Shades of Trauma Healing | Childhood Trauma, Trust Issues, Coping Skills, Growth Mindset, Trust God, Discernment, Purpose

Shades of Trauma Healing | Childhood Trauma, Trust Issues, Coping Skills, Growth Mindset, Trust God, Discernment, Purpose

*** Top 2.5% Podcast *** Do you want to heal the childhood trauma wounds that are holding you back and keeping you from confidently living the life God wants you to live? Does your trauma history keep you crippled by fear, unable to discern and trust God’s plan, process, and purpose for your life? The effects of childhood trauma can show up as low moods, negative thoughts, overthinking, anxiety, crippling fear, low self-worth, physical illness, constant comparison, or emotional disconnection. I’ve been there. Hey sister-friend 👋🏽 Welcome to the Shades of Trauma Healing Podcast. A space for Christian women of all beautiful shades to experience trauma healing, move beyond blocks and begin fully living the life God is calling them to live. I’m so glad you’re here 😊 I’m Jenniel, a dearly loved daughter of God, trauma thriver, trauma therapist, and life coach, living out my purpose. The impacts of my childhood trauma remained unaddressed for years. I struggled through life, feeling stuck, unsafe, sensitive to threats of danger, and emotionally disconnected from God and the people around me. I desperately wanted to know and live out my purpose but had difficulty hearing God and figuring it out. I pursued education, career goals, ministry, and travelled, trying to find my place and call in this world. I thought had to do more things, but no matter what I did, I still felt unsure of who I was and what I was meant to do. I finally realized that the key to becoming who God wanted me to be started with facing my trauma wounds and pursuing holistic healing so I could remove the obstacles that prevented me from hearing God and experiencing life fully. As I healed from the emotional and somatic impacts of childhood trauma, my relationship with God improved, and I gained clarity about who I am and who God wanted me to be. I began to thrive. Today, I’m the most emotionally and spiritually healthy version of myself. I’m embracing more joy and laughter, and I’m living God’s call on my life as I walk in relationship with him. If you want to overcome the childhood trauma wounds that are holding you back… If you want to develop your ability to trust God and begin thriving in the life he is calling you to live… This podcast is for you. Here you’ll receive 🌟Trauma education to help identify and address the impacts of childhood trauma that keep you stuck. 🌟Mindset strategies and relational tips to help you develop your connection with others. 🌟Spiritual applications to help you deepen your trust and connection with God so you can gain clarity and discernment 🌟Motivational stories from other survivors so you see that you can heal and thrive after childhood trauma. My healing journey led me to address the emotional, spiritual, social, and neurological impacts and wounds caused by trauma, and this resulted in freedom like I’ve never known. And I’d love to share what I learned and experienced with you! We will approach trauma healing while walking together with God, The One who loves you most and wants you to heal and live an abundant life of joy, peace, and purpose. Today God is saying to you, his daughter… “Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.” Isaiah 41:10. God’s got you, sister-friend, so let’s do this. Blessings and Love Jenniel 😊 👉🏼 Your Next Steps 👉🏼 Download the Free Guide: 10 Signs You Need Inner Child Healing: https://go.shadesoftraumahealing.com/10-signs Join the Free Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heal.childhood.trauma.christian.women Email Us: support@shadesoftraumahealing.com ***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not a substitute for individual coaching or therapy. It is for educational purposes only. For professional support, seek out and follow the advice of your licensed mental health practitioner.

Episodes

April 21, 2025 19 mins

Hey Sister-Friend,

How are you doing today? I hope you are well 

Today, we will look at part 2 of the four pillars of trauma healing that every Christian woman should know.

In part one (episode 140) I unpacked the first 2 pillars of trauma healing, which are:

  • Relational safety and preparation, and
  • Education and skills building

In this episode, I will discuss the last two pillars:

  • Desensitization and Integration
  • Pr...
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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

 

Overthinking is essentially dwelling excessively on thoughts, ideas, or problems, often without reaching a conclusion. It causes people to replay situations over and over in their minds, analyzing every possible outcome, and getting stuck in a loop. Overthinking is draining and can increase stress and anxiety. Today’s quick tips will give you 5 tips for better decision-making.

 

I hope this episode blesses...

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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

Enjoy this repeat of one of my favourite episodes:

Today, I have a special guest, Margaret L. Conley, to help raise awareness of how to approach mental wellness in Christian BIPOC Communities.

Margaret owns MLC Consulting, LLC, and is the President of Mending Life Concepts Empowerment Group, Inc., which focuses on serving marginalized populations at the intersection of spirituality and emotional wellness.

M...

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April 10, 2025 9 mins

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

 

Is it just me, or are you finding that life is becoming more distracting? There is always something to think about, do, or solve. I was finding that my mind was getting preoccupied with all the things in my day and world, and it was robbing my peace. At the end of the day, I felt like there were more things to do than I got done, and I did not like where my head was, so I decided to apply 5 daily pract...

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Hey Sister-Friend,

 

Today we get to explore the foundations of trauma healing. In this episode, I will share the foundation that Christian women should base their healing on and how to build that foundation.

I talk about the first 2 pillars of trauma healing so you know what to look for and what to expect as you take (or consider taking) your first step toward healing.

 

Knowing the psychoeducation about how the traumatized body...

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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

 

Today, let's talk about something real, something maybe a little raw: trusting God when life feels…well, not so trusting.

You've been hurt in the past, you’ve dealt with some heavy stuff, and now the idea of trusting anyone, let alone God, feels like a big, fat "NOPE!" Been there, believe me. But here's the thing: I believe the healing journey for women of faith includes learning to trust God and his plan...

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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

Welcome back, my friend! If you listened to episode 134, you know I talked about losing yourself in a relationship and how differentiation is the key to staying true to who God created you to be while still maintaining deep and meaningful connections.

But understanding differentiation is just the beginning. Today, I’m getting practical. I’m going to walk you through five tips that will help you become more d...

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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

 

I’m taking how to attune to your body for better stress management today. As Christian women, we're often called in a million directions – family, church, work, our passions. It's easy to get overwhelmed, right? But hear this: taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's essential! Because when we're stressed and depleted, how can we truly live out our calling?

I hope this episode blesses and inspires you...

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My guest today is Mina Satori. Mina specializes in working with women entrepreneurs, creatives, and leaders who want to embrace their feminine power and thrive fearlessly in business.

 

Mina received her formal coach training as an Ontological Coach through Accomplishment Coaching, which is accredited by the International Coaching Federation (ICF).

She is a former President of the ICF Orange County chapter...

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Let’s talk about a topic that can leave us feeling drained and defeated: conflict.

 

Navigating disagreements can be tough, especially when you're carrying the baggage of childhood trauma and dealing with someone who likes a verbal tussle.

It is worth learning how to deal with conflict as you go through life, and I will share more about the acronym JADE and how to avoid it…to help you do just that. I hop...

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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

 

Hey friend, have you ever felt like you’ve lost yourself in a relationship? Maybe you find yourself constantly prioritizing someone else’s needs over your own, making decisions based on what makes them happy rather than what aligns with your own values and desires.

How can you break free from this cycle and live in the fullness of who God created you to be while appropriately loving and caring for others?

...

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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

 

Why is it important to develop a growth mindset?

The simple answer is - if you don’t believe your mind can change and grow, you won’t be as open to the life you can have beyond your trauma.

Trauma has a way of making survivors believe that things won’t get better, circumstances won’t change, you will be this way for the rest of your life. That is a very discouraging way to go through life, but the good ne...

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Show Notes

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

 

Nick Prefontaine is a 3x best-selling author and was named a top motivational speaker of 2022 in Yahoo Finance.  He’s a speaker, Founder and CEO of Common Goal.

Using the S.T.E.P. system, Nick leads clients through their trauma, and once they make it through, that is where their limitless potential lies.

At 14, Nick suffered a life-threatening snowboarding accident. His parents were told he prob...

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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

 

Welcome to a Quick Tip Thursday Episode.

 

The four tips for today will focus on how to trust after you’ve been hurt, and they may not be what you think.

After you’ve been hurt, the last thing you want to do is risk getting burned again. I get it, that is understandable, however you can choose to remain open to healthier relationships and these tips will help you.

 

I hope this episode blesses y...

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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

 

Hi friends, in this episode, I am opening the doors to a recent struggle I faced. It involved something that I promote passionately and consistently on this podcast, yet this time, I found myself struggling.

 

Stay tuned. I will tell you all about what the struggle was, why it was a struggle, and how I corrected it.

 

I hope this episode blesses and inspires you.

 

In Healing and Love 😊

 

Jenniel

 

🌟Your...

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Childhood trauma survivors often struggle to receive and give love because of hurt in relationships, poor models of love, or unhealthy experiences of care and attachment in their formative years. This leaves a gaping wound that they try to fill however they can.

Many read about the love of God, but struggle to feel secure in that love. Today I will share 4 Quick Tips to Experience God’s Love in a Way That ...

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My guest today is Christian Elliot is a husband and father of six homeschooled kids. He’s been in the “alternative” health space since 2005, accumulating over 20,000 hours of one-on-one coaching in fitness, nutrition, life, and relationship coaching.

He holds a Master of Divinity from Fuller Seminary and co-owns Healing United, a Private Membership Association that collaborates with doctors and coaches to de...

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February 20, 2025 11 mins

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

Today, we’re talking about self-love. It’s a term that gets thrown around a lot, but what does it really mean? And is it selfish to focus on loving yourself? If you’ve ever wrestled with these questions, this episode is for you.

Here’s the truth: self-love isn’t selfish. In fact, it’s a biblical principle. Jesus said, “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31). How can we extend love to others if we d...

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February 17, 2025 14 mins

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

In keeping with the theme that is celebrated each February, Today we will continue to talk about love. Whether it’s love from family, friends, or a partner, we all want to feel seen, cherished, and valued. But for those who who’ve experienced childhood trauma, love can feel elusive, like it’s just of reach. Sometimes, you grow up searching for love in others without realizing you need to become the very lo...

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It’s Valentine’s Day, and for many of you, this day can stir up all kinds of emotions. Whether you’re feeling lonely, anxious, or even indifferent, I want you to know you’re not alone, and this episode is for you.

Today, I’m focusing on how to care for and really love on yourself over the next 48 hours and through the Valentine weekend. 

Before we get into those tips, I want to remind you of something be...

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