April 17, 2025 • 18 mins
Jenny updates us about her camper van, we tell you about our sexual awakenings, and cover how to get people to like you.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, and here we go with a Minnesota good bye.
I want to just let you know that there's green
little pieces of candy glass all over the studio, little
tiny shards of candy glass, because we did a bit earlier.
That is, we had Jonah Moray in the studio and
then Bailey and I pretended to get into a little argument,
and she picked up a wine bottle that looks like
(00:22):
a real wine bottle but is made out of harmless
candy glass and whacked me over the head. So we
could kind of pull a prank on Jonah Moray and
get his reaction. You can see that on YouTube.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Probably, well, yeah, you can go back on our live
stream and watch today's like full live stream. So probably
go more towards a little bit towards the end, because
it's going to be more in like the later part
of the live stream, because we start live streaming at
seven and this happened at like eight thirty.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yeah, but I think Vonte'll have it up on our
Instagram and Facebook as well later.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
The funny thing was, I won't spoil too much, but
Jonah's reaction was just funny. It was just like it
was just not what I expected. Was quite funny, So
go check that out. All right, let's get into the emails.
Here the heart of the Minnesota Goodbye, Sarah writes in
got a couple of questions that have been in my
mind and might be good for the podcast, and I
love that. That is, if you've got questions on your
(01:13):
mind and you think they might be good for the podcast,
send them in Ryan's show at katwb dot com. Genuinely
curious about the situation. Was this situation with Jenny's camper
van and her relationship with Andrew? Are they sharing the
van moving forward? From what I remember? They bought it together,
so I'm wondering if they're going to continue to share it.
I completely understand if you don't want to answer this question,
(01:35):
We're not going.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
To share it. It's up to me if I want
to keep it or not. I'm going to have to
buy him out of it. I would gladly buy him
out of it and keep it for myself. I'm just
struggling with the maintenance aspect of it, because Andrew did
take care of everything that. I mean, it's old, it's
a two thousand and three and I don't know shit
about vans, so I'm a little bit stressed about buying
(01:57):
them out of it and having to main it, and
like the guy who previously owned it, he was very
adamant of, like this thing will last you for so
fucking long as long as you stayed on top of
all this stuff. And that was the stuff that Andrew
took care of, and I took care of us, like
being able to like live out of it, like having
all the things we need and packing it up and
making it cute and stuff. So I just feel like
(02:20):
I'm up in the air about that. And it is
an added thing. I gotta still pay like monthly insurance
on it and stuff. So and my financial situation has
also changed. So right now I'm still keeping it. I'm
going to probably give it a month a couple, like
a month or two and kind of figure it out,
and then otherwise it might we might be selling it.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
I hope you don't have to sell it, because I
know how much you love the experience, and even if
you went by yourself, I.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Love the experience. One thing I'll say, And I'm going
to try to get through this without crying. There's too
many memories with him in it.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Okay, we can stop there. We can stop there. I
totally get that. It's like, you know, the places like that,
things like that can hold the very special, deep seated memories.
So I totally get that. All right, Well, let's move
on to something else here another random question from Sarah
for some possible good conversation. Who was your sexual awakening
(03:16):
i e. Character or celebrity that sparked butterflies for the
first time mine? I was ten years old. It was
David Bowie in the movie The Labyrinth. Oh yes, he
is still so foign. As Bailey would say in that
movie love listening to you every day? Okay, I I
(03:37):
was probably in middle school. I know, I was in
middle school and there was the New Mickey mouse Club
on TV and there was a girl named Alison in
the New Mickey mouse Club and she had like little
bangs and kind of a bob haircut. If you look
up New Mickey mouse Club Alison, you can see what
she looks like.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Oh, she's real cute.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
And that was the first girl that I ever like again.
We were about to say mate, probably about fourteen, and
I was like, Oh, she's so cute. I don't remember
anybody ever like appealing to my sense of Oh my god,
she's so cute before her Yeah, what about you?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Mine's probably the first thing that popped in my mind
was Cornelius from the Thumbollina movie, which is a cartoon,
but I thought he was so fine. He was a
fairy and he sang a song and that was beautiful.
But like real life, probably John Travolta in Greece really
when he like turns around after he's like leaning on
the wall and he's got a cigarette in his mouth.
I was like probably five years old watching that, being
(04:36):
like that is the hottest thing I've ever seen in
my life.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Isn't that funny? You don't really understand your feelings, but
it's like, oh god, I just really like crazy out
the womb? What about you? Jenny?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Mine was Zach Effron Ephron in Summerland slash High School
musical Now Late.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
You didn't like boys before then?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Well, I was only I Well, I feel like sexual awakening.
I don't know, I don't really remember, like I had
crushes on boys, but I don't remember like watching some
famous person when I was ten.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
And being like, oh, oh he's fine.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I mean, like Summerline came out when I was like
thirteen or fourteen.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Wow. So then I feel like a creep because mine
was like five years old. It's wrong with that.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
I just I feel like I don't remember thinking anyone
was like famous was hot.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Yeah, you got him in your prime, or you got
zac Efron in his prime.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Next email says, please don't say my name so we
can definitely respect that. I was listening to the show
replay and I figured i'd share my two cents about
the jim Hogs because we were talking about guys at
the gym, and it's mostly guys who hog the equipment
and we'll, you know, like sit on the end of
the bench and sit on the equipment and look at
their phone. And somebody justified that by saying, you know what,
(05:45):
I got a rest. I got to get my cardio
back down or I won't be able to do an
effective set. Okay, so there is some justification. I guess.
They say, I go once a week, and I countered
this and counter this time and time again. I'd argue
it's a bigger problem on free weights and weight machines
because there are up them, particularly ones where there's only
one of its kind in the gym case. In point,
A couple of months ago, I spent no joke, almost
(06:08):
twenty minutes waiting for a machine that my gym only
has one of is being hogged by this one infamous
Jim Rat, whose presence is always known because of his loud,
obnoxious voice in the fact that he never shuts up.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
And after twenty minutes, I gave up and I found
an alternate exercise. But the guy would do one set,
chat with his Jim bros. For five minutes, then do
another set, and so on. I tend to keep myself
and I never spoke to his side f him. One
time he stepped away from a bench, so I went
to use it thinking he was done, only for him
to come back and kick me off. Another pet peeve.
(06:42):
If you're not done and need to step away for
a drink, leave something there to claim it. Anyway, just
wanted to add to the discussion because I find it
kind of funny but slightly annoying. It's one thing to
take a quick break between sets and use your phone,
but another to sit there for links of time chatting
and or texting. Moral of the story, remember, Jim could
be respectful, do your workout and get out there.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
You can always chime in and be like, hey, do
you mind if I work in a set here quick
in between yours and ask? But I know that that's
like uncomfortable for a lot of people, but trainers do
that to me all the time. Like I'll be in
the middle of like using something and then they'll realize
that I was just using it and they're like, oh, sorry,
you can work in one like like in between it.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
I was like, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
I get like the people who are because people were
defending like machine hogs yesterday saying, oh, well, they have to,
you know, breathe, they have to rest, they have to
do that, so that's why they're sitting there on their phone.
I just think if you're sitting on your phone and
you're like, oh, I got to take a rest break,
but then you get distracted by your phone, your rest
break turns into like the length of three rest.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
Breaks before you start.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Yes, that's true, take.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
A rest break, fine, but don't look at your phone.
Just sit there. Can't you just sit there and wait?
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Honestly, that's difficult. That's what we re goo to so much.
I was at ukulele lessons last night and I got
there about four minutes early, I sit in the hallway. Well,
of course, what's the first thing I do. I pull
out my phone.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
I just get bored by my phone eventually.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Yeah, I don't know. We do social media, so I'm
always checking to see how the latest post did. I
did one last night. It was very disappointed. I was
very excited about this new magic trick that I got. Yeah,
with the yellow sticks. And if you go look at
my Instagram you'll see the yellow stick trick. Did you
like it at all?
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:17):
I was trying to figure out how it happened.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Well that's what it already does. Yeah, And I really
thought that people would be like whoa, because when I
saw it, I was like whoa. But I kept looking
at it like before you classes, and it was like, eh, okay,
nothing really there. But then we did something stupid like
the fruit by the Foot challenge a month ago and
(08:39):
it killed. And the one with Genny zapping me on
the behind with a taser gun that killed too.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
Told you it was content, it was worth it.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
It's all kind of you're right content. I'm thinking the
one with Joan Murray that might get some good interaction
and views traction.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Yeah, hopefully all right, next one.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Actually that's a little bit more serious. You're not going
to deal with that one right now, so we'll do
something a little bit more fun. You can use my name. Hello,
my favorite morning show crew from Megan. I liked the
Minnesota Goodbye last week with Vont Bailey and Jenny, so
I thought I would point out things that I love
about each of you. Dave, I love how you've been
with all phases in life. I've been listening since i
(09:18):
was eight and I'm thirty eight now. Well, you know,
you think about it. When I got here, I had
an infant, a toddler daughter. I had a nine year
old daughter, and I had Chase wasn't even born yet.
He was born about two weeks after I got here. Wow,
and he's a dad now, which is really weird. And
(09:39):
I was still eight years or so away from having Carson,
so life is definitely changed. I was still a young
dad back then. Yeah, and I wasn't married. Vont, you
are such a good addition to the show. You're very
eloquent until you stirred the pot boy take a right
on a red light, ha Bailey. I love hearing your
(10:04):
random show turn out bursts hilarious. Also, I relate to
speech because my sixteen year old daughter is in speech
and she goes to State at Shockapee in a week
or so.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
Hey, same, I'll see her there. Tell her come say
hi seriously, will you? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Because well I have four kids who are going to State,
So have your daughter come and say hi?
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Okay. Then she goes to say and seriously. Bailey means that.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
You know she's out somewhere. You might think, Oh, Bailey's working.
I can't see, I can't say hi, I can't bother no,
please feel free. Okay. Finally they get to Jenny. Let's see,
I got to open up the right window again here, Jenny, Oh, Jenny, Jenny, Jenny.
I think I relate to you the most. I love
how you are always so kind and are able to
be vulnerable with virtuals strangers. Keep up the good work, y'all.
(10:48):
No dart licking here gross from Megan. All right, Megan,
thank you appreciate that. It's very nice and something totally different.
I mean, who doesn't want to hear what somebody likes
about you? And I tell you I want to tell
you two life hacks, and I'm going to see if
I can remember both of them. So, remember we talked
to somebody on the show the other day about their partner,
(11:11):
their husband. I think her partner died, like suddenly died,
and we were talking about grief, and I was one
of the salespeople that works here. She said that her
is the father of somebody that she know that died
was listening that day. So, in other words, his daughter died.
He was listening to the show that day. And he
(11:34):
told this person, who then told me, when you meet
somebody whose person has died, whether it's their mom, their child,
their sibling, their partner, you don't know what to say.
So you're like, I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. And
a lot of the time you put your foot in
your mouth and say something like, but you know you're
lucky you had enough time with you, something stupid. So
(11:55):
they what he suggested that he really liked is, hey,
tell me your favorite memory of them. What's your favorite
memory of them? And I thought, wow, because everybody wants
to keep their memory alive. So if you meet somebody
who's lost their mom recently or lost their you know,
sibling or partner or whatever, say what's your favorite memory
(12:15):
of them? So my friend who lost her son in
the motorcycle accident. I acted like it was out of
the blue. And I texted her yesterday and we were
talking about her son, and I said, what's your favorite memory?
And she said, oh, my gosh, so many and she
told me some very funny little stories. And so I
really like that. Here's another little life hack. And I
(12:37):
think I saw this on Instagram. How do you get
people to like you? What do you do? What's the
big mystery question? Like, well, how do you get people
to like you? They say that when you're around somebody,
you say something really nice about somebody who's not there,
and that person will then attribute those those those things
(12:59):
to you. So let me give you an example. Yeah,
so let's say Jenny and I are hanging out and
talking and Jenny doesn't know me very well. Yeah, I'd
be like, you know that, Bailey, she is just the kindest, sweetest,
hardest working person. Ever. Something inside our brains will make
us think the person who is saying that has those attributes. Sure, yeah,
does that make sense?
Speaker 4 (13:19):
Yeah, it makes sense.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Yeah, So I should start complimenting other people when I
speak to essentially strangers or acquaintances.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
That's what that's what the guy on Instagram said. Now
I know the way that he says. It's brain science,
and it's always nice to hear somebody say something nice.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
Say This good habit to get into is just to
be like, think of others in a kind manner and
then potentially even speak on it. I always say, I
always tell other people like I don't think of it
in the way like how to get people to like you,
But if you can give someone a compliment, like give
them a compliment to their face, like you could think
it like, oh, Dave looks really nice today, or oh
(13:53):
Dave did a really funny bit today and I really
liked that. And thinking it is one thing, but why
don't you say something and out because then you can
make someone's day.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Yeah, I think people sometimes forget how powerful that can be.
So all right, next one and this is our last one.
Just came in a minute to go, says hello radio
family from another Sarah. Tonight, I'm going on a direct
flight to Billings, Montana to get my new used car.
My oldbum broke down about a month ago during rush
hour on Portland Avenue off of four ninety four. I
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had a sinking feeling that would be the last time
I'd be driving my very loved first car. I asked
my parents if they would co sign for me as
my credit score went down due to some unseen activity
or lack of responsibility. They declined, but I persevered and
found my dream car. My parents are very frugal and
think that the car was a little bit excessive and
(14:45):
too luxurious. This would be my second car that I
paid for on my own, and I've never asked my
parents for money or anything in my entire life. Tell
me why I haven't told my parents. I'm flying out
to go get this car, and I'm already nervous to
pick up my kids with my new car from my
parents this weekend. The judgmental look I can see on
my dad's face is making me feel queasy. I'm thirty five.
(15:08):
In less than a month, I make good money. Car
is half the price of a brand new one. I
feel like a little kid. Okay, nobody asked, But there's
there's my troubles for this week. Anybody else have judging parents?
That's from Sarah Sarah the MT. I think she means
massage therapist. Okay, I can tell you a little story
when I first got my first new car, my car
(15:30):
broke down. The trade in value on my Volkswagon that
broke down was twenty five dollars. Now, I didn't know
that you can bargain with your trade in value. They
offered me twenty five bucks. And I'm like, oh, Kurt,
we stupid. Yeah, And so I go in and I
got a Toyota Mr.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
Two.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
If you want to look it up. It's a sporty
little car that was popular back then. Toyota Mr two
two seater, very sporty. I asked my dad, will you
co sign for me? He said, no, you don't need
a sports car. And I was so pissed and so hurt.
You're looking at a sharp, liking.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
Car, right, I mean, yeah, it is. Actually it's not bad,
it's cute.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
He said you don't need a sports car and he
wouldn't co sign. So I was so crushed because he
had loaned my brother and sisters many times, lots of money.
But I didn't need a loan. I had my own money.
I just didn't have any credit. So he wouldn't co sign,
and I was just pissed and I hung up on him.
I've never hung up or disrespected my dad. Ever. But
(16:31):
I was so pissed I hung up, And the next morning,
the car dealership calls and they said, hey, you know what,
We're going to go ahead and let you get that
car without a co signer.
Speaker 4 (16:40):
Oh nice.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Yeah, well, because they wanted to sell a car, and
so my dad must have gotten, you know, chewed out
by my mom. So he calls. He's like, yeah, I
go so co signed for you, And I triumphantly said
I don't need you to now, Yeah, but yeah, I
totally get the whole thing. So she says, you know,
why haven't I told my parents I'm flying out to
(17:01):
get this car. I will tell you this, you're thirty five.
That respect for your parents never goes away. No, even
when my dad was frail and eighty eight years old
and hunched over and had lost four inches of his height,
I still was intimidated by him to a degree. Yeah,
because you just always had that respect and fear in
wanting to please your parents.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
Right, Like, I will never ever in a million years
talk back to my mom. And anytime I swear in
front of my mom, I feel weird doing it, so
I just don't because I would never as a kid,
I would never talk back to my mom. I'd never
swear in front of her, and I never will.
Speaker 4 (17:36):
I don't know. I mean, other people are different.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
To certain people, but that's only because I think that
they are being disrespectful in a way that I don't
agree with. My mom isn't exactly the most PC person sometimes,
so neither's mine either. I will always correct her, and
when she fights me, I will fight back in those
moments so that I have no problem with.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
I definitely, I definitely not fight back.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
But like if my mom says something that's you know, not,
I will be like, hey, you can't say that, and
then she just usually drops it because she doesn't want
to get into a fight, and I don't want to
get into a fight, and I wouldn't fight with her,
so then it would just become far too awkward.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
But I know what you mean, Jenny, Okay, And.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
That is going to do it for the Minnesota good
Bye thought starters, Emails, questions, something that's been on your mind.
Maybe you're like, why is that this? Or have you
ever noticed this? Or what about this? On the show?
Love to talk about it. It's a lot of fun
for us, it really is. I love doing the Minnesota Goodbye.
Send anything you got on your mind to Ryan's show
(18:33):
at KDWB dot com.
All right, and here we go with a Minnesota good bye.
I want to just let you know that there's green
little pieces of candy glass all over the studio, little
tiny shards of candy glass, because we did a bit earlier.
That is, we had Jonah Moray in the studio and
then Bailey and I pretended to get into a little argument,
and she picked up a wine bottle that looks like
(00:22):
a real wine bottle but is made out of harmless
candy glass and whacked me over the head. So we
could kind of pull a prank on Jonah Moray and
get his reaction. You can see that on YouTube.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Probably, well, yeah, you can go back on our live
stream and watch today's like full live stream. So probably
go more towards a little bit towards the end, because
it's going to be more in like the later part
of the live stream, because we start live streaming at
seven and this happened at like eight thirty.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yeah, but I think Vonte'll have it up on our
Instagram and Facebook as well later.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
The funny thing was, I won't spoil too much, but
Jonah's reaction was just funny. It was just like it
was just not what I expected. Was quite funny, So
go check that out. All right, let's get into the emails.
Here the heart of the Minnesota Goodbye, Sarah writes in
got a couple of questions that have been in my
mind and might be good for the podcast, and I
love that. That is, if you've got questions on your
(01:13):
mind and you think they might be good for the podcast,
send them in Ryan's show at katwb dot com. Genuinely
curious about the situation. Was this situation with Jenny's camper
van and her relationship with Andrew? Are they sharing the
van moving forward? From what I remember? They bought it together,
so I'm wondering if they're going to continue to share it.
I completely understand if you don't want to answer this question,
(01:35):
We're not going.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
To share it. It's up to me if I want
to keep it or not. I'm going to have to
buy him out of it. I would gladly buy him
out of it and keep it for myself. I'm just
struggling with the maintenance aspect of it, because Andrew did
take care of everything that. I mean, it's old, it's
a two thousand and three and I don't know shit
about vans, so I'm a little bit stressed about buying
(01:57):
them out of it and having to main it, and
like the guy who previously owned it, he was very
adamant of, like this thing will last you for so
fucking long as long as you stayed on top of
all this stuff. And that was the stuff that Andrew
took care of, and I took care of us, like
being able to like live out of it, like having
all the things we need and packing it up and
making it cute and stuff. So I just feel like
(02:20):
I'm up in the air about that. And it is
an added thing. I gotta still pay like monthly insurance
on it and stuff. So and my financial situation has
also changed. So right now I'm still keeping it. I'm
going to probably give it a month a couple, like
a month or two and kind of figure it out,
and then otherwise it might we might be selling it.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
I hope you don't have to sell it, because I
know how much you love the experience, and even if
you went by yourself, I.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Love the experience. One thing I'll say, And I'm going
to try to get through this without crying. There's too
many memories with him in it.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Okay, we can stop there. We can stop there. I
totally get that. It's like, you know, the places like that,
things like that can hold the very special, deep seated memories.
So I totally get that. All right, Well, let's move
on to something else here another random question from Sarah
for some possible good conversation. Who was your sexual awakening
(03:16):
i e. Character or celebrity that sparked butterflies for the
first time mine? I was ten years old. It was
David Bowie in the movie The Labyrinth. Oh yes, he
is still so foign. As Bailey would say in that
movie love listening to you every day? Okay, I I
(03:37):
was probably in middle school. I know, I was in
middle school and there was the New Mickey mouse Club
on TV and there was a girl named Alison in
the New Mickey mouse Club and she had like little
bangs and kind of a bob haircut. If you look
up New Mickey mouse Club Alison, you can see what
she looks like.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Oh, she's real cute.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
And that was the first girl that I ever like again.
We were about to say mate, probably about fourteen, and
I was like, Oh, she's so cute. I don't remember
anybody ever like appealing to my sense of Oh my god,
she's so cute before her Yeah, what about you?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Mine's probably the first thing that popped in my mind
was Cornelius from the Thumbollina movie, which is a cartoon,
but I thought he was so fine. He was a
fairy and he sang a song and that was beautiful.
But like real life, probably John Travolta in Greece really
when he like turns around after he's like leaning on
the wall and he's got a cigarette in his mouth.
I was like probably five years old watching that, being
(04:36):
like that is the hottest thing I've ever seen in
my life.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Isn't that funny? You don't really understand your feelings, but
it's like, oh god, I just really like crazy out
the womb? What about you? Jenny?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Mine was Zach Effron Ephron in Summerland slash High School
musical Now Late.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
You didn't like boys before then?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Well, I was only I Well, I feel like sexual awakening.
I don't know, I don't really remember, like I had
crushes on boys, but I don't remember like watching some
famous person when I was ten.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
And being like, oh, oh he's fine.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I mean, like Summerline came out when I was like
thirteen or fourteen.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Wow. So then I feel like a creep because mine
was like five years old. It's wrong with that.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
I just I feel like I don't remember thinking anyone
was like famous was hot.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Yeah, you got him in your prime, or you got
zac Efron in his prime.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Next email says, please don't say my name so we
can definitely respect that. I was listening to the show
replay and I figured i'd share my two cents about
the jim Hogs because we were talking about guys at
the gym, and it's mostly guys who hog the equipment
and we'll, you know, like sit on the end of
the bench and sit on the equipment and look at
their phone. And somebody justified that by saying, you know what,
(05:45):
I got a rest. I got to get my cardio
back down or I won't be able to do an
effective set. Okay, so there is some justification. I guess.
They say, I go once a week, and I countered
this and counter this time and time again. I'd argue
it's a bigger problem on free weights and weight machines
because there are up them, particularly ones where there's only
one of its kind in the gym case. In point,
A couple of months ago, I spent no joke, almost
(06:08):
twenty minutes waiting for a machine that my gym only
has one of is being hogged by this one infamous
Jim Rat, whose presence is always known because of his loud,
obnoxious voice in the fact that he never shuts up.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
And after twenty minutes, I gave up and I found
an alternate exercise. But the guy would do one set,
chat with his Jim bros. For five minutes, then do
another set, and so on. I tend to keep myself
and I never spoke to his side f him. One
time he stepped away from a bench, so I went
to use it thinking he was done, only for him
to come back and kick me off. Another pet peeve.
(06:42):
If you're not done and need to step away for
a drink, leave something there to claim it. Anyway, just
wanted to add to the discussion because I find it
kind of funny but slightly annoying. It's one thing to
take a quick break between sets and use your phone,
but another to sit there for links of time chatting
and or texting. Moral of the story, remember, Jim could
be respectful, do your workout and get out there.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
You can always chime in and be like, hey, do
you mind if I work in a set here quick
in between yours and ask? But I know that that's
like uncomfortable for a lot of people, but trainers do
that to me all the time. Like I'll be in
the middle of like using something and then they'll realize
that I was just using it and they're like, oh, sorry,
you can work in one like like in between it.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
I was like, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
I get like the people who are because people were
defending like machine hogs yesterday saying, oh, well, they have to,
you know, breathe, they have to rest, they have to
do that, so that's why they're sitting there on their phone.
I just think if you're sitting on your phone and
you're like, oh, I got to take a rest break,
but then you get distracted by your phone, your rest
break turns into like the length of three rest.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
Breaks before you start.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Yes, that's true, take.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
A rest break, fine, but don't look at your phone.
Just sit there. Can't you just sit there and wait?
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Honestly, that's difficult. That's what we re goo to so much.
I was at ukulele lessons last night and I got
there about four minutes early, I sit in the hallway. Well,
of course, what's the first thing I do. I pull
out my phone.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
I just get bored by my phone eventually.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Yeah, I don't know. We do social media, so I'm
always checking to see how the latest post did. I
did one last night. It was very disappointed. I was
very excited about this new magic trick that I got. Yeah,
with the yellow sticks. And if you go look at
my Instagram you'll see the yellow stick trick. Did you
like it at all?
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:17):
I was trying to figure out how it happened.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Well that's what it already does. Yeah, And I really
thought that people would be like whoa, because when I
saw it, I was like whoa. But I kept looking
at it like before you classes, and it was like, eh, okay,
nothing really there. But then we did something stupid like
the fruit by the Foot challenge a month ago and
(08:39):
it killed. And the one with Genny zapping me on
the behind with a taser gun that killed too.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
Told you it was content, it was worth it.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
It's all kind of you're right content. I'm thinking the
one with Joan Murray that might get some good interaction
and views traction.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Yeah, hopefully all right, next one.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Actually that's a little bit more serious. You're not going
to deal with that one right now, so we'll do
something a little bit more fun. You can use my name. Hello,
my favorite morning show crew from Megan. I liked the
Minnesota Goodbye last week with Vont Bailey and Jenny, so
I thought I would point out things that I love
about each of you. Dave, I love how you've been
with all phases in life. I've been listening since i
(09:18):
was eight and I'm thirty eight now. Well, you know,
you think about it. When I got here, I had
an infant, a toddler daughter. I had a nine year
old daughter, and I had Chase wasn't even born yet.
He was born about two weeks after I got here. Wow,
and he's a dad now, which is really weird. And
(09:39):
I was still eight years or so away from having Carson,
so life is definitely changed. I was still a young
dad back then. Yeah, and I wasn't married. Vont, you
are such a good addition to the show. You're very
eloquent until you stirred the pot boy take a right
on a red light, ha Bailey. I love hearing your
(10:04):
random show turn out bursts hilarious. Also, I relate to
speech because my sixteen year old daughter is in speech
and she goes to State at Shockapee in a week
or so.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
Hey, same, I'll see her there. Tell her come say
hi seriously, will you? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Because well I have four kids who are going to State,
So have your daughter come and say hi?
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Okay. Then she goes to say and seriously. Bailey means that.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
You know she's out somewhere. You might think, Oh, Bailey's working.
I can't see, I can't say hi, I can't bother no,
please feel free. Okay. Finally they get to Jenny. Let's see,
I got to open up the right window again here, Jenny, Oh, Jenny, Jenny, Jenny.
I think I relate to you the most. I love
how you are always so kind and are able to
be vulnerable with virtuals strangers. Keep up the good work, y'all.
(10:48):
No dart licking here gross from Megan. All right, Megan,
thank you appreciate that. It's very nice and something totally different.
I mean, who doesn't want to hear what somebody likes
about you? And I tell you I want to tell
you two life hacks, and I'm going to see if
I can remember both of them. So, remember we talked
to somebody on the show the other day about their partner,
(11:11):
their husband. I think her partner died, like suddenly died,
and we were talking about grief, and I was one
of the salespeople that works here. She said that her
is the father of somebody that she know that died
was listening that day. So, in other words, his daughter died.
He was listening to the show that day. And he
(11:34):
told this person, who then told me, when you meet
somebody whose person has died, whether it's their mom, their child,
their sibling, their partner, you don't know what to say.
So you're like, I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. And
a lot of the time you put your foot in
your mouth and say something like, but you know you're
lucky you had enough time with you, something stupid. So
(11:55):
they what he suggested that he really liked is, hey,
tell me your favorite memory of them. What's your favorite
memory of them? And I thought, wow, because everybody wants
to keep their memory alive. So if you meet somebody
who's lost their mom recently or lost their you know,
sibling or partner or whatever, say what's your favorite memory
(12:15):
of them? So my friend who lost her son in
the motorcycle accident. I acted like it was out of
the blue. And I texted her yesterday and we were
talking about her son, and I said, what's your favorite memory?
And she said, oh, my gosh, so many and she
told me some very funny little stories. And so I
really like that. Here's another little life hack. And I
(12:37):
think I saw this on Instagram. How do you get
people to like you? What do you do? What's the
big mystery question? Like, well, how do you get people
to like you? They say that when you're around somebody,
you say something really nice about somebody who's not there,
and that person will then attribute those those those things
(12:59):
to you. So let me give you an example. Yeah,
so let's say Jenny and I are hanging out and
talking and Jenny doesn't know me very well. Yeah, I'd
be like, you know that, Bailey, she is just the kindest, sweetest,
hardest working person. Ever. Something inside our brains will make
us think the person who is saying that has those attributes. Sure, yeah,
does that make sense?
Speaker 4 (13:19):
Yeah, it makes sense.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Yeah, So I should start complimenting other people when I
speak to essentially strangers or acquaintances.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
That's what that's what the guy on Instagram said. Now
I know the way that he says. It's brain science,
and it's always nice to hear somebody say something nice.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
Say This good habit to get into is just to
be like, think of others in a kind manner and
then potentially even speak on it. I always say, I
always tell other people like I don't think of it
in the way like how to get people to like you,
But if you can give someone a compliment, like give
them a compliment to their face, like you could think
it like, oh, Dave looks really nice today, or oh
(13:53):
Dave did a really funny bit today and I really
liked that. And thinking it is one thing, but why
don't you say something and out because then you can
make someone's day.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Yeah, I think people sometimes forget how powerful that can be.
So all right, next one and this is our last one.
Just came in a minute to go, says hello radio
family from another Sarah. Tonight, I'm going on a direct
flight to Billings, Montana to get my new used car.
My oldbum broke down about a month ago during rush
hour on Portland Avenue off of four ninety four. I
(14:23):
had a sinking feeling that would be the last time
I'd be driving my very loved first car. I asked
my parents if they would co sign for me as
my credit score went down due to some unseen activity
or lack of responsibility. They declined, but I persevered and
found my dream car. My parents are very frugal and
think that the car was a little bit excessive and
(14:45):
too luxurious. This would be my second car that I
paid for on my own, and I've never asked my
parents for money or anything in my entire life. Tell
me why I haven't told my parents. I'm flying out
to go get this car, and I'm already nervous to
pick up my kids with my new car from my
parents this weekend. The judgmental look I can see on
my dad's face is making me feel queasy. I'm thirty five.
(15:08):
In less than a month, I make good money. Car
is half the price of a brand new one. I
feel like a little kid. Okay, nobody asked, But there's
there's my troubles for this week. Anybody else have judging parents?
That's from Sarah Sarah the MT. I think she means
massage therapist. Okay, I can tell you a little story
when I first got my first new car, my car
(15:30):
broke down. The trade in value on my Volkswagon that
broke down was twenty five dollars. Now, I didn't know
that you can bargain with your trade in value. They
offered me twenty five bucks. And I'm like, oh, Kurt,
we stupid. Yeah, And so I go in and I
got a Toyota Mr.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
Two.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
If you want to look it up. It's a sporty
little car that was popular back then. Toyota Mr two
two seater, very sporty. I asked my dad, will you
co sign for me? He said, no, you don't need
a sports car. And I was so pissed and so hurt.
You're looking at a sharp, liking.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
Car, right, I mean, yeah, it is. Actually it's not bad,
it's cute.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
He said you don't need a sports car and he
wouldn't co sign. So I was so crushed because he
had loaned my brother and sisters many times, lots of money.
But I didn't need a loan. I had my own money.
I just didn't have any credit. So he wouldn't co sign,
and I was just pissed and I hung up on him.
I've never hung up or disrespected my dad. Ever. But
(16:31):
I was so pissed I hung up, And the next morning,
the car dealership calls and they said, hey, you know what,
We're going to go ahead and let you get that
car without a co signer.
Speaker 4 (16:40):
Oh nice.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Yeah, well, because they wanted to sell a car, and
so my dad must have gotten, you know, chewed out
by my mom. So he calls. He's like, yeah, I
go so co signed for you, And I triumphantly said
I don't need you to now, Yeah, but yeah, I
totally get the whole thing. So she says, you know,
why haven't I told my parents I'm flying out to
(17:01):
get this car. I will tell you this, you're thirty five.
That respect for your parents never goes away. No, even
when my dad was frail and eighty eight years old
and hunched over and had lost four inches of his height,
I still was intimidated by him to a degree. Yeah,
because you just always had that respect and fear in
wanting to please your parents.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
Right, Like, I will never ever in a million years
talk back to my mom. And anytime I swear in
front of my mom, I feel weird doing it, so
I just don't because I would never as a kid,
I would never talk back to my mom. I'd never
swear in front of her, and I never will.
Speaker 4 (17:36):
I don't know. I mean, other people are different.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
To certain people, but that's only because I think that
they are being disrespectful in a way that I don't
agree with. My mom isn't exactly the most PC person sometimes,
so neither's mine either. I will always correct her, and
when she fights me, I will fight back in those
moments so that I have no problem with.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
I definitely, I definitely not fight back.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
But like if my mom says something that's you know, not,
I will be like, hey, you can't say that, and
then she just usually drops it because she doesn't want
to get into a fight, and I don't want to
get into a fight, and I wouldn't fight with her,
so then it would just become far too awkward.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
But I know what you mean, Jenny, Okay, And.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
That is going to do it for the Minnesota good
Bye thought starters, Emails, questions, something that's been on your mind.
Maybe you're like, why is that this? Or have you
ever noticed this? Or what about this? On the show?
Love to talk about it. It's a lot of fun
for us, it really is. I love doing the Minnesota Goodbye.
Send anything you got on your mind to Ryan's show
(18:33):
at KDWB dot com.
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