March 5, 2024 • 24 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
M-O-Double M-A-Q-D-W-E-D-W-E-E that's my
name, mama Q.
M-o-double M-A-Q-D-W-E-E,d-o-w-e-e, that's my name, mama
Q.
Say it faster or slow, don'treally matter, though the U-E
(00:22):
gets them in the tongue.
Tizzy yo.
Hey, kinda dizzy bro.
Who is she?
Mama Q?
Mama gave birth little ways, nogirth Several years ago.
No, I don't want mo Q is a lieand I tried to align this double
untundra.
P-e-h-a-h is one of my mantras.
M-o-double M-A-Q I'm the firstone in and the first one out.
(00:43):
Memphis Tendakie is my wordabout.
Don't complain, man say, stickto one topic.
I reply your mind is verymyopic with M-O-Double M-A-Q.
You need better opts, pickingand choosing, copying me, are
you uninspired?
Definitely.
No need to whisper gracefully,I like it better off-key.
Now let's see.
Do you remember me?
M-o-double M-A-Q, d-o-w-e,d-o-w-e that's my name, mama Q.
(01:12):
M-o-double M-A-Q, d-o-w-e,d-o-w-e that's my name, mama Q.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Hey, hi, it's me Mama Q.
I welcome you to Moments in QASMR episode.
In this episode I willtitillate your ear with my voice
and random sounds.
In Q, today's 60 Seconds ofHeaven, what's going on?
It's giving and croak on thejoke.
Oh man, what's going on?
(03:00):
In this segment?
I tell you what's going on inmy life since last episode.
Alright, so my blue thing love,my Mike Foxtrot life and I we
went to Nashville.
On our way to Nashville welistened to killer Mike's album
and you know a lot of peoplewere talking shit about his
(03:20):
album, like who the fuck iskiller Mike and why is he
deserving of rapper album of theyear?
And you know what?
To me it was a great album.
Boothay and I talked shit abouthim in heaven when I, boothay
and I just Boothay himselftalked shit about killing Mike
having features.
I guess Boothay wants to knowwhat to do as an artist.
(03:42):
He wants to know what an artisthas to say.
And can you believe it?
I used to think that way.
Like no, I just want you as anartist by yourself, because you
know, growing up with ramp beefand stuff like that in the 90s,
I was like preconditioned tofeel like you gotta write your
own stuff, especially if you'rea female rapper.
(04:03):
Sadly that trickled down to myregular life.
And not wanting to help,especially get help from me,
which begs the question doesmusic really influence us?
Like spiritually, yeah, I cansee it, but like reality wise, I
don't know.
Perhaps anyway that was atangent rambling, but now, as a
(04:25):
person still yelling, I seenothing wrong with help, as I
said many times before, same waywith music, because it's
someone that can write gourmettype of bars, might not, can
spit them on beat, though.
I can't write a song to save myfucking life, let alone a
commercial radio type of song.
(04:45):
I don't write like Nestle, okay.
I'm more of like a god.
I have a type of writer, youknow I'm saying you get it bars,
chocolate, whatever, okay.
So if the music is art, why notspend money if you got it on a
great masterpiece?
So yeah, I like his album afterthe first listen.
(05:06):
I will reiterate the importanceof help again when I get into
pop culture.
Next, when my boo thinkin I wentto Nashville we had so much fun
, he like he was likeencouraging me in a silly, petty
way because you know he's apetty motherfucker with like,
hey, let's burn this shit up,burn that money up, burn that
(05:28):
check up.
So I spent money on myself bypurchasing a few items.
Now I've been doing that latelycuz, as you know, for the most
part I don't spend money onmyself.
I prefer to use bill money andI am getting better but I don't
myself that I want to get out ofdebt.
So I don't want to ask him formoney and so therefore, I don't
(05:49):
want to use the money foranything but my bills and not
use it for myself.
So he teased me about spendingcuz, oh my gosh, I got these
pair of shoes and he talked shitabout these shoes.
I've had him for who knows,maybe about four years, and he's
like that looks a mess orwhatever.
(06:12):
And so I end up buying somenikes or whatever.
But like he teased me and wejust talked about it and it's
like, yes, I splurge, but Isplurged after my bills were
paid and that's the mostimportant thing, and you know,
it felt good to like spend stuffsolely on myself and, above all
, not asking for help.
(06:33):
Yeah, so oh, and lastly, shoutout to ancestors.
I'll be going more details withthe Saturday episode, but the
ancestors have been comingthrough hard and quickly for me
and I'm so grateful and sothankful.
Thanks y'all.
It's giving.
(06:54):
I'm giving you theencouragement to make it through
the week.
Let's tackle in the elephanttogether, one bite at a time,
all right.
So I hate that.
This like nice, friendly, well,maybe not nice, but friendly
(07:15):
team player and I'm a forgivingperson.
I don't like too much that sideof me and I wish it was in my
nature to be an asshole all thetime, or most of the time.
Excuse me, I try not to be thatasshole because I know, like
Eve, when I'm eating as a tissuemove just afford a bad
situation.
(07:35):
But you got to prove.
But thanks to therapy and meds,it takes a lot to click on
people.
People unfortunately takeadvantage of that and that's the
shit that I definitely don'tlike.
Always tell people to picktheir own battles and get some
boundaries.
In addition to that, I want toencourage you to remind people
who the fuck you are.
(07:57):
Recently, a lady tried to get meto do her job.
Mind you, I had already helpedher before I left.
So I'm with the cold workingwork out to leave.
She calls me.
I was going to turn around tohelp her.
Then my co worker said no,don't help her.
I agreed, I went in my car andwent home.
She called me.
I told her no, she told me shewas mad.
(08:20):
I said okay and that ended thecombo.
Oftentimes I ask for opinions onhow I handle situations after
the fact.
This time was no different.
My bull thing.
Wait on his opinion.
Then a thought came to mind.
She's using my kindness in myteam player type of attitude
against me.
I remember the while ago sheadmitted that I'm an outstanding
(08:42):
co worker when I'm in chargeand she would use it against me.
That honestly stuck with me andI felt like that was her intent
.
I can't prove it, though.
Also realized that as a 40 yearold, most people personalities
are the same, although I haveheard that I'm one of a kind
regardless.
I have met people that's likeher before because I ain't
(09:05):
evolved.
I'm still a nice, to a certainextent, type of person and I
always strike.
The people want to push me overbecause I don't always have it
in my mind someone's gonna fuckme over, so I'm not constantly
on guard about it.
I'm glad that go work or stopme, because there was a time I
had to stand behind and livethis lady.
She left without giving a fuckabout me.
(09:28):
So in my opinion, she's the typethat love to take over
conversations, love attentionand is a shit starter.
She also, and I also believethat because of her age, she
feels entitled to um impart thewisdom that she has, and she
wants to change and educate the,the young ones.
And that might be true that theolder you are, the more wisdom
(09:49):
you have, but I truly believe wecan learn from each other
regardless of our ages.
So, anyway, I say all that tosay be encouraged dealing with
users and jerks.
It just takes one time.
Usually put your foot down andthen we get the picture, unless
they are the ones that like topoke and poke the bear, which is
totally a different story.
(10:09):
Let's get it popping.
I blow out the bubblessurrounding pop culture and talk
about it.
All right, I am about to talkabout some things that I did not
see at all and I don't feel badabout it.
(10:32):
You've been for a while, so Iain't seen me a couple, because
y'all know I'm not a Tyler Perryfan.
Now, in the beginning, I ain'tgonna lie.
Yes, I saw a dying black woman.
I didn't want to see it, but myfriends at the time.
They did, and I continue to seesome more movies because you
know, I like to support my blackpeoples.
(10:53):
My favorite movie now granted,it's been a while I only saw one
time from Tyler Perry was whenhe had those white people in it,
and it's not because the whitepeople were in there, but for
what.
I remember the way that themovie was.
It was like different from itsusual shit, and I can't remember
(11:14):
I don't think my dad was inthere with whatever.
So, um, I think I stoppedsupporting him after the Raji's
movie, not the, not Agrimony,but the other one where she was
like what a drugard, orsomething like that.
Now, years later, I did see thetwo Halloween movies because me
(11:35):
and him he wanted to.
For me personally, I got tiredof him using Bible versus any of
his movies, and the plot was sofucking predictable I just
couldn't take it anymore.
So to me there wasn't anycomplexity in the characters or
the plot.
I got tired of what I viewedhim as fashion, fashion black
(11:55):
women, all while wearing a dress.
All in all, he's a black manhas featured black people in his
movie, so yay, aside from that,just where the book stops, I
agree with others that he needsa writing team.
I don't know he's reallysimple-tuning all, but, as I
stated earlier, there is nothingwrong with wanting help.
I assume other movies and or TVshows have lots of writers.
(12:20):
I understand the need ofwanting to maximize your profits
, but this is ridiculous,according to the comments.
I also didn't see the 50-part ofRisa Tiso TikTok.
As you know, I've been in toxic, abusive relationships so I
didn't want to be triggered byher TikToks.
(12:41):
So I am happy that she survived, you know, because, again, as
I've said before, not all of usmake it out of those types of
relationships alive.
I hope she heals and receivesthe healthy love that she
deserves.
What I didn't like is thatlistening to people like victim
Blamer for the things that shewas going through as she married
(13:04):
Legion.
I think I also talked about thefact that I didn't like how
somebody figured out who Legionwas and decided to like blast it
out there, because they feltlike oh yeah, how is it that you
get to know who this person isand the rest of us don't?
Now, me personally, again, issomebody who did not go through
(13:25):
what other survivors have beenthrough, where they have to be
afraid of their life.
Number one to me, that chick.
She was wrong for putting herbusiness out there.
And number two is fuck thebusiness.
It's about the sound.
I believe that different peoplecan show you different sides.
To the side of the asshole Imight see someone else might see
(13:46):
as a charming, enduring person,but at the same time, I feel
like it's their business toshare who this person is not
yours to like, invade theperson's privacy, like Residiza
used, I'm assuming, nicknamesand stuff for a reason.
But that's the problem with theinternet, where you can quickly
(14:08):
find anything and everythingabout someone if you get just
enough keywords to it and stuff.
So other people, unfortunately,was talking about Residiza and
blaming things on her, but to meshe was a victim and of course,
I did enjoy well, okay, notenjoy this part, not the right
word, but I did like that.
(14:31):
Some people were correlatingwhat she went through to what a
lot of women go through when itcomes to Christianity, because,
again, yes, I talk aboutChristians a lot, but I do think
that their whole religion is acult and I also think that the
way that some people grew upespecially women within the
(14:51):
culture of Christianity, I thinkthat's what has not allowed
them because they still arevictims.
But what has kind of like madesome women be the type of women
that they learn and stuff?
Whether it's judging otherwomen for living the lives that
they decide to live or justthinking that this man is going
to be a prince charming.
(15:12):
And, as I've said before, somany men will take advantage of
a woman's eagerness to getmarried and are going to be
submissive in all these thingsand use it against her.
So, again, I didn't read orlisten.
Well, I mean, I read commentsfrom other people and I heard
the highlights from other peoplethat I did not sit through.
(15:34):
What is that?
500 minutes?
Because it was like 50 partstimes 10 minutes and stuff about
it.
But I would not be surprised ifTyler Perry tries to make this
into a movie Anyway.
So what else?
I also want to say that I didn'tpay too much attention to
(15:57):
what's going on with ChiaSolarius from the breakfast club
and TS Madison and stuff, but Ido know that I am tired of
black women being the butt ofjokes and having few people go
up to defend us, so allegedlywhat I was hearing about on the
internet streets is thatCharlemagne, the god, had talked
shit about Risa Deesa and saidthat she was big bag behavior.
(16:21):
And I don't like that jokequote on quote joke at all.
And I don't like that old fatshaming, body shaming because,
like, this whole big bag is eventrickling down to my mini me
where if she eats too much she'slike, oh my gosh, I'm getting a
big bag and I'm like you areyoung, you are supposed to eat
(16:42):
so you can ensure you haveenough calories.
So that's the shit I don't like, and all of us have different
body size and stuff like that.
So as long as people arehealthy, what business of yours
doesn't matter.
And so, again, I didn't listenor look at the breakfast club
clip, but I heard about it fromother people.
So if it's true thatCharlemagne the god allegedly,
(17:04):
was talking shit about RisaDeesa and Chia Solarius didn't
even defend Risa Deesa, Ipersonally think that's pretty
much fucked up because it's likeyou're just gonna laugh at
these comments.
And so I'm assuming Tia Madisonwent in on Chia Solarius again,
as she should, and ChiaSolarius is upset and in our
(17:27):
feelings.
But a lot of people oh my gosh,a lot of people always like
talk about other people andthat's what annoys me and stuff,
and I'm proud of Tia's Madisonfor owning up who she is and
stuff like that.
Now there's something she saidthat was like a shocker to me,
that I felt like I didn't needto know.
But hey, if it's her story andit's her life and she wants to
(17:50):
share with us what's going onunderneath her clothes, that's
fine.
It's just, you know, for methat was just very personal, but
hey, it's her story and she'ssticking to it.
But like people have brought upthe fact that Chia Solarius has
been talked about looking verymentally, and so she, you know
(18:11):
she gets offended and upset, butwith the same breath she'll
talk shit about Tia's Madisonand other trans people and
things of that nature and I'mjust like sick and tired of it
for real.
Like the queer community theycome through for the black
community and stuff and it.
What do some black people do?
They totally ignore the queermovement, totally ignore all the
(18:35):
people that was part of thecivil rights movement, that were
queer, like all the people evennow who are the forefront
trying to make things happen andstuff, and it's like they're
always taking from me.
I feel like, you know, peopleare always copying our blackness
, especially us as black women,and trying to make it their own.
(18:58):
And you know, if I dounderstand that, what is it?
Copying is the best form ofshit the word escapes me of like
appreciation, whatever the fuckI'm trying to say, but it's
like all it would is convenient.
I don't like.
It's all black, like this untilsomebody starts talking about
(19:18):
their sexuality and or what'sunderneath their clothes and
it's like no, these people areblack.
Queer people are black.
They still need the love andthe appreciation and the shout
outs and the flowers for allthat they do for our community.
And it's so disheartening,annoying that just Larry's
(19:39):
continues to talk shit aboutwomen instead of like like
telling other people to stop ortrying to defend it, if that
makes any sense and stuff.
And all something like peopledo is call them to rock, to
re-names, ignore their names,that they go by, ignore the
pronouns and then when they getmisgendered, they get upset the
(20:01):
fuck.
And I've said it before that usblack people, especially us
cisgender black women, like we,can still get attacked for
people because there's nostereotypes, especially dark
women, that if you have muscles,people assault, that you're
masculine and now people willassociate us black cis women
(20:23):
being trans and that could Callspeople in egg violence on us.
So it's like we shouldn't bethat way, we shouldn't be
divisive, but whatever.
And as always, it seems likedark a blanket.
Black women and BBW women arejust for jokes and again, that's
the favorite thing that saysmama, we'll talk about, they
(20:45):
can't think of anything else.
But they will go about yourcomplexion, go about how much
weight that you have andeverything in your failures and
stuff, just because they don'tget that you're being different
and stuff.
And lastly, it's not a big deal.
Another thing that I didn'tinvestigate about, but it's no
surprise that people are alsosaying that when mechless diet
(21:06):
went to Japan well, I thinkshe's in Japan, but either way
she went to Asia that sheQuestioning her about anime and
how much she really knows anime,and then other women have came
out we like anime or it's like,oh yeah, guys ask me this stuff
all the time.
And I remember when Facebookcame out so many years ago, when
(21:30):
I was part of Facebook and Iwas into games and I try to join
a Facebook group about gamesand they had acronym on there
and I could remember what theacronym was.
So I had the moderator Messageslike what does this system mean
?
There's like you're not reallya camera if you don't know what
that means.
So I Immediately left the groupBecause for me it's like what
(21:55):
the fuck like?
How are you trying to questionwhat kind of camera I am?
But again, it was a prize.
This how I guess some man liketo prove that they are more, not
more, knowledgeable and startthings.
Then what all women are bytrying to ask some all these
questions as if we're in schooland stuff like that.
(22:16):
Like this is not the tea cap.
Why don't you keep asking meall these goddamn questions?
Croak on the joke.
That's where I give you mybestest jokes and we laugh
together, or nah, all right,today's joke.
It says when do bad rainbows go?
(22:39):
Prism, it's a light sentenceand give them time to reflect.
Well, yes, that's my cue toleave.
M-O-Double M-A-Q-D-W-E-D-W-E-E that's my
name, mama Q.
M-o-double M-A-Q-D-W-E-E,d-o-w-e-e, that's my name, mama
Q.
Say it faster or slow, don'treally matter, though the U-E
(00:22):
gets them in the tongue.
Tizzy yo.
Hey, kinda dizzy bro.
Who is she?
Mama Q?
Mama gave birth little ways, nogirth Several years ago.
No, I don't want mo Q is a lieand I tried to align this double
untundra.
P-e-h-a-h is one of my mantras.
M-o-double M-A-Q I'm the firstone in and the first one out.
(00:43):
Memphis Tendakie is my wordabout.
Don't complain, man say, stickto one topic.
I reply your mind is verymyopic with M-O-Double M-A-Q.
You need better opts, pickingand choosing, copying me, are
you uninspired?
Definitely.
No need to whisper gracefully,I like it better off-key.
Now let's see.
Do you remember me?
M-o-double M-A-Q, d-o-w-e,d-o-w-e that's my name, mama Q.
(01:12):
M-o-double M-A-Q, d-o-w-e,d-o-w-e that's my name, mama Q.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Hey, hi, it's me Mama Q.
I welcome you to Moments in QASMR episode.
In this episode I willtitillate your ear with my voice
and random sounds.
In Q, today's 60 Seconds ofHeaven, what's going on?
It's giving and croak on thejoke.
Oh man, what's going on?
(03:00):
In this segment?
I tell you what's going on inmy life since last episode.
Alright, so my blue thing love,my Mike Foxtrot life and I we
went to Nashville.
On our way to Nashville welistened to killer Mike's album
and you know a lot of peoplewere talking shit about his
(03:20):
album, like who the fuck iskiller Mike and why is he
deserving of rapper album of theyear?
And you know what?
To me it was a great album.
Boothay and I talked shit abouthim in heaven when I, boothay
and I just Boothay himselftalked shit about killing Mike
having features.
I guess Boothay wants to knowwhat to do as an artist.
(03:42):
He wants to know what an artisthas to say.
And can you believe it?
I used to think that way.
Like no, I just want you as anartist by yourself, because you
know, growing up with ramp beefand stuff like that in the 90s,
I was like preconditioned tofeel like you gotta write your
own stuff, especially if you'rea female rapper.
(04:03):
Sadly that trickled down to myregular life.
And not wanting to help,especially get help from me,
which begs the question doesmusic really influence us?
Like spiritually, yeah, I cansee it, but like reality wise, I
don't know.
Perhaps anyway that was atangent rambling, but now, as a
(04:25):
person still yelling, I seenothing wrong with help, as I
said many times before, same waywith music, because it's
someone that can write gourmettype of bars, might not, can
spit them on beat, though.
I can't write a song to save myfucking life, let alone a
commercial radio type of song.
(04:45):
I don't write like Nestle, okay.
I'm more of like a god.
I have a type of writer, youknow I'm saying you get it bars,
chocolate, whatever, okay.
So if the music is art, why notspend money if you got it on a
great masterpiece?
So yeah, I like his album afterthe first listen.
(05:06):
I will reiterate the importanceof help again when I get into
pop culture.
Next, when my boo thinkin I wentto Nashville we had so much fun
, he like he was likeencouraging me in a silly, petty
way because you know he's apetty motherfucker with like,
hey, let's burn this shit up,burn that money up, burn that
(05:28):
check up.
So I spent money on myself bypurchasing a few items.
Now I've been doing that latelycuz, as you know, for the most
part I don't spend money onmyself.
I prefer to use bill money andI am getting better but I don't
myself that I want to get out ofdebt.
So I don't want to ask him formoney and so therefore, I don't
(05:49):
want to use the money foranything but my bills and not
use it for myself.
So he teased me about spendingcuz, oh my gosh, I got these
pair of shoes and he talked shitabout these shoes.
I've had him for who knows,maybe about four years, and he's
like that looks a mess orwhatever.
(06:12):
And so I end up buying somenikes or whatever.
But like he teased me and wejust talked about it and it's
like, yes, I splurge, but Isplurged after my bills were
paid and that's the mostimportant thing, and you know,
it felt good to like spend stuffsolely on myself and, above all
, not asking for help.
(06:33):
Yeah, so oh, and lastly, shoutout to ancestors.
I'll be going more details withthe Saturday episode, but the
ancestors have been comingthrough hard and quickly for me
and I'm so grateful and sothankful.
Thanks y'all.
It's giving.
(06:54):
I'm giving you theencouragement to make it through
the week.
Let's tackle in the elephanttogether, one bite at a time,
all right.
So I hate that.
This like nice, friendly, well,maybe not nice, but friendly
(07:15):
team player and I'm a forgivingperson.
I don't like too much that sideof me and I wish it was in my
nature to be an asshole all thetime, or most of the time.
Excuse me, I try not to be thatasshole because I know, like
Eve, when I'm eating as a tissuemove just afford a bad
situation.
(07:35):
But you got to prove.
But thanks to therapy and meds,it takes a lot to click on
people.
People unfortunately takeadvantage of that and that's the
shit that I definitely don'tlike.
Always tell people to picktheir own battles and get some
boundaries.
In addition to that, I want toencourage you to remind people
who the fuck you are.
(07:57):
Recently, a lady tried to get meto do her job.
Mind you, I had already helpedher before I left.
So I'm with the cold workingwork out to leave.
She calls me.
I was going to turn around tohelp her.
Then my co worker said no,don't help her.
I agreed, I went in my car andwent home.
She called me.
I told her no, she told me shewas mad.
(08:20):
I said okay and that ended thecombo.
Oftentimes I ask for opinions onhow I handle situations after
the fact.
This time was no different.
My bull thing.
Wait on his opinion.
Then a thought came to mind.
She's using my kindness in myteam player type of attitude
against me.
I remember the while ago sheadmitted that I'm an outstanding
(08:42):
co worker when I'm in chargeand she would use it against me.
That honestly stuck with me andI felt like that was her intent
.
I can't prove it, though.
Also realized that as a 40 yearold, most people personalities
are the same, although I haveheard that I'm one of a kind
regardless.
I have met people that's likeher before because I ain't
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evolved.
I'm still a nice, to a certainextent, type of person and I
always strike.
The people want to push me overbecause I don't always have it
in my mind someone's gonna fuckme over, so I'm not constantly
on guard about it.
I'm glad that go work or stopme, because there was a time I
had to stand behind and livethis lady.
She left without giving a fuckabout me.
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So in my opinion, she's the typethat love to take over
conversations, love attentionand is a shit starter.
She also, and I also believethat because of her age, she
feels entitled to um impart thewisdom that she has, and she
wants to change and educate the,the young ones.
And that might be true that theolder you are, the more wisdom
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you have, but I truly believe wecan learn from each other
regardless of our ages.
So, anyway, I say all that tosay be encouraged dealing with
users and jerks.
It just takes one time.
Usually put your foot down andthen we get the picture, unless
they are the ones that like topoke and poke the bear, which is
totally a different story.
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Let's get it popping.
I blow out the bubblessurrounding pop culture and talk
about it.
All right, I am about to talkabout some things that I did not
see at all and I don't feel badabout it.
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You've been for a while, so Iain't seen me a couple, because
y'all know I'm not a Tyler Perryfan.
Now, in the beginning, I ain'tgonna lie.
Yes, I saw a dying black woman.
I didn't want to see it, but myfriends at the time.
They did, and I continue to seesome more movies because you
know, I like to support my blackpeoples.
(10:53):
My favorite movie now granted,it's been a while I only saw one
time from Tyler Perry was whenhe had those white people in it,
and it's not because the whitepeople were in there, but for
what.
I remember the way that themovie was.
It was like different from itsusual shit, and I can't remember
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I don't think my dad was inthere with whatever.
So, um, I think I stoppedsupporting him after the Raji's
movie, not the, not Agrimony,but the other one where she was
like what a drugard, orsomething like that.
Now, years later, I did see thetwo Halloween movies because me
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and him he wanted to.
For me personally, I got tiredof him using Bible versus any of
his movies, and the plot was sofucking predictable I just
couldn't take it anymore.
So to me there wasn't anycomplexity in the characters or
the plot.
I got tired of what I viewedhim as fashion, fashion black
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women, all while wearing a dress.
All in all, he's a black manhas featured black people in his
movie, so yay, aside from that,just where the book stops, I
agree with others that he needsa writing team.
I don't know he's reallysimple-tuning all, but, as I
stated earlier, there is nothingwrong with wanting help.
I assume other movies and or TVshows have lots of writers.
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I understand the need ofwanting to maximize your profits
, but this is ridiculous,according to the comments.
I also didn't see the 50-part ofRisa Tiso TikTok.
As you know, I've been in toxic, abusive relationships so I
didn't want to be triggered byher TikToks.
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So I am happy that she survived, you know, because, again, as
I've said before, not all of usmake it out of those types of
relationships alive.
I hope she heals and receivesthe healthy love that she
deserves.
What I didn't like is thatlistening to people like victim
Blamer for the things that shewas going through as she married
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Legion.
I think I also talked about thefact that I didn't like how
somebody figured out who Legionwas and decided to like blast it
out there, because they feltlike oh yeah, how is it that you
get to know who this person isand the rest of us don't?
Now, me personally, again, issomebody who did not go through
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what other survivors have beenthrough, where they have to be
afraid of their life.
Number one to me, that chick.
She was wrong for putting herbusiness out there.
And number two is fuck thebusiness.
It's about the sound.
I believe that different peoplecan show you different sides.
To the side of the asshole Imight see someone else might see
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as a charming, enduring person,but at the same time, I feel
like it's their business toshare who this person is not
yours to like, invade theperson's privacy, like Residiza
used, I'm assuming, nicknamesand stuff for a reason.
But that's the problem with theinternet, where you can quickly
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find anything and everythingabout someone if you get just
enough keywords to it and stuff.
So other people, unfortunately,was talking about Residiza and
blaming things on her, but to meshe was a victim and of course,
I did enjoy well, okay, notenjoy this part, not the right
word, but I did like that.
(14:31):
Some people were correlatingwhat she went through to what a
lot of women go through when itcomes to Christianity, because,
again, yes, I talk aboutChristians a lot, but I do think
that their whole religion is acult and I also think that the
way that some people grew upespecially women within the
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culture of Christianity, I thinkthat's what has not allowed
them because they still arevictims.
But what has kind of like madesome women be the type of women
that they learn and stuff?
Whether it's judging otherwomen for living the lives that
they decide to live or justthinking that this man is going
to be a prince charming.
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And, as I've said before, somany men will take advantage of
a woman's eagerness to getmarried and are going to be
submissive in all these thingsand use it against her.
So, again, I didn't read orlisten.
Well, I mean, I read commentsfrom other people and I heard
the highlights from other peoplethat I did not sit through.
(15:34):
What is that?
500 minutes?
Because it was like 50 partstimes 10 minutes and stuff about
it.
But I would not be surprised ifTyler Perry tries to make this
into a movie Anyway.
So what else?
I also want to say that I didn'tpay too much attention to
(15:57):
what's going on with ChiaSolarius from the breakfast club
and TS Madison and stuff, but Ido know that I am tired of
black women being the butt ofjokes and having few people go
up to defend us, so allegedlywhat I was hearing about on the
internet streets is thatCharlemagne, the god, had talked
shit about Risa Deesa and saidthat she was big bag behavior.
(16:21):
And I don't like that jokequote on quote joke at all.
And I don't like that old fatshaming, body shaming because,
like, this whole big bag is eventrickling down to my mini me
where if she eats too much she'slike, oh my gosh, I'm getting a
big bag and I'm like you areyoung, you are supposed to eat
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so you can ensure you haveenough calories.
So that's the shit I don't like, and all of us have different
body size and stuff like that.
So as long as people arehealthy, what business of yours
doesn't matter.
And so, again, I didn't listenor look at the breakfast club
clip, but I heard about it fromother people.
So if it's true thatCharlemagne the god allegedly,
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was talking shit about RisaDeesa and Chia Solarius didn't
even defend Risa Deesa, Ipersonally think that's pretty
much fucked up because it's likeyou're just gonna laugh at
these comments.
And so I'm assuming Tia Madisonwent in on Chia Solarius again,
as she should, and ChiaSolarius is upset and in our
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feelings.
But a lot of people oh my gosh,a lot of people always like
talk about other people andthat's what annoys me and stuff,
and I'm proud of Tia's Madisonfor owning up who she is and
stuff like that.
Now there's something she saidthat was like a shocker to me,
that I felt like I didn't needto know.
But hey, if it's her story andit's her life and she wants to
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share with us what's going onunderneath her clothes, that's
fine.
It's just, you know, for methat was just very personal, but
hey, it's her story and she'ssticking to it.
But like people have brought upthe fact that Chia Solarius has
been talked about looking verymentally, and so she, you know
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she gets offended and upset, butwith the same breath she'll
talk shit about Tia's Madisonand other trans people and
things of that nature and I'mjust like sick and tired of it
for real.
Like the queer community theycome through for the black
community and stuff and it.
What do some black people do?
They totally ignore the queermovement, totally ignore all the
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people that was part of thecivil rights movement, that were
queer, like all the people evennow who are the forefront
trying to make things happen andstuff, and it's like they're
always taking from me.
I feel like, you know, peopleare always copying our blackness
, especially us as black women,and trying to make it their own.
(18:58):
And you know, if I dounderstand that, what is it?
Copying is the best form ofshit the word escapes me of like
appreciation, whatever the fuckI'm trying to say, but it's
like all it would is convenient.
I don't like.
It's all black, like this untilsomebody starts talking about
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their sexuality and or what'sunderneath their clothes and
it's like no, these people areblack.
Queer people are black.
They still need the love andthe appreciation and the shout
outs and the flowers for allthat they do for our community.
And it's so disheartening,annoying that just Larry's
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continues to talk shit aboutwomen instead of like like
telling other people to stop ortrying to defend it, if that
makes any sense and stuff.
And all something like peopledo is call them to rock, to
re-names, ignore their names,that they go by, ignore the
pronouns and then when they getmisgendered, they get upset the
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fuck.
And I've said it before that usblack people, especially us
cisgender black women, like we,can still get attacked for
people because there's nostereotypes, especially dark
women, that if you have muscles,people assault, that you're
masculine and now people willassociate us black cis women
(20:23):
being trans and that could Callspeople in egg violence on us.
So it's like we shouldn't bethat way, we shouldn't be
divisive, but whatever.
And as always, it seems likedark a blanket.
Black women and BBW women arejust for jokes and again, that's
the favorite thing that saysmama, we'll talk about, they
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can't think of anything else.
But they will go about yourcomplexion, go about how much
weight that you have andeverything in your failures and
stuff, just because they don'tget that you're being different
and stuff.
And lastly, it's not a big deal.
Another thing that I didn'tinvestigate about, but it's no
surprise that people are alsosaying that when mechless diet
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went to Japan well, I thinkshe's in Japan, but either way
she went to Asia that sheQuestioning her about anime and
how much she really knows anime,and then other women have came
out we like anime or it's like,oh yeah, guys ask me this stuff
all the time.
And I remember when Facebookcame out so many years ago, when
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I was part of Facebook and Iwas into games and I try to join
a Facebook group about gamesand they had acronym on there
and I could remember what theacronym was.
So I had the moderator Messageslike what does this system mean
?
There's like you're not reallya camera if you don't know what
that means.
So I Immediately left the groupBecause for me it's like what
(21:55):
the fuck like?
How are you trying to questionwhat kind of camera I am?
But again, it was a prize.
This how I guess some man liketo prove that they are more, not
more, knowledgeable and startthings.
Then what all women are bytrying to ask some all these
questions as if we're in schooland stuff like that.
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Like this is not the tea cap.
Why don't you keep asking meall these goddamn questions?
Croak on the joke.
That's where I give you mybestest jokes and we laugh
together, or nah, all right,today's joke.
It says when do bad rainbows go?
(22:39):
Prism, it's a light sentenceand give them time to reflect.
Well, yes, that's my cue toleave.
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