She's Probably Talking to Other Guys - (SPTTOG)

Welcome to Season Two of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys (SPTTOG) by The Banannie Diaries by Annie

Season Two of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys is about assumptions — the quiet ones, the obvious ones, and the ones we don’t notice until they’re already shaping our choices.

This season explores dating, work, confidence, money, creativity, and more...and what it actually feels like to navigate life through all of it. ...

In this crossover episode of She’s Probably Talking To Other Guys and Take Care by Ry, Annie of The Banannie Diariesand Rylin come together for an honest, grounded conversation about growth without pressure. This isn’t a “new year, new me” episode..it’s a reminder that growth doesn’t need a deadline.

While putting together vision boards, we talk through the assumptions around manifesting, new year motivation, and the pressure to...

The holidays can bring a lot of feelings — joy, stress, grief, pressure, or all of the above. In this episode of *She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys*, I’m talking about what it really looks like to get through the holidays with your boundaries intact, your nervous system protected, and your cup gently refilled.

We’re unpacking the idea that you don’t owe anyone a perfect holiday version of yourself. I talk about setting bounda...

In this solo episode of She’s Probably Talking To Other Guys, Annie opens her Spotify Wrapped for the very first time—live on the mic—and lets the music set the tone for a fun, end-of-year recap. From a dramatic reveal of her top artist to rapid-fire questions she answers about herself, this episode is playful, unfiltered, and full of personality.

Annie reacts in real time to her Spotify Wrapped stats, breaks down her top songs ...

Welcome to a special behind-the-scenes episode of She’s Probably Talking To Other Guys, where Annie steps off the ballroom competition floor and onto the couch with her professional dance partner, José. If you’ve ever wondered what really goes into being ballroom partners—the inside jokes, the unfiltered honesty, the grueling training days, the “did-that-really-just-happen” competition moments—this is your episode.

Annie and Jos...

landing on the feeds of girlies who refuse to shrink their joy just because someone else is uncomfortable with it ✨ in episode 18, we talk about that taylor swift moment — the reminder that it’s never cool to dim down someone’s excitement or make them feel “too much” for loving their life.

no matter what era you’re in, you’re exactly where you belong 🫶💖 listen to episode 18 on “she’s probably talking to other guys” @spttogpod...

In this episode, we’re breaking down the truth behind confidence: it’s not something you “have,” it’s something you build.Triathlete Kaitlin Carew joins me for a real, grounded conversation about what it actually looks like to show up for yourself — in training, in life, and in every hard thing you choose to take on.

We talk about mental toughness, discipline, endurance mindset, what training for a triathlon really involves, and...

The internet loves to have an opinion -  In this episode, Annie dives into how public opinion builds entire assumptions out of thin air. From influencers to celebrities to everyday creators, the message is the same: no matter what you do, someone will call it “too much.” Too confident. Too emotional. Too cringey. Too loud. Too quiet. Too everything.

Through real examples from women in media — like Alex Cooper, Madison Beer, Kylie Je...

today’s episode is for everyone who’s ever been told they're “too much,” “too confident,” or “too bold.” 🫶 because when you’re building something of your own — whether it’s a business, a brand, or a version of yourself you actually love — people are going to make assumptions.

this week, i’m joined by maddy from homestead’s hot sauce, the founder behind one of the most fun, fiery, and personality-filled small brands out ther...

people love to talk about the “rebrand” like it’s some kind of marketing move — but what about when you’re the brand? when your style changes, your vibe shifts, or your priorities do a complete 180, suddenly everyone’s got something to say. “you’ve changed.” “you’re trying too hard.” “who even are you now?” sound familiar?

in this episode, we’re unpacking all the assumptions that come with personal growth — the ones that make pe...

this week on she’s probably talking to other guys, annie sits down with 18-year-old (soon-to-be-19) author rylin, the voice behind once upon a time i survived myself, to talk all things growth, writing, and becoming the main character of your own story.

tags: from turning pain into purpose to the unfiltered truth about publishing your first book as a teen, rylin shares her journey of self-discovery, creative expression, and choo...

Fall is in full swing, and so is the season of pumpkins, parties, and assumptions. In this cozy and candid episode of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys, Annie dives deep into the cultural clichés that come with autumn — from pumpkin spice obsessions and apple picking selfies to Halloween costumes that spark way too many opinions.

Why do people assume things about women who love PSLs, decorate early for fall, or show up to a c...

from instagram aesthetics to viral videos, this week we’re diving into how social media shapes what people think they know about us.

💭annie unpacks the assumptions people make based on posts, stories, and more!

she also spills which platforms she loves, likes, barely uses, and can’t stand — plus the reasons behind it. from influencer culture and curated feeds to digital burnout and authenticity online, this episode goes deep on the ...

This week, Annie sits down with her very first guest, Jessie (@jessthefairy) — a social media creator (and one of Annie's best friends) who knows the ins and outs of content, connection, and chasing dreams online. From navigating DMs and double taps to breaking down the realities of life as a creator, Jessie shares her perspective, clears up assumptions, and opens up about building a brand in today’s digital world.

If you’ve ever wo...

everyone!!!! please welcome ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IN THE ENTIRE WORLD as the FIRST guest of “she’s probably talking to other guys” podcast!!! 💚 JESSIE!!!! also known as Jess! @jessthefairy 

💖 we go back a long way!!! and it just seemed right to have her as my first guest! join us where we talk about life in social media and more!!

✨ this episode is available 10/1 as early as 5am!

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From punctuation drama to emoji confusion, first-date awkwardness to workplace mix-ups—we’ve all been there. In this episode, we’re unpacking the everyday misunderstandings that shape how we text, flirt, date, and communicate.

Whether it’s overanalyzing a period at the end of a sentence, decoding the meaning behind an emoji (btw there’s no meaning when Annie is sending emojis 😂🤷‍♀️), or wondering what someone really meant on a dat...

Dating apps come with a million assumptions — some true, some way off, and some that need a devil’s advocate perspective. In this episode, I break down some of the biggest myths about online dating, from “everyone’s just looking for hookups” to “it’s impossible to build something real online.” I’ll also dive into the most common red flags we all ignore (hello, group photos and love bombing) and balance it out with the green flags t...

In this episode, I’m diving into the idea that your past doesn’t have to hold you back—it can actually be the thing that builds your strength, perspective, and resilience. We’ll talk about shifting the way you see challenges, why your experiences don’t define your worth, and how they can shape the person you’re becoming.

And remember—sharing your story doesn’t make you a victim; it makes you powerful for owning your truth.

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When you hear Sports Illustrated Swimsuit, maybe you think about bikinis, glamour, and THAT assumption, “it’s all about the male gaze”.  In this episode, I break down some of the biggest assumptions people make about SI — from body type to competition — and share the reality I saw firsthand: empowerment and an uplifting community of women (many of us showing up solo and leaving with new friends).

I’ll also share how supportive my fa...