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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's Tuesday. That means we got second date update. Let's
say hello to Mecca. Mecca, what's going on with you?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
So I went on a date with one of my
old friends with benefits and now he's ghosting me.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Oh okay, okay, what do you say, Kyle?
Speaker 4 (00:14):
I say we take this case.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Second date updates starts next with John, Jay and Rich.
Time for second date update. You guys, this is where
you go on a date with someone, you have a
great time, You expect there to be a second date,
there isn't one, so you come to us.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
That's what Mecca is doing. Good morning, Mecca.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Hi guys, how are you?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
What's your story?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Okay? So me and Adam we've known each other for years,
but it's always kind of been a casual thing, you know,
friends with benefits, no strings, and honest can't never really
thought that we'd go on a real date, but we anyways,
we did that for years and then life hand happened
and we just kind of a lot of touch and
(01:02):
five years went by and we hadn't talked, but then
out of nowhere we reconnected and I don't know, it
felt it felt familiar but different, if that make sense,
Like we had, we'd both grown into people who might
actually fit together now anyway, So he asked me out,
(01:25):
and like on a real day, like actually asked me,
how not just like texting me and seeing if I
want to hook up or whatever. And so we got
dinner and we laughed and we talked. I don't know,
we talked about things that we never really did before,
(01:47):
you know, And I don't know, I let myself kind
of wonder if maybe this time was different or it
could be something more. And I really liked him, and
I thought he really liked me too, But now nothing,
you don't know, Tuck snow calls, just silence, and I
(02:10):
just kind of feel stupid for thinking that maybe we
were actually a match this time and could be something more.
And now I'm just like, I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 6 (02:19):
So it was this last time other than that you
felt different about him?
Speaker 4 (02:24):
Was it the same as always?
Speaker 6 (02:25):
Like you got together, maybe had dinner and then hooked
up afterwards. And so maybe he's expecting it to just
be like you guys don't talk for a while.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Now, Well, I don't know, but like the things that
we talked about on the date, like I mean, also
we never really went on a date before. We just
kind of would hang out.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
No dinner. Well, maybe did you give him your sinus infection?
Do you sound stuffy?
Speaker 2 (02:46):
He just a little congested, and that's.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
I don't think that's it.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
So when when was the date?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Had a week or so ago.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
And before that you hadn't seen him in how long
like five years?
Speaker 6 (03:01):
It was maybe maybe maybe he gave her this sud
it's infection, and maybe he's really sick right now.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Uh huh, But could I'm trying to put myself like
in serious shoes, like like this guy, I'm this guy.
Don't you just think you're just back to business as
you rule, Like we're back to booty calls, we're back
to friends of benefits, even though he did ask for
a real date.
Speaker 7 (03:18):
Right, which makes me think like that's where it's like
it's been five years, Like it's time to grow up,
Like I'm still doing friends with benefits five years later,
Like that's this is really weird to me because I
feel like that the fact that he asked you out
on a date does set the grounds for this is
different than the friends with benefits thing.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
You would think he'd be trying a little harder to
make the relationship go. Right he brought it up.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
I mean, it just felt different because it was we
had like such interesting conversations beforehand.
Speaker 7 (03:44):
Right, it wasn't just a mindless hook up, like there
was a little bit of emotion.
Speaker 6 (03:47):
To Maybe he got scared, maybe he was like, whoa,
this is not really serious.
Speaker 7 (03:50):
Yeah, Or maybe it was a test. Maybe it was
his she's still in her own ways. Maybe it was
maybe he didn't want to hook up on the first night.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
You know, let's call him and find out. Guys, interesting,
what did you say?
Speaker 7 (03:59):
His name was Adam?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Do you think he knows the phrase madam? I'm Adam?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Do you know that did not come up on our date?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
But if we bring it up, because you know, if
you spell that out, it's forward and backwards the same thing.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
No, he didn't.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I said that a guy named Adam. He had no
idea what I was talking about. And I and this is,
if we call this guy Adam, this will be the
next Adom. I'm gonna run that pie because I just
figured if your name is Adam, you would know, you
would know all the different things with your name.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Do you know what I mean? But this Adam, I
knew had no idea what I was talking about, and
I was.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Like, Adam, write it down anyway, all right, So we
will call him and we're gonna find out why he's
blowing you off, or maybe he doesn't know he's blowing
you off.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Right, Yeah, okay, second ate update continues. Next, we trying
to chain Rich ever since I was.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Dade Rich. We're in the middle of second it up.
That you've got Mecca and this guy Adam. A long
time ago, they were friends with benefits. They used to
do it all the time, right, Mecca, I mean all
the time, Like it was both ways. You'd be like, hey,
come over. He'd be like, hey, come over, just like that. Right, Yeah,
it's good. So years go by, he reaches out to
you and says, let's go to dinner. You guys go
(05:23):
to dinner. You're feeling it like you guys are having
a good conversation. It's more than friends with benefits. Then
you go back to wherever you guys go and you
guys do it right, and.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Now you're like, hey, that was really fun. That was good.
I'd like to see him again.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
But you haven't heard from him, right, Okay, you guys,
are you ready, We're ready. Okay, let's call Adam.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Hello, Hi, is Adam there speaking?
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Hi.
Speaker 7 (06:01):
My name is Peyton. I'm with John Jay and Ridge
and we just wanted to talk to you about something
on the radio really quickly this morning.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Oh oh okay, Well, first of all, thank you for
jumping on there with us.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Yeah, no problem.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Okay, before we get into the meat of what we're
calling you for, have you ever heard the phrase madam,
I'm Adam?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Okay, all right, then I'll move on from there.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
We are calling you, dude, because we got a call
from somebody.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
This is actually a little bit different than what we
normally do.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
We do a thing called second update where we talk
to people that went out with someone they expected to
be another.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Date, but there's usually no history between them.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
And Mecca reached out to us because we know the
history between you two. But she thought this last time
you guys went out, there was something there and you
haven't heard. She hasn't heard from you, so we thought
we kind of asked you about that.
Speaker 5 (06:49):
Yeah, No, I do remember Mecca, Okay, look, yeah I
should remember her.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
She said, you guys are like friends of benefits for years.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Yeah, yeah, look I know it's sounds bad. I couldn't
get past it, like she loo was amazing, like when
we blast went out and we had like no time
had passed, but like bilked up and then I saw them.
It's like this same pair of underwear that she had
on it five years ago, and not exactly like like
some classic lounge right No, no either like hay like
(07:21):
slightly faded stretched out that I remember from way back when.
And all I could think was, how does ship still
have those? Like you're not roadtate, You're not refreshed message
with my head man, like I was firing like the
same underwear five years. What else hasn't shan like changed,
like hygiene habits?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Wait wait wait wait Tears, are you ghosted because of
my underwear?
Speaker 7 (07:48):
Are you serious?
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Thesa Mecca?
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Hey, yeah, I mean look it freaked me out, all right,
dame pair from five years ago, that's the commitment I
wasn't ready for.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Okay, Well, first of all, it's not like I've been
wearing them non.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Stop for five years.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I mean, I do laundry, adam and I'm not.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
They're in a rotation.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
I'm not disgusting.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
That's making it better.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Hold on.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
So you do, Mecca, you do confirm that is the
same pair of underwear. It's not like you bought the
same brand and they just fall apart the same at
the same rate.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
It is the same pair of underwear from five years ago.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Listen, they're part of a rotation and they're my lucky.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Pair of Well it works, it works. It totally worked
for you.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
You were wearing the underwear or you happened as if
you saw them in a drawer, you.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Had them on.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
I chose this specifically for the date because they've always
worked in the past and they clearly worked this time.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
But that's fired in the end a little bit.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Wow, what kind underwear? Well brand? What they look like?
Speaker 5 (08:56):
Oh, that's for me to know.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
It's not for radio. Well, I'm just curious to know
if he saw them five years ago? Were they new
then or were they five years old then?
Speaker 5 (09:06):
Year old?
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Decade is of course I do. I just thought that, like,
you know, these worked in the past with you, so
I figured, why not try it again?
Speaker 4 (09:17):
And what do you know? It worked again.
Speaker 6 (09:20):
They must be like very distinct because for him to
like remember the actual care Yeah, that's pretty big.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Yeah, well, they weren't days of their weake underwear.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
I'll just say that, oh they were okay good.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
I mean, I have a par I bought it. I
was with my dad.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
My dad passed away in two thousand and seven, and
I remember going to my dad in two thousand and
six to Mervyns and go, I gotta buy someone, and
I bought some underwear. I still have one pair of
those underwear from that time, so I wear them every
once in a while when it's like an emergency. So
that's an old pair of underwear. But I don't I
only wear them because they're sentimental?
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Are I go?
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Every time I pull like, go, oh, I we got
this with my dad, you know what I mean. But
I can't imagine like I got lucky with these. Let
me wear these again.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Now. I would say that about shirt, but I don't
about underwear.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I think don't very often prove it.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
I don't think it's like like underwear like only has
a shelf life when they're like ruined.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
Yeah, you know what I mean, like it ruined. I
didn't you throw away?
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Maybe Adam thought they were stretched out back then, like
five years ago. He's like, but probably time to replace.
Speaker 7 (10:21):
He's not wearing the underwear, like why does it matter?
Like if she's clean and smells fine, Like I don't
understand why you're why you'd be tripping. And honestly, I'm
a little self conscious right now because now I'm like,
do I need to go underwear shopping? Because I know
you should definitely have old if you're underwear is still intact,
even otherwise it's wasteful.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Look at like this, Adam. If you let's say you
and Mecca get married, then you should be like, once
we get married, I will always have new underwear buddy
for you. So let's start right now, and then it's
up to you to replace her her drawers every.
Speaker 7 (10:52):
Birthday in Christmas, you gotta get her new shon.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
Do you guys have a lot of underwear? Does that
how many persons work?
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Probably have thirty pair?
Speaker 3 (11:01):
Oh really, Kyle?
Speaker 5 (11:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Probably So if you had like thirty pair of whore,
I could see how you can have it five years.
I don't I need no one. I have like maybe
eleven pairs of underwear, and I just you know what
I mean, I need more underwear. But underwear so such
a difficult.
Speaker 4 (11:13):
Purchase, it is, really and you got you got to
really find your brand.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
And fit on your brand.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Like I love this Calvin Client underwear, but there's so
many different versions of Calvin Clan where I can't find
every change him over the years here. But I can't
imagine though, not going out with a girl because she
had that pair under were five years ago.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
Seems a little like like a Seinfeld reason to do,
you know what I mean? A little bit like a
TV episode, Like really that's the deal?
Speaker 4 (11:37):
Regular?
Speaker 3 (11:37):
I feel like there's got to be something else.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Like you weren't feeling the vibe to make that bother you,
because if you were really feeling it, you'd look past it.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
All right, Listen, I'm I'm sorry. I didn't realize that
I had a respiration date or that I'm supposed to
retire it every two years like a jersey or something.
Speaker 8 (12:00):
Look at maybe if you're interested, we could grab dinner
and you can be that you actually own other underwear
and then wontever make this a big deal again?
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Fine?
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
I also think that if you've been friends with benefits
for a long time, you guys have done it. Like
you guys have already been seeing vulnerable, you've already done it.
Intimate as possible that you could easially go just the
same part five years ago.
Speaker 7 (12:30):
Well, it seems like you guys are down to go
on a second date.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
So that's good.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Yeah if you Yeah, gift cards to Victoria's Secrets. You guys,
you guys go underwear shopping, Yes, underwear shopping.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Rich, will you take your shopping?
Speaker 4 (12:46):
Yeah? I will. The new styles you're just gonna.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Love, Okay, I can't wait. All right, you guys, thanks
for jumping on their with us.
Speaker 4 (12:52):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
That's second and update with a happy ending with John
Jay and Rich.