Drinks With the Dinks

This week on Drinks with the DINKs, Ryan opens up about the story that shaped his entire life. From losing his mother to murder at just two years old, to the heartbreaking loss of his grandfather only a couple years later, this episode dives into the grief, confusion, and unanswered questions that followed him through childhood.

But the story doesn’t stop there. At 19 years old, Ryan discovered that much of what he believed about hi...

In this episode, we dive into the often invisible—but very real—mental load in relationships… and things get a little heated. Emma opens up about what it feels like to carry nearly all of the planning, organizing, remembering, and emotional labor that keeps everything running smoothly, while Ryan is forced to confront just how much he’s been overlooking.

From daily to-do lists to the constant background stress of “what needs to be d...

This week Emma talks about everything she hates about Ryan! At least that's how I'm taking it! And since I'm the one that writes the descriptions of these episodes, it has to be true! So grab a drink and enjoy the long list of "icks" I do that give Emma the instant nope! 

Also, don't forget to let us know what your definition of diarrhea is! 💩

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This week, we sit down with the creative mind behind DINK: The Musical—the show that hilariously unpacks the double-income-no-kids lifestyle through song, satire, and a whole lot of truth. We dive into the inspiration behind the musical, what it says about modern relationships, and why the DINK life has become such a cultural talking point.

From balancing ambition and partnership to navigating societal expectations, this conversatio...

Communication is something we all do every day—but how often are we actually good at it? In this episode, we dive into the art of communication: what it really means to be heard, understood, and connected. From the way we argue to how we express love, we explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) habits that can either strengthen or sabotage our relationships.

We talk about the difference between listening to respond vs. listening to un...

Is PDA sweet… or should some things stay private? In this episode, we go head-to-head on public displays of affection—how we acted when we were younger versus now, and whether age changes what’s acceptable. From subtle touches to full-on makeout sessions, we’re breaking down where the line is and who’s crossing it. Bonus: we call out the most awkward places to show affection (and yes, we’ve all seen that couple).

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In this episode, we dive into the wildly different ways men and women approach their health. From men avoiding the doctor at all costs to women diagnosing themselves before the appointment is even booked, we unpack the habits, fears, and social norms behind it all. Is it stubbornness? Conditioning? Or just pure denial? Grab a drink and join us as we compare checkups, pain tolerance, and why “I’m fine” means very different things de...

In our 40th episode we hit the road! Apologies in advance  for the less than stellar audio, but when you're as busy as we are, sometimes you need to multitask and record while you drive to Disney. 

We play a little game called defend the take where a random hot take is chosen and one of us has to defend it (even if we don't agree) while the other person tries to destroy it. 

Thank you everyone that has supported us up until...

Some people count down the days to their birthday, while others would rather let it pass quietly. In this episode, we dive into why birthdays can bring out completely different feelings in people. From childhood expectations and personality differences to the pressure of getting older, we explore the psychology behind why some people love the spotlight while others would rather skip the candles altogether. We also talk about how pa...

In this episode, we dive into The Let Them Theory and how one simple mindset shift can completely change your relationships, stress levels, and expectations. We talk about what “let them” really means, why trying to control other people is exhausting, and how releasing that need can actually bring more peace into your marriage and everyday life.

From friendships and relationships, to random strangers being annoying in public, we bre...

Homeownership sounded like a flex… until the first unexpected bill hit. In this episode, we get real about what owning a house is actually like — from the surprise costs nobody warned us about to the debate of buying new vs old (spoiler: both will try to drain your bank account). We break down the positives and negatives of being homeowners, talk about whether it’s helped or hurt our relationship, and what it feels like to start ou...

In this episode, we take a trip back to our hooligan era — when Friday nights meant the skating rink, questionable dance moves, and way too much PDA in public places. From awkward make-out sessions behind arcade machines to dabbling in things we definitely thought made us cool at the time, we unpack the chaos of growing up with very little shame and a lot of confidence.

We’re talking about the wild mix of innocence and poor decision...

Taking a leap of faith is easy… until it involves your money, your time, and your marriage. 😅

In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to chase new ventures—from starting a resin craft business to tossing around the idea of opening a dog bar. We dive into how to support your partner’s business dreams without losing your mind (or your savings), how to tell the difference between a passion project and a pivot, and ho...

Valentine’s Day didn’t start with heart-shaped chocolates and awkward dinner reservations… so where did it come from? In this episode, we dive into the surprisingly weird history of Valentine’s Day, share some of the most interesting facts about how this holiday became what it is today, and give our honest opinions on how we feel about it now.

From ancient traditions to modern-day pressure to be “romantic,” we talk about what Valent...

In this episode, we crack open our high school memory boxes and read the actual notes we wrote to each other back in 2007 — dramatic handwriting, questionable poetry, and all. To celebrate our 19th dating anniversary, we take a trip down memory lane to revisit who we were as teenagers and how those cringey little notes turned into a real-life marriage.

We talk about young love, growing up together, and what it’s like to see your rel...

This week we're talking about the questions, "Is your spouse your best friend?" and "Is it important for your relationship to be best friends?". We give our take on the questions as well as discussing some responses our fans/listeners gave to us. Make sure you listen all the way to the end for an... interesting response we received. 

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