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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I'm just get ready for second Ate Update. We're going
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to talk to Lyle. Lyle, so what exactly is going
on in your world? How can we help you?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Oh? Man, I really hit it off with this girl
at this dinner that we had, but I think I
might have talked too much about my ex so I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Okay, we'll call her and we're gonna find out why
she's blowing you off investication.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Huh.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Now, yesterday at this time, we were talking to Teresa.
She called in and she said she hates this part
because I think we're gonna go right into it.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
But no, Lyle, you stick around.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
We're gonna play a song and then we're gonna come back,
and then we're gonna begin to hear your story and
do second Ate update. Fair, fair, all right. Second Ate
Update starts next with John Jay and Rich. It was
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supposed to be the start of a beautiful relationship, but
somebody screwed it all up.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Second Date Update right now with John Jay and Rich.
John Jay and Rich, it's time for second Date up date.
Good morning, Lyle, Good morning guys. What's your story?
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Man? Oh my god, I went out with this little
Brittany and it was amazing. I want to settle down.
I don't even know you know that kind of amazing
you feel when you're just like, oh God, I got
to get my life together because it's not going to
get better than this.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
We clicked on every level, and I was already picturing
us making plans. It was such a good conversation, you know.
But then I didn't hear anything from her. She just
completely ghosted me. So I'm just going through the night
in my head and I'm thinking about it, and I'm like, Okay,
what I do wrong? Did I overshare? Did I overshare
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about my ex? I mean, I thought I was being honest.
I thought I was being myself, but maybe it came
off that like I wasn't overhear or something. Or maybe
it's because maybe the food I ordered, because I got
a well done steak, gave me a weird look.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
I don't have any idea, but it's it's driving me
so nuts, and I just I really want to figure
it out. So I'm calling you guys.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Was there intimacy like sexual contact? Was there nudity at
the end of the state.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
No, John J.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
Lex's the important question.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Well, if there was how about the first date, But
people don't do that on the first date.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
How did you meet her?
Speaker 2 (02:25):
We were talking for a few weeks. I just got
into our dms because I saw on Instagram and she
was like super hot and like I just thought she
was interesting.
Speaker 5 (02:35):
So so when you brought up sorry, I didn't wanna
cut you off.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
But when you brought up your.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Ex, Like what did you say to her? Were you like,
oh my gosh, my ex this and we should do
this all the time, Like what was that conversation?
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Like No, it was more like, you know, like, okay,
well what's your longest relationship? And I was like, oh
that was you know, the last girl I dated. And
it was like it's like, well, how did you guys
break up? It is just well, you know, we grew
apart and it hurt, and I was I was dealing
with that. But it's been a few months. You know.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I don't like them. I think you shared too much.
You should have kaped off.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
I just almost wonder because like when you were describing
the date to us, you were like, I want to
settle down. If you said anything like that on a
first date, that could really scare someone off, Like maybe
you were.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Just didn't too intense.
Speaker 6 (03:24):
I didn't say that, Okay, I was like, oh wow,
I'm strong, right, And.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
Even if it's a subconscious thing in your head, right,
you're on this date with this girl and you're like, oh,
I think she could be the one, and then you
just start doing the most right. Yeah, you stop being
this chill guy to this guy who's like, all right,
I don't know, maybe I need to take a couple
steps backwards.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
So well, let's call her Lyle and find out why
she's blowing you off. How has she been blowing you off?
Like just not responding to text messages.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
I might have called her once or twice, but like,
but also not responding to text message.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Okay, So when was the last time you actually had
response from her on anything?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
The last time she responded to me was like, have
a good night.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Okay. That was weeks ago. Weeks yeah, I was last week.
Wouldn't be funny, it was five years ago? That would
let it go? What's her name?
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Lyle Brittany?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Okay, Lyle Menendez.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
We're gonna call Britney Spears and see why she's not
calling you back.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
All right, that's why she's ghosting.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Get over.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Associate. Second ate update continues next with John Jay and Rich.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Muster hope this, step this way, step that way. It's
John Jay and Rich. In the middle of second ate update.
You got Lyle here who slid into Britney's d MS.
After a couple of weeks, months whatever of talking on DM,
they decided to go out to dinner. He says, how
did he phrase it? That everything was fantastic, that he
was even, Oh my god, this is the one I
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gotta make down. I'm gonna make pliants, am I right Lyle?
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Honestly, I might want to quit drinking? Is how I thought.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Oh wow, maybe you're a big draker. At the table and.
Speaker 6 (04:58):
She's like this lush, I could have made someone who
was an alcoholic.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
She gives us lots of red flag hints like not totally,
but lots of hints.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Find out up with your voices and losing it. I
think I might be sudden. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
That's crazy, Joe, you're dying right now?
Speaker 3 (05:22):
No?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I think?
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Are you sure? I think I'm frightened? Look healthy?
Speaker 5 (05:25):
He does, All right, Okay, let's call Brittany.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Let's call her now, Brittany, my friend's dying.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Hello, Hey, is Brittany available.
Speaker 7 (05:55):
Brittany, Hey, my name is Peyton.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
I'm with John, Jay and Rich and we just wanted
to talk to you on the radio really quick this morning,
if you have time.
Speaker 7 (06:04):
Okay, sure.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
We got a call from a guy, really nice guy
who said a lot of great things about you. Would
you like to hear more about this conversation?
Speaker 6 (06:13):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Yeah, sure, Okay.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
He slid into your DMS. You guys went out to dinner.
He said great things about your dinner. But now he
says that you're not returning his messages and he's kind
of banging his head against the wall and he came
to us to help him get answers. So after talking
to him, the four of us here in the studio
were like, maybe we could just call her and get
the information. So we're calling you about Lyle.
Speaker 7 (06:36):
Yeah, yeah, I mean okay, like you know, I've been
I've been thinking about him, but honestly, like I just
I don't know. I felt like the whole night was
a little off, like.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
I don't know, Well, can he give us details?
Speaker 7 (06:53):
Well, I mean okay, so the dinner was good and
I was like getting to know him, and I was
actually honestly even like kind of into him. But you know,
he said he's not really like a party guy, and
I'm not into party guys either, so I'm like, okay, cool, like,
but then, like, you know, the dinner was going good,
so I was like, you know, you want to go
get like a drink, and so we went to this
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club and the bouncer was like, what's up, man, and
like acted like, you know, he really like knew him,
and I just felt like, Okay, so if he's like
not a party dude, then why is this Like you know,
it just felt like he like owned the club like
the whole time, and I just felt like, you know,
there's like a red flag like he you know, said
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one thing and then now it's like it's like is
he a party dude? Like why do you lie?
Speaker 3 (07:40):
You know, do you not know the bouncer from the neighborhood.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Wait, Brittany, Brittany, you ghosted me because a bouncer said
hi to me at a bar.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (07:52):
I mean like he acted literally like you've been there
like every day of the night, day of the week.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
I don't go out, Brittany. That's just my boy from college.
That's what I figured and he works there sing hi
to me mean that I'm out every night.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Like if he went to the bar and the bartender
goes the usual whoa dude, you said you don't go out.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
But I could also see how like she could jump
to that conclusion, like it's not that far off for
to thing like, oh, the bouncer, Like why would the
bouncer know him?
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Also, why would you go why would you say the
bouncer's my buddy from college.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Yeah, I'm saying, it's easy to go, oh, well, he
just knows the bouncer, like because you would think if
he was a friend from college, you'd be like, that's
my buddy from college.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
It's so great because at the same time, I remember
I would go to this one club all time, and
eventually you go there enough for the bouncer let you in.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
He always used to get to know the bouncers because
then you could get him right right right.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
So any of that, honestly, I was just it was
it caught me off guard because I didn't realize he
was going to be working, and I just wanted to
get in, and I was focused on you, and I
wasn't trying to you know, at the first date, so
I didn't want to make introductions and it was just
I don't know. I was just a little bit caught
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off guard, you know. I mean I went to his
birthday party there once, you know, and I caught up
with him for like five minutes. But it's not like
we're hanging out all the time. I'm not there every night.
Speaker 7 (09:30):
You caught me off gud.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
If you're concerned. If you're concerned is that he's a
huge party animal or whatever and he's a player. I
would vibe that he's not, because he doesn't sound like
that to me, not to mention he's coming to us
to find out why. Like if he was a player
and at the clubs all the time, he'd be like
lost another one.
Speaker 5 (09:49):
On yeah, right to jump through hoop Like there's.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Clearly something there in his point of view, and you
thought so too until the bouncer. That's why I don't
talk to bouncers.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
That's why you don't talk to anybody. It just causes problems.
Speaker 7 (10:03):
Well, I mean I do like you, Lyle. I just
you know, it was just it just caught me off guard.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Yeah, I feel like you could don't try again, Maybe
go out more time and see if the vibes are
still good, you do something than going out and drinking.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Right, And yeah, do you not want me to say
hi to people? Say say hi to me?
Speaker 3 (10:26):
Should I just.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Run away or don't do that? No? I like you too.
I'm sorry. It was just a weird moment thing and.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
I didn't know you.
Speaker 7 (10:41):
Yeah, I mean, I just I just have trust issues,
and you know, I just you know, I thought it
was a red flag. You know, that's really what it was.
And I just, you know, that's why I just was like,
you know, I'm sorry for ghosting you, but that's what
it was.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
Are you guys gonna go out again?
Speaker 7 (10:58):
I mean, I'm I'm open.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Hey, that's good? All right? Laws She said, yes, do
you want to ask her out?
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Brandy? You want to come out with me and let's do.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
A skin Let's do a skin skin again?
Speaker 2 (11:09):
This again?
Speaker 3 (11:13):
He wants to take you to skin the use snack club.
I feel like at this point we're unnecessary. Yeah.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
I don't want you guys take this and run with it.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
We'll just step away slowly. But Bertie, do you want
to say yes or no?
Speaker 7 (11:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Okay, you go out again? All right?
Speaker 1 (11:30):
A successful second day update very nice Thank you both
for going on the.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Air with us.
Speaker 7 (11:35):
I think all right.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
Hold on the line, it's John Jay and Rich second
day up date.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
Good judgment,