Rising After Divorce | Emotional Healing, Reclaiming, Starting Over, Trusting God
Did your divorce feel like it didn't just break your marriage β it broke you? Like somewhere between the pain, the paperwork, and the nights you couldn't sleep... the woman you used to be quietly disappeared. Your confidence walked out the door. Your sense of value went with it. And deep down, you started wondering if real love was simply no longer meant for you. If that's where you are β you are exactly where you need to be. I'm Patty Martin-Guerra, and I'm not speaking from the outside looking in. I'm speaking as someone who sat in that same darkness. I know what it's like to carry the quiet shame of a failed marriage. To feel paralyzed by the thought of starting over. To lie awake asking God whether you were too old, too wounded, too far gone for Him to write anything beautiful with what was left of your story. But here's what I found on the other side of all of that: Wholeness was always waiting for you. It still is. Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is where the real, unglamorous, necessary work actually happens. We go deep on healing the invisible scars your marriage left behind. We name the cycles that kept pulling you backward. We rebuild, piece by piece, your identity, your worth, and your trust in God's plan for your love life β so that when the right person arrives, you're not just available. You're whole. You're grounded. You're ready. Each week I'll bring you the honest conversations nobody else is brave enough to have β the truths your closest friends can't quite articulate, your pastor tends to sidestep, and no search engine will ever hand you. Because you weren't meant to simply outlast your divorce. You were meant to flourish after it. ποΈ New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe now and let's take this journey together. Your story isn't over, sweet friend. The next chapter? It's only just beginning. Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? You deserve a love that honors you β and it's time to believe that's possible. Join our community and take the next step: Connect with Patty on Instagram β questions, conversation, and next steps: π π https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women Join our Facebook group - Dating After Divorce π https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361
Episodes
Have you ever found yourself scrolling through a dating app at midnight — not because you're ready, but because the silence in your house feels too loud?
Friend, you're not alone. And in today's episode, we're going to talk about something nobody told you to do after your divorce — fall i...
Have you noticed you keep picking the same kind of man... and getting hurt the same way? In this episode, we talk about the difference between dating from a wound and dating from a healed heart — and why most women don't even realize they're doing it.
You'll learn:
Have you ever looked in the mirror after your divorce and not recognized the woman looking back at you? Not because of how you look — but because somewhere along the way, you stopped knowing what you liked, what you wanted, and who you even were.
In this episode, we are talking about something most women are afraid to say out loud: I lost myself being his wife. And we are going to walk through why it happens, what i...
Have you ever said yes when everything inside you wanted to say no?
Do you ever feel resentful after giving so much — and then feel guilty for feeling that way?
What if the reason you over-give has nothing to do with generosity — and everything to do with a wound you haven't healed yet?
Ready to go deeper?
π Join the Dating After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey to...
You keep saying you're fine. But late at night, when it's quiet... you know you're not.
This episode is for the woman who has been holding it together for everyone else — and quietly falling apart alone. It's time to stop pretending. Real healing starts here.
- Are you tired of saying "I'm fine" when you are anything but?
- Have you been staying busy just so you don't...
You are not damaged goods because of your divorce....
Ready to go deeper?
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You are not starting over. You are starting better. And ...
Have you ever stayed in a situation — a relationship, a dynamic, a version of yourself — just because it felt safer than asking for more?
Do you second-guess your own judgment when it comes to dating because you still blame yourself for your marriage not working?
Have you ever heard "don't be picky" or "at your age you can't afford to be choosy" — and somewhere deep down, believed it?
Ready to go deeper?
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Did you do everything right after your divorce, you prayed, you cried, you kept going, and yet something still feels… stuck?
You're not weak. You're not faithless. And you are absolutely not alone.
Co-Parenting After Divorce: How to Protect Your Peace
If co-parenting with your ex leaves you feeling anxious, angry, or emotionally exhausted — this episode is for you.
One text. One phone call. One unexpected change in plans. And suddenly your entire day is derailed. Your heart is racing, your mind is spinning, and you can't focus on anything else. Sound familiar?
Co-parenting after divorce is one of the hardest emotional c...
Today is my birthday — and the best gift I can give you is the truth.
I found real love at 49. Not by luck. Not by magic. But by doing the work — even when I didn't feel like it, even when I doubted myself, even when I wondered if it was too late.
- β You feel like God stopped listening when your marriage fell apart
- β You are angry and ashamed of how angry you are
Tired of just getting through the day? Feeling like you should be further along by now — but the weight of everything divorce left behind is still keeping you stuck? Do you find yourself exhausted at night, not from living, but from simply surviving? What if the peace you've been desperately searching for... was actually closer than you think?
...In this episode, I sit down with Jamie Love to talk about the powerful connection between physical and mental health — and why caring for both is essential to moving forward in life.
Jamie shares her insights on what it truly means to show up for yourself, inside and...
Tired of living paycheck to paycheck?
Feeling like a failure because your divorce has also contributed to you being behind on bills?
Do you feel ashamed of not being able to manage your money?
What if the financial stress you've been carrying alone in silence... didn't have to stay that way?
In this episode of Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40, we're going somewhere tender — your finances after divorce. This m...
Learn what Rising After Divorce Podcast is about
Tired of meeting emotionally unavailable men?
Feeling like a failure after your divorce?
Avoiding dating because you are afraid you won’t find someone who shares your faith?
In this episode of Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40, we are diving deep into one of the most important and overlooked parts of divorce recovery, healing emotionally without losing yourself in the process.
This episode is for the divorce...
What happens emotionally and neurologically while you are in your mother's womb The three core questions every child is trying to answer before age three Why trauma doesn't have to be dramatic to be deeply real What inner child healing actually looks like — and why it changes everything about how you love
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time t...
Learn:
To communication better after divorce, relationship communication, inner child healing, divorced women dating, healthy communication, trust issues after divorce, emotional intimacy
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.
Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer...
Learn: Why your relationship status isn't your identity? The danger of an unrealistic checklist Why inner healing work is essential before partnership? Practical steps to prepare for godly love
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.
Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before...
How to stop repeating patterns when dating and begin a God-Led Relationship
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.
Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes.
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