Failures Podcast

ou’re not lazy. You’re overloaded.

In this episode of Failures, Rich and Justin break down “mental masturbation”: the trap where consuming “productive” content feels like progress, but you’re actually stuck. If you’ve got 47 tabs open, a camera roll full of screenshots, and a brain full of plans you never execute, this one is for you.

you’re tired of “knowing” everything but showing nothing, this episode is your wake-up call.

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Dating apps promised unlimited options, but somehow men are having fewer relationships, less sex, and more loneliness than ever. In this episode, Rich and Justin break down the real reason dating apps feel dead and why the “more swipes = more success” mindset is a trap.

We talk about how these apps gamify your confidence, turn attention into cheap dopamine, and keep you paying for boosts, roses, and premium subscriptions that rarely...

Feeling misunderstood isn’t just “in your head.” It’s one of the fastest roads to isolation, resentment, and male loneliness. In this episode, Rich and J break down why being close to someone doesn’t automatically mean they understand you, and why a lot of men accidentally build an identity around being the “mystery guy,” then complain that no one gets them.

We talk about the real cause behind most “misunderstood” pain: you’re evolv...

You did everything right — so why do you still feel empty?

You got the degree.
 You landed the stable job.
 You’re in a safe relationship.
 You checked every box you were told would lead to a “good life.”

So why does it feel like something is missing?

In this episode of Failures, Rich and Justin break down The Perfect Life Trap — the quiet crisis men face when comfort, stability, and predictability start to feel less like ...

Most men don’t quit on their dreams because they failed.
 They quit because life got comfortable… and the people around them meant well.

In this episode of Failures, Rich and Justin break down the idea of well-intended dream killers — the family, friends, and voices that slowly push you toward safety, stability, and “being realistic.”

We talk about:

• Why dreams rarely die from failure — and almost always die from comfort
• How qui...

A lot of young men aren’t being themselves anymore... They’re performing.

In this episode of Failures, Rich and Justin break down the performative male problem. The quiet identity crisis where men shape-shift personalities, opinions, and behaviors just to be liked, accepted, or validated.

From being the “smartest guy in the room,” to the loud overcompensator, to the guy who tries too hard to impress women, this episode explores how a...

Most men don’t hate other men.
They hate the version of themselves they haven’t become yet.

In this episode of Failures, Rich and Justin break down the silent crisis of male jealousy — the kind that shows up when another man has more money, more confidence, better relationships, a stronger physique, or a life that feels further ahead.

Instead of calling jealousy “toxic,” we reframe it for what it really is:
 information, pres...

Men today are giving more than ever—working long hours, carrying the load at home, fixing every problem… yet still feeling overlooked, dismissed, or outright disrespected.

In this episode, Rich & Justin break down The Respect Gap — the growing divide between what men give and what they get back. From relationships, to workplaces, to society at large, millions of men are quietly struggling with feeling unseen and undervalued.

We g...

Corporate Survival Skills: What They Don’t Teach You in School

This episode dives into the unspoken rules of corporate America — from office politics to invisible employees. Rich & Justin break down how to navigate HR traps, build real alliances, avoid being overlooked, and master the art of managing up.

🎙 Topics Include:
 • HR Is Not Your Friend
 • Work Friends vs Real Friends
 • How to Stop Being the Invisible Empl...

Millions of men are drowning in debt — not just financially, but emotionally. In this episode, Rich & Justin open up about bankruptcy, repossessions, overdraft cycles, lifestyle traps, and the silent shame men carry when they feel behind in life. You’ll learn why debt isn’t just numbers on a bank statement, why hiding your struggles makes everything worse, and the exact steps to take if you feel overwhelmed, embarrassed, or stu...

Seven out of every ten young men feel economically disposable today.
And now, AI is automating jobs, replacing skill sets, and flooding the world with more competition than ever. But here’s the truth:

You are not replaceable unless you choose to be.

In this episode, Rich and Justin break down the REAL reasons young men feel pushed out, overlooked, and threatened by the rise of automation and why this moment in history might actu...

After the cheers fade and the cap hits the floor, reality sets in.
 Bills, jobs, purpose — and that silent voice asking, “What now?”

In this episode of Failures: The Podcast, Rich & Justin unpack the post-graduation identity crisis that so many young men face — the pressure to “figure it out,” the debt that starts knocking, and the social isolation that follows.

From student loans and dead-end internships to real-world advice...

Ever feel guilty for outgrowing your friends or family? In this episode, Rich and Justin unpack survivor’s guilt: the bittersweet feeling that comes with success. From family expectations to imposter syndrome, they share real stories, Jay-Z lyrics, and hard-won lessons on turning guilt into gratitude. 

Failures: The Podcast 2025
We're not gods. We're not gurus.
Just two men in our 30s sharing what we’ve learned t...

Nobody tells you when you actually become an adult.

It’s not your 18th birthday — it’s the moment your rent’s due, your car breaks down, and you realize… nobody’s coming to fix it for you.

In this episode of Failures: The Podcast, Rich and Justin unpack the real meaning of “adulting” — beyond the hashtags and fake internet advice. They share the fine print of growing up: the unglamorous skills, emotional control, and life lessons eve...

Every man is fighting one of two battles — becoming his father or proving he’s not him.

In this powerful episode of Failures: The Podcast, Rich and Justin unpack “The Father Wound” — the invisible void left behind when a father is absent, distant, or emotionally unavailable.

They explore how that wound shapes a man’s identity, relationships, anger, and ambition — and how to finally break the cycle. From childhood pain to overcompensa...

Are you in your 30s or 40s, still single, and wondering if it’s too late to find love? In this episode of Failures: The Podcast, Rich and Justin dive deep into the truth about modern dating; what’s holding men back, and what green flags they should actually be looking for.

Failures: The Podcast 2025
We're not gods. We're not gurus.
Just two men in our 30s sharing what we’ve learned the hard way—so you don’t have ...

Rich and Justin break down the 10 most important skills to master in your 20s from communication and problem-solving to money, fitness, and mental health. They share raw stories, hard lessons, and crown the S-Tier skill every man needs to win in life. 

Failures: The Podcast 2025
We're not gods. We're not gurus.
Just two men in our 30s sharing what we’ve learned the hard way—so you don’t have to.

🎙️ New episodes ...

What if growing up broke wasn’t just a setback—but a secret weapon?

In this episode of Failures: The Podcast, Rich and Justin get real about childhoods shaped by immigrant parents, single moms, food stamps, hand-me-downs, and “struggle meals.” From survival mode and resourcefulness to resilience, delayed gratification, and gratitude, they break down how being broke can actually hardwire you with tools for life.

Whether it’s first pay...

In today’s world of algorithms, outrage, and endless scrolling, do we even have original thoughts anymore?

In this episode of Failures: The Podcast, Rich and Justin unpack the death of original thought — how brain rot, echo chambers, and copy-paste thinking are shaping young men’s minds. From Rich’s son being exposed to violent content at 13, to Justin’s sunk-cost obsession with NBA star Ben Simmons, they expose how algorithms hijac...