Beneath the Behavior: Supporting Neurodivergent Kids With Science, Not Shame

Beneath the Behavior: Supporting Neurodivergent Kids With Science, Not Shame

Beneath the Behavior is a podcast for parents of neurodivergent kids who want understanding instead of blame. Hosted by pediatric psychologist Dr. Mark Bowers, each episode explores what’s really going on beneath a child’s behavior—from a brain and nervous system perspective—so parents can respond with more clarity and less self-doubt. This podcast isn’t about quick fixes or perfect parenting. It’s about slowing things down, making sense of hard moments, and supporting neurodivergent kids with science, not shame. Episodes are short, focused, and grounded in real clinical experience. If parenting feels harder than it should, you’re not alone—and you’re in the right place.

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December 28, 2025 11 mins

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Meltdowns and tantrums often look similar on the outside—but what’s happening underneath is very different.

In this episode, pediatric psychologist Dr. Mark Bowers explains why confusing meltdowns with tantrums leads to so much unnecessary blame, escalation, and exhaustion for parents of neurodivergent kids.

We’ll talk about what regulation actually means, why punishment doesn’t work during meltdowns, and how much commo...

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In this first episode, pediatric psychologist Dr. Mark Bowers introduces the purpose and approach of Beneath the Behavior.

If parenting feels harder than you expected—confusing, exhausting, or isolating—you’re not alone. Many parents of neurodivergent kids try everything they’re told to do and still feel like they’re missing something.

In this episode, we slow things down and talk about why so much parenting advice does...

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