Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy. Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Episodes
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP201 – Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak
Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie to DJ sets soaked in sweat, this candid crossover with Mickey & Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast exposes the highs, lows, and hilariously gross realities of being a swingers event host.
We’re pullin...
EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — and ask: can old swingers learn new tricks? From awkward dress-downs and single-guy overloads to sexy vibes, secret blowjobs, and diverse party crowds, this one is packed.
We hit up three different swingers cl...
EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle
In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, conne...
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP198 – Cap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small Talk
Cate’s fresh back from Miami (just her this time!) and while we only touch on that wild weekend, we’re diving deep into what’s really heating things up: our return to Cap d’Agde in 2025, a brand new sex toy, and Darrell’s spicy fantasy.
In this episode, Darrell receives a mystery box that leav...
How does sexual trauma affect your lifestyle journey?
Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual trauma, abuse, and emotional triggers. Please take care while listening.
In this vulnerable and powerful episode, Cate is joined by trauma-informed coach Meshai from Expansive Connection to explore what happens when past trauma meets lifestyle play. Cate also shares her personal experience with sexual trauma — opening u...
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Cate and Darrell revisit soft swap play for the first time in seven years — and it happened at none other than Fun4Two, the iconic swingers club in the Netherlands. What started as a night out turned into a wildly sensual experience filled with connection, chemistry, a six-handed massage… and yes, some cum on the floor.
We explore the dynamics of soft swap play...
In this important episode, Cate speaks with Steve Gagne, owner of Wicked Fun Club, a private members-only lifestyle venue in Connecticut that has recently been issued a cease and desist order by the Town of Plymouth.
Only five months into a three-year lease, the club is now in the midst of a legal and political battle that raises serious questions about privacy, zoning laws, and stigma against non-monogamous communities.
Steve shar...
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
In this thought-provoking episode of Wanderlust Swingers, Cate and Darrell dive deep into the Scarcity vs. Abundance mindset in the swinger lifestyle. Are your decisions driven by FOMO, settling, or a fear of limited options? From personal stories to juicy Reddit replies, we’re unpacking how scarcity might be shaping your lifestyle journey—and how to play smart...
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Join us for a cheeky bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! Darrell has been up to mischief, creating a Feeld dating profile as Cate, and now he’s sharing all the juicy details. This hilarious and insightful episode uncovers the secrets to navigating Feeld for hotwives in the swinger lifestyle.
Here's what you’ll hear:- The Feeld Experiment: Darrell dives in...
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Join us for a jam-packed episode of Wanderlust Swingers as we dive into the highlights from the Libertine Events San Antonio Senses takeover! This episode features three incredible interviews with special guests who share their unique perspectives and experiences from the event.
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Jason and Sarah: Midwest-based hosts who joined Libertine for the first time ...
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
The DTF Spectrum: Are Down to F*ck Couples Just More Fun?
In this solo episode, Cate dives into a hot debate among swingers today: the phenomenon of “DTF” couples. Inspired by a lively discussion on Reddit, Cate unpacks the various interpretations of being “down to fuck” and how it impacts connections in the lifestyle. From couples who prefer a straight-to-the-...
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Having Sex In A Maze, Swingers Café + Kama Sutra Beurs
In this adventurous episode, Cate and Darrell finally attend the sex-positive Kama Sutra Beurs in their hometown of Utrecht, diving into an experience that’s both eye-opening and outrageous! After years of planning to attend, they explore every part of the convention, from a bustling Swingers Café to a surp...
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Episode Title: Failures at Being a Swinger; Failed Pool Parties, Ghosting, and More
In this playful yet candid episode, Cate and Darrell tackle the less-than-glamorous side of the swinger lifestyle, where best-laid plans don’t always work out! From a last-minute pool party flop to a local single who ghosted us on a date, we’re digging into what happens when e...
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Guilty By Association In The Swingers Lifestyle
In this eye-opening episode, Cate teams up with Mickey and Mallory from Casual Swinger to dive deep into the lesser-known pitfalls of the swinger lifestyle. Ever wondered how social media connections or your choice of friends could impact your reputation in the community? This episode covers it all. From unknowi...
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Cocksucking Train, Electrical Play & More with Jason and Sarah
Cate sits down with Jason and Sarah, a couple from the Upper Midwest, who share their bold journey into the swinging lifestyle after ten years of monogamy. From a surprising encounter with a stripper in Las Vegas to getting yanked into their first threesome, this episode covers all the bases of ...
Unicorn Hall Pass Spicy Island
In this episode, Cate takes us on a wild adventure as she heads to Spicy Island for a full island takeover in Croatia, embracing her role as a unicorn with a hall pass. From cheeky playroom encounters to naked swims under the stars, this episode is packed with fun stories, poolside masturbation, and flirty moments. But was Cate as...
UK Swingers Takeover Vanilla Alternative
In this electrifying episode, Cate takes you inside the unforgettable UK Swingers Takeover at the Vanilla Alternative, a night bursting with neon vibes, sultry playrooms, and a dance floor that didn't quit until the early hours. Cate recounts every detail of the weekend, sharing the highs, the laughs, and the tips to mak...
In this episode, we dive deep into the experience of attending the exclusive Killing Kittens Mansion Party in April 2024, a highly anticipated event known for its luxury, sophistication, and sensual ambiance. Did it live up to the hype?
We're spilling all the tea, from the venue's opulence to the social dynamics, costs, and whether we think it was worth th...
Get ready for a fun, sexy, and behind-the-scenes look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover with special guest host Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast! We spent a few wild days in an Airbnb before the event, filled with swimming, drinking, dancing, and karaoke.
In this ep...
Get ready for an inside look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover! Join us as we share the excitement, fun, and unique experiences from this unforgettable event. We start with an overview of what made the Miami takeover special, followed by a break to tell a sexy story from the event, and wrap up with our top tips for newcomers and future events.
In this episode, we dive i...
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