Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

Chesko (The Speech Prof) and Regan (F the Nice Guy Podcast) co-host and share social commentary and comedy about some of the worst people on the internet.

Episodes

July 1, 2025 55 mins
Regan and Chesko dive into a viral courtroom clip where a male lawyer accidentally calls a female judge "honey" in a condescending tone, leading to an awkward exchange that perfectly captures workplace power dynamics and casual sexism. They then share their own cringe-worthy professional moments, including Chesko's traumatic experience as a young professor when three students coordinated elaborate final speeches pretending to ...
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Join Regan and Chesko as they sit down with Holly Solem, creator and host of "Manthropology TV," to discuss her viral street interview series where she asks men the simple yet loaded question: "Why are you like this?"

Holly shares the unexpected journey of how a single post on Threads sparked a movement that led to her interviewing men on camera about masculinity. From the now-legendary Timmy "Bounce Back" interview (...
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June 2, 2025 56 mins
Regan and Chesko dive into the world of "golf widows" after discussing a viral TikTok where a husband turned his text exchange with his struggling wife into an AI song. They explore how normalizing this behavior hurts marriages, the difference between actual comedy and cruelty disguised as jokes, and why some men get defensive when called out for treating their wives poorly. Plus: tangents on pickleball, competitive dads at bi...
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May 26, 2025 80 mins
The episode touches on everything from 90s boy bands (with some nostalgic NSYNC vs Backstreet Boys debate) to the importance of taking criticism gracefully when doing social justice work. They also dive into Kid Rock's recent inflammatory comments about declining birth rates in the US, where he blamed "ugly" and "deranged" liberal women before unpacking the deeper issues behind such statements, exploring how they reflect broad...
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In this episode, Reagan and Chesko dive into the absurd world of "Timmy Bounce Back" and his viral rant about why men are "awesome" and women are supposedly "destroyers." Between fits of laughter, they unpack the toxic mindset behind these kinds of statements, examining the fragility that leads to such ridiculous claims. They explore how patriarchal systems actually harm everyone, the importance of intersectional feminism, and...
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In this episode of 'Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Show,' Regan and Chesko dive into double standards, bodily autonomy, and the right to exist comfortably in shared spaces as We discuss the viral gym clothing debate currently raging on social media before moving on to discuss broader patterns of misogyny, false accusations, and the weaponization of exceptions to enforce control over women's bodies.

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Chesko and Regan weigh in on the viral question sweeping the internet this week regarding 100 men vs. a silverback gorilla and of course connect it to some deeper conversations about red flags and toxic masculinity.

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April 28, 2025 68 mins
In this episode, Chesko and Regan analyze viral videos from the man suggesting funeral crashing as a dating strategy to debates about 'dad bods' and why some men refuse to listen to women's actual preferences.

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Chesko and Regan totally go off the rails talking about their love of Netflix's "Love on the Spectrum" while constantly interrupting each other with tangents (as usual). The hosts get deep about why they're obsessed with the show—relating hard to the awkward silences, info-dumping, and that whole desperate need to fill conversational space. Between Chesko's beard-pulling stems and Regan's shaky-cam rants, they dish on their fa...
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Regan and Chesko respond to an "alpha male" content creator who is just a lil guy, and a few more clips where self-proclaimed alphas claim women prefer sharing high-value men over being loyal to "betas." The episode concludes with lighthearted "would you rather" questions.

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April 7, 2025 59 mins
In today's episode, Regan and Chesko dive into the uneven expectations placed on women in relationships. From religious advice about opposite-sex friendships to shocking stories about exes demanding care after betrayal, they explore why women are expected to be martyrs while men face minimal accountability. They discuss the painful double standards in caregiving (with women 624% less likely to leave sick partners than men), wh...
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April 2, 2025 61 mins
Chesko and Regan discuss the intersection of politics and dating and dive into an article titled "Are femcels the new incels?"

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Today marks 1-year of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater! Regan and Chesko spend today looking back and reflecting on some of your favorite (and most controversial) episodes! Thanks for your support as we look forward to year two of building our wonderful community!

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March 11, 2025 51 mins
Chesko and Regan discuss some of the worst dating advice we've ever heard before cutting the show a little bit short due to Regan's daughter getting sick at school. Everyone is better now though, so enjoy the show!

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February 24, 2025 67 mins
Chesko and Regan spend this week breaking down yes another man screaming in his car about why he can't find a woman willing to be his mommy...or rather, his wife. 

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February 10, 2025 68 mins
Chesko and Regan spend some time break down video of a date gone bad where we see the REAL results of what happens when guys listen to the toxic manosphere dating coaches and actually manage to get a date.

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February 3, 2025 64 mins
Chesko and Regan discuss an AITA about a wife battling for her husband's love...but the other woman is his mom. 

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Chesko and Regan discuss Chesko's love for the Fourth Wing series and then delve into a video about insecurity disguised as boundaries before ending a bit early due to a fire warning near Chesko's house.

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Chesko and Regan do a deep dive on age gaps in relationships and the difference between dating someone who happens to be younger, grooming, and seeking out someone who just turned 18.

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January 13, 2025 51 mins
Chesko and Regan delve into the weird mind games men will play to abuse their partners and convince them they have value.

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