Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Narcissist, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Again, God-Led Relationship
I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord.. For years, I believed ”love wasn’t in the cards for women like me” and I attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best. Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter. Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts. Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings! Schedule Your FREE Discovery Call - HERE Pre-register for the upcoming women's retreat in Orange County, CA - Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist Join our Facebook group - Dating After Divorce
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This episode is perfect for:
Women who feel guilty about having standards Women told they're "too picky" Women who need biblical validation to maintain boundaries Women tempted to settle out of loneliness
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- Your divorce gave you something priceless: wisdom, clarity, and zero tolerance for BS. That's not baggage—that's your superpower.
- Shift your mindset from "I'm damaged" to "I'm refined." You're not starting over; you're starting from a place of experience and strength.
- Use your divorce as a filter. The right man will see your past as proof of your courage and depth, not as a red flag.
- Date with boundaries and standards. You...
Praying for someone you know might feel weird. But that is how you make it real.
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Divorced women have something that women who've never been married don't have. Experience. Wisdom. Zero tolerance for nonsense.
You've been through the fire. You know what a relationship looks like from the inside—the good, the bad, and the "oh heck no."!
And that makes you dangerous. In the best possible way.
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to be...
Afraid of being alone after divorce?
Learn why settling for less out of fear of missing out keeps you from the incredible relationship God has planned for you. Discover how to overcome loneliness and trust God's timing in your dating journey.
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.
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HOW TO UNBLOCK YOUR BLESSINGS: A Path Back to Love 💕 Feeling like love has passed you by? Wondering if you're too broken, too damaged, or too late for the blessings God has in store? This episode is your reminder that your blessings aren't lost - they're just waiting for you to clear the path. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF:
You're divorced, separated, or healing from heartbreak You feel unworthy of love or happiness You're ready to s...
Are you struggling with setting healthy boundaries as a Christian? Do you feel guilty saying no or find yourself people-pleasing instead of being honest? In this episode, we dive deep into James 5:12—'Let your yes be yes and your no be no'—to discover what the Bible really says about healthy boundaries in relationships.
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HUMILIATION WOUND -THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS: What Actually Happened to You: INJUSTICE WOUND - THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS: What Actually Happened to You:
listen to the full episode to find out if you need to heal from these traumas and how they are affecting your current adult life in general, not only your love life.
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In this episode we explore how past betrayal trauma affects your current relationships, even with good men who are doing everything right.
We discuss the self-sabotaging behaviors many of us develop as protection mechanisms—checking phones, creating loyalty tests, keeping escape plans—and why these patterns keep us trapped in a cycle of distrust.
I share Monica's story, a woman who ended a healthy relationship because she could...
What is the Inner Child?
Abandonment Wound Humiliation Wound Betrayal Wound Rejection Wound Injustice Wound
Learn:
What Creates Rejection Wounds? and How to begin to heal from it.
This episode is for you if you:
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
You feel incapable of choosing the right man
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it...
Spotting Narcissists Before You Fall Again
Why your fear of dating again isn't about you being "not enough" 5 red flags that identify narcissistic behavior early The difference between godly love and manipulation How the Holy Spirit guides you toward healthy relationships Biblical truths to anchor your worth and decision-making
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Your Person Exists: Why the Wait Is Preparing You for the Love You Deserve If you've been waiting for the right person and starting to wonder if they even exist, this episode is for you.
As a life coach for Christian women navigating life and love after divorce, I see so many beautiful women losing hope in their waiting season. But what if I told you the wait has a sacred purpose?
Ready to Stop Waiting and Start Preparing?
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Normal (short-term symptoms not long after your divorce): Divorce memory loss, can't remember after divorce, divorce fog, post-divorce trauma, healing after divorce, divorce brain fog.
Can't remember details from your first year after divorce?
The fog is real. Learn why memory gaps are normal, how your brain protects you during trauma, and how to heal.
The Fog is real when going through such trauma as Divorce!
I am sharing how I ...
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
You feel incapable of choosing the right man
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know
If...
You're successful. You've built an incredible career, achieved financial stability, and created a life most people dream of. But when you come home after a long day, there's an emptiness. The one thing missing? A loving, caring husband to share your life with. In this episode, I'm opening up about my own journey—how I had everything at 49 except the right person. I'll share how shifting to a God-led approach to relationships transf...
Dating after divorce is complicated. Dating as a Christian single mom requires additional wisdom, clear boundaries, and a lot of faith. In this episode, we explore five essential steps that every single mom should know before opening her heart again.
Scriptures Mentioned:
2 Corinthians 5:17 Proverbs 4:23 Isaiah 40:31 Psalm 139
If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself years of disappointments doubting y...
Key Topics Covered:
Why comparison steals your God-given identity How comparison blocks your blessings and future opportunities Why comparison dishonors God's timing and sovereignty 5 transformative questions for breaking free from the comparison trap
Key Bible Verses Referenced:
Galatians 2:20 Psalm 139:14 Hebrews 12:2 Ephesians 3:20 Ecclesiastes 3:1 Romans 8:28
Resources :
One-on-one breakthrough coaching sessions: HERE Next Ste...
Why being too available kills attraction (and it's not about playing games) The unconscious message you send when you're always accessible How to build a life that naturally creates healthy boundaries 5 practical strategies to shift from "too available" to "appropriately interested" The mindset shift that changes everything in your dating life Why the right men will step up when you step back Mentioned in This Episode: The importan...
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