S2: E3- Reed Amber: Stoked on S*x, Pleasure and Reframing Shame

Y’all know my podcast has a perpetual E for Explicit rating (just like my listeners!) but today’s episode is one you might want to listen to in private. Partly because it contains some topics that may be confronting for some listeners…but also because it may leave you feeling some kind of way.

I have with me today Reed Amber Thomas-Litman. Reed is an established s*x educator, s*x worker and p*rn director speaking up about women’s, LGBTQ and s*x worker rights. She is the co-creator and host of the multi-award winning podcast ComeCurious and her YouTube channel.

She’s been in the TV/film/adult industry for over 10 years both behind and in front of the camera and she hosts monthly meets ups for influencers/content creators in the sexual wellness space and tickle parties twice a year.

She is a body, nudity and mental health anti-shamer and an amazing f*cking advocate for vulnerability and better communication.

We talk about s*x and s*x work, kink and fetishes and how they differ, communicating your desires to your partners, taking responsibility for your pleasure, ethical porn consumption, reality vs. fantasy and bridging the gap, having difficult conversations, reframing our relationship to shame and more.

I so enjoyed this conversation and it left me with a LOT to think about. I can’t wait to hear what you think!

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