Grief’s Deception…because Grief doesn’t tell the Truth

This episode explores one of grief’s most painful lies: “It is my fault.” Debbie shares how she and her husband, Dennis, wrestled with regret, guilt, faith, and the belief that they should have done more after losing their son, Ryan. Discover the difference between regret, guilt, and shame—and three reminders that can help loosen guilt’s grip: you didn’t cause it, you couldn’t control it, a...

When grief feels overwhelming, what can you say to your broken heart? In this episode of Grief’s Deception, Debbie Jordan offers a faith-filled declaration of truth, reminding us that we are not alone, God is near, healing is possible, and grief does not get the final word.

• Grief is real, but it doesn’t tell the truth. 
• We don’t have to grieve alone. Christ is with us in our suffering.
• Healing is a process.&...

Have you ever found yourself replaying the "if onlys" after losing someone you love? If only I had done more. If only I had known. If only I had one more chance.

In this episode of Grief's Deception, Debbie Jordan explores one of the most painful struggles of grief after loss: believing the lie, "I am a prisoner of my regrets." Through a deeply personal story, biblical truth, and practical encouragement, Debbie shares how regret can...

Back-to-school season can be especially painful for parents who have lost a child.

In this episode of Grief’s Deception, Debbie Jordan shares a deeply personal moment from the weeks following the death of her six-year-old son, Ryan. Sitting in a carpool line, watching the school doors, she was suddenly overwhelmed by the reality that only one of her boys would walk out of those doors.

Those unexpected moments can still catch us...

When grief whispers, “I will never survive this,” discover the small steps, faith, and hope that carry us forward through loss, healing, and God’s presence—because grief doesn’t tell the truth.

Inspired by Debbie Jordan's book, Grief's Deception: Overcoming the Twelve Lies Whispered to a Broken Heart, this podcast offers practical hope and biblical encouragement for every stage of the grief journey. Aft...

Grief can whisper, "I will never survive this." It feels true—but it isn't.

In this episode of Grief's Deception, Debbie Jordan explores one of grief's biggest lies and shares practical encouragement, biblical hope, and gentle reminders that healing is possible, even when the pain feels overwhelming.

Because grief doesn't tell the truth.

Key Takeaways

• Grief has a way of making impossible things feel permanent.
• Feeling like you...

Welcome to the first episode of Grief's Deception…because grief doesn’t tell the truth.  I'm Debbie Jordan, and I'm so glad you're here.

In this special trailer episode, I share the story behind this podcast through a heartfelt tribute written by my husband, Dennis, honoring our son Ryan forty years after his death. It's a story of love, loss, enduring hope, and the reminder that even after life's deepest pain, joy...