The Frequency of Yes

The Frequency of Yes

You’re not here to play by the old rules of business. You’re here to rewrite them. The Frequency of Yes is a podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs who are done with hustle, burnout, and strategies that override their truth. Hosted by business strategist and energetic visionary Kirstin Carey, each episode helps you reconnect with the deep, clear “yes” in your body—and build from there. We talk feminine fire, unapologetic clarity, and the real strategy behind creating success that actually feels good. Through channeled insights, grounded teachings, and real stories of transformation, you’ll walk away clearer, braver, and more connected to what you’re truly here to build. This is how we architect a new era of feminine-led business.

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April 23, 2026 22 mins

You have handled everything. The business, the hard seasons, the years when no one else was going to do it. That identity feels good. It makes you feel important, worthy, and accomplished. And in the Matriarch Phase, it is the exact thing making this transition harder than it needs to be.

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Something is off. Not in a way you can easily name. You are not burned out in the way people talk about burnout. You are not falling apart. But you are not feeling like yourself, and when the symptoms show up, that voice kicks in. The one that makes you wonder if maybe you just can’t hack it anymore.

That voice is wrong. But knowing that doesn’t make it quiet.

This episode is about the Matr...

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You did not build what you have built to be forced out of it. Not by the market. Not by your competitors. And not by your own biology.

But that is the default trajectory for women who have spent the building years running on output without actively managing the resilience portfolio.

This episode introduces the five resilience categories that determine whether the next twenty or thirty years...

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You're doing everything right and something still feels off. Your decisions feel harder. Your threshold is lower. The push-through strategy that built your business is no longer producing the same results, and nobody has given you a useful explanation for why.

This episode...

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March 26, 2026 30 mins

You've been calling it stress. Burnout. A rough season. But underneath that explanation is a quieter question you haven't quite said out loud: what if something is wrong with me?

This episode is for the woman who has been living in perimenopause without knowing it. Not because she hasn't been paying attention, but because perimenopause doesn't look the way she was taught to expect. It shows up as brain f...

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The redesign is already in motion. The only variable is whether you're in the driver's seat or getting dragged. If you've been sensing something needs to shift but you can't put words to it yet, this episode is the one you've been waiting for.

This is where the Matriarch P...

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Many accomplished women reach midlife and notice something unexpected.

The drive that fueled their success begins to fade. Capacity changes. Misalignment becomes impossible to ignore.

Most women assume they are burned out.

But what if these shifts are actually signals of a leadership transition?

In this episode of The Frequency of Yes, Kirstin Carey explains the three signs that indicate a woman has entered what she calls The Matri...

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If you've built the business, hit the numbers, and checked every box, but you keep quietly asking yourself "What's the point?", that question is not a crisis. It's the Matriarch Phase announcing itself.

This episode names what's happening when the business you built ...

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If you're 45-60 and something shifted, you're done grinding like you used to, but you're not ready to retire, then you're living in a phase that didn't exist for any generation before us.

I call it the Matriarch Phase.

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The Truth Behind Your Patterns: What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You

In this episode, we explore why patterns that frustrate you the most are often your nervous system’s way of protecting you. You’ll learn how to read the mirror messages in your life, identify unresolved trauma wounds, and see the truth behind the false beliefs shaping your choices.

We dive into a powerful client story about hidden protection patterns, how trauma c...

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Most women don’t realize they’re dysregulated until their body forces a reset. Mine came in the form of an 85 hour water fast.

In this episode, I’m sharing how I slipped into old patterns without noticing, how the fast recalibrated my entire nervous system, and why regulation is the silent driver behind clarity, creativity, and cash flow for women founders.

You’ll learn the five signs your system is calling for a reset, how dysregu...

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If you’re exhausted, foggy, or frustrated in your business, you’re not alone, and you’re not failing. Your system is overloaded. In this episode, Kirstin Carey explains how your detox pathways, hormonal rhythms, nervous system, and business cycles are all connected.

You’ll learn:

  • Why women founders experience burnout differently

  • How detoxing misaligned inputs (body + business) restores flow

  • The Triple Heater’s 10pm–midnig...

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You can’t scale on an undernourished nervous system.

If the business you built to create freedom now feels like it’s costing you your body, your peace, or your joy — this episode is your wake-up call to rebuild success from your nervous system up.

After 33+ years of entrepreneurship and mentoring hundreds of women through hormone imbalance, autoimmune issues, and burnout, Kirstin Carey reveals the truth: you can’t lead a thriving b...

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If your business once flowed with ease and now feels off-beat, you’re not falling behind - your frequency has simply evolved beyond your old money rhythm.

In this final episode of the Money & Pricing Series, Kirstin reveals what truly causes unpredictable revenue and burnout in high-achieving feminine leaders - nervous system dysregulation.

You’ll learn how your Receiving Energy, Revenue Rhythm, and Wealth Container create your...

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Pricing is not just math. It is identity and nervous-system regulation. In Part 5 of the Money & Pricing Series, Kirstin guides you through the Frequency of Yes Pricing Method so your numbers feel grounded in your body and make strategic sense in your business.

In this episode you’ll learn

  • Why “affordable” is relative and not your north star

  • The difference between dysregulated pricing and regulated pricing

  • How to find...

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In this episode of The Frequency of Yes, Kirstin Carey, seven-figure business strategist and somatic sales mentor, walks you through the exact model that turns one clean, simple offer into consistent $50K–$100K cash-collected months.

You’ll hear how to:

  • Build a stable business model that compounds month after month

  • Turn renewals into recurring revenue instead of chasing new clients

  • Use the “Vanilla Offer” framework to sca...

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Most women undercharge not because their offers lack value, but because their nervous system wobbles when they name a premium number. In Part 3 of the Money & Pricing Series, Kirstin Carey shows you how to calibrate your energy so $3K, $10K, even $20K offers feel clean, confident, and simple to sell. You’ll learn how clarity creates confidence, confidence creates safety, and safety sells. Includes a guided calibration for your ...

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Summary

Sales don’t have to feel heavy. In this episode, Kirstin shows you how to stop over-giving, stop pushing, and start creating sales conversations that feel smooth, natural, and embodied — no matter if your offer is $3K or $20K.

✨ Highlights:

  • The shadow patterns keeping sales inconsistent

  • How to confidently hold $3K–$20K pricing without wobbling

  • A reframe that makes pay-in-full the new normal

  • Balanced responses to...

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Are you unknowingly undercharging, discounting, or playing small with your offers? In this first episode of my 6-part Money & Pricing Series, I’m pulling apart the 3 biggest lies about pricing that keep coaches, consultants, and feminine leaders stuck in confusion, burnout, and under-earning.

Here’s what you’ll discover in this episode:

  • Why “charge what you’re worth” ...
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Are you absorbing everyone else’s emotions and calling it empathy? In this episode, Kirstin unpacks the empathy-narcissism scale, how to support clients without enabling them, and a framework for handling triggered clients while protecting your energy and leadership.

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What you’ll learn in this episode:

  • The real difference between empathy and somatic intelligence in business

  • Why over-empathy leads to...

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