The Fighters Drinking Coffee Podcast

Hosts Scott Dance and Michael Sutherland recap their weekend at the Virginia Open: coaching 15 athletes, guiding first-time IBJJF competitors, and celebrating wins from newcomers to longtime stars like friend of the show Big John.

Topics include coaching strategies (simplified in-match cues, tailoring instruction by experience), scenario-based training and performance days, standing takedowns and passing-from-feet gaps discovered a...

Hosts Scott Dance and Michael Sutherland break down Scott’s recent solo trip to the American Nationals and dig into the mental side of competition. They discuss pre-match anxiety, intrusive thoughts, and the unique challenge of competing alone versus in a team environment.

The episode covers practical strategies: simplifying focus to the next action, using warm-up routines and mental triggers, writing notes after matches, and...

Join hosts Scott Dance and Michael Sutherland (with a combined 40 years of grappling experience) as they break down the value of internal competition in jiu-jitsu gyms: your battle buddies, accountability partners, and the scrimmages that sharpen both technique and tactical thinking.

They discuss how friendly rivalries push consistency, force you to diversify setups and timing, and develop the mental agility required to execute und...

Hosts Michael Sutherland and Scott Dance dig into a listener’s question: why does the BJJ community sometimes look down on people who don’t compete? They explore hierarchy, ego, social media’s role in amplifying validation-seeking, and whether competitive culture bleeds over from wrestling.

The episode covers coaches’ perspectives, the value of hobbyists as essential training partners, how competition can ma...

Hosts Scott Dance and Michael Sutherland (combined 40 years of grappling experience) break down how to build and maintain a healthy jiu-jitsu community. They cover the owner’s role in seeding culture, vetting new members, and choosing coaches who extend core values.

The episode explores practical systems such as onboarding/induction, coach selection, student ambassadors, and handling difficult personnel decisions; plus, why t...

Welcome to Fighters Drinking Coffee with hosts Scott Dance and Michael Sutherland — two grapplers with roughly 40 years of combined experience who share the hard-earned lessons they wish they’d known earlier. In this episode they lay out the podcast’s mission: to compress mistakes (bad training, brutal conditioning, awful weight cuts, and training through injuries) into practical, safer, faster ways to improve you...

Join hosts Scott Dance and Michael Sutherland of Fighters Drinking Coffee, two mat veterans with 40 years of combined grappling experience, as they break down how to flip the mental and physical switch from casual training to competition mode. This episode covers planning, programming, and the small but critical changes that get you competition-ready.

They discuss training structure and intensity (how to shift from exploratory mat ...

Hosts Scott Dance and Michael Sutherland explore why people fall out of love with jiu-jitsu. Covering stress, anxiety, boredom, injuries, finances, relationship pressures, and toxic gym cultures. They discuss practical fixes like reframing your "why," changing scenery, downshifting frequency, setting timelines for breaks, cross-training, and teaching to regain motivation.

The episode also shifts to the coach’s perspective on ...

Hosts Scott Dance and Michael Sutherland discuss how hierarchy and ego affect learning in jiu-jitsu, and why training with everyone (even lower belts) can expand your game. They introduce practical ideas like the 50/50 split between execution and exploration, intentional rolling, and competing as an outlet for ego expression.

The episode also launches a new segment, "Combat Confessions," featuring a wild Reddit open-mat story abou...

In this episode Scott and Mike dive into the psychology of training; why we started jiu‑jitsu, why we keep going, and how to find motivation when it fades. They share origin stories, talk about competition as a tool for learning, and explain how purpose can direct your day‑to‑day training.

Topics include the difference between your long‑term “why” and short‑term motivation, using competition to test and measure progress...

Welcome back to the Fighters Drinking Coffee podcast. In this episode we focus on how to restructure your training to get past sticking points in your jiu-jitsu progression. Hosts discuss practical steps like increasing frequency, changing training partners or class formats, setting measurable goals, and committing to focused, repeated practice. They cover troubleshooting techniques such as using workshops, privates, partner feedba...

In this episode of Fighters Drinking Coffee the hosts return from a long road trip and dive into the thin line between productive control and unhealthy obsession around training, competition, and habits. They discuss weight cutting strategies, meal timing, and building systems that reduce last-minute panic.

 Scott and Mike (with mentions of Kate, Andrea, and Leo) as they break down tape study: what to watch, how much is useful...

On this episode of Fighters Drinking Coffee the hosts dig into recent sexual misconduct and abuse allegations rocking the BJJ community — including high-profile cases tied to Atos/Andre Galvão, Melqui Galvão, and reports from 10th Planet and CheckMat. They discuss institutional mishandling, power dynamics, and the ripple effects these revelations have had across affiliations and athletes.

The conversation covers why jiu-jitsu...

This episode is coming to you from the road, where we were still joined by Andrea and Kate, while enroute to the Chicago Open.

on this episode we discussed training with men vs. women, the value of bigger training partners for building physicality, but the unique benefit of female partners when you want a realistic look at your weight class. We also dive into the mindset of women who train by discussing the experiences of Kate and ...

On this episode of Fighters Drinking Coffee, hosts and guests Kate, Andrea, Scott and Leo recap the Chicago Open weekend: match results, immediate rematches, and what went right (and what didn’t) on the mats.

We dig into match-by-match breakdowns and key takeaways — including tactical adjustments, live coaching captured with mic’d coaches for post-match film review, and lessons learned from running it back. Plus t...

On today's episode we are joined by a few fellow competitors as we were on the road to Chicago.  We focused on the topic of managing your weight cut during travel. Using our plan for the ten hour drive we were on. We also get into discussions about the types of food we bring for travel, adhering to the Fighters Drinking Coffee Rules of the Road and Systematically Maintaining the Weight Cut. Hope you enjoy the show and our road...

In this episode of Fighters Drinking Coffee the hosts discuss how gyms can welcome newcomers and help them become long-term jiu-jitsu students, and how new members—whether white belts or experienced visitors—can fit into a new community.

Topics include reading the room, expectations for experienced visitors, how existing members can include and mentor newcomers, preventing injury and burnout, and practical tips to build...

On this episode David Bergida joins the show to discuss his transition from Division I wrestling to MMA, his training and fight-week rituals, and how he balances competition with family life.

They also dig into health and optimization — David’s experience with a pituitary condition, sleep strategies he uses (including the creation of his Hibernation Honey supplement), diet approaches, travel routines, and the launch of ...

On today’s episode of Fighters Drinking Coffee we wrap up our Dallas trip, share the "rules of the road" for competing and traveling for jiu-jitsu, and trade practical tips on weight management, pre- and post-competition meals, venue logistics, and in-event rituals.

We also announce upcoming stops like Chicago and Nationals, and reflect on travel mishaps, Delilah’s supper club, Terry Black’s barbecue, and lessons ...