Behind the Paddle

Behind the Paddle

Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions. Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 9yrs) on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry. She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through any socials. Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.com Our socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle

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October 12, 2026 • 64 mins

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Kink curious? This one's for you. 🖤

Welcome to Part 2 of Confidence & Guidance.

After exploring sexual confidence, communication and intimacy in Part 1, we're heading into the BDSM side of the workshop.

I've been involved in BDSM for more than nine years, and this episode is about helping people understand the reality of kink beyond the fantasy — particularl...

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This is a recording of the latest Confidence & Guidance workshop which i host every other month. 

Welcome to Part 1 of Confidence & Guidance, taken from my live workshop exploring sex, intimacy, confidence, communication and all those questions people often feel too embarrassed to ask.

After nine years working in the sex industry, I've met people with eve...

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This was not supposed to become a podcast episode.

While we recorded this, my submissive was hooked up to electrical stimulation, so occasionally you'll hear his concentration disappear. 

My submissive had been outrageously bratty recently, and during a very spontaneous BDSM scene I decided that, seeing as the rest of him was being thoroughly occupied, I might as...

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September 21, 2026 • 43 mins

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When you're new to BDSM, it's easy to get lost within internet searches of so many outfits to choose from, so many fabrics, so many confusing size guides and lots of choice in what to wear. But how would you store it ? How would you clean it ? Will it fit ? What's it feel like ? All these questions will be answered in this episode to help you pick the perfect outfit...

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Today's episode is all about electric play a form of BDSM that's often misunderstood and surrounded by myths. Some people imagine it's dangerous, others think it's just a gimmick, and many have never even heard of it. So today, we're going to separate fact from fiction. We'll explore why some people enjoy electric sensation, how consent and communication are central...

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September 7, 2026 • 47 mins

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One of the things I enjoy most about asking for your questions is that sometimes a handful of completely unrelated questions end up circling around the same idea or we just go straight off the tracks into a whole different podcast.

When I looked through the ones I wanted to answer this week, they seemed to be about completely different things. I totally have not been...

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Welcome back everyone to Behind The Paddle Podcast

Today's episode is one I've wanted to make for a long time because it's surrounded by misunderstanding, judgement and, frankly, a lot of misinformation.

We're talking about feminisation.

Now, before anyone jumps to conclusions, this isn't an episode promoting or criticising it. It's an attempt to understand it. I have ...

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August 24, 2026 • 31 mins

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The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne 

Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of r...

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August 17, 2026 • 32 mins

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“Laws are threats made by the dominant socio-economic ethnic group in a given nation. It’s just a promise of violence that’s enacted and the police are basically an occupying army, you know what I mean?” - Brennan Lee Mulligan

A police officer is given something that few people in society ever receive: authority.

That authority is not only the ...

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August 10, 2026 • 36 mins

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The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne 

Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of r...

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August 3, 2026 • 45 mins

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The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne 

Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of r...

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July 26, 2026 • 49 mins

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The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne 

Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of r...

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July 20, 2026 • 31 mins

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The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne 

Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of r...

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June 29, 2026 • 48 mins

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The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne 

Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of r...

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June 22, 2026 • 45 mins

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The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne 

Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of r...

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June 15, 2026 • 76 mins

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This was taken from my bimonthly Zoom event. 

I’ve been thinking a lot recently about how some men don’t know either how to navigate in the bedroom, don’t have as much confidence, haven’t much experience or confidence or have trauma therefore needing some mentoring in some manner. I have started to notice in my years of being a companion ...

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Baby Bumps & Backlash: S*x Work and Pregnancy. 

This episode came about from hearing about Bonnie Blues pregnancy gangbang/golden shower. 

In this episode of Behindthepaddle podcast you will hear from myself who has done adult content while pregnant. I will explain why, how I felt at the time and how I currently feel and how moving forward we can help pr...

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Baby Bumps & Backlash: S*x Work and Pregnancy. 

This episode came about from hearing about Bonnie Blues pregnancy gangbang/golden shower. 

In this episode of Behindthepaddle podcast you will hear from myself who has done adult content while pregnant. I will explain why, how I felt at the time and how I currently feel and how moving forward we can help pr...

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May 24, 2026 • 29 mins

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The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne 

Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of r...

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May 18, 2026 • 43 mins

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The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne 

Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of r...

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