DON’T BE A D!CK the podcast

DON’T BE A D!CK the podcast

🎙️ DON’T BE A D!CK Hosted by Lindsay Matthes & Ivie Van Lent Welcome to DON’T BE A D!CK, the podcast that proves kindness isn’t just soft—it's strategic, powerful, and absolutely necessary in today’s homes, workplaces, and communities. Hosted by Lindsay Matthes, award-winning HR strategist, international speaker, TEDx powerhouse, and author of Don’t Be A D!ck: HR Advice for a Kinder, Healthier, More Successful Workplace, and her daughter Ivie Van Lent, a fierce queer leftist, community organizer, activist, and cat-mom extraordinaire—this show brings real talk, real stories, and real solutions to the messy places where humanity and leadership collide. Every episode, Lindsay and Ivie pull back the curtain on what it actually means to lead and live with kindness—beyond the buzzwords and corporate posters. From toxic workplace behaviors to outdated leadership habits, from bias to burnout, from unkind choices to unconscious “Dick moves,” they tackle it all through two generations, two worldviews, and one shared mission: 👉 Make the world less d!cky, one conversation at a time. Expect: ✨ candid mother-daughter banter ✨ spicy takes on work, culture, activism, and humanity ✨ stories from HR trenches and grassroots organizing ✨ the courage to call out the hard stuff ✨ practical tools to lead, parent, love, manage, and show up better ✨ a safe, inclusive space where authenticity isn’t optional—it’s the whole point Whether you’re an HR pro, a leader, an activist, a parent, or just a human trying to stop being (or dealing with) a d!ck… this podcast gives you the insight, laughs, and kick-in-the-pants inspiration to do better. Because kindness isn’t weakness. Kindness is change in action. And it starts with us. Hit play, grow some courage, and let’s build a kinder world—together. 🙌

Episodes

December 24, 2025 • 52 mins

In this episode of Don’t be a Dick! Ivie and Lindsay navigate how to deal with family pressures and difficult relationships during the holidays.  They discuss setting boundaries, meeting people where they are at, and when it is appropriate to just leave.  

 

Family can be difficult, but you are not the only one struggling.  Tune in to get some good tips on how to respond to inappropriate comments, how to decide if someone is worth ...

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On this episode of Don’t be a Dick! Ivie and Lindsay discuss navigating the holidays without falling prey to overconsumption.  What are the traditions that we value?  Where does holiday joy come from?  And why is it important that we limit our spending this time of year?

Join them to fall into the magic of the winter holidays, and the nostalgia that goes along with it-- from circling the best Black Friday deals in newspapers, to fe...

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Hosted by Lindsay Mattes & Ivie Van Lent

In this lively and unfiltered episode, Lindsay Mattes—author, speaker, and founder of Pioneer HR—and her eldest daughter, Ivie Van Lent—queer activist, leftist, and certified witchy weirdo—dig into the origin and meaning behind their bold podcast title: Don’t Be a D!ck.

Lindsay shares the hilarious moment a harassment prevention training turned unforgettable when she blurted out the phra...

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Lindsay Mattes and Ivie Van Lent kick off the Don’t Be a D!ck podcast with a candid conversation about kindness, ethics, activism, and navigating a complex world with empathy and humor. From HR dilemmas to feminist roots and political perspectives, this intro episode sets the tone for real, thoughtful, and sometimes weird discussions on how to make better choices without being a d!ck.

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