Beyond Mommy Dearest Podcast

Beyond Mommy Dearest Podcast

Beyond Mommy Dearest is a podcast for adult daughters navigating the complicated, often painful reality of difficult, emotionally immature, or narcissistic mothers. Hosted by a trauma-informed leadership coach, this show explores the long-term impact of mother-daughter wounds, boundary setting, grief, identity, and healing beyond blame. Through honest conversations, education, and lived experience, Beyond Mommy Dearest helps listeners reconnect with themselves, trust their instincts, and move forward with clarity, compassion, and strength.

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August 14, 2026 64 mins

Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!!

Trigger warning: Today’s episode includes conversations about childhood sexual abuse, physical and emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse, and family trauma.
 
What happens when the person who was supposed to protect you becomes the source of your trauma?

In this deeply personal episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani sits down with Alex, found...

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The Hidden Damage of Narcissistic Mothers | How to Heal and Reclaim Yourself

What happens when the person who was supposed to love and protect you instead competes with you, manipulates you, and leaves you questioning your worth?

In this deeply moving conversation, I sit down with Lydia, artist, TEDx speaker, founder of Girls on Country, and coach for d...

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What happens when a narcissist gains absolute power?

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dr. Christine Marie, featured in Netflix's Trust Me: The False Prophet, to discuss her undercover work helping expose Samuel Bateman and rescue women and children from coercive control.

While this story centers on a cult, the psychological tactics will sound incredibl...

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Caring for aging Narcissistic Parents: How to Protect your peace after No Contact Part 2 ⭐

When children grow up in abusive, chaotic, or violent homes, siblings often become each other's lifeline. The bond formed through surviving trauma together can create an unspoken promise: I'll protect you, no matter what.

In this powerful conversation, we explore ...

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What happens when the person who should have protected you becomes the source of your deepest wounds?

In this episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, John shares his journey of growing up with a narcissistic mother, the lasting impact of childhood emotional abuse, and how those experiences followed him into fatherhood, family court, and parental alienation. Most impo...

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What happens when an abusive parent grows old?

For many survivors of narcissistic abuse, this is one of the most complicated questions they'll ever face. Society tells us to honor our parents, but very few people talk about what happens when those parents were the source of lifelong trauma.

In Part 1 of this conversation, Katherine shares the story that led to ...

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Burning It All Down: Escaping a Narcissistic Mother, Healing CPTSD, and Finding Safety 

What happens when the person who was supposed to protect you is the person who taught you that love, safety, and survival all come with conditions?

In this powerful episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani Pearl Hernandez sits down with actor, filmmaker, writer, and sur...

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Healing After Narcissistic Abuse: Rebuild Self-Trust, Heal Your Nervous System & Reclaim Yourself | Coach Denalee

Healing from narcissistic abuse is about more than surviving—it's about rebuilding trust in yourself, calming your nervous system, and reclaiming the life that was always yours.

In this episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Coach Denalee shares...

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High-Conflict Divorce, Narcissism & Family Court: Fighting for Your Children

Disclaimer

This episode reflects personal experiences, opinions, and perspectives shared during the conversation. It is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as legal advice, psychological diagnosis, medical advice, or professional guidance. E...

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In this powerful episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani sits down with narcissistic abuse recovery coach Sami for an honest conversation about healing, self-trust, nervous system regulation, and breaking free from toxic relationship patterns.

Sami shares her personal journey through multiple narcissistic relationships and explains how those experiences led h...

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In this powerful episode, Noelani sits down with trauma recovery advocate Chris to explore what it means to heal from narcissistic parenting and reclaim a sense of self.

Chris shares his personal journey from addiction recovery to becoming one of the most recognized voices discussing narcissistic parents, childhood trauma, emotional neglect, and complex PTSD o...

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When Love Hurts: Inside I Love You, My Narcissist


In this episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, host Noelani Pearl Hernandez sits down with Ali and Stefanie Schmahl, the producers behind the powerful upcoming film I Love You, My Narcissist. Together, they explore the emotional complexity of loving someone whose behavior is manipulative, controlling, and deeply ...

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Silence Was Survival. Healing Became Her Voice. | Barbara, Author of Spells for Surviving a Haunted Childhood

What happens when the secrets you've carried your entire life finally find their way onto the page?

In this deeply moving episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani sits down with Barbara, author of the powerful trilogy Spells for Surviving a Haunted Chil...

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This Is Not In Your Head: The Neuroscience of Narcissistic Abuse

In this deeply validating and eye-opening episode, Noelani Pearl Hernandez sits down with Meghan Woods, Licensed MFT, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional II, and Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician, for a powerful conversation about the long-term impact of narcissistic abuse on th...

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What do cult leaders and narcissistic mothers have in common?

More than most people realize.

In this gripping episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani sits down with Mark Vicente for a powerful conversation about narcissistic abuse, coercive control, cult psychology, trauma bonds, and the shocking similarities between cult leaders and narcissistic family system...

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What happens when love, manipulation, control, and confusion all exist in the same relationship?

In this deeply validating episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani sits down with counselor and criminologist Shalina Lodhia to unpack the hidden realities of narcissism, coercive control, intergenerational trauma, and emotional abuse. Together, they explore how su...

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Male Narcissistic Abuse Survivor Story: Covert Narcissist Wife,  Gaslighting, Financial  Abuse & Smear Campaigns

🎙️ Abuse has no gender.

In this powerful episode of the Beyond Mommy Dearest Podcast, Noelani sits down with Doug Buggle, featured in The Narcissist Playbook, to talk about surviving covert narcissistic abuse, navigating the af...

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When Your Own Family Betrays You: The Breaking Point That Leads to No Contact

In this episode, we’re talking about the kind of betrayal that changes everything.

Joy shares the moment she uprooted her life to take care of her family… only to be discarded without warning. No conversation. No accountability. Just a notice on her door giving her 30 day...

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Episode Summary

In this powerful and deeply validating conversation, Noelani sits down with Kylie B., author of The Narcissist’s Daughter, to explore what it really means to grow up with a narcissistic mother and the long road to healing.

Kylie shares her journey from confusion and self-blame to clarity, self-trust, and ultimately going no contact...

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🎙️ Let’s Get Your Shift Together: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse & Rebuilding Self-Trust

In this episode, we’re talking with Adriana Bucci about the kind of shift that actually changes your life, not the surface-level “just think positive” kind, but the deep, nervous-system, identity-level shift that happens when you start untangl...

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