A c*nts guide to peace Podcast

What if the chaos in modern dating isn’t just bad behavior… but outdated genetic coding running the show?

In this episode of A Cunt’s Guide to Peace, I break down the wild Catfish documentary “Hey Beautiful” and use it as a case study for something I call outdated genetic coding — the old biological signals that once helped humans bond, choose partners, and survive… but are now colliding with the internet, dating apps, and digital ...

 Ever accidentally dated a “diamond mogul”… who turned out to be a financial black hole? 

Episode 2 of A C*nts Guide to Peace – Season 2 is OUT NOW and we’re diving headfirst into the wild world of Tinder Swindler Simon Leviev 

I’m unpacking the chaos, the manipulation, and my spicy little theory about how our outdated genetic coding might actually make us WAY more vulnerable to smooth-talking con artists than we’d like to admit.

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Have you ever looked back at an old… let’s call them a chapter… and thought, with a full-body shudder, “why on earth did I ever find that smouldering skip-fire attractive?” Well, welcome to Season Two of A Cnt’s Guide to Peace, in which I present my perfectly serious, entirely “academic” thesis: that many of our worst dating decisions aren’t personal failings at all, but the result of outdated biological software still running in t...

🎙️ New Episode: “Sober vs. Cali Sober” Longtime sober legend (and rock star) Tommy Vext drops by the studio - and what started as a quick hello turned into a full-on debate! We dive into the whole “sober vs. Cali sober” conversation — why I don’t totally hate the term (even if, let’s be real, you can’t reinvent “sober”), and why I think scaling back before getting fully clean can actually be part of the process. Tommy, who’s hardc...

I could try to explain the absolute disaster that was this flight - BOTH ways - but where do I even begin? Let’s just say I’ve enjoyed years of smooth, carefree travel… so apparently the universe decided I was long overdue for a train wreck in the sky. And oh, did it deliver. Here’s the kicker: among the things that went missing in the lost luggage was the portable podcast gear we were going to use for the Paul Harris interview in ...

POV:You’re abandoned as a newborn in Thailand - and your rescuers discover you have no legs.

Fast forward 30+ years… you’re a recording holding professional skater?

Meet Kanya Sesser - one of the most inspiring, magnetic people I’ve ever met. She radiates positivity; when she walks (or rather, rolls) into a room, everyone’s energy rises to meet hers.

In this episode, we covered it all. Honestly, I barely had to ask questions - this...

Picture this: you’re in your first year of sobriety, and you find out your father-the pilot you grew up both fearing and loving-took his own life by crashing his plane. Now imagine a childhood where food was withheld because he thought you were overweight, where you learned to sneak and hide just to eat. Imagine being disowned when you developed the very same addictions and disorders he struggled with himself. Layer that with the c...

I had the absolute joy of sitting down with one of my favorite humans, the incomparable actor Max Martini! My first encounter with Max wasn’t in real life but on screen—through his unforgettable role as Mac in The Unit, one of my all-time favorite characters. Years later, life tossed in a twist: I moved to NYC, started dating someone, and—surprise—it turned out he was a close friend of Max’s. We crossed paths briefly, and then near...

 Sebastian Siegel is back on the pod! His first appearance stirred the pot, so of course, I had to invite him again. Yet again, we dive into the messy, magical art of finding your way back from self-abandonment . Sebastian unpacks his TED Talk “The Invisible Force Driving Our Lives & 5 Stages of Love” while I toss in questions inspired by my book A Cunt’s Guide to Peace. Buckle up-it’s equal parts wild, raw, and heart-opening.

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What an episode!

You may know Tommy Vext as the powerhouse lead singer of Bad Wolves, the band that rose to global fame with their unforgettable cover of The Cranberries’ “Zombie.” Over the course of his career, he’s achieved Diamond, Gold, and Platinum status multiple times, and has also fronted bands including Divine Heresy, Snot, and Westfield Massacre.

I, however, first came across Tommy in a different light-through his moving ...

Rashaad has always been something of an intriguing figure in my life. As he shares in our interview, I first noticed him years ago at the gym-back when I was still drinking heavily and carrying extra weight. We’d occasionally cross paths at Ralph’s too; his cart neatly stacked with nourishing food to fuel his training, mine filled with wine and whatever indulgence I craved to soothe the aftermath of a hangover.

For years, that was ...

The fascinating thing about having friends like Firefly is that they’re a bit like the sun. It rises and sets every single day, and because it’s always there, we forget the sheer magic of it. That’s how I (and I suspect many others) perceive Firefly. On one hand, she’s the friend I’ll have wonderfully long, meandering chats with whenever our schedules align. On the other, she’s this radiant force of nature effortlessly brightening...

the artist episode,how deliciously overdue.

As some of you know, I’m an abstract surrealist painter, and in sobriety, I’ve found my way back to the studio with a clarity and reverence I hadn’t known before. Art has always been my portal, but sobriety gifted me the stillness to step through it properly. It’s one of those strange and sacred gifts of a clear mind like suddenly being fluent in your own soul again.

Joining me today is t...

Oh, don’t mind us,just two women fan-girling over each other in broad daylight!  Marissa is one of those skaters I quietly admired from a distance at the park, unsure exactly what drew me in beyond her obvious talent on wheels. Maybe it was the way the whole space seemed to light up when she was around-the sincerity in her hugs, that radiant smile that made everyone feel seen. We only just properly connected, and I honestly don’t k...

This was such a beautiful, heart-filled interview! I always try to bring you guests I think will leave you inspired and with hope.

Meet my guest, the lovely Sammy Myer,  the founder of papasweater  shares how her love for design first blossomed through wardrobe styling until people around her started pointing out what was clear all along: she was thinking, moving, and creating like a true designer.

She opens up about the profound l...

Raise your hand if you happened to be at the center of one of the largest federal drug smuggling cases in modern history, outmaneuvered the notorious prisoner’s dilemma, represented yourself in court, and managed to have a 30-year sentence reduced to 17—ultimately walking free after just 12 years served. Then, against all odds, you not only rebuilt your life but soared to the top, earning a coveted spot on the Forbes list within fi...

This was such a special interview—one I genuinely cherished. I was deeply moved by Dakota Dean’s courage, honesty, and willingness to speak so openly about the darker chapters of her life, and the raw, often gut-wrenching reality of her sobriety journey. Dakota is a remarkable woman who has navigated and transcended many versions of herself—from the world of OnlyFans and Instagram influencer world to the grounded, intentional life ...

And we’re off to Bali! Joining me for this episode is the incredible Anth Lowther—a true force of health, authenticity, and transformation. Anths mission? World peace through radical self-love. He’s spent the last 15+ years sober, learning what it really means to honor his body, live in integrity, and help others do the same. He’s also the visionary behind the wildly successful Rise and Shine sober parties—uplifting, conscious even...