Life, Law, & Lattes
Hosted by Attorney Nadia Gilkes, Life, Law, & Lattes is a safe space where we chat about family law topics, caregiving concerns, and elder law issues. Gentle guidance is given, offering families a blueprint to navigate the legal waters of their most pressing (and often emotional) matters. The information presented here is for educational purposes. It is always best to see an attorney in your city or state to receive advice tailored to your needs and jurisdiction. This podcast does not establish an attorney-client privilege. {Would I really be a lawyer if I didn’t put the legal stuff in there?} I appreciate every listen and every form of support. Please like, share, and subscribe on whichever platform you listen to podcasts. You can also follow eLegal Cafe, LLC on FB and IG - I don’t post often but like us on social media anyway and when I do post something, you’ll already be there. I truly hope the conversations and information shared here will help families in their time of need. If there is a question you’d like me to cover on the podcast, or a topic you want to discuss with me privately, please don’t hesitate to email me or put yourself on my calendar. I look forward to hearing from, and helping you.
Episodes
Host Nadia Gilkes recounts a courtroom hearing where an elderly woman under guardianship faced the sale of her family home to pay for care, highlighting the emotional family pushback and the court-supervised bidding process.
This episode is a concise wake-up call about the high cost of long-term care and the importance of proactive estate planning—powers of attorney, trusts, and professional advice—to protect your asset...
Host Nadia Gilkes shares a festival flashback interview with June Dillinger about her book The Benefit of the Ex, born from her divorce and a self-development class. June explains how taking responsibility, using reflective "invitations," and choosing love helped her heal and rebuild.
The episode covers book launch success, practical tips for recording audiobooks, June’s work performing weddings in Hawaii, and her mission of ...
Host Nadia Gilkes returns from a brief break to unpack the high‑profile Kandi and Todd split, using their story to explain prenuptial agreements, duress, custody limits, and spousal support.
She offers practical legal tips: be transparent about assets, get independent counsel, start prenup talks at least 3–6 months before the wedding, and have an estate plan. Nadia also discusses co‑parenting options that prioritize children'...
In this episode, host Nadia Gilkes responds to a recent press conference claiming a link between Tylenol and autism, expressing concern about misinformation and the silence of medical professionals, and reflecting on the impact this has on parents and guardians of autistic loved ones.
She offers reassurance that parents are not at fault, acknowledges the daily struggles of caregivers, and invites listeners to reach out for resource...
Attorney Nadia Gilkes answers a listener’s question about organizing aging parents’ affairs, covering powers of attorney, reviewing estate documents, and how to have difficult conversations about finances and medical care.
She offers practical steps—check medications and mail, document bills and insurance, improve home safety, and consider life or long‑term care insurance if parents won’t share details&mdash...
On Life, Law & Lattes, Attorney Nadia Gilkes urges clients to be completely honest with their lawyers—holding back or lying can blindside your legal team and weaken your defense.
Full disclosure lets your attorney prepare for issues that may arise in court and build the strongest possible strategy, even when the truth is messy.
Host Nadia Gilkes reflects on the Emma and Bruce Willis documentary to explore real-life caregiving challenges. She covers three key takeaways: the high monetary and emotional costs of care, where to find practical resources, and how to accept help and decide about long-term care or moving a loved one.
The episode offers concrete suggestions—assess care needs and hourly costs, build a support plan, consider creative staffing ...
Welcome to this week's episode of Life, Law & Lattes, where host Nadia Gilkes shares crucial tips on maintaining respect in the courtroom. Learn how to address the judge properly and the importance of standing while speaking, unless advised otherwise. Discover why it's imperative to keep a respectful tone, even during frustrating moments, and the consequences of arguing with a judge after a ruling.
This episode emphasizes that ...
Host Nadia Gilkes reflects on watching the documentary Fit for TV: The Reality of The Biggest Loser and highlights a major warning: never be rushed or pressured into signing a contract.
She explains practical steps to protect yourself—read every page, ask questions, get an attorney or professional help, and use modern resources like flat-fee reviewers and teletherapy. Nadia also discusses how untreated trauma often underlies ...
In this episode of "Life, Law & Lattes," host Nadia Gilkes shares a valuable tip on courtroom etiquette. The advice centers around the importance of speaking only when prompted in legal settings, emphasizing how interrupting proceedings can undermine your credibility. Nadia stresses the significance of patience and poise, reminding listeners that the courtroom is a structured process rather than a conversational space. Whether ...
Host Nadia Gilkes explains why it’s essential to check the court docket and full case file after being served or when taking over a case. She shares practical steps—viewing the court portal, getting copies, contacting the clerk or previous counsel, and using fee waivers if needed—to avoid being surprised by filings the judge may reference.
This episode emphasizes staying proactive: regularly check filings up to th...
In this episode of Life, Law, and Lattes, host Nadia delves into the latest updates surrounding Wendy Williams' conservatorship. Nadia shares her personal connection with Wendy through their shared experience with Graves' Disease and discusses the misconceptions surrounding conservatorships versus guardianships. The episode highlights Wendy's fight to regain her freedom and control over her life, touching on the medical assessments...
In this final episode of the "Power of Attorney" series, host Nadia Gilkes delves into the complex role of a Power of Attorney agent. As a crucial position bestowed with immense trust, serving as an agent can be both emotionally and legally challenging. Nadia offers five essential tips for agents, emphasizing the importance of understanding your role, maintaining thorough documentation, avoiding the commingling of funds, respecting...
In this episode of Life, Law, and Lattes, Nadia Gilkes shares a crucial tip for courtroom success: arrive early. Showing up on time isn’t enough; being seated and ready before your scheduled hearing is essential. From potential traffic to unexpected delays, planning your arrival 30 minutes ahead can prevent a judge from making a decision without your input. Preparing early not only prevents panic but also exhibits respect and...
In this episode of Life, Law & Lattes, host Nadia Gilkes offers a comprehensive guide to ensure your day in court goes as smoothly as possible. Discover the essential items to bring, such as your ID, necessary paperwork, and any evidence required for your case.
Nadia emphasizes the importance of patience, especially when dealing with overloaded dockets and potential delays. Learn how your demeanor in the courtroom, even when yo...
In this episode of Life, Law & Lattes, host Nadia Gilkes delves into the intricacies of granting powers of attorney. Ensuring peace of mind, this legal tool allows a trusted individual to make decisions on your behalf during emergencies. Nadia offers insight into avoiding scams, selecting the right agent, and accurately completing requisite forms. Learn where to acquire legitimate documents and understand the critical importanc...
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