Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time

What happens when intimacy expands beyond two people? In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, host MaryJane is joined by sex and relationship experts Dr. Markie Twist, Dr. Alex Iantaffi, and Dr. Allen Mallory for an honest conversation about first-time threesomes, throuples, ethical non-monogamy, and other multi-partner dynamics. Together, they explore the gap between fantasy and reality, communication, consent, ...

What happens when the moment you've anticipated for years finally arrives?

For some people, waiting until marriage is rooted in faith, culture, personal values, or a desire to build emotional intimacy before physical intimacy. But after months - or even years - of waiting, the first sexual experience after marriage can carry enormous expectations.

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In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, MaryJane and Dr. Jess O'Reilly explore the emotional and psychological layers of first-time oral sex - from awkwardness and performance pressure to consent, vulnerability, pleasure, and connection. A candid conversation about expectations, intimacy, and the experiences that quietly shape how we relate to sex and ourselves. Plus, a listener shares their unforgettable “...

What happens when your first sexual experience crosses culture, race, and expectation?

In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we explore intercultural and interracial relationships and first-time experiences, unpacking how attraction, curiosity, and connection intersect with identity, power dynamics, and dating across difference.

Featuring insights from Dr. Markie and Dr. Starlin Astacio, this episode dives into...

Everyone talks about their own first sexual experience, but what about being on the other side of it?

In this bonus episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we flip the script and explore what it feels like to be the more experienced partner during someone else’s first time. From nerves and pressure to tenderness, vulnerability, and emotional connection, we unpack the realities of intimacy, dating, relationships, an...

Everyone talks about first times, but what about the first orgasm? In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we explore the myths, surprises, and cultural baggage around orgasm, from why so many people fake it, to how porn and shame shape expectations, to what our bodies are actually capable of. We hear a powerful listener story about discovering liberation and pleasure in ways they never thought possible, and sexo...

What’s it like to have your first sexual experience later in life, years or even decades after what society considers “normal”?

In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we explore later-in-life virginity, adult first-time sexual experiences, and the stigma surrounding delayed intimacy. With insights from Dr. Amanda Morgan, we unpack confidence, shame, cultural expectations, and the myths people f...

We grow up hearing that your first sexual experience should be with someone you love and that if it’s true love, it will feel magical. But what happens when reality doesn’t match the fairytale?

In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we explore the connection between love, sex, intimacy, and relationships, unpacking the myths and expectations that shape first-time sexual experiences. From emotional at...

What happens when your first sexual experience falls into a legal gray area?

In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we explore the complex relationship between sex, consent, age of consent laws, and legal responsibility. From Romeo and Juliet laws and close-in-age exemptions to the different ways countries and states define statutory offenses, we unpack how the law shapes first-time sexual experiences and intima...

What does consent actually look like during a first sexual experience? And why do so many people realize after the fact that it was never really discussed?

In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked reality that many first times happen in silence, shaped more by assumptions, pressure, and guesswork than clear communication. We explore how to navigate consent and communication during first sexual encounters, and how societal...

First sexual experiences can be messy, magical, confusing, or completely unexpected and for queer people, they often come with extra layers of identity, uncertainty, and unspoken questions.

In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Mallory — a sexologist and educator — to unpack how cultural narratives, internalized pressures, and a lack of clear communication can shape queer first times. Together, we explore the myths...

Join host Mary Jane on this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time as we explore how culture, religion, and societal expectations shape first sexual experiences, virginity, intimacy, and sexual identity.

Featuring insights from UK-based sexologist Silva Neves, this conversation unpacks global perspectives on virginity, sexual shame, and cultural beliefs around sex and relationships, while challenging long-standing myths ...

Welcome to Sexual Encounters, the very first time, where Mary Jane hosts an open conversation about the often unspoken emotional aspects of first sexual experiences. This episode delves into how these firsts shape our self-perception and relationships, featuring insights from renowned sexologist, Dr. Markie, who recently received the 2025 Sexuality Educator Award. Dr. Markie helps to debunk common myths about how we are 'supposed' ...

We all grow up with expectations about first sexual experiences, from movies, friends, social media, and late-night conversations telling us what sex, intimacy, and relationships are supposed to feel like. But reality? It rarely follows the script.

In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we explore the gap between expectations and reality when it comes to first-time sexual experiences. From romantic myths and per...

Welcome to Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, a storytelling podcast about first sexual experiences, intimacy, relationships, and the emotional realities behind them. Hosted by MaryJane, this debut episode explores the awkward, funny, emotional, and sometimes cringeworthy moments that shape how we experience sex and connection for the very first time.

Joined by award-winning sexologist and relationship therapist Dr. Markie Twi...

Welcome to Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time - a storytelling podcast about first sexual experiences, intimacy, relationships, and the emotional realities behind them.

From awkward and hilarious moments to vulnerable, messy, and deeply personal encounters, this podcast explores the real stories people carry about sex, desire, connection, and their first time. Each episode features anonymous lived experiences and conversat...