She's Probably Talking to Other Guys - (SPTTOG)

what assumptions do we make about women who book boudoir photography? and what does the experience actually mean for the woman behind the camera?

in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, annie sits down with boudoir photographer, tina wesley, to unpack the biggest misconceptions surrounding boudoir photography, confidence, body image, and women feeling comfortable in their own skin.

tina shares what she’s ...

what does it actually take to succeed at live selling? annie sits down with maddy the hot sauce girl, founder and ceo of homesteads hot sauce, to break down the business of live streaming, tiktok shop, entrepreneurship, and building a loyal community through live selling. maddy shares how live streaming helped save her small business, why personality and connection can matter more than the product itself, and what beginners need to...

being called “high maintenance” doesn’t have to be an insult. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, annie rockhill breaks down the assumptions behind being high maintenance, from being selfish and superficial to being hard to date or obsessed with money.

she shares why having routines, standards, boundaries, self-respect, and confidence can actually mean you’re being intentional about...

you look at someone who seems confident, successful, and like they have everything figured out…but you rarely see the moments that got them there.

this week, i’m sitting down with candi thibodeaux to talk about the assumption that she’s got it all figured out. from the outside, it can be easy to think someone has a perfect plan, an effortless journey, or all the answers...but the reality is usually much more compl...

what if the goal was never to be liked by everyone?

we spend so much time trying to make sure everyone understands us, approves of us, and sees us the way we want to be seen. but the truth is…no matter how kind, genuine, or intentional you are, you’re still not going to be everyone’s cup of tea.

in this episode, i’m talking about what happens when we stop shrinking ourselves to be more comfortable for other p...

you see her on stage. you hear the songs. you sing along. but there’s a lot more behind the microphone than most people ever see.

this week, i’m sitting down with singer-songwriter kristin trotta to talk about what it’s really like to chase a dream in music. because while people may only see the few hours she spends performing, they don’t always see the years of work, vulnerability, rejection, creativity, and...

can we talk about how weird adulthood is?

at some point, we all started pretending we knew exactly what we were doing…but does anyone actually have it figured out?in this episode, annie talks about the pressure to have a perfect plan, the comparison trap of social media, and why saying “i don’t know yet” might actually be one of the most confident things you can say.

because maybe we’re not behind. mayb...

in this episode of she's probably talking to other guys, annie sits down with the creator behind food of ct to talk about what it's really like being a food creator in connecticut. from restaurant recommendations and content creation to building an online community and turning a passion for food into a brand, this conversation goes far beyond taking pictures of your meal.

we dive into the realities of the creator economy, social med...

can we just collectively agree that adulthood is weird? one day you’re a kid playing outside, just existing, and the next, you’re handed an invisible checklist of arbitrary milestones you’re "supposed" to hit before you're 30. get the degree, buy the house, climb the career ladder, secure the relationship, maintain your mental health, stay physically fit...and somehow, don't lose your mind.

but...who actually ...

on this episode of she's probably talking to other guys, annie sits down with tatiana ramos, a 13-year industry veteran, salon owner, and freelance stylist who is completely changing how we look at beauty.

after battling a severe autoimmune response to traditional salon chemicals, tatiana had to make a choice: quit the career she loved, or pioneer a cleaner, non-toxic, holistic approach to hair care.

what we're talking about this wee...

ever felt completely anonymous in a crowded airport terminal? in this raw and reflective episode, annie dives deep into the world of transitional spaces...airports, train stations, and hotel rooms and how leaving everything behind forces you to confront who you truly are when no one expects anything of you.

from the secret comfort of wearing hoodies in a sea of strangers to the unexpected confidence found in solo travel , annie unpa...

we’re really good at assuming we understand someone’s life from just one context, but most people’s lives are layered way deeper than what we see on a social media grid.in this episode, annie sits down with sophia scinto, a connecticut-based fashion designer, artist, and full-time marketing professional, to discuss the realities of balancing a demanding 9-to-5 while quietly building a dream career from scrat...

“one of the hardest things to accept is that you can genuinely be trying your best and still end up becoming the villain in someone else's story.” in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, we are diving into why people project, make assumptions, and create versions of you in their own heads. if you have spent your life overexplaining yourself, trying to prevent misunderstandings, or performing a lo...

concert culture, sobriety, dating standards, and why women who don’t drink are constantly misunderstood 🍸✨ in this episode of “she’s probably talking to other guys,” annie sits down with toronto-based content creator and ”concert queen” ashley to talk about life three years sober, navigating friendships and dating without alcohol, and the assumptions people make when women choose not to drink.

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she’s probably…unpacking everything she's learned

this week’s episode looks a little different . i’m diving back into recent solo episodes and game-changing guest conversations to unpack a common theme that has completely stayed with me: boundaries, growth, trusting your gut, and becoming fiercely honest with yourself.

growth doesn't always come from one giant life-changing moment...sometimes it’s a c...

you've given him the benefit of the doubt, you've made up the excuses, you've told yourself it wasn't that bad, and then six months later you're looking back like, how did i not see that sooner?! maryann is back for round two, and this time we're getting into all of it. red flags, green flags, and the ones we saw coming but chose to explain away because we wanted to believe the version of them we decided to believe in.

we're talking...

she’s probably choosing approval over authenticity and it’s costing her more than she realizes.

in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog), annie breaks down the quiet ways people trade authenticity for approval, and why it’s so easy to lose yourself without even noticing. from people-pleasing habits to the pressure of being liked, this episode challenges the idea that external validatio...