
reminding you that you also needto educate them about what's
going on in the world right now.
Okay, yeah, maybe, depending onwhen they were alive, they
probably did know about theconflict within Israel and
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Palestine, but they might notknow what happened today.
You know, I'm saying, and Ithink you definitely want to
educate them and keep themabreast of what's going out,
what's going on currently withinthis world that we live,
because I don't really believethat all my ancestors are like
literally like Looking down onme 24, seven.
That's kind of weird.
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And so, finn, I'm not the onlydescendant, I'm not the only
descendant, and If I don't tellthem what's going on in the
world, they might not be able tohelp me to the best of their
ability.
Because, let's think about it,due to inflation, prices have
risen and so, back in their days, who knows, maybe a G Got them
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very far here in 2023, a G ain'tgonna get you that far.
So you know you got to let themknow because, who knows, they
might be like what you need to3,000 dollars for you know just
all these things and stuff.
And, of course, you know, if youhave an honorable and
enlightened ancestor thatrecently passed, they could help
educate your ancestors as welland stuff.
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But there's nothing wrong againwith you talking to them,
communicating with them andkeeping them abreast with things
.
That's going on just again, sothey can get a general idea and
help you.
Because I feel like the moreInformation that you give them,
the more you talk to them.
Of course that's giving themenergy.
Of course that's bonding andstrengthening your relationship,
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that that you have with them,but also that is allowing them
to understand why you're askingfor what you're asking for and
why.
It might seem like, for example,an exorbitant amount of money
that you're asking for, oryou're asking for a job that
makes X amount of money.
It's like the job that you havenow is making a decent amount
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of money and it's like, oh, butI got bills to pay.
You know what I'm saying.
So, again, it all comestogether so that way that
everybody can help you to thebest of their abilities.
And we already know the higherself is the one who's going to
be saying yeah or nay anyway.
But at the very least you cando again is talk to them so that
when you use divination to talkto them, that's not taking up
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too much of their energy andstuff.
You want to help and give themall the information they can,
because divining and having themtalk to us can take up a lot of
energy.
So, yeah, I think that and hereis, this is not the best
metaphor that I'm going to use,but just roll with it, okay.
So another thing for me is that, like, isn't that empowering
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and great to know that as youwalk in the sand, you have I
don't know thousands offootprints behind you versus
having one set of footprintscarrying you.
You know it's great to have ateam because you know there's no
I in team.
Are you kinky or not?
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I'm a proud kingster of theBDSM community.
Let me tell you about thislifestyle to see if you want to
come over to the dark side.
We got candles, alright, aspromised pet play.
So just a reminder from lasttime pet players and furries can
exist in both circles, but theyare different.
Pet players become the animalversus furries.
They see the animals as youwalk in the sand.
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They see the furries.
They see the animals as humans,walking upright, speaking human
language, etc.
So years ago, when I was with mylocal kinky community, I went
to a few classes on pet play.
You know me.
I'm always open minded andwanting to learn and I figure,
why not?
So the now married couple thatI mentioned last Thursday
(33:29):
episode taught the class.
He was a wolf and she was akitten, and usually when they
are in pet play mode, she is thequote unquote submissive, which
means things are done to her,but she is usually in kitten
mode because that's the animalthat she identifies, okay, and
her husband is the pet owner orthe handler.
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Now, from what I've seen, petowner and handler and trainer
are three different roles, butwe're just going to talk about
the pet and the owner, okay.
So during the class he told usthat she eats out of a pet bowl
and that you have to be carefulthat there are some.
I don't know how they foundthis out, maybe it's on the
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containers, but there are somefood that cats eat that is not
harmful for humans.
So sometimes she would eatquote unquote cat food, okay,
and so, like when they're in petowner mode, she walks around
all four with her cat ears andher cat tails, she meows and she
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is just seen as a cat andthat's it.
I've also seen her in the petcages, because when I was at the
X my now X dungeon.
They had pet cages andsometimes they would place their
pets in there or they would puttheir submissives in there.
You know, people are into somepretty cool things.
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Okay, I cannot remember if Imentioned this before, but it is
what it is.
I'm the dungeon.
They used to have this eventcalled simple, your fantasy, or
bits and bytes, and when you'rethere at that event you get
introduced to kinky stuff andthat lets you know if it's your
kink or not.
And I'd like that because that'skind of a cheap way to get into
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different kinks withoutspending money.
Because I mean, it can getpretty expensive unless you use
pervertibles, which I'll talkabout that another time.
But say like, if you thinkyou're interested in whips, well
, whips can be expensive.
And if that's not your thing asa giver or receiver, why waste
time?
You know what I'm saying?
(35:39):
So I decided to go to their petplayroom because, again, I was
interested and, yeah, at thetime I was wearing faux locks
because I wanted to see how Ilooked with locks before I got
them, because it's a commitment,and so I wanted to be a lion
and y'all.
I do have a great imagination,but I ain't lying and when I say
(36:01):
I wasn't feeling that kink.
So I know that pet play isn'tfor me, but who knows, it could
be for you.
So if you think that pet playis your kink or you're curious,
first you need to decide if youwant to be a pet or owner and
then after that, if you decideto be a pet, you need to figure
out what kind of pet you want tobe.
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You're not limited to kittens orcats.
I've seen a pet dog.
I've seen a horse which, or apony as they call it.
I'll talk about that, both ofthose in a minute.
When I met the dog he were adog collar.
He had the dog leather mask andhe had dog Well, I don't know
if their dog mitts, but leathermitts.
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So he was on all fours.
So him and the kid, they wouldjust have fun or he'll chase her
around and stuff like that.
It was pretty cute.
I've seen pony play before and Ikind of feel like that should
be its own separate king versusbeing under pet play.
But whatever, I'll briefly goover it.
So pony play is like it sounds.
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You know, you dress up as apony, you have what?
The bit in your mouth and youallow somebody to whip you and
you might also, if you're strongenough, has some carry somebody
because you're a pony.
So yeah, I think at one point intime the dungeon wanted to have
a kink human lingerie I hopethat's how you pronounce that
word, but that basically justmean a zoo and stuff to show off
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all the different pets andstuff.
So yeah, another thing obviously, if you want to be a pet, after
you figure out what kind ofpets you want to be, you can
always go to the dollar store tobuy products that are cheap
enough, just see if you areinterested in it, and then from
there, you know, of course, youfind yourself an owner that's
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willing to treat you like a petor want to train you, and, like
I had said, what they said aretrainers very self explanatory
they would train the pet on howto act.
Yeah, that almost sounds likean owner and stuff.
It's like I said, it's a prettyinteresting kink.
It's not a kink of mine, but Imean this is Halloween, so, who
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knows, you can be into pet playat during Halloween and nobody
will look at you any different.
So good luck, you filthy animal.
Well, I've talked enough, cueout.
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