We're Having Gay Sex
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy
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April 21, 2025 • 67 mins
(TW // racism/domestic violence; skip 33:46 - 35:17 & 53:18 - 55:26 to avoid) This episode is a dialogue, listener! Sienna Hubert-Ross is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, actor, and writer who you’ve seen all over your TikTok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to be all over your BODY! In a unique episode, we are also joined by her best friend, comedy club manager, and secret lover Mae Neil in lieu of a co host. ...
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April 14, 2025 • 73 mins
(TW // SA; skip 43:05 - 56:40 to avoid) This episode is QUESTIONING, listener! Yvette Segan is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, and producer who performs in comedy clubs across the U.S., but today she’s in the apartment because she’s having some “performance anxiety” around women, IF YOU CATCH OUR DRIFT! We discuss questioning if you’re bisexual despite all signs suggesting that you definitely are, sexual trauma and ...
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April 7, 2025 • 72 mins
This episode is GRIMY, listener! Claire Sundbye is an amazing Chicago-based standup comedian, opener for Ashley, and hamster mom, but today she’s in the apartment for some DOGGYSTYLE (bedding). We discuss preferring to sleep and bang in a literal dog-bed, leaving embarrassing surprises in your soulmate’s toilet, taking a penis sabbatical as a lesbian, and how NOT to eat a whole sleeve of Oreos as your only meal. Ashley rides a cowg...
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March 31, 2025 • 70 mins
This episode is REJECTED, listener! Sunny Laprade is a hilarious stand-up comedian and trans woman who has been doing comedy with Ashley since she was 14, but now she’s grown and in the apartment to become 69!!! We discuss absolutely DISASTROUS dates with other trans people, the long journey of coming out as a trans woman, going through it while baring all on stage, and how there is nothing funnier than getting dead-named by your s...
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March 24, 2025 • 72 mins
This episode is MESSY, listener! Breanne Williamson is a content creator, comedian, filmmaker, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she is a journalist uncovering the truth as I tell the follow up to my CRAZIEST and MESSIEST hookup story ever! We discuss my first ever MMF (Masc-Masc-Femme) three-way, the insanity of how it came about, and how the boring city of Calgary is somehow the thirstiest city alive. Bre, who opened for me ...
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March 17, 2025 • 63 mins
This episode is deeply in love, listener! Jen Davis is an actor, content creator, and MY GIRLFRIEND, and today we decided to show you the visceral details of what we do together in bed: PODCAST! We switch up our usual format while the crew is on vacation and try out “Pillow Talk,” where Jen and I talk intimately from our bedroom in an idea that totally hasn’t been done the exact same way by hundreds of other creators. We open up. W...
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March 10, 2025 • 68 mins
This episode is traumatized & sober, listener! Emma Dalenberg is an amazing stand up comedian and writer who recently came out as a lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to put theory into practice! We discuss dating men AFTER coming out, how addiction and trauma can fuel such decisions, and how hanging out with Kylie Vincent WILL get you banned from your local coffee shop. Ashley fumbles a dishy dame. Kylie sets boundaries.
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March 3, 2025 • 53 mins
This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITTED gay sex stories about trans-masc...
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February 24, 2025 • 68 mins
This episode is undefiled, listener! Grace Reiter is an unfathomably hilarious content creator, comedian, and full-blown virgin, but today she’s in the apartment to destroy fruit because she needs this CHERRY POPPED! We discuss being a virgin in your mid-20s, beauty standards in straight vs. queer dating, destigmatizing sex when you haven’t had any, and how to invest in lucrative new opportunities like playing Minecraft. Ashley ban...
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February 17, 2025 • 72 mins
This episode is instructional, listener! Brenda Jordan is a spellbinding transgender comedian, content creator, and 2015 viral sensation who blew up by dancing at a mall, but today she’s in the apartment to go viral again by NO-PANTS DANCING with YOU! We discuss the do’s-and-don’ts when sleeping with a trans woman, overcoming the fetishization of trans women, plunging men into their own sexuality crises, and how long you have to be...
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February 10, 2025 • 75 mins
This episode is informative, listener! We switch up our typical format for a dedicated interview of Madam Tara Adkins, the manager of Nevada’s first legally licensed brothel — Mustang Ranch. We get into the nitty-gritty of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about organized sex work: how the business operates, how it does so safely, the life of courtesans, and the outrageous stories of the patrons who seek them out. This episode ...
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February 3, 2025 • 69 mins
This episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who have probably and literally whacked o...
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January 27, 2025 • 74 mins
This episode will give you the ICK, listener! Lizzy Cassidy (Don’t Tell, Cracked) is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Maddie’s best friend/comedic equal, but today she’s in the apartment for some queer sex therapy after a date that RUINED IT ALL. We discuss cringe-inducing dates with non-binary people, addiction, replacing drugs with sex and love after going sober, and how Lizzy needs to embrace her true identity that ...
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January 20, 2025 • 73 mins
This episode is genderless and asexual, listener! Irene Tu is a side-splitting comedian, writer, WHGS regular, and self-prescribed “nun” who never has sex, but today she’s in the apartment to spurn ace identity regardless. We go DEEP on philosophy this episode as we discuss rejecting both gendered AND genderless labels, reconciling how you perceive yourself vs. how people perceive you, and how the only thing stopping Irene from bei...
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January 13, 2025 • 64 mins
This episode is scandalous, listener! Our dear co-host and Canadian compatriot Breanne Williamson has RETURNED to the apartment from her mental health break, but today she’s in the apartment to break your BACK! We have a big catch up this week and discuss Bre’s sabbatical, lesbians in Florida, encountering vehement homophobes in the wild, and how Bre has been hiding a secret weapon: massive boobs. Even crazier, Ashley finally confr...
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January 6, 2025 • 73 mins
This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight another classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon!
It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from the "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the fi...
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December 30, 2024 • 81 mins
This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight a classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon!
Breanne Williamson dishes on her favorite dirty talk and sexting techniques, and re-tells the story of how she met her girlfriend of 5 years. We also get into the perks of being in an "opposite hand" lesbian relat...
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December 23, 2024 • 72 mins
This episode is for the bros, listener! Snow The Product is an incredible rapper, singer, and podcaster whose music has topped charts and gained millions of views, but today she’s in the apartment to get some views on your BODY! We discuss coming out late in life after having children with a man, being a woman in a male-dominated field, abstaining from sex when visiting in-laws, and how you should definitely NOT surround yourself w...
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December 16, 2024 • 68 mins
This episode is a philosophical one, listener! Abigail Thorn (House of the Dragon, The Acolyte) is an actor, writer, and content creator that dives deep into ideas on “Philosophy Tube,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to dive deep inside YOU! We discuss sexuality crises after good dates, the challenges of being a transgender actor, transphobia and freedom of expression in the UK, and getting banned from dating apps for b...
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December 9, 2024 • 67 mins
This episode is an egocentric one, listener! Fan-favorite Georgia Bridgers is an actor, content creator, hot gay jester, and dear friend of the WHGS podcast, but today she’s finally joining us LIVE IN THE APARTMENT to get frisky with she, herself, and hers! We discuss touching yourself to the thought of yourself, having Tourette syndrome, and the ultimate pain of hitting your head while cleaning up after cats. Ashley burns her cooc...
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