April 7, 2025 • 35 mins
Vont wants to take the next step with his girlfriend, we get an email from a listener in a tricky situation with his wife, and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Katie w b It is I Jenny on the Day,
Brian in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It is also Bailey.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
It is I Bailey. It is also is considering doing
something pretty adults.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Do you want to tell us about it?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
It's a big step. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
So my girlfriend Alyssa, she we've been together going on
three years. We've lived together going on almost one which
is crazy to think about, and we're looking just for
like something new, like a change, you know, something just different.
You know, we've lived together. So we're like, are we
going to take a new step very soon? And so
we have very much been talking about getting a puppy.
(00:39):
You're so dumb, okay, because Alyssa grew up with dogs
and I had dogs like here and there growing up.
But Alyssa grew up with a dog like her whole life, like,
you know, the same way Dave had Josie like her
whole life.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
And I'm towards the idea.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
But as we've talked about it more, we've gone to
like different foster like an adoption events. We went to
Humane Society, and we've played with puppies and I think
it'd be cute for us to, you know, eventually, Alyssa
and I are going to have a family. That's the plan,
like have kids and get married, and I think a
dog would be a great first step for us to
have a little companion for us to try to take
care of a dog. The problem is one we live
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on the third floor of our apartment building, and so
it'd be just a lot to you know, wake up
in the middle of the night to go take it out,
especially with the weird hours that her and I work
because she works in TV. So we considered, not considered.
We are in the process of trying to foster dogs.
We filled out an application and we I guess there's
like interviews and stuff that you got to go through
(01:36):
or whatever. But we went to foster dogs to do
a trial run. Because with fostering you could do one
of two things. You could foster a dog, which means
you take it into your home. That way, if a
shelter has too not enough space, you have the dog
until somebody adopts it, yep. Or you could do a
foster sitter, which is even less of a commitment. And
while a foster is like on vacation for a week
or works overnight, you have the dog for an even
(01:57):
like shorter and finite.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
N I know that was an option.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
I honestly thought the only way to foster was like
you have a dog and then you foster them until
they're adopted.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
No.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Yeah, I know with Safehans Rescue because that's the event
I went to this week, and they do foster sitters.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
I think, honestly it's a smart idea.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Too, because somebody sent me shout out to our friend Jess,
who works on our street team in promotions. She does fostering,
and she saw like somebody was like, oh, I just
need somebody to watch this dog overnight.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
While I'm at work.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
And I was like, oh, so that's a very easy
commitment and it's just something to ease me and a
listen into it to see if it works with our
work schedules, our home life. And so we're going to
try that out. First, we have our interview tomorrow to qualify.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
You get interviewed and everything. Wow.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Yeah, just because I want to make sure the dogs
go into a good home, right Like it's I'm excited
because before we make a commitment, because we do have
a couple of trips coming up soon and we don't
want to adopt the dog right away, just to give
it to somebody to watch.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
We're gonna do fostering for a little bit.
Speaker 6 (02:48):
Yeah, I have a question. So you say you want
to get a puppy, why don't you want to get
like a dog, like an adult dog.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
I think it would just be nice for us to
have a dog like from not the beginning, but like
while it's young, because adult dogs are hard to train
because they're already adults. I think that having a puppy,
you you know, get it used to you from like
off rip, and it would be nice to see the
same way you unless you adopt, you would you don't
pop out a baby five years old.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
I'm just thinking, like for less work when you're on
the third floor of an apartment building, like when you
have a puppy, Like, yeah, it's kind of.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
Like having a baby. So it's gonna wake you up constantly.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
You're gonna take it outside constantly, Yeah, and all of
that jazz and being on like the third floor in
an apartment building and then also just being in.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
An apartment that is a lot.
Speaker 6 (03:32):
I have a friend who has a puppy and he
also lives on the third floor of his apartment building,
and he just always seems miserable, honestly, which is why
I'm like, Okay, well, if you get a dog, even
if it's like a one year old dog or a
two year old dog, that's still a young dog.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
We have a balcony, and so I was watching tiktoks
this weekend about being able to like baby or dog
proof the balcony, like putting grass and like putting webbing
up that way it doesn't get in the cracks, So
I guess there's different.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Ways to do it.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
I was also talking to somebody about how dogs you
can train them to let you know when they have
to go pee, like different ways, like I guess hit
a bell or they start scratching at a door.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
I've never I never knew those things.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
So I think at least fostering, since it's a temporary situation,
allows us to learn those things and figure it out
because it's all new to me.
Speaker 6 (04:13):
Yeah, this text message says that you could also start
with a one year old who is already potty trained
to avoid having to get.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
Up in the middle of the night. M interesting, So
that's that's what I'm voting for.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
WHOA, we just got a butt ton of text messages
all at once. Somebody says, get a small dog in
littered trip box. Train at I have a Yorki and
he uses a litter box with a potty pad. What
I've never heard of that, Honestly, This person says, take
a puppy class for sure when you get one. I
learned so much from puppy class. It was like puppy kindergarten, Jenny, you.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Watch dogs from time to time, do you have a
requirement of like they have to be this amount or
this old or how do.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
You do that?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I usually you don't really get requests for dogs that like,
are under a year old. I did watch a Great
Dane one time, and I love Great Danes, don't get
me wrong, but this dog was not trained and he
was only like nine months and it was awful, Like
it was.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Really really bad.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
So I typically don't want a ton of young dogs.
But also there's not like many requests because if a
dog's at least like a year or two old, they're
usually potty trained. Not everyone is, and people will lie
to you and tell you that their dog is potty
trained and they're not, and the next thing you know,
they're being everywhere but yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I think VN. I think there's just a lot to consider.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Being in an apartment is your main like avenue of
what will make this difficult for you? Because I do
think it's important to train a dog to go to
the bathroom outside. I know people who have done like
the pea pad things when they lived in an apartment,
and I just like personally think it's better to train
a dog to be able to go to the bathroom outside.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
But to each their own.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
So yes, that's why we're doing a foster, just to
you know, get a vibe and see how it works
financially and the living situation. Like I said, we could
do like a makeshift thing on the balcony, but we'll see.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Yeah, well, you can always text in if you have
any kind of information per vaunt and let him know.
But I will be so excited and I will definitely
be inviting myself over if you are like fostering puppies
or getting a puppy or any of that, because I
will need to meet said dog.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Yes, and thank you.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Just everybody texting, there's so many texts coming in. Safe Hands,
which is the rescue that we applied to foster with.
Somebody said safe Hands is the best foster sitting.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
It's a great idea.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Somebody else said they were a foster family for Safe Hands.
It's an amazing organization. Hey, somebody else said, yeah, don't
get a dog on the third floor.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
It sucks.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Yeah, that's why we're trying the temporary foster situation, just
to see how it works.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
But yeah, okay, well we'll read those text messages. Thanks
for everyone to texted in. Coming up next on the
day Ryan in the Morning Show, somebody emailed us and
they do want to remain anonymous because their wife is
asking for something that she wants to add into the relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
And he was just like, I don't want that.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
So we're doing a little bit of other people's problems
here early listen, so you can help this person out.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Next. Good morning.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
It's uh sunny out there today, so that is exciting.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
I feel like, I mean, it was decent this past weekend.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
I got out for walks like every single day, and
yesterday was glorious.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
I did go on a walk yesterday and it was lovely.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Yeah, okay, have you been using your rock right?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Yes? I do, so. Dave got me a rocksack, rock
pack ruck.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Now I don't now, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Am I having meuniers?
Speaker 6 (07:23):
I'm okay, Yeah, a rucksack for my birthday last year,
and I have used it quite a few times. But
sometimes like I get outside and I'm like down the
block and then I'm like, oh, man, I.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Dang it, I forgot it. Forgot it.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
So I try to and uh often forget. But I
have used it. And it was a lovely day outside
yesterday and I loved it. I love walking, I love
the sun and fresh air.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
It was great. I love that.
Speaker 7 (07:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Well, we hear on the day Ryan in the Morning
Show like to think that we help people, and that's
why people send us emails and they ask for help sometimes.
So I'm gonna jump right into this email we got
and they want to stay anonymous, but they say, I'm
thirty five and my wife is twenty nine. We have
two beautiful babies. But my wife recently came to me
and said she wants an open relationship and she wants
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to have a little little more experience with other men.
I was in complete shock by this. She says that
our family will always be her priority, but a part
of her is not happy anymore because she is just
not sexually satisfied, and if I really care about her,
I would not be opposed to the idea. I suggested
that maybe we see like a sex therapist or a
(08:32):
couple's therapist in general, but she refused and said that
that's a waste of time. She says, to just try
and if I don't like it, then we can stop.
So she just wants to try it and then they
can stop if it doesn't work. I love my wife
and I want her to be happy, but I know
myself and I'm just like not for open relationships. Knowing
that my wife is sleeping with other people, even if
(08:53):
I pretend to be okay, that knowledge will eventually come
back and destroy our marriage and family. But she's really
pushing for an answer, and I don't know what to
do anymore. How should I handle this? Please help me.
So you just got hit with like something very shocking. Yeah,
you probably feel a little bit blindsided. So you're in
(09:14):
this thought process of like what, like what do you meet?
Speaker 2 (09:19):
You want this?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
So I think that you're probably still in a state
of shock, But also you are thinking rationally by suggesting
that you guys go see a therapist, because that is
fair to suggest that. I do, however, think that some
people in relationships are much more selfish and they only
think about what they need and they don't necessarily think
about how that could potentially affect.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
The other person.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
So if you clearly are not interested in an open relationship,
then I think that that should be the end of
the conversation. But I don't want to be the only
one chiming in on this. We would love for you
to call in or text in six five, one, nine,
eight nine, KATIEWB, feel free to call us and let
us know if you've ever been.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
In this situation.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Basically, his wife just came up to him and was like,
I'm just like not satisfied. I want an open relationship.
I still like love you, I love our kids, I
love our family. That's my priority, but like, I want
an open relationship. And so if you've ever been in
that situation, been blindsided, or maybe someone did suggest it
and you're like, okay, fine, we'll give it a try
and it works for you, we would love to hear
from you, So give us a call. But Bill, you've
(10:21):
got some friends that are polyamorous.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Yes, I have friends who are in open relationships and
it works for them really well. And I feel like,
I mean, I have friends who are in relationships, and
I have friends who are in open relationships, and sometimes
the ones who are in relationships seem so much more
unhappy than the ones who are in open relationships. So
I think that there are benefits to being in an
open relationship, but that does have.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
To be agreed upon by both parties.
Speaker 6 (10:46):
So right now it seems like, Okay, the wife is
on board, the husband is not on board. I don't
necessarily love the way that she went about bringing it up,
saying if if her husband really cares about her, he
would not be opposed to the idea. That seems manipulative
to me, and I don't really love that.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
I agreed.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
I agree with you, Jenny where I think that they
should like see a couple's therapist because like, right now,
like she's on board, her husband is not on board.
What and if we just like stick with that, then
nothing's going to happen, period, and both of them will
be unhappy, or at least the wife will be unhappy,
and then I don't know, might come to resent her husband.
(11:26):
But if they go to a couple's therapist. The couple's
therapist is going to know a whole lot more about
what might work for them and what could benefit them,
and so then could potentially change the mind of the
husband or the wife right in either.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Way, And having a therapist involves is always someone who
is like not supposed to be biased, right, right, So
it's like good to hear that perspective because when you're
hearing your partner's perspective, you're like most likely not fully
understanding it because you're like, well, that's your idea and
your bias's your own feelings, whereas a therapist is going
to jump in and have that unbiased opinion. But right,
we do have someone on the phone. I believe the
(12:01):
name is shale Lee Shaley. Hi, Shaley, what do you
want to say about this situation? This guy just got
approached by his wife and she wants an open relationship
and he was like.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
I don't think I want that.
Speaker 5 (12:14):
Sheel on Shaley?
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Are you there?
Speaker 8 (12:18):
Yep?
Speaker 5 (12:20):
What do you want to say?
Speaker 7 (12:22):
I'd absolutely say no, I have actually been in the
lifestyle as a single woman for about fifteen years and
eighty five percent of the relationship even if they're just
in a relationship at fail. Really it's usually the men
that ask for the open relationship, so for the woman
to ask is a little odd. But yes, I have
(12:43):
seen marriages that have been they've been married ten to
fifteen years, and I would say within a year or
two they end, So absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
What do you think the reason is for ending?
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Is it because like they went outside of the relationship
and then they did realize like, oh, actually I'm more
attracted to these other people and this is what I want?
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Or what would be the reasoning?
Speaker 7 (13:04):
Actually, there's a few different reasons. One is the lack
of communication, setting boundaries, setting rules, setting up you know,
when you can and cannot go, who you can and
cannot be. You know, sometimes you know, whoever has the
permission of whoever's going out isn't always honest. Jealousy is
(13:24):
another big, big thing, right, There's a few different reasons.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
So it's usually just like you go out, you do.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
So it's honestly kind of sounds like what happens in
a lot of relationships that aren't open relationships.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
There's like a lack of communication.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Trust is like not happening then at that point, and
so then it just all kind of crumbles. Now, you
said that you've been doing this as a single person.
How has have you like continued to do this or
do you feel like you don't want to be involved
in like a relationship ending because you were like with
that person.
Speaker 7 (13:56):
See, that has happened a couple of times, obviously me
being the third. So I've seen in the last three
or four years, I've stepped away from it because I
have seen you know, so many, so many.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Things go wrong.
Speaker 7 (14:09):
Yeah, so I've stepped away from it. And when I
do get into a relationship like I have in the past,
I stepped away.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Right, So interesting, interesting, a good point of view, Shaley, Yeah,
thank you so much for calling.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
We appreciate it.
Speaker 6 (14:21):
Can I read a text message? Yeah, go for it,
someone says actual therapist here. Open relationships can work, but
the amount of honesty and open communication required for one
is something many couples don't have.
Speaker 5 (14:32):
Many people use it to satisfy their needs.
Speaker 6 (14:34):
But that just shows me that this couple does not
have the level of communication that is required for an
open relationship.
Speaker 5 (14:41):
And I one d percent.
Speaker 6 (14:42):
Agree with that because I feel like there are you
know a handful of people texting and being like nah,
open relationship. That's so weird, that's so wrong. And I
don't think it's weird or wrong. It's just different from
what you were raised on. It's different from what you know.
And I think it really can work, but you have
to be like the most exceptional commune indicators. And like
what she said about setting boundaries and everything and trust
(15:04):
and all of that, that's like paramount for.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
An open relationship, right, And I feel like she also
came in hot, like yeah, looking for this, not like
sitting down and being like, hey, you know, I'm kind
of feeling this way. It kind of sounds like she
was just like I want an open relationship, period, And
you have to agree. It was never like a conversation
of like, hey, you know, I'm not exactly like super
happy in this part of our relationship.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
Right.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
But I mean a lot of people are saying that
this girl's already checked out, like run as possible.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Somebody else said that she's.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Probably already cheating and she's just trying to justify now
by asking for an open relationship. Now, of course this
is a speculation, so like who actually knows.
Speaker 6 (15:43):
So some of this text says I think it's really
great that she said something and it's acceptable for him
to have feelings about it, which, yes, and at least
the conversation is out there now.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Right, This is a good way to put it, it says.
I give props to both parties for being open with
their needs. I wonder if they make a compromise, though,
he will be open to it. If she agrees to
routinely do couple's therapy, then they can both be honest
in that safe space with a therapist. And then what
happens if he doesn't join in this? How can he
work with her to fulfill a need she doesn't currently
(16:14):
have fulfilled. If nothing supports this need, she may leave.
So yeah, I mean appreciate all the texts coming in today. Oh,
I think we have another caller. We'll jump to this
real quick, wit.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Hi, Angie, what did.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
You want to say about the situation with the guy
whose wife is asking for an open relationship?
Speaker 7 (16:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (16:31):
So, the two couples that I knew that decided to
have a polyama's relationship, it was both the women who
came to the table with it. The one person I
knew she taught the idea. I think because she had
already met somebody, and so that's where you know, it's
where it came to kind of her idea. But both
the couples I knew ended up getting divorced because they
(16:53):
fell in love with somebody else that they were sitting with,
So they opened up the door to sleep with other people.
But you're feelings are your feelings right?
Speaker 5 (17:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (17:01):
Then they fall in love with the other someone else
and then the marriage falls apart. So that was two
people I knew that that happened.
Speaker 5 (17:07):
Too interesting.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
I think that's when it gets tough. It's when they're married.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
And not that this necessarily matters, but like, was it
both women that your friends were that like ended up
sleeping with someone and then falling in love?
Speaker 9 (17:18):
Yes, both women and the one I don't really I
didn't know the other couple as well. But the one
couple I knew, well, he really it wasn't him at all.
Like he was like, I don't really want to be
a polyamis, but I want the same kind of what
he's saying. I want to keep our family together. They
had kids, and he was like, you know, this is
what you need. I guess I'm open to you, and
(17:40):
I think it. Honestly, I don't know how much. It
bothered him, but obviously she ended up completely falling in
love with someone else and then that was it. She
was like, I had feelings for this other person, and
the same thing happened. I think the other people I
know she actually married the other guy.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Oh okay, interesting, and I'm going to say that first
one wasn't for her.
Speaker 5 (17:58):
I guess, you know, interesting.
Speaker 9 (18:01):
And that's all fine, And Dana just don't think in
my experience, I see people have like long term success
with polyamorous relationships.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
Yeah, got it. Okay, Well, thank you so much, Thank
you me.
Speaker 6 (18:12):
I definitely think it's like a new thing that not
you know, there's not a lot of people on that
bandwagon yet. And because we're you know, so it's so
ingrained in our society to do monogamy, right, and.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
It definitely is.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
And I think a lot of people that are texting
in that it's like, oh, she's already cheating. I really
don't necessarily believe that because I just think that, like
we are used to always like committing to a partner,
and that's like the societal standard more so, Yeah, and
so that's what you think you're supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
And then you like are like, wait, there are other options.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Like one person just texted and said, I've never not
been in an open relationship.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
It works.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
It saves people from cheating because it's not cheating obviously if.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
You are if it's a great time, yea.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
So well, hopefully we helped you out a person who
wanted to remain anonymous, and good luck with that.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Definitely send us an email with an update.
Speaker 5 (18:59):
I want to give us the two.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Okay, it is Monday, so we're gonna do a quick
little Monday motivation.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
I found this audio clip.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
It was circulating all of our social media the last
couple of weeks, and I really wanted to play it
because I just think that Michelle Obama speaks so well
sometimes and I just loved what she had to say here.
Speaker 5 (19:17):
Most of life is just ordinary.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
You know.
Speaker 8 (19:20):
You got to learn how to be happy alone. You
got to be happy a little bored. You got to
be happy when things are hard. You got to learn
how to be satisfied when you failed. Yeah, things don't
go your way, because all of that keeps you getting up.
But I think there are a lot of young people
who are searching for this impossible feeling of continuous happiness.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
So I just like love that because I think, of
course we always like want to chase our next like
dopamine heads, something exciting, something fun, whatever, But like life
really is more so ordinary and than it is crazy
and exciting.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Yeah, I think that you have to embrace that about.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
Living, Like you can't always just assume everything's going to
be so exciting. Imagine going on vacation every other week.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
That wouldn't be exciting anymore.
Speaker 5 (20:13):
Because then it would be routine, right, yeah, it would be.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
So you have to like embrace the ordinary and like
really dive in into the excitement when it does happen,
because that's just how life is too.
Speaker 6 (20:24):
I like to count my blessings on days like yesterday
where mostly all I did was clean and then I
saw a play and that's it. I was just like, Okay,
I don't get these days very often, So I'm going
to relish in this day of like semi rest sort
of and clean up my space and it's going to
be nice and it's going to be novel even though
it's not necessarily exciting.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Yeah, So there's a little Monday motivation Machelle, Yes, love it,
And then I can grab that and I'll put it
up on our Instagram story Dave Ryan's show if you
want to share that yourself.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
Okay, we're diving right into day's urge.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
Brilliant show one on one point three KD W B.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
And Dirt is brought to you by six point two
Injured Heimer and Lammer's Injury Law. So the big story
from this weekend is the fact that SNL is gonna
get in trouble, probably gonna be sued because they did
a skit. They put the microphone to the audience and
the audience.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
Swore on live TV. So here we go, look out.
Speaker 3 (21:27):
With his fill a bustle, I had not filled a bust.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
There's literally no chance that if a comedian or whoever
put a microphone in there like these men ain't work,
I wouldn't say what the audience and said Rocky hard Wait,
she was like no, it was supposed to be worth.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
A damn And I'm like no, no, no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 4 (22:07):
I want to know what. Because SNL does two shows
every Saturday. They do a dress rehearsal to see what
skits doing don't work, and then they do the show
that you see on TV. What did the audience that
went to the dress rehearsal say, because they have to
have said the same thing, trash. You had to have
known that that, Like you said, Jennie, you had to.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
Have known that was what they were going to say.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
That's what I thought.
Speaker 5 (22:27):
Maybe that's why she's like, I'm going to risk it anyway, right,
she might have.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
All Right, the Met Gala is going to be coming up,
and we got a sneak peek of who's going.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
To be going. You guys want to know, Yeah, okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
So so far people that are going to be on
are not going to be on the list. One person
is Snow White star Rachel Zegler.
Speaker 5 (22:49):
She's not going.
Speaker 10 (22:50):
No.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Oh, she received an invite, but her rep said Rachel
will be in rehearsal's foot for Avida.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Oh she's not going to be there.
Speaker 5 (22:58):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
However, her Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds are invited.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
We're gonna have to wait to see.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
If they attend amid their legal battle with Justin Beldoni.
The Met Galley happens every year the first Monday in May.
And if you don't know what the Metgala is, it's
basically this fashion show charity show, but it's really just
a fashion show for a bunch of celebrities to wear
an outfit that they can barely breathe, walk or stand in.
Speaker 5 (23:23):
Do we know what the theme is? Does it say?
Speaker 6 (23:25):
Because there's a theme every year, and I remember I
really liked the year they did camp as a theme
because everything was just like over the top and campy.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
They don't have that up yet.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
I feel like you don't usually learn that until like
closer to the day, but so that won't be until May.
This year's event does is chaired by asap Rocky Pharrell
and actor Coleman Domingo, and then also a race car
driver Lewis Hamilton. Lebron James is going to be the
honorary chair and then singers expected to attend our Lizzo, Doci, Shakira,
(24:00):
Mary Jay Tyler and Usher. And then also some athletes
have been invited.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Shout out to.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
W NBA player Angel Reese and then also Olympic sprinter
I'm gonna probably say her name around is it?
Speaker 2 (24:11):
Chakhari Richardson.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
And college basketball star Page Bugers would shout out because
Page is from the Twin Cities.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
Yeah, I looked it up. There. The theme is out.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
Oh it is.
Speaker 6 (24:22):
It's called super Fine Tailoring Black Style.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Okay, that's exciting.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
And speaking of Lizzo, she was recently talking about Janet
Jackson and claiming that she is the queen of pop.
Speaker 8 (24:34):
There were no such things as pop diva was before Janet.
Speaker 3 (24:38):
Janet was first.
Speaker 5 (24:39):
She was famous when Madonna was a kid watching her time.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Yeah, and I'm just putting it out there.
Speaker 10 (24:44):
It's not because someone is better than the others.
Speaker 5 (24:46):
She was just first and she is Janet.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
Okay, she is dan It didn't queen a pop though.
Speaker 5 (24:53):
I don't know if she.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
Because Michael is called the king of pop, right right,
So I understand.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
I try to keep it in the family. Yeah, make it.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
But Bailey, you named five Michael Jackson songs.
Speaker 5 (25:05):
Name five you can't. Yeah, I can.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
Five Jada Jackson songs. You can't.
Speaker 5 (25:11):
Nasty nasty boys don't mean a thing. That's a great one.
Speaker 6 (25:17):
There are other ones that I know. I know five,
but I don't know five the names of them. She
don't count as the queen of pop. Sorry, Listen, who.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Would we say at this given time in twenty twenty
five is the queen of pop?
Speaker 3 (25:29):
Really? Terror Swift with the girls name is on our paychecks.
Speaker 5 (25:32):
Yeah, Taylor Swift Swift, you can.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
Get us in trouble here, I was gonna say, I
can't imagine anyone would say anyone else at this point. Yeah,
it has to be Taylor Swift.
Speaker 7 (25:43):
Is it?
Speaker 6 (25:43):
Though? It makes me wonder, like, have they claimed anyone
is the queen of pop? Because I know Brittany was
apparently the princess of pop, but they never did like
a queen Madonna?
Speaker 5 (25:53):
It does it?
Speaker 3 (25:53):
Is it? Month?
Speaker 5 (25:54):
It was Madonna the.
Speaker 3 (25:55):
Queen of God.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
That's a good suggestion, But I don't know. Maybe I
feel like I feel like it does have to go
back to, like more so the beginning of pop.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
But I don't think anyone.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
Has had as big of an influence as Taylor's Taylor Swift.
Speaker 6 (26:10):
Yeah, I guess when you google queen of pop, Madonna
pops up. But I don't agree. I do think it
is more so Taylor Swift. Maybe Taylor Swift is just
the monarch of pop, you know. Yeah, she is the
one at all, Lady Gaga, She's like a jester of pop.
Speaker 5 (26:29):
Yeah, yeah, I say that with respect. Actually is definitely
like a jester of pop.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Beyonce.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Okay, yeah, she's up there too.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
She's in there.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
Well, according to Lizzo, it's Janna Jackson. And because lizill
brought it up, I feel like, let's play a.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Janna Jackson song.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
And then right after that, Steve that used to work
on the show, he would do a little abbreviated version
of like a murder podcast called murder Monday. So we're
gonna play one of those right after a little Elf for.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
You on katiewb Kadi or.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
Radio Jude Crime the Dave Ryan Jove's Murder Monday.
Speaker 10 (27:15):
As you drive north from Los Angeles on US Route
one oh one, which is more commonly known as the
Ventura Highway, he'll eventually reach the ocean side community of Ventura.
In the mid nineteen nineties, with the population just short
of one hundred thousand people, this medium sized community, nestled
between the foothills and the Pacific Ocean was a dream,
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especially on a beautiful May morning in nineteen ninety six.
On that morning, thirty year old Sherry Dolly dropped your
children off at school, then headed to the store. Sherry
was supposed to be home around noon, but when she
didn't return.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Worried, her high.
Speaker 10 (27:50):
Schools sweetheart and husband of twelve years, Michael, decided to
call nine one one. He knew something was wrong. Hours later,
police discover her abandoned conversion band in the parking lot,
inside bags from the store and Sherry's purse. Police went
inside to checked the security footage and showed a tall,
(28:11):
blonde woman with black shorts and a sleeveless blouse walk
into the store, speak to a friend near the entrance,
and a short time later check out and walk out
the front door. Footage from the security camera show that
she left at nine twenty two. Something was wrong. Sherry's
family and friends knew it right away. They contacted local
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media outlets, hung missing person posters around the seaside community
looking for anyone that had seen her, and finally, a
few days later, someone came forward. They remembered seeing Sherry
in the parking lot that morning. She walked out of
the store, made her way to her van, placing the
bags inside, and when she turned around, a woman with
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blonde hair, a tan pantsuit and the sunglasses approached her.
The woman said something to Sherry, who, in that moment,
looked shocked. Sherry started crying as she turned around and
was handcuffed by the woman. She was then placed in
a Nissan Ultima and driven away. Police and Ventura California
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don't drive Nissan Ultima's, and no security company in the
area had a vehicle that matched that description, so police
began to dig into Mike and Sherry's relationship. They were
high school lovers, but Michael was far from faithful, and
this is something that Sherry actually knew about. He was
having an affair with a woman named Diana Hahn, someone
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that he had met at work almost every day from
the day Sherry went missing. Volunteers searched, and then, finally,
on the twenty fifth day, just three miles from the
store where Sherry was last seen, searchers came across a
pile of bones just.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
Off the road.
Speaker 10 (30:00):
A friend was able to identify the clothes with the
skeletal remains, and upon forensic analysis, police were able to
conclude that Sherry had been stabbed multiple times with both
a knife and an axe. Police eventually located the Nissan
Altima that may have been used to abduct Sherry. It
had been rented by Diana Hahn, Michael's alleged mistress, but
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there was a major problem. Whoever rented that vehicle didn't
look like Michael's mistress, Diana. Police showed the workers at
the rental shop pictures of Diana, and they said that
the woman they saw looked completely different. And that's besides
the fact that Diana was a brunette. Furthermore, this signature
on the rental car agreement was very different from Diana's.
(30:46):
Was someone attempting to forge that signature in an effort
to point the blame at Michael's mistress. At the time
of the murder, Sherry's husband, Michael had a concrete alibi.
But what about that and why did she want Sherry dead?
We'll find out next on Murder Monday.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
One. On one point three kd w B True.
Speaker 7 (31:13):
Crime Stories, The De Royan shows Murder Monday.
Speaker 10 (31:22):
Sherry Dolly had just finished shopping at Target one May
morning in nineteen ninety six when she was approached at
the store's parking lot by a woman. The blonde woman
in a tan pantsuit handcuffed Sherry and put her into
a teal Nissan Altamont. A month later, Sherry's skeletal remains
turned up in a ravine north of town. Children of
legend of death and then hacked. The killer may have
(31:44):
even tried to decapitate her. Cherry's husband, Michael, had been
reportedly having an affair with a Brunette coworker named Diana Hahn,
an affair that Sherry knew about, and two days after
the murder, Michael and Diana Han did something that made
police view that as prime suspects. Police went to speak
to Diana at her home. He knocked on the front
(32:05):
door and were greeted by Diana in a skimpy gown,
and then a few moments later, walking down the hallway,
it was Michael. He entered the kitchen and poured himself
a coffee as the investigators stood there speaking to her.
Didn't mean that they were the murderers, because one of
the major issues for police was the signature at the
(32:27):
rental car company. They had searched the car and found
blood inside of it, but the signature was in no
way similar to Diana's.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
So police went to.
Speaker 10 (32:35):
Diana's bank and found copies of checks that she had
signed over ten years ago and realized that her signature
had drastically changed.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
Police moved into arrest Diana for the murder, which.
Speaker 10 (32:45):
Is when they found receipts for a whig shop and
a uniform store. They searched her home just when they
found polaroid pictures of multiple women. But only after finding
makeup and multiple wigs in the home that matched pictures
of the women in these polaroid pictures did they determine
that Diana was a master of disguise. She worked as
a model and had learned to manipulate her looks. Police
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then came across even more damning evidence, phone records that
showed before and after the murders, Michael and Diana had
spoken numerous times on the phone. This was enough for
police to then arrest Michael. Police are exactly sure of
the motive for the murder, insurance money, Michael's fear of
divorce ruining him Either way, Both he and Diana Han
(33:30):
were found guilty and sentenced to life in prison.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
All right, thanks to Stibo for still making appearances randomly on.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
The day ride in the morning till.
Speaker 5 (33:43):
He was here doing that live. I can't believe it.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
He hasn't been here in a few years.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
Actually, that's the lie. He came What did he come
in for for the wedding Valentine's Day. Yes, he is
flow Jams with Dave and that was the first time
we've had him on live since he's wrecking the shows.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Thank you, Steve, still make an appearance here.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
Okay, we have some fun tickets to get you in
to see Jonah Murray. He is going to be coming
to the Green Room in Uptown on Friday, April eighteenth,
and we have a pair of tickets to get you
in right now. This is kind of his kickoff to
his big European tour, So we want to get whoever's
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a big fan to go see our boy Jonah and
give us a call six' five one nine eight nine
k d W b and we'll get you in to
go See Jonah. Murray and, honestly LIKE i, know you
might be able to get a picture with. Them, yeah
maybe he'll sign your. BOOB i signed back because like
(34:43):
When jonah, started he was like sixteen years, old SO
i felt.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
Like it was.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
Inappropriate but he is now like twenty three or twenty four,
maybe so, YEAH i mean maybe that or maybe your phone.
Speaker 6 (34:54):
Case maybe that's A I i want to go and
see IF i can get him to sign my.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
Boob, okay are you gonna.
Speaker 5 (35:01):
Wear a BRA.
Speaker 1 (35:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (35:04):
Why actually it's probably not my, boo But i'll probably
have him signed my classical instead because it's easier.
Speaker 5 (35:10):
Access so it's so like right, there And i'll be
like right, here, buddy.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
And he's, like, oh like who are? You he's, like
you didn't want me to sign a law. Er you
want it right on the, bone.
Speaker 7 (35:19):
Right on the.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
Bone, actually could you sign my? Classical thank you so. Much,
well give us a. Call we'll get you those tickets right.
Now and now we're going to switch it out For
Murder monday for a more energetic vibe on This, monday
because it's.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
Sunning, out it's not going to be very.
Speaker 1 (35:33):
Warm it's going to be very deceiving looking outside today
because it's definitely still only gonna be, LIKE i don't,
know mid. Thirties, well let's get you pumped up For.
Monday here's The Monday morning dance. Party get you
Katie w b It is I Jenny on the Day,
Brian in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It is also Bailey.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
It is I Bailey. It is also is considering doing
something pretty adults.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Do you want to tell us about it?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
It's a big step. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
So my girlfriend Alyssa, she we've been together going on
three years. We've lived together going on almost one which
is crazy to think about, and we're looking just for
like something new, like a change, you know, something just different.
You know, we've lived together. So we're like, are we
going to take a new step very soon? And so
we have very much been talking about getting a puppy.
(00:39):
You're so dumb, okay, because Alyssa grew up with dogs
and I had dogs like here and there growing up.
But Alyssa grew up with a dog like her whole life, like,
you know, the same way Dave had Josie like her
whole life.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
And I'm towards the idea.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
But as we've talked about it more, we've gone to
like different foster like an adoption events. We went to
Humane Society, and we've played with puppies and I think
it'd be cute for us to, you know, eventually, Alyssa
and I are going to have a family. That's the plan,
like have kids and get married, and I think a
dog would be a great first step for us to
have a little companion for us to try to take
care of a dog. The problem is one we live
(01:16):
on the third floor of our apartment building, and so
it'd be just a lot to you know, wake up
in the middle of the night to go take it out,
especially with the weird hours that her and I work
because she works in TV. So we considered, not considered.
We are in the process of trying to foster dogs.
We filled out an application and we I guess there's
like interviews and stuff that you got to go through
(01:36):
or whatever. But we went to foster dogs to do
a trial run. Because with fostering you could do one
of two things. You could foster a dog, which means
you take it into your home. That way, if a
shelter has too not enough space, you have the dog
until somebody adopts it, yep. Or you could do a
foster sitter, which is even less of a commitment. And
while a foster is like on vacation for a week
or works overnight, you have the dog for an even
(01:57):
like shorter and finite.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
N I know that was an option.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
I honestly thought the only way to foster was like
you have a dog and then you foster them until
they're adopted.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
No.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Yeah, I know with Safehans Rescue because that's the event
I went to this week, and they do foster sitters.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
I think, honestly it's a smart idea.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Too, because somebody sent me shout out to our friend Jess,
who works on our street team in promotions. She does fostering,
and she saw like somebody was like, oh, I just
need somebody to watch this dog overnight.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
While I'm at work.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
And I was like, oh, so that's a very easy
commitment and it's just something to ease me and a
listen into it to see if it works with our
work schedules, our home life. And so we're going to
try that out. First, we have our interview tomorrow to qualify.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
You get interviewed and everything. Wow.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Yeah, just because I want to make sure the dogs
go into a good home, right Like it's I'm excited
because before we make a commitment, because we do have
a couple of trips coming up soon and we don't
want to adopt the dog right away, just to give
it to somebody to watch.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
We're gonna do fostering for a little bit.
Speaker 6 (02:48):
Yeah, I have a question. So you say you want
to get a puppy, why don't you want to get
like a dog, like an adult dog.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
I think it would just be nice for us to
have a dog like from not the beginning, but like
while it's young, because adult dogs are hard to train
because they're already adults. I think that having a puppy,
you you know, get it used to you from like
off rip, and it would be nice to see the
same way you unless you adopt, you would you don't
pop out a baby five years old.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
I'm just thinking, like for less work when you're on
the third floor of an apartment building, like when you
have a puppy, Like, yeah, it's kind of.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
Like having a baby. So it's gonna wake you up constantly.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
You're gonna take it outside constantly, Yeah, and all of
that jazz and being on like the third floor in
an apartment building and then also just being in.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
An apartment that is a lot.
Speaker 6 (03:32):
I have a friend who has a puppy and he
also lives on the third floor of his apartment building,
and he just always seems miserable, honestly, which is why
I'm like, Okay, well, if you get a dog, even
if it's like a one year old dog or a
two year old dog, that's still a young dog.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
We have a balcony, and so I was watching tiktoks
this weekend about being able to like baby or dog
proof the balcony, like putting grass and like putting webbing
up that way it doesn't get in the cracks, So
I guess there's different.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Ways to do it.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
I was also talking to somebody about how dogs you
can train them to let you know when they have
to go pee, like different ways, like I guess hit
a bell or they start scratching at a door.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
I've never I never knew those things.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
So I think at least fostering, since it's a temporary situation,
allows us to learn those things and figure it out
because it's all new to me.
Speaker 6 (04:13):
Yeah, this text message says that you could also start
with a one year old who is already potty trained
to avoid having to get.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
Up in the middle of the night. M interesting, So
that's that's what I'm voting for.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
WHOA, we just got a butt ton of text messages
all at once. Somebody says, get a small dog in
littered trip box. Train at I have a Yorki and
he uses a litter box with a potty pad. What
I've never heard of that, Honestly, This person says, take
a puppy class for sure when you get one. I
learned so much from puppy class. It was like puppy kindergarten, Jenny, you.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Watch dogs from time to time, do you have a
requirement of like they have to be this amount or
this old or how do.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
You do that?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I usually you don't really get requests for dogs that like,
are under a year old. I did watch a Great
Dane one time, and I love Great Danes, don't get
me wrong, but this dog was not trained and he
was only like nine months and it was awful, Like
it was.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Really really bad.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
So I typically don't want a ton of young dogs.
But also there's not like many requests because if a
dog's at least like a year or two old, they're
usually potty trained. Not everyone is, and people will lie
to you and tell you that their dog is potty
trained and they're not, and the next thing you know,
they're being everywhere but yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I think VN. I think there's just a lot to consider.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Being in an apartment is your main like avenue of
what will make this difficult for you? Because I do
think it's important to train a dog to go to
the bathroom outside. I know people who have done like
the pea pad things when they lived in an apartment,
and I just like personally think it's better to train
a dog to be able to go to the bathroom outside.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
But to each their own.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
So yes, that's why we're doing a foster, just to
you know, get a vibe and see how it works
financially and the living situation. Like I said, we could
do like a makeshift thing on the balcony, but we'll see.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Yeah, well, you can always text in if you have
any kind of information per vaunt and let him know.
But I will be so excited and I will definitely
be inviting myself over if you are like fostering puppies
or getting a puppy or any of that, because I
will need to meet said dog.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Yes, and thank you.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Just everybody texting, there's so many texts coming in. Safe Hands,
which is the rescue that we applied to foster with.
Somebody said safe Hands is the best foster sitting.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
It's a great idea.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Somebody else said they were a foster family for Safe Hands.
It's an amazing organization. Hey, somebody else said, yeah, don't
get a dog on the third floor.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
It sucks.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Yeah, that's why we're trying the temporary foster situation, just
to see how it works.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
But yeah, okay, well we'll read those text messages. Thanks
for everyone to texted in. Coming up next on the
day Ryan in the Morning Show, somebody emailed us and
they do want to remain anonymous because their wife is
asking for something that she wants to add into the relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
And he was just like, I don't want that.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
So we're doing a little bit of other people's problems
here early listen, so you can help this person out.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Next. Good morning.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
It's uh sunny out there today, so that is exciting.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
I feel like, I mean, it was decent this past weekend.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
I got out for walks like every single day, and
yesterday was glorious.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
I did go on a walk yesterday and it was lovely.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Yeah, okay, have you been using your rock right?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Yes? I do, so. Dave got me a rocksack, rock
pack ruck.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Now I don't now, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Am I having meuniers?
Speaker 6 (07:23):
I'm okay, Yeah, a rucksack for my birthday last year,
and I have used it quite a few times. But
sometimes like I get outside and I'm like down the
block and then I'm like, oh, man, I.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Dang it, I forgot it. Forgot it.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
So I try to and uh often forget. But I
have used it. And it was a lovely day outside
yesterday and I loved it. I love walking, I love
the sun and fresh air.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
It was great. I love that.
Speaker 7 (07:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Well, we hear on the day Ryan in the Morning
Show like to think that we help people, and that's
why people send us emails and they ask for help sometimes.
So I'm gonna jump right into this email we got
and they want to stay anonymous, but they say, I'm
thirty five and my wife is twenty nine. We have
two beautiful babies. But my wife recently came to me
and said she wants an open relationship and she wants
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to have a little little more experience with other men.
I was in complete shock by this. She says that
our family will always be her priority, but a part
of her is not happy anymore because she is just
not sexually satisfied, and if I really care about her,
I would not be opposed to the idea. I suggested
that maybe we see like a sex therapist or a
(08:32):
couple's therapist in general, but she refused and said that
that's a waste of time. She says, to just try
and if I don't like it, then we can stop.
So she just wants to try it and then they
can stop if it doesn't work. I love my wife
and I want her to be happy, but I know
myself and I'm just like not for open relationships. Knowing
that my wife is sleeping with other people, even if
(08:53):
I pretend to be okay, that knowledge will eventually come
back and destroy our marriage and family. But she's really
pushing for an answer, and I don't know what to
do anymore. How should I handle this? Please help me.
So you just got hit with like something very shocking. Yeah,
you probably feel a little bit blindsided. So you're in
(09:14):
this thought process of like what, like what do you meet?
Speaker 2 (09:19):
You want this?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
So I think that you're probably still in a state
of shock, But also you are thinking rationally by suggesting
that you guys go see a therapist, because that is
fair to suggest that. I do, however, think that some
people in relationships are much more selfish and they only
think about what they need and they don't necessarily think
about how that could potentially affect.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
The other person.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
So if you clearly are not interested in an open relationship,
then I think that that should be the end of
the conversation. But I don't want to be the only
one chiming in on this. We would love for you
to call in or text in six five, one, nine,
eight nine, KATIEWB, feel free to call us and let
us know if you've ever been.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
In this situation.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Basically, his wife just came up to him and was like,
I'm just like not satisfied. I want an open relationship.
I still like love you, I love our kids, I
love our family. That's my priority, but like, I want
an open relationship. And so if you've ever been in
that situation, been blindsided, or maybe someone did suggest it
and you're like, okay, fine, we'll give it a try
and it works for you, we would love to hear
from you, So give us a call. But Bill, you've
(10:21):
got some friends that are polyamorous.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Yes, I have friends who are in open relationships and
it works for them really well. And I feel like,
I mean, I have friends who are in relationships, and
I have friends who are in open relationships, and sometimes
the ones who are in relationships seem so much more
unhappy than the ones who are in open relationships. So
I think that there are benefits to being in an
open relationship, but that does have.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
To be agreed upon by both parties.
Speaker 6 (10:46):
So right now it seems like, Okay, the wife is
on board, the husband is not on board. I don't
necessarily love the way that she went about bringing it up,
saying if if her husband really cares about her, he
would not be opposed to the idea. That seems manipulative
to me, and I don't really love that.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
I agreed.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
I agree with you, Jenny where I think that they
should like see a couple's therapist because like, right now,
like she's on board, her husband is not on board.
What and if we just like stick with that, then
nothing's going to happen, period, and both of them will
be unhappy, or at least the wife will be unhappy,
and then I don't know, might come to resent her husband.
(11:26):
But if they go to a couple's therapist. The couple's
therapist is going to know a whole lot more about
what might work for them and what could benefit them,
and so then could potentially change the mind of the
husband or the wife right in either.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Way, And having a therapist involves is always someone who
is like not supposed to be biased, right, right, So
it's like good to hear that perspective because when you're
hearing your partner's perspective, you're like most likely not fully
understanding it because you're like, well, that's your idea and
your bias's your own feelings, whereas a therapist is going
to jump in and have that unbiased opinion. But right,
we do have someone on the phone. I believe the
(12:01):
name is shale Lee Shaley. Hi, Shaley, what do you
want to say about this situation? This guy just got
approached by his wife and she wants an open relationship
and he was like.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
I don't think I want that.
Speaker 5 (12:14):
Sheel on Shaley?
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Are you there?
Speaker 8 (12:18):
Yep?
Speaker 5 (12:20):
What do you want to say?
Speaker 7 (12:22):
I'd absolutely say no, I have actually been in the
lifestyle as a single woman for about fifteen years and
eighty five percent of the relationship even if they're just
in a relationship at fail. Really it's usually the men
that ask for the open relationship, so for the woman
to ask is a little odd. But yes, I have
(12:43):
seen marriages that have been they've been married ten to
fifteen years, and I would say within a year or
two they end, So absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
What do you think the reason is for ending?
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Is it because like they went outside of the relationship
and then they did realize like, oh, actually I'm more
attracted to these other people and this is what I want?
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Or what would be the reasoning?
Speaker 7 (13:04):
Actually, there's a few different reasons. One is the lack
of communication, setting boundaries, setting rules, setting up you know,
when you can and cannot go, who you can and
cannot be. You know, sometimes you know, whoever has the
permission of whoever's going out isn't always honest. Jealousy is
(13:24):
another big, big thing, right, There's a few different reasons.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
So it's usually just like you go out, you do.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
So it's honestly kind of sounds like what happens in
a lot of relationships that aren't open relationships.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
There's like a lack of communication.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Trust is like not happening then at that point, and
so then it just all kind of crumbles. Now, you
said that you've been doing this as a single person.
How has have you like continued to do this or
do you feel like you don't want to be involved
in like a relationship ending because you were like with
that person.
Speaker 7 (13:56):
See, that has happened a couple of times, obviously me
being the third. So I've seen in the last three
or four years, I've stepped away from it because I
have seen you know, so many, so many.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Things go wrong.
Speaker 7 (14:09):
Yeah, so I've stepped away from it. And when I
do get into a relationship like I have in the past,
I stepped away.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Right, So interesting, interesting, a good point of view, Shaley, Yeah,
thank you so much for calling.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
We appreciate it.
Speaker 6 (14:21):
Can I read a text message? Yeah, go for it,
someone says actual therapist here. Open relationships can work, but
the amount of honesty and open communication required for one
is something many couples don't have.
Speaker 5 (14:32):
Many people use it to satisfy their needs.
Speaker 6 (14:34):
But that just shows me that this couple does not
have the level of communication that is required for an
open relationship.
Speaker 5 (14:41):
And I one d percent.
Speaker 6 (14:42):
Agree with that because I feel like there are you
know a handful of people texting and being like nah,
open relationship. That's so weird, that's so wrong. And I
don't think it's weird or wrong. It's just different from
what you were raised on. It's different from what you know.
And I think it really can work, but you have
to be like the most exceptional commune indicators. And like
what she said about setting boundaries and everything and trust
(15:04):
and all of that, that's like paramount for.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
An open relationship, right, And I feel like she also
came in hot, like yeah, looking for this, not like
sitting down and being like, hey, you know, I'm kind
of feeling this way. It kind of sounds like she
was just like I want an open relationship, period, And
you have to agree. It was never like a conversation
of like, hey, you know, I'm not exactly like super
happy in this part of our relationship.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
Right.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
But I mean a lot of people are saying that
this girl's already checked out, like run as possible.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Somebody else said that she's.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Probably already cheating and she's just trying to justify now
by asking for an open relationship. Now, of course this
is a speculation, so like who actually knows.
Speaker 6 (15:43):
So some of this text says I think it's really
great that she said something and it's acceptable for him
to have feelings about it, which, yes, and at least
the conversation is out there now.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Right, This is a good way to put it, it says.
I give props to both parties for being open with
their needs. I wonder if they make a compromise, though,
he will be open to it. If she agrees to
routinely do couple's therapy, then they can both be honest
in that safe space with a therapist. And then what
happens if he doesn't join in this? How can he
work with her to fulfill a need she doesn't currently
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have fulfilled. If nothing supports this need, she may leave.
So yeah, I mean appreciate all the texts coming in today. Oh,
I think we have another caller. We'll jump to this
real quick, wit.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Hi, Angie, what did.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
You want to say about the situation with the guy
whose wife is asking for an open relationship?
Speaker 7 (16:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (16:31):
So, the two couples that I knew that decided to
have a polyama's relationship, it was both the women who
came to the table with it. The one person I
knew she taught the idea. I think because she had
already met somebody, and so that's where you know, it's
where it came to kind of her idea. But both
the couples I knew ended up getting divorced because they
(16:53):
fell in love with somebody else that they were sitting with,
So they opened up the door to sleep with other people.
But you're feelings are your feelings right?
Speaker 5 (17:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (17:01):
Then they fall in love with the other someone else
and then the marriage falls apart. So that was two
people I knew that that happened.
Speaker 5 (17:07):
Too interesting.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
I think that's when it gets tough. It's when they're married.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
And not that this necessarily matters, but like, was it
both women that your friends were that like ended up
sleeping with someone and then falling in love?
Speaker 9 (17:18):
Yes, both women and the one I don't really I
didn't know the other couple as well. But the one
couple I knew, well, he really it wasn't him at all.
Like he was like, I don't really want to be
a polyamis, but I want the same kind of what
he's saying. I want to keep our family together. They
had kids, and he was like, you know, this is
what you need. I guess I'm open to you, and
(17:40):
I think it. Honestly, I don't know how much. It
bothered him, but obviously she ended up completely falling in
love with someone else and then that was it. She
was like, I had feelings for this other person, and
the same thing happened. I think the other people I
know she actually married the other guy.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Oh okay, interesting, and I'm going to say that first
one wasn't for her.
Speaker 5 (17:58):
I guess, you know, interesting.
Speaker 9 (18:01):
And that's all fine, And Dana just don't think in
my experience, I see people have like long term success
with polyamorous relationships.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
Yeah, got it. Okay, Well, thank you so much, Thank
you me.
Speaker 6 (18:12):
I definitely think it's like a new thing that not
you know, there's not a lot of people on that
bandwagon yet. And because we're you know, so it's so
ingrained in our society to do monogamy, right, and.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
It definitely is.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
And I think a lot of people that are texting
in that it's like, oh, she's already cheating. I really
don't necessarily believe that because I just think that, like
we are used to always like committing to a partner,
and that's like the societal standard more so, Yeah, and
so that's what you think you're supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
And then you like are like, wait, there are other options.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Like one person just texted and said, I've never not
been in an open relationship.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
It works.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
It saves people from cheating because it's not cheating obviously if.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
You are if it's a great time, yea.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
So well, hopefully we helped you out a person who
wanted to remain anonymous, and good luck with that.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Definitely send us an email with an update.
Speaker 5 (18:59):
I want to give us the two.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Okay, it is Monday, so we're gonna do a quick
little Monday motivation.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
I found this audio clip.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
It was circulating all of our social media the last
couple of weeks, and I really wanted to play it
because I just think that Michelle Obama speaks so well
sometimes and I just loved what she had to say here.
Speaker 5 (19:17):
Most of life is just ordinary.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
You know.
Speaker 8 (19:20):
You got to learn how to be happy alone. You
got to be happy a little bored. You got to
be happy when things are hard. You got to learn
how to be satisfied when you failed. Yeah, things don't
go your way, because all of that keeps you getting up.
But I think there are a lot of young people
who are searching for this impossible feeling of continuous happiness.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
So I just like love that because I think, of
course we always like want to chase our next like
dopamine heads, something exciting, something fun, whatever, But like life
really is more so ordinary and than it is crazy
and exciting.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Yeah, I think that you have to embrace that about.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
Living, Like you can't always just assume everything's going to
be so exciting. Imagine going on vacation every other week.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
That wouldn't be exciting anymore.
Speaker 5 (20:13):
Because then it would be routine, right, yeah, it would be.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
So you have to like embrace the ordinary and like
really dive in into the excitement when it does happen,
because that's just how life is too.
Speaker 6 (20:24):
I like to count my blessings on days like yesterday
where mostly all I did was clean and then I
saw a play and that's it. I was just like, Okay,
I don't get these days very often, So I'm going
to relish in this day of like semi rest sort
of and clean up my space and it's going to
be nice and it's going to be novel even though
it's not necessarily exciting.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Yeah, So there's a little Monday motivation Machelle, Yes, love it,
And then I can grab that and I'll put it
up on our Instagram story Dave Ryan's show if you
want to share that yourself.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
Okay, we're diving right into day's urge.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
Brilliant show one on one point three KD W B.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
And Dirt is brought to you by six point two
Injured Heimer and Lammer's Injury Law. So the big story
from this weekend is the fact that SNL is gonna
get in trouble, probably gonna be sued because they did
a skit. They put the microphone to the audience and
the audience.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
Swore on live TV. So here we go, look out.
Speaker 3 (21:27):
With his fill a bustle, I had not filled a bust.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
There's literally no chance that if a comedian or whoever
put a microphone in there like these men ain't work,
I wouldn't say what the audience and said Rocky hard Wait,
she was like no, it was supposed to be worth.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
A damn And I'm like no, no, no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 4 (22:07):
I want to know what. Because SNL does two shows
every Saturday. They do a dress rehearsal to see what
skits doing don't work, and then they do the show
that you see on TV. What did the audience that
went to the dress rehearsal say, because they have to
have said the same thing, trash. You had to have
known that that, Like you said, Jennie, you had to.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
Have known that was what they were going to say.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
That's what I thought.
Speaker 5 (22:27):
Maybe that's why she's like, I'm going to risk it anyway, right,
she might have.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
All Right, the Met Gala is going to be coming up,
and we got a sneak peek of who's going.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
To be going. You guys want to know, Yeah, okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
So so far people that are going to be on
are not going to be on the list. One person
is Snow White star Rachel Zegler.
Speaker 5 (22:49):
She's not going.
Speaker 10 (22:50):
No.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Oh, she received an invite, but her rep said Rachel
will be in rehearsal's foot for Avida.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Oh she's not going to be there.
Speaker 5 (22:58):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
However, her Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds are invited.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
We're gonna have to wait to see.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
If they attend amid their legal battle with Justin Beldoni.
The Met Galley happens every year the first Monday in May.
And if you don't know what the Metgala is, it's
basically this fashion show charity show, but it's really just
a fashion show for a bunch of celebrities to wear
an outfit that they can barely breathe, walk or stand in.
Speaker 5 (23:23):
Do we know what the theme is? Does it say?
Speaker 6 (23:25):
Because there's a theme every year, and I remember I
really liked the year they did camp as a theme
because everything was just like over the top and campy.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
They don't have that up yet.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
I feel like you don't usually learn that until like
closer to the day, but so that won't be until May.
This year's event does is chaired by asap Rocky Pharrell
and actor Coleman Domingo, and then also a race car
driver Lewis Hamilton. Lebron James is going to be the
honorary chair and then singers expected to attend our Lizzo, Doci, Shakira,
(24:00):
Mary Jay Tyler and Usher. And then also some athletes
have been invited.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Shout out to.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
W NBA player Angel Reese and then also Olympic sprinter
I'm gonna probably say her name around is it?
Speaker 2 (24:11):
Chakhari Richardson.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
And college basketball star Page Bugers would shout out because
Page is from the Twin Cities.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
Yeah, I looked it up. There. The theme is out.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
Oh it is.
Speaker 6 (24:22):
It's called super Fine Tailoring Black Style.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Okay, that's exciting.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
And speaking of Lizzo, she was recently talking about Janet
Jackson and claiming that she is the queen of pop.
Speaker 8 (24:34):
There were no such things as pop diva was before Janet.
Speaker 3 (24:38):
Janet was first.
Speaker 5 (24:39):
She was famous when Madonna was a kid watching her time.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Yeah, and I'm just putting it out there.
Speaker 10 (24:44):
It's not because someone is better than the others.
Speaker 5 (24:46):
She was just first and she is Janet.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
Okay, she is dan It didn't queen a pop though.
Speaker 5 (24:53):
I don't know if she.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
Because Michael is called the king of pop, right right,
So I understand.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
I try to keep it in the family. Yeah, make it.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
But Bailey, you named five Michael Jackson songs.
Speaker 5 (25:05):
Name five you can't. Yeah, I can.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
Five Jada Jackson songs. You can't.
Speaker 5 (25:11):
Nasty nasty boys don't mean a thing. That's a great one.
Speaker 6 (25:17):
There are other ones that I know. I know five,
but I don't know five the names of them. She
don't count as the queen of pop. Sorry, Listen, who.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Would we say at this given time in twenty twenty
five is the queen of pop?
Speaker 3 (25:29):
Really? Terror Swift with the girls name is on our paychecks.
Speaker 5 (25:32):
Yeah, Taylor Swift Swift, you can.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
Get us in trouble here, I was gonna say, I
can't imagine anyone would say anyone else at this point. Yeah,
it has to be Taylor Swift.
Speaker 7 (25:43):
Is it?
Speaker 6 (25:43):
Though? It makes me wonder, like, have they claimed anyone
is the queen of pop? Because I know Brittany was
apparently the princess of pop, but they never did like
a queen Madonna?
Speaker 5 (25:53):
It does it?
Speaker 3 (25:53):
Is it? Month?
Speaker 5 (25:54):
It was Madonna the.
Speaker 3 (25:55):
Queen of God.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
That's a good suggestion, But I don't know. Maybe I
feel like I feel like it does have to go
back to, like more so the beginning of pop.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
But I don't think anyone.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
Has had as big of an influence as Taylor's Taylor Swift.
Speaker 6 (26:10):
Yeah, I guess when you google queen of pop, Madonna
pops up. But I don't agree. I do think it
is more so Taylor Swift. Maybe Taylor Swift is just
the monarch of pop, you know. Yeah, she is the
one at all, Lady Gaga, She's like a jester of pop.
Speaker 5 (26:29):
Yeah, yeah, I say that with respect. Actually is definitely
like a jester of pop.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Beyonce.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Okay, yeah, she's up there too.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
She's in there.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
Well, according to Lizzo, it's Janna Jackson. And because lizill
brought it up, I feel like, let's play a.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Janna Jackson song.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
And then right after that, Steve that used to work
on the show, he would do a little abbreviated version
of like a murder podcast called murder Monday. So we're
gonna play one of those right after a little Elf for.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
You on katiewb Kadi or.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
Radio Jude Crime the Dave Ryan Jove's Murder Monday.
Speaker 10 (27:15):
As you drive north from Los Angeles on US Route
one oh one, which is more commonly known as the
Ventura Highway, he'll eventually reach the ocean side community of Ventura.
In the mid nineteen nineties, with the population just short
of one hundred thousand people, this medium sized community, nestled
between the foothills and the Pacific Ocean was a dream,
(27:36):
especially on a beautiful May morning in nineteen ninety six.
On that morning, thirty year old Sherry Dolly dropped your
children off at school, then headed to the store. Sherry
was supposed to be home around noon, but when she
didn't return.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Worried, her high.
Speaker 10 (27:50):
Schools sweetheart and husband of twelve years, Michael, decided to
call nine one one. He knew something was wrong. Hours later,
police discover her abandoned conversion band in the parking lot,
inside bags from the store and Sherry's purse. Police went
inside to checked the security footage and showed a tall,
(28:11):
blonde woman with black shorts and a sleeveless blouse walk
into the store, speak to a friend near the entrance,
and a short time later check out and walk out
the front door. Footage from the security camera show that
she left at nine twenty two. Something was wrong. Sherry's
family and friends knew it right away. They contacted local
(28:33):
media outlets, hung missing person posters around the seaside community
looking for anyone that had seen her, and finally, a
few days later, someone came forward. They remembered seeing Sherry
in the parking lot that morning. She walked out of
the store, made her way to her van, placing the
bags inside, and when she turned around, a woman with
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blonde hair, a tan pantsuit and the sunglasses approached her.
The woman said something to Sherry, who, in that moment,
looked shocked. Sherry started crying as she turned around and
was handcuffed by the woman. She was then placed in
a Nissan Ultima and driven away. Police and Ventura California
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don't drive Nissan Ultima's, and no security company in the
area had a vehicle that matched that description, so police
began to dig into Mike and Sherry's relationship. They were
high school lovers, but Michael was far from faithful, and
this is something that Sherry actually knew about. He was
having an affair with a woman named Diana Hahn, someone
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that he had met at work almost every day from
the day Sherry went missing. Volunteers searched, and then, finally,
on the twenty fifth day, just three miles from the
store where Sherry was last seen, searchers came across a
pile of bones just.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
Off the road.
Speaker 10 (30:00):
A friend was able to identify the clothes with the
skeletal remains, and upon forensic analysis, police were able to
conclude that Sherry had been stabbed multiple times with both
a knife and an axe. Police eventually located the Nissan
Altima that may have been used to abduct Sherry. It
had been rented by Diana Hahn, Michael's alleged mistress, but
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there was a major problem. Whoever rented that vehicle didn't
look like Michael's mistress, Diana. Police showed the workers at
the rental shop pictures of Diana, and they said that
the woman they saw looked completely different. And that's besides
the fact that Diana was a brunette. Furthermore, this signature
on the rental car agreement was very different from Diana's.
(30:46):
Was someone attempting to forge that signature in an effort
to point the blame at Michael's mistress. At the time
of the murder, Sherry's husband, Michael had a concrete alibi.
But what about that and why did she want Sherry dead?
We'll find out next on Murder Monday.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
One. On one point three kd w B True.
Speaker 7 (31:13):
Crime Stories, The De Royan shows Murder Monday.
Speaker 10 (31:22):
Sherry Dolly had just finished shopping at Target one May
morning in nineteen ninety six when she was approached at
the store's parking lot by a woman. The blonde woman
in a tan pantsuit handcuffed Sherry and put her into
a teal Nissan Altamont. A month later, Sherry's skeletal remains
turned up in a ravine north of town. Children of
legend of death and then hacked. The killer may have
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even tried to decapitate her. Cherry's husband, Michael, had been
reportedly having an affair with a Brunette coworker named Diana Hahn,
an affair that Sherry knew about, and two days after
the murder, Michael and Diana Han did something that made
police view that as prime suspects. Police went to speak
to Diana at her home. He knocked on the front
(32:05):
door and were greeted by Diana in a skimpy gown,
and then a few moments later, walking down the hallway,
it was Michael. He entered the kitchen and poured himself
a coffee as the investigators stood there speaking to her.
Didn't mean that they were the murderers, because one of
the major issues for police was the signature at the
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rental car company. They had searched the car and found
blood inside of it, but the signature was in no
way similar to Diana's.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
So police went to.
Speaker 10 (32:35):
Diana's bank and found copies of checks that she had
signed over ten years ago and realized that her signature
had drastically changed.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
Police moved into arrest Diana for the murder, which.
Speaker 10 (32:45):
Is when they found receipts for a whig shop and
a uniform store. They searched her home just when they
found polaroid pictures of multiple women. But only after finding
makeup and multiple wigs in the home that matched pictures
of the women in these polaroid pictures did they determine
that Diana was a master of disguise. She worked as
a model and had learned to manipulate her looks. Police
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then came across even more damning evidence, phone records that
showed before and after the murders, Michael and Diana had
spoken numerous times on the phone. This was enough for
police to then arrest Michael. Police are exactly sure of
the motive for the murder, insurance money, Michael's fear of
divorce ruining him Either way, Both he and Diana Han
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were found guilty and sentenced to life in prison.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
All right, thanks to Stibo for still making appearances randomly on.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
The day ride in the morning till.
Speaker 5 (33:43):
He was here doing that live. I can't believe it.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
He hasn't been here in a few years.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
Actually, that's the lie. He came What did he come
in for for the wedding Valentine's Day. Yes, he is
flow Jams with Dave and that was the first time
we've had him on live since he's wrecking the shows.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Thank you, Steve, still make an appearance here.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
Okay, we have some fun tickets to get you in
to see Jonah Murray. He is going to be coming
to the Green Room in Uptown on Friday, April eighteenth,
and we have a pair of tickets to get you
in right now. This is kind of his kickoff to
his big European tour, So we want to get whoever's
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a big fan to go see our boy Jonah and
give us a call six' five one nine eight nine
k d W b and we'll get you in to
go See Jonah. Murray and, honestly LIKE i, know you
might be able to get a picture with. Them, yeah
maybe he'll sign your. BOOB i signed back because like
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When jonah, started he was like sixteen years, old SO
i felt.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
Like it was.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
Inappropriate but he is now like twenty three or twenty four,
maybe so, YEAH i mean maybe that or maybe your phone.
Speaker 6 (34:54):
Case maybe that's A I i want to go and
see IF i can get him to sign my.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
Boob, okay are you gonna.
Speaker 5 (35:01):
Wear a BRA.
Speaker 1 (35:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (35:04):
Why actually it's probably not my, boo But i'll probably
have him signed my classical instead because it's easier.
Speaker 5 (35:10):
Access so it's so like right, there And i'll be
like right, here, buddy.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
And he's, like, oh like who are? You he's, like
you didn't want me to sign a law. Er you
want it right on the, bone.
Speaker 7 (35:19):
Right on the.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
Bone, actually could you sign my? Classical thank you so. Much,
well give us a. Call we'll get you those tickets right.
Now and now we're going to switch it out For
Murder monday for a more energetic vibe on This, monday
because it's.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
Sunning, out it's not going to be very.
Speaker 1 (35:33):
Warm it's going to be very deceiving looking outside today
because it's definitely still only gonna be, LIKE i don't,
know mid. Thirties, well let's get you pumped up For.
Monday here's The Monday morning dance. Party get you
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