She's Probably Talking to Other Guys - (SPTTOG)

today’s episode is for everyone who’s ever been told they're “too much,” “too confident,” or “too bold.” 🫶 because when you’re building something of your own — whether it’s a business, a brand, or a version of yourself you actually love — people are going to make assumptions.

this week, i’m joined by maddy from homestead’s hot sauce, the founder behind one of the most fun, fiery, and personality-filled small brands out ther...

people love to talk about the “rebrand” like it’s some kind of marketing move — but what about when you’re the brand? when your style changes, your vibe shifts, or your priorities do a complete 180, suddenly everyone’s got something to say. “you’ve changed.” “you’re trying too hard.” “who even are you now?” sound familiar?

in this episode, we’re unpacking all the assumptions that come with personal growth — the ones that make pe...

this week on she’s probably talking to other guys, annie sits down with 18-year-old (soon-to-be-19) author rylin, the voice behind once upon a time i survived myself, to talk all things growth, writing, and becoming the main character of your own story.

tags: from turning pain into purpose to the unfiltered truth about publishing your first book as a teen, rylin shares her journey of self-discovery, creative expression, and choo...

Fall is in full swing, and so is the season of pumpkins, parties, and assumptions. In this cozy and candid episode of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys, Annie dives deep into the cultural clichés that come with autumn — from pumpkin spice obsessions and apple picking selfies to Halloween costumes that spark way too many opinions.

Why do people assume things about women who love PSLs, decorate early for fall, or show up to a c...

from instagram aesthetics to viral videos, this week we’re diving into how social media shapes what people think they know about us.

💭annie unpacks the assumptions people make based on posts, stories, and more!

she also spills which platforms she loves, likes, barely uses, and can’t stand — plus the reasons behind it. from influencer culture and curated feeds to digital burnout and authenticity online, this episode goes deep on the ...

This week, Annie sits down with her very first guest, Jessie (@jessthefairy) — a social media creator (and one of Annie's best friends) who knows the ins and outs of content, connection, and chasing dreams online. From navigating DMs and double taps to breaking down the realities of life as a creator, Jessie shares her perspective, clears up assumptions, and opens up about building a brand in today’s digital world.

If you’ve ever wo...

everyone!!!! please welcome ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IN THE ENTIRE WORLD as the FIRST guest of “she’s probably talking to other guys” podcast!!! 💚 JESSIE!!!! also known as Jess! @jessthefairy 

💖 we go back a long way!!! and it just seemed right to have her as my first guest! join us where we talk about life in social media and more!!

✨ this episode is available 10/1 as early as 5am!

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From punctuation drama to emoji confusion, first-date awkwardness to workplace mix-ups—we’ve all been there. In this episode, we’re unpacking the everyday misunderstandings that shape how we text, flirt, date, and communicate.

Whether it’s overanalyzing a period at the end of a sentence, decoding the meaning behind an emoji (btw there’s no meaning when Annie is sending emojis 😂🤷‍♀️), or wondering what someone really meant on a dat...

Dating apps come with a million assumptions — some true, some way off, and some that need a devil’s advocate perspective. In this episode, I break down some of the biggest myths about online dating, from “everyone’s just looking for hookups” to “it’s impossible to build something real online.” I’ll also dive into the most common red flags we all ignore (hello, group photos and love bombing) and balance it out with the green flags t...

In this episode, I’m diving into the idea that your past doesn’t have to hold you back—it can actually be the thing that builds your strength, perspective, and resilience. We’ll talk about shifting the way you see challenges, why your experiences don’t define your worth, and how they can shape the person you’re becoming.

And remember—sharing your story doesn’t make you a victim; it makes you powerful for owning your truth.

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When you hear Sports Illustrated Swimsuit, maybe you think about bikinis, glamour, and THAT assumption, “it’s all about the male gaze”.  In this episode, I break down some of the biggest assumptions people make about SI — from body type to competition — and share the reality I saw firsthand: empowerment and an uplifting community of women (many of us showing up solo and leaving with new friends).

I’ll also share how supportive my fa...

you know when your brain starts running wild, creating full-on scenarios that never even happened? yeah… welcome to the gossip games in your own head. this episode is all about the overthinking, the fake narratives, and the way we sometimes play telephone with ourselves until we’re convinced it’s the truth.

let’s talk about why we do it, how to stop letting it spiral, and maybe even laugh at how creative our brains can get.

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We all get caught up comparing our progress to others — whether it’s career, creativity, or life in general. But what if the person you’re eyeing has been grinding for years and you’re just getting started? In this episode, Annie’s diving into why it’s so unfair (and exhausting) to compare your steps (at any stage) to someone else’s story.. 

Annie’s breaking down how to redirect that energy into your own growth and stop stressing ov...

Calling someone an “overnight success” might sound like a compliment—but it can erase years of hard work, sacrifices, and persistence that no one saw. This episode digs into why that label can feel dismissive, how it oversimplifies the messy, real journey to achievement, and the hidden effort behind those so‑called “instant” wins.

It’s a reminder that success is rarely sudden, and every big moment is built on countless unseen ones.

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You’ve heard it before—“You’re so high-maintenance.” But what if that’s not the insult people think it is? In this episode, I’m flipping the script on the outdated assumptions tied to being “high-maintenance.” From beauty rituals to bold standards, we’re talking about why taking care of yourself, knowing what you like, and not settling actually deserves applause—not shame.

Tune in as I unapologetically break down why high-maintenan...

Here’s your reminder: just because someone’s in your life… doesn’t mean they get access to all of it.

In Episode 3 of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys, Annie dives into the idea of boundaries, selective vulnerability, and what it really means to protect your peace. Whether it’s nosy coworkers, surface-level friends, or people who’ve simply outgrown your inner circle — this episode is all about taking inventory of who gets to wit...

You’ve heard it before: “That’s a red flag.” Maybe it was something small — like a text that came too fast (or too slow), a comment that felt off, or a moment that just didn’t sit right. But what if… it wasn’t a red flag at all?

In this episode of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys, Annie invites you to zoom out and take a second look at the labels we place on people and situations — especially when it comes to dating, friendships...

🎙️ she’s probably talking to other guys — the podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide.

hosted by me, annie from @thebananniediaries ✨ — i’m breaking down the messy, funny, and all-too-relatable assumptions we make about each other (and ourselves)…from now on, your assumptions make an a** out of you, and no one else.

from modern dating chaos to side-eye in the break room, i’m calling out the assumptions we...

🎙️ she’s probably talking to other guys — the podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide.

hosted by me, annie from @thebananniediaries ✨ — i’m breaking down the messy, funny, and all-too-relatable assumptions we make about each other (and ourselves)…from now on, your assumptions make an a** out of you, definitely not me 

from modern dating chaos to side-eye in the break room, i’m calling out the assumptions ...