Johnjay & Rich Present: WAR of the ROSES

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Nathan, tell us a little bit about your situation.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
So I think my wife is cheating on me, and
her dad's the one who told me.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
Dang, let's do it. Let's take this case. Let's do
War the Roses next with John Jay and Rich. Not
only do you need to know if they're cheating, you
deserve to know the truth.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
War of the Roses right now with John Jay and Rich.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
One a four to seven Kiss FM, John Jay and
Rich It's time for War the Roses. You think so
much cheating on you, We're gonna try to help you
find out if that's true or not.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Good morning, Nathan.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Hey, how's it going.

Speaker 1 (00:39):
So you think your wife girlfriend? Who do you think
is cheating on you?

Speaker 2 (00:43):
Uh? Yeah, yes, my wife Carolyn?

Speaker 1 (00:45):
Okay, okay, what's the story.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
So I got a call from my father in law
last night, and this is not out of the ordinary.
He and I are very, very close. He's really been
like a second father of me ever since I marry
his daughter, and he's always treated me like family, just
like a son. So when he called, it wasn't anything
out of the ordinary. We often have calls about sports

(01:11):
or work or whatever, but right away he sounds really serious.
On the phone, he goes, I don't know how to
say this, but I feel like I have to because
I love you like you're my own child. And then
he just says, I think my daughter is cheating on you,
And it was the last thing I expected him to say.
I couldn't even process it. I mean, it was her

(01:32):
dad telling.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
Me this.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
That he's noticed some things, like her acting different, making
excuses to him, sneaking around, and he just like felt
like he couldn't keep it in anymore, and he felt
like he had to say something to me. And he
told me he'd been wrestling with whether or not he
wanted to say anything because they didn't want to hurt
me and it is his daughter, but he just felt
like I deserve to know, and I didn't know what

(01:58):
to say to him. I still don't know what to do,
because on one hand, I absolutely trust him. He wouldn't
ever say something like that to me unless he really
thought he was sure. But also I loved my wife
and I really did not have these suspicions and would
never thought she would do something like this. So I'm
just stuck trying to figure out if I should talk
to her, confront her or try to find proof first.

(02:20):
So I don't know what to do, and I don't
want to lose his relationship with her dad if it's
not true because of this. And I know he didn't
want to hurt me, he was just trying to protect me.
So I just want to talk to my wife and
figure out what's going on here, just real quick.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
From my point of view is I feel so bad
for the dad, Like what the dad had to go
through over and over and again to want to make
that phone call, you know what I mean? Because he
had to vet it out to make sure. You got
to make sure that your daughter is doing that before you.
And then it's like, did you really tell the son

(02:55):
in law or do you just go, Oh my god,
can I talk to you babe? Can you get it
for a second?

Speaker 1 (02:58):
What the hell's going on?

Speaker 2 (02:59):
Like?

Speaker 1 (03:00):
Yeah, dad, but he's huge.

Speaker 4 (03:01):
I know.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
I'm I'm trying to battle in my head what the
daughter's say.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
So it says that tough call for the dad, mad
respect for the dad, but also sadness.

Speaker 4 (03:11):
Yeah that's tough, and I mean, I guess we just
got a call her figure out what's going on.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
Okay, So you're down with us calling your wife and
finding out in our special way that we do it if.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
She is sleeping with somebody else. You're totally down for that.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yes, Yeah, let's do it.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Okay. Are you ready, Kyle?

Speaker 2 (03:27):
I'm ready?

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Shall we take this case?

Speaker 5 (03:30):
I think we already decided to take this.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
We did because if you were to say I'm not ready,
then I'd be like, maybe we shouldn't take this case,
and I'd be like, Okay, we're not gonna task.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
You're born ready?

Speaker 3 (03:37):
Okay, all right, hold on the line, dude. We're gonna
get her on the phone and find out who she
thinks is sending your flowers or the roses? Is next? John,
Jay and Rich in the middle of war the roses?
You got Nathan? He thinks his wife is chie on

(04:00):
it because her dad called him. How long you guys
been married? Nathan for three years?

Speaker 2 (04:05):
Now?

Speaker 1 (04:05):
Okay, let's do it. You ready, Kyle?

Speaker 6 (04:08):
I'm ready?

Speaker 2 (04:20):
Hello?

Speaker 4 (04:21):
Hi?

Speaker 7 (04:22):
Is Carolyn available?

Speaker 4 (04:23):
Hi?

Speaker 2 (04:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (04:24):
Speaking?

Speaker 2 (04:25):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (04:25):
Perfect?

Speaker 7 (04:25):
So my name is Sheila. I'm with a new company.
We're called Jane or Flowers, and I have some really
good news for you. I also have like, you know,
like something that I'm hoping you can help me with
because it's like my first week here and I've already
messed up a couple of times.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
So I'm hoping you can help me out.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
So the great news.

Speaker 7 (04:42):
For you, Caroline is that somebody is trying to send
you a beautiful bouquet of flowers. It's our pure passion bouquet.
So someone who's got their eye on you and wants
to definitely impress you and woo you a little bit.
My problem is, I'm hoping you can help me. So
is there anybody that you think would be sending you
like a very romantic I mean I call them sexy

(05:05):
there they are gorgeous flowers, just so I can make
sure you get the right card.

Speaker 6 (05:11):
Yeah, sorry, what company is this again?

Speaker 1 (05:15):
G and our flowers.

Speaker 7 (05:16):
We're kind of new if you haven't heard of us,
it's it's a whole thing. But yeah, and and like
I said, I'm new here too, so I'm just like
hoping to keep my job.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
And I'm so sorry.

Speaker 7 (05:24):
But like you're still surprised, right, like someone's sending you flowers?

Speaker 6 (05:26):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, this is this is wild?

Speaker 5 (05:30):
Okay, well okay, there there is someone that comes to
mind that would potentially send me flowers okay, yeah, his uh,
his name is Jacob.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Jacob Jacob. Yeah, your boss Jacob. You're sending flowers. You
think you're getting flowers from your boss, not me, your husband, Nathan.

Speaker 5 (05:56):
I I'm so sorry, what like, are.

Speaker 2 (05:59):
You pleating going on right now?

Speaker 1 (06:01):
You're on the radio.

Speaker 2 (06:02):
You just said your boss Jacob live on the radio,
wore the roses.

Speaker 6 (06:08):
Okay, all right, listen, there's there's been a mistake. This
is I don't know what this is.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Mistake.

Speaker 6 (06:15):
Yeah, I thought hobosthetically if someone I don't know, Nathan, Like,
I don't even know what's.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
Going on right now, Carolyn, Are you cheating on me
with your boss?

Speaker 6 (06:25):
Hey, listen, calm down. You're clearly upset. Okay, Like this
is not.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
I don't know me to calm down, because if you're
lying to sneak around behind my back and cheating on
me with your boss, that is absolutely ridiculous.

Speaker 6 (06:38):
Dave, listen, can we just talk about this in private,
like two adults please, Like we don't need to.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
Are you kidding? No, you sneak around with your boss
is not adult or mature. Your thing? You were down
with him, You weren't sneaking around behind my back. While
I was at home, and.

Speaker 6 (06:54):
I'm not thinking around behind babe, It's not even like okay,
all right, can can I just can you hear me
out for just one second?

Speaker 2 (07:02):
You want me to hear you out? You know who
I had heard? Your dad who called me. Your dad
called me and told me that he thought that you
were cheating on me.

Speaker 3 (07:10):
And clearly you know my dad wat the Nile.

Speaker 6 (07:12):
You can okay, all right, well, okay, yeah, my dad
knows so much. Okay, are you gonna like really believe
my dad or are you gonna listen to me?

Speaker 2 (07:20):
Well, he warned me because he actually cares about me,
unlike you. Let her explain, all right, okay, I care
about you.

Speaker 6 (07:28):
Listen, Okay. Sometimes sometimes and it's not even like that,
Jacob and I have deep meeting school conversations, and sometimes
it's hard to reach you. I mean, look helps that
you are with me right now. I mean not to
turn it's around, but they like, look helps that you are.
It's hard to talk to you sometimes, and Jacob is always.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
There for me like that at all.

Speaker 6 (07:51):
I thought maybe he could send me flowers.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
I don't know, this is absolutely ridiculous. I feel completely
betraying you.

Speaker 6 (08:00):
I couldn't tell you, Okay, I couldn't tell you the
last time that my very own husband had sent me flowers.
So yeah, I got a little bit excited about that,
aside from telling him to send me flowers or bring
me flowers, or to remind him on special holidays. Yeah,
it gets to be annoying. So you have no right
to get and sat with me right.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
Now, Babe, you have no right.

Speaker 6 (08:19):
I don't even know why we're talking about it on
this platform, honestly, Babe.

Speaker 3 (08:22):
Let's go around the room real quickly. What do you
guys say? Do you think she's having an affair with
her boss Kyle?

Speaker 1 (08:27):
What do you think?

Speaker 2 (08:27):
No, that's what I said.

Speaker 7 (08:28):
What I think I think she's having an emotional affair,
if it's crossed the physical line yet or not, I
don't think we have like you know, we don't have
a smoking gun on that.

Speaker 1 (08:37):
What do you think, Peyton?

Speaker 4 (08:38):
Yeah, I think. I mean, if you're having deep emotional
conversations with a man that's not your husband, I think
that's incredibly inappropriate. And honestly, I think an emotional affair
might be a little worse than a physical affair. Really,
I think a physical affair. Sometimes people will cheat just
because they need to get sucked.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
Fay it Louder paid, No, I do.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
I mean that's real thing, you know what I mean?
Like people make stupid decisions and they do that.

Speaker 6 (09:00):
Out this, Well, my life is being put on display.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
Look, that's not what.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
We were trying to Well, the first name on your
mind wasn't your husband, It wash your boss?

Speaker 1 (09:09):
That that would be Carolyn.

Speaker 6 (09:12):
And to be asked, you mean for any of this
to happen, I mean it.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
I didn't. I'm just.

Speaker 6 (09:19):
I just.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
I'm so sorry. Oh so now you're omitting it that
you got caught because guess what, this is ridiculous. You're busted.
And I hope Jacob was worth it because he destroyed
everything we had. I'm absolutely not Jake.

Speaker 3 (09:37):
Oh my god, she's correcting him on the.

Speaker 7 (09:43):
Chips are complicated and this is messy, and you obviously
have stuff to work out.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
I feel like we.

Speaker 7 (09:52):
Did what we set out to do, Nathan, and found
out something for you. Like I know, like you probably
have your reasons and you can explain him to him.

Speaker 1 (09:59):
But I just feel I feel awkward like being a
part of.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
This me too. If you can explain it to Jacob
promotional support animal. I'm done, like, good luck with him, Carolyn,
because you're really good.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
All right. Well, thank you both for going on the
air with us today.

Speaker 6 (10:15):
Yeah, thanks, thanks a lot.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
You got it. Yeah, hold on the line, hold on.
That's for the roses.