Where R the Adults

Where R the Adults

We grew up in Reardan, Washington. Tiny town. Middle of nowhere. Population: us... and some cows. Met in high school. Got into some trouble. The kind of trouble that makes a small-town cop sigh real loud before even asking questions. Now? Somehow, we’re the adults. Like... mortgages, kids, taxes... And I keep looking around — at the news, at social media, at PTA meetings — and asking the same damn thing: Where R the Adults wrta.pod@gmail.com

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April 30, 2026 96 mins

This week, we are the adults. Nate and Paul pull back the curtain on life as single dads, swapping stories, survival tips, and the kind of unfiltered honesty you only get from guys who've had to Google "how to do a braid" at 7am on a school day. Paul brings the divorced dad perspective; Nate brings the widower's lens. Two different roads, same destination: figuring it all out one day at a time.

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This week the boys went full nostalgia overload with a road trip CD draft. Not just albums, but CD's. You'll find out. 

Paul and Nate each picked 15 CDs they'd want locked in the car for a long haul. From STP and Nirvana to Porcupine Tree and Hans Zimmer, the picks were personal and passionate. I am sure we got some wrong, let us know! wrta.pod@gmail.com

Then things got philosophical with some classic Nate musings, and...

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March 1, 2026 98 mins

Alright… we’re back.

After a few weeks off — which is just enough time for the world to get weirder — 

Where R the adults?

AI isnt slow down. Its writing songs, term papers.  Its generating art. And on Super Bowl Sunday? It basically bought commercial time.

How many ads were AI?
How many were about AI?
And how many were made by AI trying to convince us AI is totally fine and not at all plotting to replace us?

Tonight we’re divin...

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This week we’re counting down our Top Five Domestic Locations — the places that already stole our hearts and the ones still sitting high on the bucket list. 

From iconic cities and jaw-dropping national parks to must-see states and legendary landmarks, we break it into two lists:

Top Five We’ve Been To and Top Five We Still Need to See

Along the way, we wander into current events, travel daydreams, and end with the kind of ban...

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January 19, 2026 79 mins

Welcome back to Where R the Adults?

This week, we’re diving into one of the most infamous disasters in modern history: the Titanic. A ship that was supposedly unsinkable… yet launched with doors that didn’t function the way they should, lifeboats that weren’t fully utilized, and systems that failed when they mattered most.

Tonight, we’re not just talking about the iceberg — we’re talking about design decisions, human judgment, and in...

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January 5, 2026 90 mins

In this episode of Where R the Adults, we dig into recent U.S. actions near Venezuela and ask a fundamental question: who authorizes the use of force? We talk war powers, executive authority, and historical lessons from Vietnam, Iraq, and Afghanistan — all through an adult, mostly apolitical lens focused on accountability and precedent.

Paul brings his perspective as a former member of the military, and we wrestle with ethics, lawfu...

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December 22, 2025 89 mins

Welcome back to Where R the Adults? — the podcast where two grown men prove, week after week, that adulthood is mostly vibes, opinions, and unnecessary drafts.

This week, we got festive and competitive. Nate and Paul entered a full-on Christmas Movie Draft — Classics were stolen, childhoods were questioned, and at least one of us is absolutely convinced they were right that Die Hard is not a Christmas movie. If you’ve ever argued ov...

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December 8, 2025 101 mins

Hey everyone, welcome back to Where R the Adults, the show where two lifelong friends talk about parenting, movies, life moments, and whatever else we stumble into. 

Today we’re hosting the ultimate Thanksgiving dinner party where we get to invite anyone, real or fictional, from any time period. Our table is wild: Jim Carrey brings the energy, Dolly Parton brings the stories and love, Chief Massasoit brings wisdom and history, Barac...

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December 1, 2025 100 mins

Hey yall, back at you with an episode featuring our favorite international travel experiences and bucket list locations. Share with us yours wrta.pod@gmail.com




 #TravelStories #BucketListTravel #WorldExplorer #PassportReady #AdventureAwaits #TravelTalk #WanderWithUs #GlobalAdventures #TravelPodcast #WhereRTheAdults #ParentingPodcast #AdultingStruggles #MentalHealthMatters #90sKids #SportsTalk #MusicNostalgia #DadLife ...

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November 9, 2025 90 mins

We start off with an admitting of a boo boo. 

Talk some dinner prep.

Then we dive headfirst into pure nostalgia with our 1990s Music Draft. We’re talking mixtape staples, mall-rat anthems, TRL bangers, the songs you screamed at school dances, the ones you cried to in your bedroom, and the tracks that made you believe that you could start a band with three chords and some emotional damage.

We’re drafting generational classics, and atte...

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October 26, 2025 58 mins

Hello everyone, we had to skip this week because of real life things happening. We'll go over it in our next episode. But here is the much talked about AI Episode recorded as our 2nd official test. 

Be Kind, we have learned a lot. :)


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September 29, 2025 81 mins

Hey Yall, took a week off but we are back. 

Paul recaps his trip to NY

Nate presents a Movie Idea

Great discussion, give us some feedback!

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Episode 2!, this one feels real. 

We play a game that is a favorite of Nates. Feedback encouraged wrta.pod@gmail.com. Tell us where we messed up.

Shoutouts, parenting moments. 

Be kind to each other!


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Hey Yall!

Well, we did it! Episode 1 whether you're ready or not. We dive into why we are doing this. Hope you enjoy it, please like and subscribe on your favorite platform. It really helps us grow this thing. Find us on Instagram @wrta.pod and PLEASE email us questions, comments, complaints to wrta.pod@gmail.com

Parenting, life, work, friendship, fun, stuff, things.... its all here. 

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August 4, 2025 97 mins

This episode is brought to you by the letter P. Last of our pilot episodes, or as others would say Pauls interview!



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July 27, 2025 105 mins

At Where R the Adults we are not opposed to speaking about difficult or uncomfortable subjects. In this episode we are deviating from our normal format to present a discussion on grief. 

It matters, Mental health matters. Be kind to each other, hug the ones you love. 

Presented with minimal edits. 

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July 8, 2025 102 mins

3rd installment of our preview/pilot episodes. This episode we interview Nate. 

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