She's Probably Talking to Other Guys - (SPTTOG)

Dating apps come with a million assumptions — some true, some way off, and some that need a devil’s advocate perspective. In this episode, I break down some of the biggest myths about online dating, from “everyone’s just looking for hookups” to “it’s impossible to build something real online.” I’ll also dive into the most common red flags we all ignore (hello, group photos and love bombing) and balance it out with the green flags t...

In this episode, I’m diving into the idea that your past doesn’t have to hold you back—it can actually be the thing that builds your strength, perspective, and resilience. We’ll talk about shifting the way you see challenges, why your experiences don’t define your worth, and how they can shape the person you’re becoming.

And remember—sharing your story doesn’t make you a victim; it makes you powerful for owning your truth.

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When you hear Sports Illustrated Swimsuit, maybe you think about bikinis, glamour, and THAT assumption, “it’s all about the male gaze”.  In this episode, I break down some of the biggest assumptions people make about SI — from body type to competition — and share the reality I saw firsthand: empowerment and an uplifting community of women (many of us showing up solo and leaving with new friends).

I’ll also share how supportive my fa...

you know when your brain starts running wild, creating full-on scenarios that never even happened? yeah… welcome to the gossip games in your own head. this episode is all about the overthinking, the fake narratives, and the way we sometimes play telephone with ourselves until we’re convinced it’s the truth.

let’s talk about why we do it, how to stop letting it spiral, and maybe even laugh at how creative our brains can get.

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We all get caught up comparing our progress to others — whether it’s career, creativity, or life in general. But what if the person you’re eyeing has been grinding for years and you’re just getting started? In this episode, Annie’s diving into why it’s so unfair (and exhausting) to compare your steps (at any stage) to someone else’s story.. 

Annie’s breaking down how to redirect that energy into your own growth and stop stressin...

Calling someone an “overnight success” might sound like a compliment—but it can erase years of hard work, sacrifices, and persistence that no one saw. This episode digs into why that label can feel dismissive, how it oversimplifies the messy, real journey to achievement, and the hidden effort behind those so‑called “instant” wins.

It’s a reminder that success is rarely sudden, and every big moment is built on countless unseen ones.

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You’ve heard it before—“You’re so high-maintenance.” But what if that’s not the insult people think it is? In this episode, I’m flipping the script on the outdated assumptions tied to being “high-maintenance.” From beauty rituals to bold standards, we’re talking about why taking care of yourself, knowing what you like, and not settling actually deserves applause—not shame.

Tune in as I unapologetically break down why high-maint...

Here’s your reminder: just because someone’s in your life… doesn’t mean they get access to all of it.

In Episode 3 of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys, Annie dives into the idea of boundaries, selective vulnerability, and what it really means to protect your peace. Whether it’s nosy coworkers, surface-level friends, or people who’ve simply outgrown your inner circle — this episode is all about taking inventory of who gets to wit...

You’ve heard it before: “That’s a red flag.” Maybe it was something small — like a text that came too fast (or too slow), a comment that felt off, or a moment that just didn’t sit right. But what if… it wasn’t a red flag at all?

In this episode of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys, Annie invites you to zoom out and take a second look at the labels we place on people and situations — especially when it comes to dating, friendships...

🎙️ she’s probably talking to other guys — the podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide.

hosted by me, annie from @thebananniediaries ✨ — i’m breaking down the messy, funny, and all-too-relatable assumptions we make about each other (and ourselves)…from now on, your assumptions make an a** out of you, and no one else.

from modern dating chaos to side-eye in the break room, i’m calling out the assumptions we...

🎙️ she’s probably talking to other guys — the podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide.

hosted by me, annie from @thebananniediaries ✨ — i’m breaking down the messy, funny, and all-too-relatable assumptions we make about each other (and ourselves)…from now on, your assumptions make an a** out of you, definitely not me 

from modern dating chaos to side-eye in the break room, i’m calling out the assumptions ...