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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Dede is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
She's been with her boyfriend Jake for two years, but
now she thinks something might be up, So we'll see
if we can help her out. First, Didy, what's going on?
Why do you think Jake's cheating on you?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Well, it's just been weird lately, like he I mean,
I normally talk to him every single day or I
see him every single day, and he has not been around,
not texting.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Me as much.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I haven't seen him in a couple of days. It's
just been really weird and not like him at all.
So have that like woman's intuition that something's going on.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Have you said anything to him about it, like, hey, babe,
where are you been?
Speaker 5 (00:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I totally have, And he says that nothing's going on.
He I should preface it by saying this. He works
a lot, and he is like a.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Video gamer, and he's got this deadline coming out, so
this game that's coming out. So he keeps telling me that,
like he's under a lot of pressure with this deadline
and this game, and like we've been through this before,
so like I remember when that happened, and yeah, he
kind of was like a little bit distant when that
was going on.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
But like, I don't know, this just seems like a
little bit different.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
So when you do see him, is he the same
or even different?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Then well, like I haven't seen him. That's the thing is.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
It's just he's not responding to my text as quickly
as he normally does, and it's something's off, you know. So,
I mean, we normally see each other every single day,
but like I said, like the past month or so,
like he just complains that he's working late and that
this deadline is coming. So that's that's just not like him.
(01:44):
It'll be like a day or two that he doesn't
answer my text. Oh when he is writing me though,
I mean, and when we are.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Talking, he's still saying I love you. He's still nothing's wrong, baby,
Everything's good, you know, that whole kind of thing. But
I don't know something's up.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Does he work from home or does he go into
an office?
Speaker 6 (02:04):
No?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
See, that's the thing too. It's like I do work
from home. I have a lot of time on my
hands in comparison to him. So yeah, he's in an
office all the time he's got that deadline, So I
mean it is different. I'm trying to tell myself and
like talk myself into.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
That that that's what's going on. But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Just something made me contact you guys, because I just
think it's a bit more.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Do you do any pop ups or do you have
anybody in house that could kind of like keep an
eye on him? I just I don't know. Sometimes it
sucks to have to go that extra mile. But the
terms are so technical house, right, what like you don't
have them, not those words.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
I mean, I guess I should also say too, that
he is a little bit older than me.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
I am a little bit worried that maybe he found
someone like his age and maybe that has something to
do with it.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Can I ask how much older like it? Like, I mean, a.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Lot of people tell me it's significant. It's twenty years.
I don't really think it's that big of a deal.
But I mean some people might think that that's a
big deal, but it hasn't really mattered to us for
the whole time we've been dating. And like I said,
we've been dating for a while. Our two year anniversary
is going to come up in a couple of months.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
So the age gap probably hasn't been a thing. But
I wonder also if that's just like growing in different directions,
just a different phases maybe, right, even if there isn't
another person. Yeah, and that's just kind of it's an
intrusive thought that enters my head, like, yeah, okay, is
is he you know, finding someone that's like a little
(03:39):
bit calmer, wants to sit around the house a bit more,
not go out as much, like, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
So we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
You told us at grocery store. He's a rewards card
member at So we'll call up, pretend to be from
there and say that every single month we choose one
lucky rewards member who gets free flowers delivered from our
florial department. We'll see if he sends those se you
it to somebody else, Okay, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
I listen to you guys all the time, and I
can't believe I'm doing this.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Well, sorry, you're going through it. Hopefully he's not, but
we'll see if we can catch him. We'll play a
song come back, get to catch Acheater next right in
the middle of to catch a cheater if you're just
joining us. Dede is on the phone, and Dede he
thinks that her boyfriend of two years named Jake might
(04:25):
be cheating. So on a second, we're gonna call him
and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's
a rewards card member at and say that he's this
month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our floral
department to anywhere that he wants, and we'll see if
he sends those to his girlfriend or to somebody else
Before we do that, though, Dide, why don't you catch
everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
My god, I just got really nervous once you went
through all that.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Yeah, just I mean, we've been together almost two years
and just jumping's been off lately. He's been telling me
that he's got this deadline at work and that that's
why he's just not texting me as quickly, coming around
as much.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
And I don't know. There's just something that I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Something doesn't smell right to me here, and I just
think that something's up.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
All right, You ready for us to call him? I said,
I'm all right, here we go. Hello, Hey, this is
corrible calling from I was looking for a rewards card
(05:29):
member named Jake.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Uh yeah, speaking, Please.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
I'm actually calling to say thank you very much for
shopping with us. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Okay, wow, cool, this is a nice surprise. I guess
I won. Yes, I didn't enter anything.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
So well. We do it every single month for our
Rewards card members. Maybe you haven't seen the signage. That's
fine if you haven't. But every month we choose one
rewards Card member to call up and say thank you
very much for being such a loyal customer. You've won
thirty six long stem red roses, a box of candy
or chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody
that you want.
Speaker 7 (06:07):
Wow, I feel like a real big winner. Well, as
much as I want to, I want the flowers. I think,
there's just no question. I already know I'm gonna send
them to my wife Janelle obviously.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Okay, Pogue has been together, by the way, that's cute.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
We've been married like ten years.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Wow. That is a long time.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Yeah, yeah, wow, a decade.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Jake. This isn't the grocery store. This is actually a
radio show. My name is Jewbel, It's called the Jewel Show,
and DEDI is on the phone.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
You're married?
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Are you kidding me? This is what's happening right now?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
I was no, no, no, oh God, act like that. You're married?
What do you mean you're married?
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Like the how you want to do this right now? Seriously?
Would you tell them that we're in a relationship? Did
you tell them the truth? Is that what you did?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
We are in a relationship? I mean you're a liar.
Speaker 5 (07:06):
You're the one that that what you want to call it? No,
I am married, Okay, I'm her sugar daddy. Okay, say whatever.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
It's more than that. It's more than.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
That, is it? Like from the day one, Yeah I did.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
I was saying we love each other like this, it's
been more than that.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
I did tell you I was not in a relationship.
I did tell you you were the only one.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Thank you? Tell me you love me? Like, what are
you talking about now?
Speaker 2 (07:34):
You're married, You've been married, You've been lying the full time.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
Is this how you want to actually blow my spot
up on the radio? Yeah, just about it. I'm married
and we had a thing.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
I've just been dealing with the deadline, the game was
about to watch. It's well, my wife and I are
doing okay, Bedie, And what you knew this was temporary?
You would always want that you had other sugar Daddy,
and like a millisecond, I stopped.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
Spending sending money to you. This is how you react. Seriously,
I haven't talked.
Speaker 6 (08:05):
To you in like a couple of days, and you're
calling me on the radio.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Yeah, I mean like you weren't answering me, and like
you stopped sending me everything. So like, how else am
I supposed to get?
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Are you guys actually together or do you just pay
for things?
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I thought we were Like I.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
Thought it was we had an agreement, that was the contract.
Speaker 8 (08:25):
She said there was other people doing whatever financially, and
I knew I didn't think either of us were being
one hundred percent, so that I thought it is what
it is, And like that's why there was no urgency
to get back to you. Dd Okay, Well now you're
literally ruining my marriage on the radio.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
She's going on sugar Daddy, like you got yourself a
sugar daddy. I'm sorry, I'm laughing with that's funny.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
It's kind of funny.
Speaker 5 (08:54):
What else do you want to call it?
Speaker 8 (08:55):
I was just trying to be a financial beneficiar or whatever.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
But like I just, oh, but you can't, like, you
can't just cut me off like that without an explanation.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
So like I you should have told me this.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
That was the agreement.
Speaker 6 (09:07):
If you're just gonna break the contract literally by blowing
up my spot right now?
Speaker 5 (09:11):
Live, what did God knows you here? I'm sure my
wife listens to this.
Speaker 8 (09:15):
Two years ago, like I thought, we moved on.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Do you just meet on a website or something?
Speaker 5 (09:21):
Yeah, we met on t I'm like Tinder years ago.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
Is there a real contract?
Speaker 2 (09:28):
No, there's no real contract, like that's for the sugar.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Babies website has a contract. We didn't meet that way.
I told him about my other clients, but I don't
want them anymore.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
Oh, it was an agreement. She didn't make that appearance.
He called me other people.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
Wait, Jay, do you say I love you to her?
Speaker 5 (09:49):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (09:50):
I love my wife. I don't know what is going
on right now. Please don't call me anymore.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
I'm hanging up. This is ridiculous. This is so dumb.
I can't believe he did this. The radio d please
stop following me, please, don't text me anymore. We're through.
I want nothing to do with you.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
No, I want to talk to you, like, let's talk
this out, like I can't lose you.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Did he hung up?
Speaker 3 (10:15):
But I hope he doesn't like block me.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
I mean, like I need to get in touch with him,
like he still owes me money and like I mean,
like it's more than this, like it's it's the whole thing.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Why does he owe you money?
Speaker 3 (10:28):
He pays for my rent?
Speaker 2 (10:29):
I mean, like there's a lot that goes into it,
Like he can't just disappear.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
Like this and you didn't know he was married, had
no clue, no.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Clue, like say, I love you, like I thought this
was my man, Like yes, it started out as something,
but like it's.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
Evolved, so I thought, I mean, now now Lena see.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
It now you know, you know, good luck figuring stuff.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Out, Jesus, Like this is a mess.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
I'm really sorry, DEDI that sucks especial because you thought
you guys were in a relationship. But it doesn't sound
like it started off real honest, and he's married. You
don't want that anyway, you know, no, But like that's
the whole other thing is like now I got like,
come to terms with that.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
I just I gotta go process all this. Thank you
you guys, I really appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
You got your answer, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
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