Tinder Tuesday: A Match Made In Kindergarten

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up Ashley and the jam In Morning Show with
DJ Florid and Sandy.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Here we go.

Speaker 1 (00:06):
It's Tender Tuesday on Bustin's number one for hip hop
and the best throwbacks jam at eighty four five. Hi, everybody,
good morning, It's Ashley in the jam In Morning. Shall
We're doing Tender Tuesday right here. We're talking dating, love relationships. Uh,
you guys, never disappoint. I'm just looking at the call screener. Now,
this is this is gonna be fun. Son.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Where should we start? Should we go to Summerville first?

Speaker 1 (00:29):
Hi? Kate, Hi, babe, I'm cringing right now, Like I'm
this is very uncomfortable for me. I don't I don't
do well with these types of things anyway, like romantic gestures,
especially like this.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
So tell everybody what happened.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
So pretty much after like three DS, it was going
relatively well. But we went to six flave on one
day and we went to like the Spooky Fest. This
is a couple of years ago, and we took a
picture in front of the roller one of the roller coasters,
and so he that was the only picture we had
taken together. It's been like three or four dates, like

(01:11):
we didn't have as much right now. It wasn't like
it was serious.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
I also, by the way, I don't even know when
taking your first picture together is acceptable in the dating process.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
Like I feel like on the third date, as a.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
Guy goes let me take a selfie with you, I'd
be like, no, I'm good.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
So anyways, you take it.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
I like that you would six Flags though, kind of
a cute date. So you're at six Flags, you take
a photo in front of this roller coaster. Tell everybody
what he did with the photo he.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
Printed out instead of Christmas cards? It was Thanksgiving time,
so he printed out like it wasn't even Christmas, it
was Happy Thanksgiving. There was like twenty of them, Like,
let's send these out to our family.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
Oh no, he's a legitimate murder. I mean we've seen
this before. We know he has killed somebody in his
How do you even respond to that? Like, so he
shows you, Hey, I went to see VS and printed
out twenty of our photo. When it hands it out
to family and friends after three dates, what did you say?

Speaker 3 (02:05):
I brought it to work?

Speaker 2 (02:08):
Oh no, we're losing her. So you brought it to work?

Speaker 3 (02:11):
Yeah, and I put it in the shredder and I
never talked to him again.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah. You know what, honey, smartest thing you ever did, Kate,
smartest thing you ever did. That is like, what, what
would possess a man to think that that's the play?

Speaker 4 (02:24):
Well, his thought process was that it was a sweet
thing to do. He just doesn't know he's going to
come off as like an air killery. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
Uh, Kate, you did the right thing. Are you with
somebody now? Have we moved on? Do we find happiness?

Speaker 3 (02:36):
Yeah? So there is hope. This was a couple of
years ago. I went through the ringer of the dating
apps for years and now a few months ago I
met somebody on hinge and it's been going really well.
He's very nice, he treats me very well so far.
So I love it.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
I love it well. Fingers crossed for you, Kate. I'll
be thinking about chef. Thank you if you're welcome, babe,
like psychotic, That man had no one in his life's
not a single friend to say sorry.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Let's just call him Joe. Joe.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
If you print out twenty pictures of the same photo
and handed to her and say Happy Thanksgiving, she's not
gonna like that.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
She's not gonna like that DEAs in Fall River.

Speaker 5 (03:12):
Hid, Hey, what's up?

Speaker 2 (03:15):
What's going on? We had a little date ski.

Speaker 5 (03:18):
Okay, So I haven't really dated in four years since
my demores. I have three kids, and so my daughter
comes home and she's raving about this little girl in
her kindergarten class and you know, this is my bestie
and everything. And so we meet this little girl at

(03:39):
the chunker tree at the school and oh my god,
she is adorable. Right. So I'm like, okay, well, let's
go meet your dad, you know. And I'm thinking that
this guy is going to be like ugly or whatever,
because we've been texting back and forth that we're going
to get the girl together at the trunk of tree kic.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
And so.

Speaker 5 (03:56):
I meet this guy and I'm like, wow, he's actually
good looking. And I'm like he's married. Nope, he wasn't
with with no mom for the kids, same situation that
I was in. He won't dat anybody either, right, So
our daughters, I'm gonna call this a match me in
kindergarten because our daughters like are sirs together. So now

(04:18):
we get all five of our kids together, and they
think that they're having a playdate while me and dad
are actually like sneaking up into the laundry rope.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
Oh my god, dude, why am I so creep ye
match mate in kindergarten? You're a mommy?

Speaker 5 (04:38):
Yeah. They we have five together and it's going well
so far. It's spent a little over a month and
I know it's too soon to tell, but thinks they're
going very well.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
I am just I just love every part of this.
So the kids still are they're.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Not in the know because we obviously want to make
sure that this is something, you know, potentially serious. But
have you guys had that discussion like that you could
see it going somewhere or are we just still like
hiding in the lodge?

Speaker 5 (05:02):
And absolutely absolutely so. We were out in the front
porch one night and he said, you know, when I
first met you, he goes, he sent me, I have
to get to know this girl.

Speaker 2 (05:14):
I want this, and he got this.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
You know what, my I was gonna see something And
I love every part of this.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
This makes me so humpy.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
Wow looking at you, Well, live it up, d This
is this is I mean, dare I say perfect?

Speaker 2 (05:30):
The kids are besties? This is nice? This is really
you know what love can happen after all. Do you
thank you for this?

Speaker 5 (05:38):
Absolutely?

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yeah, you too.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
A match mate and kender, there are kiddos are playing
and she's making out dirty on the dry or it's.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
Up tools we we just had a caller.

Speaker 6 (05:49):
He just disconnected, but he thought that that was okay
to take a picture and do that. His name was
Wade from Boston, to take a picture and give it
to you a family of friends. I said, let's man, I.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Don't know what you're talking about a little much. That
is too much.

Speaker 6 (06:03):
He said, That's what they used to do back in
the day at the Brockton Fair.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
You know you would take a twenty twenty four almost twenty. Yeah,
we don't do it. Oh, we don't. We're not doing that.
Let's let's continue tender Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
Oh man, guys six one seven nine three one one
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Speaker 2 (06:23):
We're talking dating, love, relationships and the hundry rooms. Hi babes,
good morning, It's Ashley and the jamb morning. So oh
my god, I just like I I love match made
in kindergarten so much. How perfect is that?

Speaker 1 (06:37):
She's like, I'm done dating, I have kids, he's like,
I'm done.

Speaker 4 (06:41):
I have a kid, and there's like some sort of
like a sexy little thing happening in the laundry room.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
I'm so and him telling her on a porch like
on a Halloween night that he wants this.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
I mean, I'm not.

Speaker 4 (06:53):
I'm not gonna lie, Like there have been thoughts that
like listen if Joanne wherever to that's away, you know,
and there are there there are some some yummies around
the town that I'm like, oh, potentially if things happen. No,
I don't want that. I don't want that, livm. But
but given the situation, like there are a few no,
all right, why she said that a different way?

Speaker 1 (07:16):
The man.

Speaker 4 (07:19):
All right, like I'm the only person who's ever thought that,
like like in like in their life.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
Come on, guys, you want to save you so bad?

Speaker 1 (07:27):
You want me to just go Katy, Katy, good morning,
good morning. All right, sal let's let's help your friend out.
What's and my friend, I mean, Santie, what's going on?
So I have a friend she's doing she and this
guy for about three months now.

Speaker 5 (07:46):
She's like she's loving it, like everything is going well
except for the deed. If you know, what I mean.
So she wanted some advice, but she's been too scared
to call, so I was like, I'll call.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
I love I love her.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
So basically, three months, there's it's perfect, Everything is great.
The only issue that she's having is the sexuals aren't good. Yeah, okay,
I my in the bedroom you have to be coachable
and that goes across the board for females, for males.

(08:20):
I just think that everybody has to be coachable, and
I don't think you should take it as a diss
or feel a type of way if somebody says to you.

Speaker 2 (08:27):
Hey, I like this, this makes me feel good.

Speaker 1 (08:31):
Now, what I think she needs to do is have
that little convo with him, and if he can't handle
said convo, then he might not be the one.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
And I know that sucks. But three months isn't three years.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
And I just think the sex can improve, like it
really can't. Without going into much detail, has she said
anything like is he selfish in the bedroom? Is like.

Speaker 5 (08:57):
She said here and there she'll be like, oh I did,
but it's just not I guess they're not speaking the
same sex language language.

Speaker 4 (09:07):
Yeah, but I also think that's something that could develop,
like over time, too, it's still.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
How much time to get it? How much time do
you waste something?

Speaker 4 (09:14):
I think the last straw then in that case is
maybe just tell him that you don't like certain things
and you like like this.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
Yeah I know, and then if he doesn't.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
But but some guys wouldn't be able to respond to that,
Like would that be tough for your joels if a
woman was like, I don't like ABC and D that
you're doing.

Speaker 6 (09:29):
If somebody text me and said I want you to
you know what I'm saying and just spelled it out,
I don't see what's wrong with that.

Speaker 1 (09:36):
And some guys need that for real, and I'm just
saying that. And look, maybe some girls do too, but
like some guys need to know exactly what to do
and they're okay with that. So I just think she
has to start being more specific. And if it doesn't
happen and she's not feeling it, then she might not ever,
which sucks.

Speaker 4 (09:53):
Yeah, yeah, true.

Speaker 2 (09:56):
Okay, Well, thank you guys, you're welcome. Katie or Son.
She could always kill him, I know, if would kill him,
I don't know. If he's dead, she don't have to
have the conversation, you know,