Girl, Date the Good Guy ™ | Toxic Relationship, Breakup, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags

What if the reason you can't recognize good love… isn't because something is wrong with him?

What if your past is still speaking louder than what's happening right in front of you?

Sis, let's talk about it.

When you've been through a toxic relationship, betrayal, manipulation, heartbreak, or repeated disappointment, it can change the way you see love. You learn to look for the red f...

Sis… being a Christian does not mean being a doormat.

And I know somebody needed to hear that.

In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re talking about boundaries—and what it actually looks like to love people without allowing them to disrespect you.

Because yes, we are called to love.

Yes, we are called to forgive.

Yes, we are called to extend grace.

But grace do...

I’m back, sis. ❤️

After three months in a Holy Pause—a season of consecration, surrender, and getting quiet with God—I’m finally back behind the microphone.

And I’m not coming back as the same woman who stepped away.

In this episode, I’m opening up about what happened during those three months and sharing parts of my story I haven’t really talked about here before.

I grew up in religion, sp...

Have you ever felt like you're walking in circles, repeating the same patterns, facing the same struggles, and wondering why nothing seems to change?

In today's episode, I'm sharing a powerful lesson God has been teaching me during this season of consecration and surrender:

Nothing changes if nothing changes.

Through a personal conversation with my daughter, a question from a coworker, and my own testimony of breaking free from a 2...

In this intimate check-in episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares a heartfelt update after stepping away from the podcast for a season of consecration. If you’ve ever felt led to pull back, get quiet, and reconnect with God—but didn’t fully understand why—this conversation will meet you right where you are.

Emily opens up about what the last few weeks have looked like behind the scenes: a season of ...

Have you ever felt God asking you to let something go… and it didn’t make sense?

In this deeply personal and Spirit-led episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re talking about what it really means to enter a season of consecration—when God calls you to step back, surrender control, and trust Him in the unknown.

This isn’t about losing something. It’s about being refined, realigned, and prepared ...

Who did you become in that relationship… and is that really who you are?

In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday, we’re gently unpacking the identity you may have picked up in heartbreak—the labels, the self-doubt, and the quiet ways toxic love can reshape how you see yourself.

Maybe you were called “too much.” Maybe you started to believe you were hard to love. Maybe you’re still carrying words that w...

Have you ever looked in the mirror after a breakup and didn’t recognize the woman staring back at you?

Toxic relationships don’t just break hearts… they blur identity. They slowly introduce lies like “I’m not enough,” “I’m too much,” or “I’m hard to love”—until you start questioning who you really are.

In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we&rsquo...

In this episode, we talk about the deeper reason you keep attracting toxic relationships—and how to finally break the cycle. This is for the woman who is tired of repeating the same patterns and ready to experience healthy, God-led love. By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with clarity, conviction, and a new standard for what you allow.

What You’ll Learn:

• How your identity influences what you attract
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Have you ever felt like you had to harden your heart just to survive what you went through?

In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday, we’re having a real, soul-deep moment about the softness you didn’t lose—but buried. The tenderness you tucked away after heartbreak, disappointment, and loving people who didn’t know how to love you back.

Sis… this is your Holy Pause—your moment to exhale and let Go...

In this Real Talk Friday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re diving deep into what it truly means to become a healed, authentic, soft—but strong—woman.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to harden your heart to survive toxic relationships, this episode will walk you through how God restores your softness without removing your strength.

We’re breaking down:

• The difference between being guarded ...

You left… so why do you still feel stuck?

Even after walking away from a toxic relationship, many women still carry the emotional weight of guilt, shame, and confusion. You may be free physically—but mentally and spiritually, you still feel tied to the past.

In this powerful, faith-based episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we walk through how to truly heal after heartbreak by releasing guilt, restoring your identity in...

"Are you living in the 'Silent Saturday' of your life? In this episode, we’re exploring The Day In Between—the space between the pain of your past and the beauty of God’s promise. If you are trusting God for a breakthrough but feel like He is silent, this word is for you."

Are you living in the “Silent Saturday” of your life?

That space where the relationship has ended… the decis...

Are you wondering what the real green flags are in a relationship after experiencing a toxic relationship, heartbreak, or emotional confusion?

In this powerful sister-to-sister episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re talking about the #1 green flag to look for in a man: a teachable heart.

If you’ve been stuck in cycles of dating emotionally unavailable men, ignoring red flags, or recovering from a toxic relationship, ...

So… you’re out. But now you’re asking—who am I without it?

Leaving a toxic relationship is one thing. But finding yourself again afterward? That’s the real journey.

In today’s episode, we’re walking through what it actually looks like to heal your identity with God after heartbreak, confusion, and emotional survival mode.

Because you didn’t just lose a relationship… You may ha...

So, the breakup happened… now you’re left with the silence.

In this tender and deeply relatable Soothe Her Soul Saturday, Emily speaks to the woman navigating the raw emotions of the day after the breakup—when everything feels heavy, quiet, and uncertain.

If you woke up missing someone who is no longer in your life… If your heart feels broken, confused, or overwhelmed… If you don’t know what t...

Are you trying to control your relationship after a toxic relationship, painful breakup, or deep heartbreak and betrayal?

In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily helps Christian women understand why control shows up after experiencing red flags, emotional trauma, and a broken heart—and how to finally let it go.

Using Ezekiel 7, this episode reveals how control becomes a false sense of safety and how God cal...

Sis… you finally left.

You walked away from the toxic relationship. You chose yourself. You chose God.

But now you’re sitting in the quiet wondering…

“Now what?”

In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re starting at the very beginning of your Holy Return—the season after the breakup.

Because the truth is… Leaving was just the first step.

Healing is where everything cha...

Letting go isn’t easy… even when you know it’s necessary.

In this deeply personal Soothe Her Soul Saturday, Emily shares her story of walking away from a toxic relationship, releasing the life she fought so hard for, and trusting God in the unknown.

If you’ve ever had to let go of a relationship, a version of yourself, or the life you thought you were going to have, this episode will meet you right where yo...