BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
Episodes
- Have you ever been told to “just move on” after betrayal?
- Or maybe you’ve said it to yourself in an attempt to survive the pain?
Today's episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I'm exposing the hidden dangers of rug-sweeping after infidelity — and why trying to bypass the healing process can actually destroy your marriage.
You’ll learn:
💔 Why skipping the healing process keeps you stuck in emotional and spiritual crisis ⚠️ T...
Do intrusive thoughts keep hijacking your mind after betrayal?
You’re not crazy, and you’re certainly not alone. In today's episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I am helping you uncover what intrusive thoughts really are, why they happen after infidelity, and how to stop them once and for all through a God-centered approach.
You’ll discover: 💭 The top 3 reasons intrusive thoughts take over your mind 🧠 How betrayal tra...
In this powerful episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, we're diving deep into a question so many Christian women ask after betrayal: Why did he cheat?
We’ll unpack 5 common myths society tells us about infidelity—and reveal the 5 deeper, hidden heart wounds that are often at the root of unfaithfulness.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about understanding the real reasons behind betrayal so you can begin to heal God’s way.
We also share...
If you’ve recently discovered infidelity, an affair, or your spouse’s struggle with sexual addiction, you may be asking the hard questions no one talks about out loud.
In this powerful episode, Lisa and BrittLimehouse—Christian marriage coaches and founders of Marriage Redesigned—walk you through the top 7 questions couples ask after betrayal, including the one question most betrayed wives feel too afraid to voice:
👉 Will he ever ...
Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your husband feeling...confused? Especially after the betrayal.
Maybe even questioning what really happened —or wondering if you’re the one who’s losing it?
You find yourself second-guessing your memory...your emotions...even your sanity — especially after the betrayal.
If that sounds familiar, you may be dealing with something called...gaslighting.
And in today’s episode — we’re g...
D-Day. The day everything changed. The day I discovered my husband was having an affair.
For me, it was a random weekday — ordinary in every way... until it wasn’t.
I remember the moment I saw the truth staring back at me — a message, a phone call, a slip-up. It felt like time slowed down. My heart pounded so hard I could hear it in my ears. My knees buckled. I felt sick. And in that split second, my entire reality shattered.
Maybe...
The pain of his betrayal feels unbearable, doesn’t it? Like a weight pressing down on your chest, stealing your breath, shattering your sense of security, trust, and identity. You might be wondering:
“Will I ever stop hurting?” “Why does it feel like I’m breaking into a million pieces?”
Sweet friend, I want you to know that this pain you're feeling is not a sign of weakness—it’s a sign that something sacred was violated. And deny...
In this powerful episode, Christian marriage coach and betrayal trauma specialist Lisa Limehouse explores the devastating impact of infidelity on the body, mind, and spirit — and what God’s Word says about the path to true healing.
You’ll discover:
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The physical symptoms of betrayal trauma, backed by recent research
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The emotional and psychological effects of marital infidelity
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How spiritual wounds develop after betrayal — ...
Today is Part 2 with our Special Guests - Katie & Michael Bommarito
They will be sharing the second part of their story of brokenness to breakthrough.
Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more than a decade of serving in full time ministry, those dreams shattered with the publ...
Today I have some special guests!
First, my hubby is in the house! So excited to have him by my side as we interview a great couple Katie and Michael Bommarito.
They will be sharing their story of brokenness to breakthrough.
Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more ...
If you’ve ever felt pressure to “just move on,” to suppress your emotions, or to act like everything is fine when it’s not, then today’s episode is for you.
We’re tackling a powerful truth: Healing doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t happen. You can rebuild your life and marriage without denying your pain. In fact, true healing requires facing it.
Let’s talk about what that looks like, why...
I want to get real with you today...
Healing after betrayal is hard.
Some of you have been doing all the “right things,” yet you still feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure if your marriage can be restored.
Why?
Because there are key mistakes that many betrayed wives make that keep them trapped in the cycle of pain.
So today, I’m breaking down the 3 biggest mistakes that keep women stuck after betrayal—and what you can do instead to ...
I am asked this question quite often, "My husband is having and affair and he refuses to stop. What do I do?"
Beautiful, I hear you. I understand that anguish. I was there.
My husband refuses to stop his affair for 1.5 years. It was devastating and exhausting.
Today’s topic is one that I know weighs heavy on many of you: What do you do when your husband refuses to end the affair? You’ve prayed. You’ve pleaded. You’ve cried more t...
Why do women fall into the trap of comparing themselves to the affair person after betrayal?
In today's episode, we’re tackling a trap that so many betrayed wives fall into—competing with the affair person. If you've ever felt like you need to “win” your spouse back by trying to be sexier, more exciting, or more like the other woman, this episode is for you. We’re going to break down why this mindset is ...
🚨TRIGGER WARNING🚨
Today's episode tackles a tough but necessary question that many Christian couples struggle with:
Is watching pornography or engaging in masturbation outside of intimacy with my spouse really considered cheating?
The world says no—it’s harmless, normal, and even beneficial.
But as Christians, we don’t define marriage through the world’s lens—we define it through God’s.
What is the sta...
Why Do Women Self-Sabotage After Betrayal?
After betrayal, the emotional pain can feel overwhelming. The enemy wants to keep you stuck in a cycle of fear, doubt, and self-destruction. Self-sabotage is often a subconscious way to protect yourself from further pain, but in reality, it keeps you from experiencing the full healing and restoration that God desires for you. But there is a better way. You can stop the self-s...
One of the most painful aspects of choosing to reconcile after marital betrayal is facing the disapproval of family members who don’t agree with your decision. They may believe they are protecting you, or they may struggle to trust your spouse again after seeing your pain. Sometimes, this disapproval can lead to being shut out, leaving you feeling isolated and torn between your marriage and your family.
If you are in ...
Are you ready to reclaim your life and restore your marriage after betrayal?
Do you wonder if you could actually find healing inside of a group coaching program?
Will it be safe?
Today, I'm sharing 3 reasons why healing happens faster inside of a group coaching program when you have experienced betrayal trauma.
Let's talk about it...
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NEXT STEPS:
If you’ve been struggling with overwhelming emotions, confusion, or even physical symptoms after betrayal, you are not alone. Today, we’re going to dive deep into the top five symptoms of betrayal trauma, how they affect you, and how you can begin the healing process.
I also have an exciting opportunity for you—my 6-month group coaching program, "Roadmap to Recovery: Healing from Marital Betrayal God’s Way," begins on February 10th...
Emotional dysregulation is a state where your emotions feel overwhelming, unpredictable, or out of control. It’s as if your emotional thermostat is broken—one moment you’re completely numb, and the next, you’re consumed by anger, grief, or panic. For women experiencing betrayal trauma, this is a common and natural response to the immense emotional shock and pain of discovering infidelity.
In today’s episode, we’re tackling that imp...
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