Your Neighbors Are Swingers

Your Neighbors Are Swingers

A cheeky deep dive into the secret lives of your neighbors. In each episode of Your Neighbors Are Swingers, hosts Kate and Doug unpack the unexpected, hilarious, and often sexy secrets hiding behind picket fences and HOA rules. Kate and Doug share their stories and are entertained by guests from every corner of the lifestyle who join us to share theirs. Grab a drink, get comfy, and come discover what really happens when the curtains are drawn and the red lights are on.

Episodes

July 26, 2026 70 mins

Your neighbors Kate and Doug are joined by their friends and new-ish swingers Rob and Leagh-Ann, who have been in the lifestyle for about a year and a half and are quickly learning and evolving their dynamic as they go.  Rob and Leigh-Ann share some of their experiences thus far, where they see themselves going, and what got them into the lifestyle in the first place.

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Your neighbors Kate and Doug recently joined 200+ other fun people from Seattle's Club Sapphire at the club's hotel takeover weekend in Westport, Washington.  Join them here as they recount the weekend's activities, including it being Kate's turn to watch (for a change), connecting with cool people from around the Pacific Northwest, and Kate reminding Doug that sometimes he needs to use towels!  They were also freshly bac...

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June 29, 2026 64 mins

Your neighbors Kate and Doug welcome Ruby and Woody, owner of Seattle's best lifestyle club, to the pod!  They share with us the ins and outs (get it?) of running a premiere lifestyle club, how they got into the business, and how they set the awesome vibe at Sapphire.  Part history lesson, part tour of the club, and all fun, Woody and Ruby are the real deal!  Your neighbors also explain their 2+ month hiatus and tee ...

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April 26, 2026 62 mins

Your neighbors Kate and Doug keep going with the bucket list theme, diving a bit more into some of the things they have not yet done but might like to... candle wax and remote-control vibrators, anyone?  Also, friend of the show 'Slappy' Jay stops by to share about his very good Friday experience as well as his thoughts on just how fruit roll ups can enhance your sex life!

Your neighbors also share about one of their new favor...

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April 9, 2026 50 mins

Your neighbors explore a rather robust sexual bucket list they found online and discovered that, yeah... they've been at this lifestyle thing a while.  Relive some stories with them as they talk about the beach, boats, and blindfolds!  They also recap a recent threesome encounter (times two) with Kate's out-of-town friend; as well as a recent Kate-Doug-only hotel getaway.

Click here to access the bucket list they used for...

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Your neighbors have been at this lifestyle stuff for a few years now and have picked up some wisdom along the way.  In this episode, Kate and Doug share some of their learnings and stories that have brought them to where they are now, and they share some things they wish they would have realized 20 years ago!  From getting into the practice of their 'pregame huddle', to whiskey dick, banana daiquiris, and learning about c...

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February 6, 2026 34 mins

Join Your Neighbors as they review some of their favorite, and not-so-favorite, lifestyle clubs they have been to in the United States and Canada.  Kate discusses how she likes a quiet, intimate environment where she can truly connect with fellow lifestyle folks on a deeper level... yeah right!  They also recap a recent fetish rave they attended where Kate had Doug on a short leash... quite literally!

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January 23, 2026 44 mins

Your Neighbors are joined by Jenn Mason, sexologist, sex educator, and owner of WinkWink Boutique: a not creepy, woman-owned sex shop in Bellingham, Washington.  Jenn joins us to discuss her background, how and why she got into the sex shop business, and how she pays it forward through education and consulting.

You can check out WinkWink Boutique (they deliver, and Valentine's Day is coming up!) here:  winkwinkboutique.co...

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Your neighbors are excited to share their conversation with their friends Blondie and J, a gentle and progressive cuckold couple from the great white north of Canada!  Kate and Doug met them at a Splash Mocha event and were instantly attracted to their vibe, and they have since attended some of their events.  Blondie and J share their origin story, dynamic, forays into content creation, and give a preview for the upcoming...

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Travel concierge and event producer Ying Ying Lee joins your neighbors to discuss the details behind putting on an event like the Whistle Lifestyle Takeover (see episode 11 for a recap of that amazing event)!  Ying Ying shares with us her backstory, how she plans events, and why inclusivity is key.  Doug also tries to steal her job, but it sounds like a lot of work...

If you're interested to learn more about some of the e...

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December 13, 2025 47 mins

Your neighbors are back from their first Whistler Lifestyle Takeover event and eager to share their stories, including electroshock therapy for Kate, hot tub hookups, and some very new territory for Doug!

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Kate and Doug reconnect with a friend they met at Splash Mocha this past summer.  Q is the owner and founder of Young Swinger Lifestyle out of North Carolina, and he joins the podcast to share a bit about himself and what he is trying to build with YSL.  They also reminisce about some of the fun they had at Splash Mocha, and it seems like Kate is signing up for more!

Some links to a few of the things discussed:

Q's Instag...

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November 3, 2025 49 mins

Your neighbors Kate and Doug are lounging in Cabo San Lucas and have some fun perusing the internet for some stories about swinging and the lifestyle.  Everything from how to tell if your neighbors are swingers (spoiler alert:  they are) to sex festivals and mistaken swinger identity!  They also tell a couple of quick stories about some of the 'fun' they've been having while in Cabo.

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October 14, 2025 38 mins

Back in 1998, Doug asked Kate if she'd like him to invite one of his buddies over for some 'fun' for the first time.  After a bunch of bad homemade beer and himming and hawing, they all ended up naked!  27 years later Jay joins Kate and Doug to tell the story from his point of view and to share some of his own lifestyle adventures.

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September 23, 2025 39 mins

Join your neighbors Kate and Doug as they recap a lifestyle cruise they recently took in the western Mediterranean.  Follow along from Rome to Barcelona as they share their stories about this amazing adventure!

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Your neighbors Kate and Doug recap a recent trip to Florida where Kate did some vanilla hunting, connected with friends new and old at a hotel takeover event, and accepted the crown of Elevator Queen!

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August 29, 2025 54 mins

Join your neighbors Kate and Doug as they welcome some of their longest-term lifestyle friends, Sam and Celine, to the podcast.  Sam and Celine share their lifestyle origins (bowling, anyone?) and some other stories, with some not exactly going to plan!  Kate and Doug also recap a not-so-fun night at the club.

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Your neighbors Kate and Doug dive into the world of the lifestyle and explore various aspects of it, sharing some of their stories as they do.  From straight couples swap to hotwifing to BDSM and beyond, they share their take on it all!

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Kate and Doug have their first guests!  Long time friends Will and Alice join Your Neighbors to give them the skinny on all they missed at Naughty In New Orleans, as well as share a bit of their story.  Check it out to see why Kate and Doug love Will and Alice so much.  Also, Doug intros a new segment to the show where he shows Kate, in real time, a guy that has reached out.  Is she interested??  Let's find...

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July 29, 2025 33 mins

As your neighbors Kate and Doug continue their introduction, they found themselves reminiscing about a trip they took to Cap d'Agde, France, in 2019, where they experienced many 'firsts' in their lifestyle journey.  Orgies, solo play time, and map pins abound!

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