Name To Be Determined

Amanda and Amelia are back with their weekly Turning vs Grinding check-in, and this episode spirals from overpriced editors to spiritual awakenings, friendship revelations, and the weirdly tiny moments that end up changing your entire life.

Amelia shares a recent grind after searching for a developmental editor for her book and realising a past acquaintance once quoted her £10,000 without even asking the right questions first. The ...

Amanda and Amelia are back with a Turning vs Grinding check-in before stepping firmly onto their most unapologetic opinions, aka the hills they’re absolutely dying on.

Amelia is turning after cutting down phone time and feeling more productive (growth, discipline, we love it), while Amanda is grinding over people — including delivery drivers — letting themselves into her home without knocking. Boundaries? Gone. Manners? Missing. Do...

Amanda and Amelia are recording remotely and kicking off with their weekly Turning vs Grinding — and the energy is very self-aware.

Amelia is turning, feeling freer sharing her work without overthinking or attachment to outcomes (growth, we love to see it). Amanda is grinding over people who refuse to let others make their own choices — a special kind of control disguised as concern.

Then they get into it:

Is being petty actually ...

Amanda and Amelia are back with their weekly Turning vs Grinding — and for once, it’s giving growth.

Amelia is turning after her daughter gets into her chosen secondary school (we love a win 🥹), while Amanda shares a quieter shift: finally being able to let misaligned people exit her life without spiralling. Growth, but make it peaceful.

Then they get into the real question:

Are we becoming more emotionally intelligent… or just mo...

Amanda and Amelia are back with their weekly Turning vs Grinding — and this one starts wholesome before spiralling (naturally).

Amanda shares a rare morning win: patience, calm, and getting the kids out the door without losing the plot. Growth! Meanwhile, Amelia is dealing with Milo the menace, her independent cat who disappeared for four days, briefly returned to pee in the garden, and left again. Iconic. Disrespectful. On brand.

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Amanda and Amelia kick things off with their weekly Turning vs Grinding check-in and a reminder to follow the podcast and leave a review (feed the algorithm gods, please!).

Amelia is grinding over the UK’s relentless grey weather, while Amanda reflects on something deeper: the exhaustion of code-switching as a person of colour.

From there, the conversation widens into the strange emotional whiplash of modern news and social media. ...

Amanda and Amelia return with their weekly Turns vs Grinds check-in before diving straight into the annual Valentine’s Day debate. Is it really a “manufactured holiday,” or are some people just allergic to making an effort?

The hosts unpack relationship expectations, emotional labour, and the bare-minimum energy that seems to haunt modern dating.

Then it’s time for the internet’s favourite moral courtroom: Reddit’s “Am I the Asshol...

Amanda and Amelia are back — battling 2026 London rain, low vitamin D, and the emotional hangover of being back in real life. ☁️

After a quick “turning or grinding” check-in, they dive into the viral question taking over social media: Is it actually embarrassing to have a boyfriend now?

Inspired by a headline-grabbing Vogue article, this episode explores how modern dating, social media, and validation culture have changed the way w...

In this episode of Name To Be Determined, Amanda and Amelia get real about the unspoken rules of modern friendship — from “monitoring spirits” (the people who watch everything you do online but never show up IRL) to the slow fade of friendships that no longer fit.

They unpack emotional imbalance, unmet expectations, and the uncomfortable truth that not every friendship is meant to last forever. Amelia shares a personal moment of fe...

This week’s episode of Name To Be Determined kicks off with a very London drama: a neighbour, a stray cat, and an entire street ignoring common decency (typical 🙄).

Later, Amanda and Amelia dive head-first into the messy world of beauty standards, interracial dating, and the unspoken social rules we’re all expected to follow:

✨ Why “pretty privilege” isn’t the same for everyone?

✨ Navigating dating as mixed-race or interracial cou...

In this week’s episode of Name To Be Determined, Amanda and Amelia dive straight back in with a hilarious catch-up on names, moods, and whether they're “turning or grinding” through life, we slide into a softer parenting moment… before taking a sharp left turn into the wild world of AI.

From daily life hacks to emotional outsourcing, they dig into how ChatGPT is showing up in modern relationships — including the rise of chat-fishin...

Best friends Amanda Millie and Amelia Fergusson return after a two-year break with a fresh, unfiltered reboot of Name To Be Determined. In this comeback episode, they reintroduce themselves, reflect on how much they’ve grown, and dive into the realities of modern dating, self-worth, and setting boundaries in relationships.

They share their weekly “turning or grinding” moments, unpack performative friendships, and laugh about everyt...