Not Fit for the Feed: confessions and conversations of parenting through the hard stuff

Not Fit for the Feed: confessions and conversations of parenting through the hard stuff

Not Fit for the Feed is a podcast for parents who are in the thick of it — the stuff that doesn't make it onto social media. Hosted by Brettne Shootman, a former teacher and mother of four, this narrative memoir podcast tells the real, messy, lived experience of a family quietly surviving addiction, mental health crises, international adoption, and trauma — and the kind of parenting moments that leave you wondering if you're doing any of it right. Brettne isn't a therapist or an expert. She's someone who has lived through a lot and learned even more — and she believes that when we stop hiding our stories, they lose their power over us. If you've ever felt completely alone in your parenting, this show is for you.

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September 25, 2026 • 1 min
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The moment everything unraveled — a mother screaming in the cul-de-sac and the realization she could no longer pretend everything was fine.

Topics Covered

  • The cul-de-sac moment — when the breaking point finally arrives
  • The cost of keeping up appearances
  • What it means to stop pretending
  • Early warning signs hiding in plain sight
  • The courage it takes to ask for help

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  • Partnership to End Addiction — 1-855...
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Today's episode is about the night my mom left, a latchkey childhood, an alcoholic stepmother, and learning to read the room before I could read a book.

Topics Covered

  • The night my mom left
  • Growing up as a latchkey kid
  • Seeing my mom only every other weekend
  • Living with an alcoholic stepmother
  • The constant fear, anxiety, and instability of home life

Resources

  • Adult Children of Alcoholics & Dysfunctional Families — adu...
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