iDeall Relationships

In this episode, we take a closer look at how the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator works by exploring its four core dimensions: where we get our energy, how we gather information, how we make decisions, and how we approach life. Deacon Tom and Jeb explain the meaning behind the sixteen personality types while discussing the assessment's original purpose and its practical uses in relationships, workplaces, and personal development. They ...

In this episode of iDeall Relationships, Deacon Tom and Jeb explore the fascinating history behind one of the world's most recognized personality assessments—the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). While millions of people have taken the assessment over the years, many know very little about how it originated, who created it, and the purpose behind its development.

The conversation begins by tracing the MBTI back to the work ...

In this episode of iDeall Relationships, Deacon Tom and Jeb explore one of the most common relationship trends in today's dating culture: the "situationship." While often presented as casual and commitment-free, situationships can leave individuals feeling confused, emotionally drained, and uncertain about where they stand. The discussion examines why these undefined relationships have become so prevalent and how Catholics can appr...

In this episode of iDeall Relationships, Deacon Tom and Jeb explore many of the challenges people encounter while navigating today's dating culture. From fear of rejection and poor communication to unrealistic expectations and uncertainty about commitment, the conversation examines why forming healthy relationships has become increasingly difficult and how Catholics can respond with faith, wisdom, and intentionality.

The discussion...

In this episode of iDeall Relationships, Deacon Tom and Jeb take an honest look at the realities of dating in today's culture and the unique challenges faced by singles seeking authentic, Christ-centered relationships. From dating apps and social media to changing cultural expectations and communication habits, the conversation explores how modern dating has become increasingly complicated—and how Catholics can navigate it wi...

In this episode of iDeall Relationships, Deacon Tom and Jeb welcome back special guest Bethany Kline to discuss a topic that is often misunderstood and rarely addressed within the Catholic community: life after divorce. Together, they explore the emotional, spiritual, and practical challenges many divorced Catholics face while offering hope, healing, and encouragement rooted in the teachings of the Church.

The conversation begins b...

In this episode of iDeall Relationships, Deacon Tom and Jeb welcome special guests Meghan Elfelt and Maria Mumaugh, co-founders of The Intentional Single ministry and hosts of the podcast Thriving in the Space Between. Together, they explore what it means to embrace the season of singleness with purpose, faith, and hope, rather than viewing it as a period of waiting for life to begin.

The conversation examines the realities of mode...

In this episode of iDeall Relationships, Deacon Tom and Jeb explore the unique and irreplaceable role fathers play in the lives of their children and the lasting impact fatherhood has on individuals, families, and society. Drawing from research, personal experiences, and a faith-based perspective, the conversation highlights how fathers contribute to a child's emotional, social, intellectual, and spiritual development in ways that ...

In episode 11 of iDeall Relationships, Deacon Tom and Jeb explore three simple but essential ingredients that help healthy marriages thrive: commitment, communication, and compromise. While every marriage faces challenges, the discussion focuses on how these three foundational principles can help couples build stronger, more resilient relationships rooted in love, trust, and faith.

The conversation begins with the importance of com...

In episode 10 of iDeall Relationships, Deacon Tom and Jeb explore one of the most important and misunderstood topics in human life: love. In a culture that often defines love primarily as an emotion, attraction, or personal fulfillment, this conversation examines what authentic love truly is from a Catholic perspective and why understanding it correctly is essential for healthy relationships.

The episode focuses on the concept of a...

In Episode 9 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid explore the importance of perseverance and how the ability to endure through hardship, setbacks, and uncertainty shapes both our relationships and our faith. In a culture that often encourages people to quit when life becomes difficult, this conversation focuses on the value of resilience, determination, and trusting God through life's challenges.

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In Episode 8 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid reflect on the irreplaceable role mothers play in the lives of their children, families, and society as a whole. In a culture that often measures success by career achievement and productivity, this conversation highlights the deep emotional, spiritual, and developmental importance of motherhood.

The discussion centers on how a mother's love helps shape a child's...

In Episode 7 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid welcome special guest Bethany Kline from the 365 Catholic Singles Community and the Catholic Singles Newsletter for an honest and faith-centered conversation about modern dating and the challenges Catholic singles face today.

Together, they explore how dating culture has changed dramatically over the last decade, especially with the rise of dating apps, swipe cul...

In Episode 6 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid reflect on the idea that every relationship we encounter in life—both positive and painful—has value and purpose in God's plan. Titled Never Regret Meeting Anyone, the conversation explores how even difficult relationships can teach us important lessons, shape our character, and ultimately draw us closer to Christ.

The discussion acknowledges that not...

In Episode 5 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid step back from the pace of everyday life to ask a deeper question: What will truly matter at the end of our lives? In a culture that often prioritizes money, success, recognition, and achievement, it's easy to lose sight of what has lasting value.

Through a faith-centered lens, the conversation highlights how relationships, especially those rooted in Christ, are ...

In Episode 4 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid take a closer look at how modern dating culture has shifted away from intentional, future-focused relationships toward something much more casual and short-term. With the rise of hookup culture and a “take it day-by-day” mindset, many people are dating without a clear purpose or long-term vision—often avoiding conversations about commitment, mar...

In Episode 3 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid focus on how dating, marriage, and relationships began to shift significantly in the 1960s and 1970s amid broader cultural changes. They discuss how increased personal freedom and evolving social norms influenced expectations around relationships for both men and women, and how those changes carried into the 1980s, helping shape the foundations of today's dating ...

In Episode 2 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid continue their journey through the history of dating by focusing on one of the most transformative periods in modern relationships. From the structured courtship of the late 1800s to the cultural shifts of the 1940s and 1950s, they explore how World War II reshaped dating, gender roles, and expectations. As society moved into the post-war boom and toward the soci...

In the first episode of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid introduce themselves and set the stage for the program by exploring the origins of dating and relationships. They begin with a look at a time before modern dating existed, when marriages were often arranged, and walk through the early development of dating practices up through the 1950s. From there, Dcn. Tom and Jeb briefly transition into the modern dati...