Visions of Love: Redefining Relationships, Restoring Connection

Visions of Love: Redefining Relationships, Restoring Connection

For Lovers www.lovercoaching.com/love Welcome to Visions of Love in Relationships, where Lamont and Tonya Johnson guide Married Couples on the journey from conflict to connection. In a culture full of broken models of love, we believe relationships can be reimagined and rebuilt on truth, trust, and intentional growth. Here, we challenge outdated blueprints, unpack the real struggles couples face, and share practical tools for healthier communication, deeper intimacy, and lasting commitment. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, this podcast equips you with: Biblical wisdom and modern strategies for love that thrives. Honest conversations about the hard topics most people avoid. Tools to break generational cycles and create your own blueprint for love. Encouragement to not just survive in your relationship—but to thrive. This is more than a podcast. It’s a movement to restore faith, hope, and vision back into relationships. If you’re ready to stop repeating patterns and start building a love that lasts, you’re in the right place.

Episodes

November 25, 2025 43 mins

Thanksgiving Holidays Can Bring Conflict 3 Tips To Avoid Chaos

The holidays are supposed to bring joy… but let’s be real — they also bring family drama, old triggers, unwanted opinions, and the kind of comments that make you want to retreat into silence.

In this episode of Visions of Love in Relationships, Tonya & Lamont Johnson break down how couples can navigate holiday gatherings as a united front — with peace, confidenc...

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Stop Walking Around the House Mad Why ‘Little Fights’ Turn into Big Distance

Are you tired of walking around the house mad at each other?

Those “little fights” you keep sweeping under the rug… are turning into walls between you and your spouse.

In today’s Visions of Love episode, we’re breaking down the real reason small arguments hit so deep, why silence becomes resentment, and how couples can turn conflict into connection i...

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Why Is He Acting Single Real Talk on Relationships?

If you’re in a relationship but your man is still moving like he’s single… this episode is for you, Sis.

Let’s talk about the late replies, the secretive phone habits, the “I forgot to tell you” moments, the lack of posting, the shady friends, and the emotional distance that makes you wonder:

“If I’m your woman, why don’t you act like it?”

In today’s Visions of Love episo...

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The Fair Play Deck: A Couple's Conversation Deck for Prioritizing What's Important- https://amzn.to/3WSRCoZ

Ever been called “needy” when you were just trying to connect? In this episode of Visions of Love, Tonya and Lamont break down the real meaning behind what we call “nagging.” Sometimes it’s not about control—it’s about craving connection, reassurance, and consistency.

We’re unpacking how emotional needs get mislabeled, wh...

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In today’s episode of Take It From Tonya, we’re tackling one of the most talked-about — and misunderstood — modern relationship questions:

Let’s talk about it 👇🏽

Do you think posting your partner is an act of love — or just digital validation?

Drop your thoughts below! 💬

💭 “If you don’t post me, do you even love me?”

Social media has changed the way we define love, loyalty, and validation — but does public display re...

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Why You Keep Fighting About Cleaning and 4 Steps to Finally Fix It

Ever feel like the argument about cleaning isn’t really about cleaning at all? 👀

In this episode, Coach's Tonya & Lamont get into the hidden emotions, unspoken expectations, and power struggles that turn simple chores into full-blown conflicts.

It’s not about the dishes.

Join Coaches Tonya & Lamont as they break down 4 practical Action steps to finally ...

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Love isn't about competition, but completion. See why equality is essential for love to truly flourish and how relationships need to be eye to eye. #love #relationships #equality #connection

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In this episode of Visions of Love, Tonya and Lamont break down the hidden power struggles that sabotage relationships. From silent competition to emotional withdrawal, they reveal how couples fall into “one-up” or “one-down” roles — and how to break free.

Learn how to love from a place of mutual respect, balance, and biblical partnership, not pride or passivity. It’s time to stop trying to win and start trying to connect.

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Change the narrative- Men Your Choices Speak Louder Than Your Words

In this episode of the Tea Time Podcast, Tonya is serving truth hot and unfiltered.

Men say they want a traditional woman — one who values family, faith, respect, and legacy. But the same men are constantly liking, following, and praising modern women who flaunt everything tradition stands against.

This double sta...

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Visionaries, let’s keep it real: staying in a relationship just because of the time invested doesn’t guarantee a healthy future.

In today’s Tea Time, we’re unpacking a story of a 6-year relationship where love is present, but respect is missing. Long arguments, emotional spirals, disrespectful words—when does it become too much?

We’ll dive into:

💔 Why love without respect will alw...

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In this episode of Visions of Love, Tonya + Lamont dive into one of the most debated questions in relationships: Are women’s expectations too high or too low? We’ll unpack the psychology behind expectations, the science of why they matter, and most importantly—what the Bible says about a man’s true responsibilities toward a woman. From Ephesians 5 to Proverbs 31, we’ll separate cultural pr...

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💬 Are you building your spouse up or just putting up with them?

In this video, Tonya and Lamont Johnson break down the difference between respect and tolerance in marriage — and why God’s Word calls us to more. Respect isn’t earned only when things are going right; it’s a daily choice to honor your spouse as God’s gift to you.

📖 Ephesians 5:33 — “However, each one of you also must love hi...

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Disrespect in conflict? Never okay! Learn why disrespect ruins healthy disagreements. Discover the line between conflict & disrespect. Is someone crossing it? See what healthy conflict looks like and why boundaries matter. Catch more insights on healthy conflict! #conflictresolution #healthyrelationships #respect #communication #boundaries #selfimprovement

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🎙️ NEW EPISODE: “After the Vows: Now What?” 💍

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You said “I do.”

The music faded.

The honeymoon ended.

Now it’s real.

💥 Bills.

💥 Boundaries.

💥 Baggage.

💥 Beliefs.

No one tells you what to do after the wedding becomes a real-life covenant.

That’s why in this episode, we’re diving deep into what it reall...

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How you respond in pressure moments reveals more than your feelings—it reveals your emotional intelligence.

In this episode of the Tea Time Podcast, Lamont and Tonya break down the 12 powerful phrases emotionally intelligent people use when things get tense—at home, in marriage, and in everyday relationships. These aren’t manipulative responses… they’re mature, intentional, and rooted in emotional safety.

You’ll learn how to:...

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Becoming One Flesh: God’s Blueprint for Covenant, Not Compatibility — The Real Work of Marriage

In a culture obsessed with compatibility, chemistry, and "finding the one," we’ve lost sight of God’s true intention for marriage: covenant. In this powerful episode, Tonya and I unpack the real meaning behind *“the two shall become one flesh”* (Genesis 2:24)—a divine process of alignment...

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In this powerful episode of Visions of Love, Lamont and I dive deep into the truth 💔—when love is used as a weapon, not a blessing.

👉 You’ll learn:

How emotional manipulation looks in real marriages

The red flags: guilt‑tripping, gaslighting, emotional blackmail

Why love isn’t an excuse to control

How to protect your heart and your covenant

This video is raw but essen...

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When Your Partner Shuts Down What Silence in Conflict Really Means

In relationships, it’s not always the yelling you need to worry about—it’s the silence.

When your partner goes quiet during a disagreement, it can feel confusing, even hurtful… but there’s often a deeper message behind the silence.

In this video, we’re breaking down:

Why some people emotionally withdraw during conflict 🧠

How to respond with empathy inste...

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