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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Just get ready for a second date update. Graham's got
an issue with someone he went on a date with. Graham,
give us a little bit about what's going on.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Yeah, I went on a date with this girl. We
hooked up and asked you to go see me child.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Take the case to take this case. Second date update
starts next with John Jay and Rich. It was supposed
to be the start of a beautiful relationship, but somebody
screwed it all up. Second date update right now with
(00:33):
John Jay and Rich John.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Jay and Rich at time for second date update.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
This is where you go out on a date with
someone right you meet him somehow, you expect there to
be a second date and there isn't one.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Welcome Graham, how are you?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
I'm doing all right? You guys, how you doing?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Would you mind telling us all about your situation. I'll
start from the beginning. How you met this person and
all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yes, So, okay, I met this girl on TikTok Natalia
and she showed up on my age and I was immediately, uh,
gorgeous off the bat, and you know, she put together
these like silly videos and I don't know, they maybe
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laughed and I saw the newer DMS. You know, welcome
to twenty twenty five. And uh, we chatted on TikTok
for like a minute, that moved to texts, then the
phone calls, and after a couple of weeks I finally
answered after dinner and were awesome, like no complaints, Uh,
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in a great rapport, go quote a lot of laughs.
Things seem pretty.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Kissing me, you know. And yeah, so we entered back
at her apartment yet well even asked we hooked up,
and but that's not really what this is about. Uh,
you know, I wanted to give you guys a full
who rundown of what would happen, and I don't know.
It's been like I did later and nothing. Absolute ghost
(02:05):
and a text her at the under doesn't matter nothing
And uh yeah, that's what I'm calling you to.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Help you looked up at her place or your place
her place.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
She's not getting back to you.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
This is exactly what second ad update was based on.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
This type of date, because I mean, if you think
about it, you guys had several weeks of communication, like
so she felt comfortable with you, So that means something
must have happened in the bedroom that she was like
got the ick or she was like, oh my god, yeah, because.
Speaker 7 (02:38):
It wasn't at dinner, went back to her and things
happened and.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
They texted and called and talked to each other.
Speaker 7 (02:44):
I mean, so, or did you leave something weird at
her house?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
What's gross about you? What are you secure? Graham? Is
there something you have like a really really hairy back?
Speaker 6 (02:52):
Are you like really usually hair gross out?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I was totally gross, Graham? You know what is it?
What's wrong with you? Graham?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
I'd like to believe nothing is wrong with me. I
have no superfluous nipples. I've got everything in its right
place and at the right side.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Did you whisper something dirty in her ears that wasn't
dirt that she thought was creepy?
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Actually odd?
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I mean I don't say it with Vanilla, but it
was like pretty standard good times.
Speaker 6 (03:24):
Maybe I just didn't do it for her. I mean
that's the thing, right, You don't call somebody back because
you're like, what went down the bedroom?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Period?
Speaker 6 (03:31):
Like, doesn't have to be something wrong with you.
Speaker 7 (03:33):
Maybe yes, chemistry was not good, like you were kisser
or something.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
Maybe what I think if you communicated for weeks, maybe
you gave really great phone but not really good in
person and the good phone carried over to like the hookup,
but then after that she realized it was better on
the phone.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
I hope not. I hope that's not the case.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
On you.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
You got a lot of moles in the back of
your neck, on the side of your neck, skin tags.
There's something that she grows out after sex. She wrote,
like you turn on the lights.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
God, what tail?
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Maybe maybe even one of those people with the tail.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Something weird?
Speaker 1 (04:09):
All right, but you're giving us free rate to call her, then, right,
We're gonna pick her brain and find out what's wrong
with you, because I think it's you.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
There's something wrong with you.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
You're gonna give him a complex, Okay, so yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Okay, okay, hold on the line.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Okay, we'll take a break, we'll come back. We'll get
a tale on the phone to find out what's wrong
with you, Graham. Second date update continues next with John
Jane Rich.
Speaker 8 (04:31):
Ever since I was a kid, John Jane Rich.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
From the middle of second update, you got Graham. He
meant in a tie because she popped up on his
for you page, so we sent her to him. Then
they like texted on TikTok and Instagram, and then they
started texting and making phone calls and then finally, what
was it, Graham?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Five six days ago? You on a date? Right?
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Yeah, yeah, roughly that and like I said, going back
to her place, we hooked up. Things went well, at
least I thought so. And now I'm u fuled with you.
Guys can have no right.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
We're gonna call her.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
You just stay quiet, okay, because I feel that it's
something And I'm sorry. I mean I've never met you before,
so I don't mean to be so brutal, but I
feel it's something to do with your face.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Or your height.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
No, not your hed, because you already slept with you,
So she's slept with you. There's something wrong in the bedroom,
That's what I think.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Okay, let's call her.
Speaker 9 (05:52):
Hello.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
Hi is Natalia there?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yes, this is Natalia. Hi.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
My name's Peyton. I'm with John Jay and Rich and
we just wanted to talk to you on the radio
really quickly this morning.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Oh okay, what about about dating? Can we talk to
you about us one particular date that he went on
with somebody?
Speaker 6 (06:11):
Uh?
Speaker 9 (06:11):
Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
We got a call from a guy seemed like a
nice guy, Graham, who you went out with a few
days ago, five, six, seven days ago.
Speaker 9 (06:21):
Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, Graham, Yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I just think it's just not for me.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
I know.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
So here we were going around, there's four of us
in the studio, and we were going around the room
trying to figure out what could have gone wrong in
your eyes, because you guys talked for a while. He
told us, you guys talked for a while, you dm
for a while, So a couple of weeks of something
going on, and then all of a sudden, you guys
get intimate. He told us that he went back to
your house, you got intimate, and then you've ghosted him.
So it's just so we're just so curious as to
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what happened. Did he do something? Is there something he
looked different? What was it about him that?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
What? What? Well?
Speaker 9 (06:56):
I mean, everything was great, you know, we really hit
it off. We didn't talk a little bit beforehand, which
was nice.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I just feel, you.
Speaker 9 (07:04):
Know, I felt like we were on the same wavelength
and the date was really nice. That was like not
the problem, and it was kind of more after the date.
You know, we're both in our mid twenties, so I
just feel like we should be able to talk like
normal people, right, and he just uses so many damn emojis,
Like it's just ridiculous. It's it's it's an overload of emojis,
(07:25):
Like every single word that has an emoji, he's using it.
And before the date, like I could ignore it because
we hadn't really met in person yet, so I thought
he was just kind of breaking the ice or maybe nervous.
So I noticed that he uses a lot of emojis
before the date, but I thought after the date we
would break the ice and maybe he would just talk normally.
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But it's like a whole line of emojis that I
have to respond to.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Does he talk with emojis just like it face to
face like hot, I mean no face to smiley face,
smiley face ooh, or like.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Like you know how like on the new iPhone, like
the new update, you can customize your own emojis and
your memojis, Like I feel like it would be even
more annoying if he was sending laughing crying faces with
like emojis of his face. Is it like that or
is it like the regular emojis?
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:19):
He uses both, oh golly.
Speaker 9 (08:20):
And then even the other day, like a couple of
days after the date, he sent me like a sleep
easy emoji with a question mark at like ten o'clock
at night, and I don't know, it's just like, come on, man,
Like I guess he's asking me if I'm sleeping, but
just ask me why?
Speaker 6 (08:34):
Why do I feel like I feel like the sixty
year old man would type like that when they're texting
their grandkida, that's weird.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
So well, why if you like him, you're good enough
to sleep with him, why wouldn't you just talk to
him and be like, hey, chilling?
Speaker 3 (08:48):
The emojis man?
Speaker 7 (08:49):
Yeah right, It doesn't seem like it should be a
total deal breaker, like, yeah, annoying, although I don't know,
like when you get the ick, you get the ick,
and it can be something as little as that and
you just can't shake it. So I kind of get it.
But I also feel like like it is hard to
find someone that you have genuine chemistry with, so you
would find that and you can get to the point
where you'd be like, hey.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Chill, can I jump in here?
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Is that shocked face?
Speaker 5 (09:13):
Damn?
Speaker 9 (09:13):
I should have known you'd be on.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
The phone, Champ, Hey, what's up to tell you? Uh?
That's what you're ghosting me, Like, yeah, why why didn't
you just say something? What's what's up?
Speaker 9 (09:27):
I don't know, I'm sorry, I just I don't know.
I can't get it out of my mind that you
just you kind of tax like a middle school girl.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Oh my gosh. Well, well, first off, I'd like to
fully say that it was not because it's something in
the bedroom.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
For all you guys we thought you were bad at making.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Yeah, yeah, it's just something something chilly as this. I'm sorry,
my apologies, I didn't I will definitely cool it on
the on the emoji realize such a thing, but more
that it could be a deal breaker, Like.
Speaker 9 (10:03):
But I mean you are really sweet and I did
have a good time, but yeah, I would like to
have more of a normal conversation, not just emoji if
we're texting.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Yes, I can totally do that. Yeah, because like I thought,
we had a great time and uh, I mean, you know,
obviously everything that happened happened, but like everything outside of
that room I thought was fantastic as well, Like I
thought you were like cool and just helping. Yeah that, yeah,
maybe we can get together again without emojis.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
Without emoji.
Speaker 9 (10:41):
Uh yeah, I guess, so yeah, I know.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
See you so simple, you just have a conversation.
Speaker 6 (10:48):
On another note, that emoji movie. Have you guys seen
the emoji movies?
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Terrible? Oh?
Speaker 7 (10:52):
I liked it, Oh my gosh. I even tried to
watch it again with my kids and they were out.
Speaker 6 (11:01):
But I also like movies I can put on and
not pay attention to.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
So that's probably that.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Is true about that movie. You can totally put that
on and not pay attention to it.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
And I love like kids.
Speaker 6 (11:12):
I know. Maybe I'll try to get because I probably
really wasn't watching.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
So you guys are gonna go out again? Then?
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Yeah, what's doing?
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Oh smiley face with.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Heart all right, you guys, thanks for calling in, Thanks
for jumping on the air with us.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
Natalia, it's very cool with you.
Speaker 9 (11:33):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
That's second update, Johny and Rich the cutt