Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time

What’s it like to have your first sexual experience years or even decades after what society calls “normal”? In this episode, we bust myths about later-in-life first times with Dr. Amanda Morgan, exploring confidence, stigma, and the truth behind cultural stereotypes. We also share a listener’s deeply personal story of waiting until 31, navigating self-esteem challenges, and discovering intimacy on their own terms. From breaking sh...

We grow up hearing that your first time should be with someone you love and that if it’s true love, it’ll be magical. But what happens when reality doesn’t match the fairytale?

In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we unpack the myths, expectations, and emotional layers that come with mixing (or separating) love and sex. From why so many people link sex to intimacy, to what happens when those lines blur or brea...

What happens when your first time falls into a legal gray area?

In this episode, we explore the complicated intersection of sex and the law — from age of consent and Romeo & Juliet laws to the wildly different ways jurisdictions define what’s legal, what’s criminal, and what’s left in between.

Sexologist and ethicist Dr. Neil McArthur joins us to break down the myths, talk through close-in-age protections, and help make sense o...

What does consent actually look like during a first sexual experience? And why do so many people realize after the fact that it was never really discussed?

In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked reality that many first times happen in silence, shaped more by assumptions, pressure, and guesswork than clear communication. We explore how to navigate consent and communication during first sexual encounters, and how societal...

First sexual experiences can be messy, magical, confusing, or completely unexpected — and for queer people, they often come with extra layers of identity, uncertainty, and unspoken questions.

In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Mallory — a sexologist and educator — to unpack how cultural narratives, internalized pressures, and a lack of clear communication can shape queer first times. Together, we explore the myths, the realities,...

Join host Mary Jane on this episode of "Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time" as we delve deep into the intricate ways culture, religion, and societal expectations shape our first sexual experiences. Through captivating narratives and expert insights from UK-based sexologist Silva Neves, the podcast explores how virginity is perceived across the globe, breaking down long-standing myths surrounding it.

This episode also addresses ...

Welcome to Sexual Encounters, the very first time, where Mary Jane hosts an open conversation about the often unspoken emotional aspects of first sexual experiences. This episode delves into how these firsts shape our self-perception and relationships, featuring insights from renowned sexologist, Dr. Markie, who recently received the 2025 Sexuality Educator Award. Dr. Markie helps to debunk common myths about how we are 'supposed' ...

We all carry stories — from movies, friends, and late-night whispers — about what the first time should be like. But reality? It rarely follows the script.

In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we explore the gap between expectations and what really happened. From romantic myths to performance pressure, we unpack how culture, media, and misinformation shape first-time sexual experiences — and what it means when...

Welcome to Sexual Encounters, the Very First Time, hosted by MaryJane. In this episode, we dive into the diverse range of first-time sexual experiences that people have gone through. From the awkward to the sweet, and sometimes just plain cringeworthy, we break down the myths and expectations surrounding these encounters.

Listen as MaryJane shares personal stories and discusses these experiences with Dr. Markie, an award-winning se...

Welcome to "Sexual Encounters, the Very First Time," a podcast dedicated to sharing real, raw, and often hilarious stories about people's first sexual experiences. We delve into the sweet, awkward, and sometimes cringy moments that define these unforgettable encounters.

Join us as we feature true stories from guests of diverse backgrounds, exploring the good, bad, and everything in between. Our episodes also include insights from ...