Girl, Date the Good Guy | Relationship, Healing, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags, Discernment, Boundaries
Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian dating podcast for women ready for healing after heartbreak, ready to mend a broken heart, break toxic relationship cycles, set healthy boundaries, strengthen discernment, recognize red flags, and build healthy, God-led relationships. Hosted by Emily Jordan, this faith-based relationship podcast helps women stop repeating unhealthy dating patterns, grow in biblical discernment, and prepare for the kind of relationship God designed. Through biblical wisdom, personal testimony, and the Royal Transformation Path, you’ll learn how to experience real healing, protect your heart with boundaries, identify red flags early, and choose relationships rooted in truth, peace, and purpose. 📌 This podcast is for women healing from heartbreak, navigating a broken heart, and ready to date with clarity, confidence, and Godly wisdom. Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy — the royal training ground for women who are done chasing broken love, ignoring red flags, crossing their own boundaries, and repeating painful relationship cycles. I’m Emily — your faith-based, healed feminine guide and relationship coach. Once chasing emotionally unavailable men, twice divorced, and trapped in cycles of heartbreak. I surrendered my love life to God, entered a season of celibacy and deep healing, and allowed Him to restore my broken heart and rewrite my relationship story. After nearly a decade walking through a God-led journey of healing and restoration, I went from repeating heartbreaking relationship patterns… to experiencing a Godly, healthy, aligned relationship built on peace, discernment, and strong boundaries. Now, I help women just like you reclaim your crown, heal your heart, strengthen discernment, and prepare for the God-led love you were always meant for. Inside this podcast, you’ll step into The Good Guy Society — a movement and royal transformation path designed to guide you through: 👑 Reclaim your God-given identity and break unhealthy relationship cycles 🪞 Develop spiritual discernment and confidently recognize red flags ⚔️ Release past heartbreak, heal a broken heart, and let go of old relationship patterns 📜 Establish God-honoring standards and boundaries without guilt 🛡️ Date from healing and wholeness — not wounds or fear 🏛️ Prepare for a healthy, Christ-centered, God-led relationship Here, you’ll walk the journey from wounded to whole… from heartbreak to healing… from ignoring red flags to walking in discernment… from weak boundaries to holy standards… from confusion to clarity… from survival to royal identity. You'll also find: 💚 Soothe Her Soul Saturday — your royal pause, your royal return — a weekly moment of poetic healing where truth meets heartbreak, hope restores the broken heart, and God lifts the crown you thought you lost. 🎙️ A weekly, heart-to-heart relationship space where Emily speaks honestly about healing, boundaries, discernment, obedience, and the messy middle of rebuilding after heartbreak. These Holy Spirit–led conversations are raw, unfiltered, and rooted in truth — offering real-life stories, clarity, and encouragement for women learning to slow down, strengthen their boundaries, trust their discernment, and let God bring order to their relationship journey. If you’re ready to rise into the woman God created you to be — and build the kind of healthy, God-led relationship that honors your heart and aligns with Heaven — sis, you’re in the right place. So grab your crown, your heart, and your journal. Hit play — your healing, your discernment, and your royal training begin now. XOXO Emily 👑 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com
Episodes
What if the pain you’re carrying isn’t random… but accumulated?
In this deeply personal and faith-filled episode, Emily shares the powerful analogy of “the bag of pebbles” — how every hurt, disappointment, toxic cycle, and act of disobedience adds weight to our lives until we simply can’t carry it anymore.
At first, we manage. We cope. We tell ourselves we’re fine.
Until the bag becomes too heavy.
And that’s often the moment we fin...
Not every man who claims Christ reflects Christ in his character.
In this powerful teaching episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down 6 biblical red flags that reveal when ego — not the Holy Spirit — is leading a man’s behavior.
Learn how to discern pride, instability, lack of accountability, emotional manipulation, and counterfeit empathy in Christian dating. This episode will help you identify whether his public confe...
He posts Scriptures. He serves at church. He sounds spiritual.
But does his private character match his public Christianity?
In this powerful teaching episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down how to discern the difference between a good church guy and a God-led man. Because not every man who talks about God is led by Him.
Using biblical wisdom from Matthew 7:15–16, James 1:22, 2 Corinthians 11:14, Galatians 5:22, and E...
This Soothe Her Soul Saturday is your permission slip to stop settling.
If you’ve ever looked back and wondered, “Why did I accept that?” “Why did I tolerate so little?” “Why did I shrink to keep someone?”
This episode is not about shame. It’s about awakening.
In this powerful and healing message, we unpack why you accepted less in past relationships — and why that chapter does not define you. Through Scripture, truth, and prayer, ...
In this emotional and Spirit-led episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares her personal testimony of spending years praying for a relationship that never changed—and the painful truth God revealed about staying in unhealthy, disrespectful, and abusive situations.
Many Christian women are taught that endurance equals faithfulness. But in this episode, Emily exposes that lie and reveals what Scripture truly says about love, ma...
Are you stuck entertaining “Mr. Right Now” — the man who gives attention but no commitment? In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily Jordan exposes why temporary men delay your destiny and how emotional attachments can block God’s best for your future.
Through biblical wisdom, real-life testimony, and practical royal training, you’ll learn how to recognize distractions, set godly boundaries, and release relationsh...
(Christian Dating, Healing, Waiting on God, Faith-Based Encouragement)
This Soothe Her Soul Saturday is both a gentle word of encouragement and a powerful prayer for the woman who is waiting on God with her heart. 💗
If you’re single this Valentine’s Day… If you’ve ever wondered when your love story will begin… If you’re healing from heartbreak and learning how to trust again…
This episode is for you.
In this special Valentine’s D...
In this powerful Valentine’s Day edition of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily delivers a life-changing message for every woman who has ever been tempted to text the wrong man, reopen an old door, or repeat a broken relationship cycle.
If you’ve been trying to make something work that was never sent by God… If you’ve struggled with emotional attachment, loneliness, soul ties, or going back to unhealthy relationships… If you’re ready to...
If Valentine’s Day has you feeling single, forgotten, discouraged, or tempted to settle, this episode is for you.
In “Single on Valentine’s Day? God Is Still Writing Your Love Story,” Emily speaks directly to the woman who is waiting, healing, and trusting God with her heart—especially during a season when love seems to be everywhere except in her own life.
Through personal testimony, biblical truth, and Kingdom wisdom, Emily remin...
What if the reason you haven’t experienced the fullness of God’s goodness isn’t because He’s holding out on you—but because your heart learned to stay closed just to survive?
In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily opens up about heartbreak, healing, and the quiet ways pain teaches us to protect instead of surrender. Inspired by Justin Bieber’s song “Open Up Your Heart,” this conversation explores what it really means to move be...
In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak hope, peace, and truth into the heart of the woman waiting for God’s best in love. This episode is for the woman who desires a Godly man, but is learning to let God be her first love while she waits.
We explore what it truly means to be loved the way Christ loves—with patience, faithfulness, humility, and sacrificial care. Not a rushed, performative, or f...
In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan speaks directly to the woman who wakes up with anxiety, racing thoughts, and a restless spirit — even when life looks “fine” on the outside. With honesty, biblical truth, and deep compassion, this episode explores why anxiety is often a signal of spiritual disconnection rather than personal failure, and why lasting peace cannot be found in the world, self-soothing practices, or the ...
In this special announcement episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares what God has placed on her heart as Valentine’s Day approaches—and why this season is too important to stay silent about.
If you’ve been healing from heartbreak, feeling lonely, tempted to go back to old patterns, or wondering if God still has a love story for you… this episode is for you.
Emily opens up about her own journey through seventeen years of to...
Have you ever found yourself asking, “Is this my anxious attachment acting up… or is something actually off with him?” You’re not crazy—and you’re not alone.
In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down one of the most confusing questions Christian women face in dating: How do you tell the difference between your own anxiety and a man’s inconsistent behavior?
Drawing from her personal testimony after years...
What if God loves you right where you are—not the future, more healed version of you… but you, today?
In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life and truth over the woman who feels unworthy, distant from God, or stuck in cycles of shame, sin, or darkness. This episode is a gentle royal pause—an invitation to rest in the truth that God’s love is not based on perfection, performance, or rule-kee...
In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan tackles one of the most confusing questions Christian women face while dating: Is he a red flag… or is he just growing? With honesty, compassion, and biblical wisdom, this episode breaks down how to discern between a man who is genuinely growing in Christ and one who is emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or unsafe — even if he claims to love God.
This conversation is for women w...
If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this healthy… or am I just attached?” this episode is for you.
In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re breaking down seven clear signs you’re dating a good guy — not based on butterflies, chemistry, or emotional highs, but on peace, safety, consistency, and God-led discernment.
So many Christian women have been taught to confuse anxiety with attraction and intensity with love. But in Kingdom d...
Have you ever realized that you’ve been surviving for so long, you forgot who you were before the pain?
In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life, truth, and hope into the woman who has been living in survival mode after heartbreak. This episode is for the woman who learned how to protect herself, stay guarded, and keep going—but is now exhausted and ready for real healing with God.
Through ...
In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan opens up about the version of herself that lived in survival mode — functioning, pushing forward, and coping — but not truly healed. Through personal testimony and faith-filled reflection, she shares how heartbreak, loss, and prolonged pain can teach us how to survive while quietly disconnecting us from our hearts, our identity, and even God.
Friends with benefits is often sold as freedom, empowerment, and “no-strings-attached” fun — but why does it leave so many women feeling emptier, more anxious, and more broken than before?
In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily exposes the spiritual, emotional, and relational truth behind friends with benefits — a dating pattern God never designed and one that quietly breaks women’s hearts.
Through biblical wisdom and pe...
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