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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Our phone number eight seven seven nine three seven one
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on your mind to nine six eight ninety three. A
couple comments on the text line about the couple's podcast,
Peyton dropped it yesterday, her and Kadeem nine two eight number.
I'm currently listening to the couple's podcast from yesterday. Peyton
Cadem's dynamic are so similar to mine, to my husband's.
(00:21):
I really relate to them. My husband is also an Aquarius.
He and Kadem are so much alike. It was really
nice getting you know both of you on yesterday's episode.
Hope you have a great rest of your day.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Oh that's sweet.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I sent the podcast to like our families and it
was kind of fun to hear their responses too, because
it's like Kadeem like it's and you get a little
bit of him in the podcast, but like his personality
shows out in little bits and pieces, which which is
really fun. But it was fun how they were able
to dissect our personalities in the podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
It was a six oh five number. I think Kareem
calms Peyton down. It was the most chill I've ever
heard her beat. Great great podcast. Oh and then the
text again Kadeem Lol, Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Yeah, he's definitely my zen. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
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Speaker 4 (01:16):
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Her and I got into a massive fight like we've
had in our whole marriage, a huge, like one big, big, big, big,
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We got into another one on Friday. It was totally different,
and part of me wants to bring it up on
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was so ridiculous, And if I'm being honest with you,
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Time, like you're always right, John Jay.
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Anyway, so you can always text us, text JJR whatever
you want to say to ninety six eight nine three. Okay,
you sports, what's happening?
Speaker 5 (01:55):
I'm like deep into the sports mom era. Of my day, honestly,
Like I love it. I like driving makings and sports.
I like sitting at their games. I like chatting with
the other parents. I've made friends with the other parents.
It's a social time for me and my kids are
having a great time.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
It's a win win all around.
Speaker 5 (02:11):
But Easton's doing two sports this season, so he's doing
flag football and he's doing baseball. So pretty much every
night of the week we're at some sort of sporting event,
and there's one rotating day of the week where we've
got nothing going on, and those nights are great, but
then the other nights are great too. So I've noticed
a vast difference in the baseball parents and the football parents.
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And it almost kind of explains because I've told you before,
like Easton gets really emotional during football, Like he if
someone almost intercepted a ball in the game on Friday
night that he would that he was supposed to receive,
he started crying. Like he gets very competitive, and when
things like don't work out, he gets really emotional.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
And you know, I'm.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Like, I'm trying to find a way to channel that
big those big feelings into like his superpower, but haven't
desired kind of like figure.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
That out yet.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
But I almost feel like it's the parent's fault because
I've noticed, like at the flag football games, those games
are really exciting and the parents cheer very intensely, like
you're on one side of the field and you're rooting
for one team.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
You're like God, and it's like it's it's.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
A lot of energy and it's a lot of I
think pressure for the kids.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
And the baseball parents are just so chill.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Like at the games they're like, yeah, good job, and
then they cheer good job for the other team too.
So if some kid messes up, it doesn't matter because
you're getting cheered for him from both parents. And I've
noticed like in the baseball games, like Easton does not
get as an emotional and so I'm thinking, like, it's
not it's not him, it's the other no, think about it.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
Yeah, So if the pass is if his past for
him gets intercepted, the parents on the other team are
cheering yes, because essentially their kid almost to look at
it like it was his mistake.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Yeah, but it's not his mistake.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
It's the quarterback's mistake, right right.
Speaker 5 (04:09):
But it's it's been kind of like fascinating to because
I'm really trying.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
To figure it out.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Like I hate seeing my kid cry and I don't
like seeing him upset, But I also want him to
learn how to manage his feelings because that's a big
life skill that you have to learn. Like you can't
just have a meltdown every time things don't go your way.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
You just can't.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
So I and like, maybe it's the surroundings, I think,
and that's like something totally out of my control, so
I don't know how to help him there.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Yeah, that's tough, and I can totally see that as
like a former athlete in the pressure, but also as
a coach. It's like I think sometimes you know, parents
they want their kid to be the best, and so
you don't even realize what's coming out of your mouth
at the time and how that can affect another kid
who's just trying to be better at things. So I
think that's always a good reminder that it's youth sports totally.
Speaker 5 (04:55):
Oh my gosh, I took a picture at the baseball
field just the other day and I have to post it.
It was like, it's such a good reminder for everyone
attending any youth sports game. If you have like a
dog in a fight or a kid in the game
or whatever it says.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
It says reminders from your child. I'm a kid. It's
just a game.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
My coaches a volunteer, the officials are humans. No college
scholarships will be handed out today dedicated to their Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Another thing though, like if he followed in his dad's
footsteps and just golf, then you don't have to deal
with well, he.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Totally, but he also gets very emotional in golf. That's
really good.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
He gets so frustrated, and it's so funny because like
Scott's like Buddy, Golf's the hardest game in sports, Like
it really is. It's so difficult. Even the pros have
really bad days. And like Easton loves Scotti Scheffler, who doesn't.
He's like Scotty has bad days, Scotty has bad tournaments,
and he's a professional that's been doing this his whole life.
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So you know, one day, you know, if anyone has
has been there with their child and they know the
way around.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
This or the right way to go about this, lemon now.
But until then, I just like he's trying all the things.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
He loves baseball right now, Like I asked him what
sport right now is he enjoying the most. And he
plays golf with his dad, and he plays football, and
he plays baseball, and he's like, it's baseball. We had
practice last night. Practice was over and the kids kept playing.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
In baseball, So keep it up. So competitive.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Hi, So I wanted to comment on Easton and being emotional.
I have three kids, all of them play multiple sports,
and I want to say that I don't necessarily think
that it's what sport he plays, but the fact that
he's a gemini. I have a seven year old who
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is a gemini, and she's very emotional when it comes
to not getting her way, and that's kind of in
all things in life, not just sports. But it's very
hard to explain to her, like you can't always have
it your way. You're not gonna win everything, and you
kind of just have to like be happy for others
when they win, even if you lose. So I want
(07:23):
to say, there may not be anything you can do
about it.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
No, Actually, you know.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
What, I've thought that a couple of times because I
always describe Easton as like if you get him and
he's in a great mood, he's like everyone loves him,
but he's like the Hulk when he's angry.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
You don't want to see him when he's angry.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Oh yeah, no, I totally agree. My daughter is like
the life of the party, like always like center of attention,
but it's like a flip of a switch and all
of a sudden, she's like the biggest grump in the world.
Don't mess with her, and there's nothing you can do
to change it. It's like you have to let her
go through her emotions to get back to her happy self.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Yeah, I'm sure maybe that's it.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
And you know, it's funny because, like because I've become
like friends with the other parents and stuff like that.
We had two games Friday night and afterwards it was
like dinner time, and so naturally me and the other
moms we kind of just like planned a dinner.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
We're like, hey, let's all go together. Memories.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
I like remember beyond sports teams with my parents not
going to the dinners, and I was.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Like, I'm go to dinner.
Speaker 5 (08:29):
So now I'm planning the dinners and we're like we
get we get to the restaurant, there's this huge table,
there's four couples, all of our kids and everyone's having
that Like I'm having a great time starting to chat.
Ten minutes into it, I'm like, I look over at
Scott and he like had the most miserable.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
Look on his face, like what's going on? And he's like,
this is just too much. This is too much.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
There's too many people, it's too loud. It's like chaos
right now. And he does not like he wants to
go home and be alone.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Like I was just laughing.
Speaker 5 (08:59):
I was like, can you bring this guy a couple
of drinks because you.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
Need he needs to get into the get into the coaching,
because I feel like his attitude towards that will change.
He'll start to really love the kids, get to know
the parents. I would I challenge him.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
I have asked him to do that, and he's like
it's a one. Absolutely you better change.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
He will change.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
But I will say he did have a couple of
drinks and then all of a sudden he was chatty cat.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
There we go.