Johnjay & Rich Present: WAR of the ROSES

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Are we getting ready for War the Roses. Let's say
hey to Kimmy. Kimmy, what's going on in your world?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
My fiance is leaving in the middle of the night
and I don't know where he's going.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
Whoa, Ky, that's a big one.

Speaker 4 (00:13):
That's a big one.

Speaker 3 (00:13):
Are you in?

Speaker 4 (00:14):
I think we probably should right should.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
Take this case, Kimmy. We're gonna take your case. Okay,
all right? War the Roses. It starts next with John
Jay and Rich.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
Not only do you need to know if they're cheating,
you deserve to know the truth?

Speaker 3 (00:33):
War of the Roses right now with John Jay and Rich,
John Jay Rich, Time for War of the Roses.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
You're in a relationship, you think someone's cheating, so you
come to us, like Kimmy.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
Good morning, Kimmy. So what we're gonna do is hear
your story.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
You think so much cheating in your life, you want
to hear the whole thing, and then we're gonna troubleshoot it.
But then what we're gonna do is call them and
we're going to offer them a dozen red roses for
free that they could send to anyone. And we're hoping
this person says, send him to Kimmy, Now, who is
this person, Kimmy, is it a husband or boyfriend?

Speaker 5 (01:02):
It's my fiance and what's his name?

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Trace?

Speaker 3 (01:07):
Okay, what's the story?

Speaker 2 (01:09):
Well, I don't even know what to do about it
because I kind of feel like I'm going in sane,
like I'm moving my mind. I think he might be
cheating on me. He's been acting really weird lately, I mean,
just completely out of character for him. And he's been
like snapping at me for the dumbest things, Like I'll
ask him like, hey, like what do you want to

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have for dinner or something like that, and he'll suddenly
get really irritated and kind of nasty, and I just
like I accused him of something which I obviously didn't
ask a simple question, and I will and then I
was like speaking of accusations to laugh. I'm like, okay,
so here's everything okay with me? Something going on, and
he'll like get really defensive, like overreacting, like way too

(01:52):
defensive for somebody who's fine and he's honestly, he's been
like leaving the house at like midnight because he says, oh,
I can't sleep. He'll just be driving around to quote
unquote clear his head and like, I don't like who
does that at midnight? And it's not even like oh
once or twice, snipers, serial killers, the terrible.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
Terrible things.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
I mean, it's like such a weird thing, right, Like
it's it's been happening, it's now like a regular thing.
So I'll ask him like, hey, so where are you
going and it gets the really vague answer. It's like, oh,
no where, I'm just driving And I don't know. It's
it's weird. Just something feels really od.

Speaker 3 (02:34):
I gotta get with his body.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
You know when you said when you said he was
snapping at you, like what do you want for dinner?

Speaker 3 (02:41):
And I was like I thought he was going.

Speaker 6 (02:43):
Now now I want to He's just snatched back at
me all the time.

Speaker 3 (02:48):
No, no, but go ahead, okay.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
So so like that those are very weird behaviors.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
Is there more or is that pretty much the gist?

Speaker 2 (02:57):
Well, no, it's just but like my gut's telling it
that's something's off.

Speaker 5 (03:00):
You're right, yeah, Like.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
He's hiding his phone like why, I don't know. I
just I need you guys to help me figure out
what's going on before I marry this guy. Six months?

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Oh my all right, let's call Trace, all right, Kimmy,
So we're gonna take a break.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
We're gonna get situated.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
Kyle's got a lot to do behind the scenes before
we just called the guy.

Speaker 5 (03:19):
All right, Tobe.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
Make up assistants come out here and get her all ready,
all right, so hold on, we will come back.

Speaker 3 (03:29):
War the Roses continues next to John Jay and Rich.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Much say, John Jay and Rich were in the middle
of War of the Roses. You've got Kimmy who is
engaged to Trace in six months. But get this, this
guy has been acting really weird. First he's snapping at her,
which I think people can relate to that, Oh you're
being so snappy, which, by the way, I was gonna
go this way, Kimmy. I had heard that.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
I had heard.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
I meant me, you could on one Instagram post and
then you just get more and more of the same subject.
So I clicked on some posts about husbands and wives.
Now that's all I get. But uh, sometimes I think
they're really good and it's just whatever your husband is
snippy or like that. It means maybe you haven't been
intimate in a while, and once you it doesn't necessarily
mean doing it but maybe it just means lying next

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to each other, touching each other, kissing, doing it.

Speaker 5 (04:21):
Because I got a boyfriend like that too, and I'm like,
oh man.

Speaker 6 (04:23):
Here would got you gotta give a little I catched
myself that same way, and I'm like, WHOA why I
was like that.

Speaker 3 (04:34):
I was like, I wonder why I was like that. Oh,
you know, we haven't whatever.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
That Instagram post was right, But Kimmy, you're saying your
fiance Trace also in the middle of the night, gets
up and gets in his car and your scolds for
a drive. That's weird, right, Yeah, Kimmy, you get it right.
We're gonna call him. See who sends flowers to you?
Just chill out and listen.

Speaker 7 (04:52):
Okay, Hello, good morning, is Trace available?

Speaker 5 (05:11):
Trace, It's kind of your lucky day. Hi.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
My name is Janey.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
I'm with a new company. We're called J and R Flowers.
You may or may not have heard of us. If
you haven't, that's kind of the whole point of this call.
We have a social media campaign to get the word
out about us, and you've actually been chosen to become
a micro influencer for us. I told you it was
good news. So basically, what this means, Traces that you
get to send our most romantic bouquet of roses. It's
a dozen gorgeous, long stem red roses to whoever you want.

Speaker 5 (05:36):
It's really totally free for you.

Speaker 4 (05:38):
We just kind of asked that you post about us
and whatever social media platform you use the most, so
you're helping get the word out and you get to
like look like the man for free.

Speaker 8 (05:46):
There's no fee for this.

Speaker 4 (05:48):
No, I don't need a credit card information or anything
like that. We're not going to send you a bill.
And it is a very I mean, it's a pretty
expensive bouquet usually cost almost eighty dollars, so it's a
pretty good deal for you. You will send it out
with like a nice little card. So really the only
information I'll need from you is like the message you
want to write on the card, and you give me that,
we can like name, address, and I'll tell you when

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they're being sent out.

Speaker 8 (06:10):
Okay, I mean if there's no cost, sure, why not?

Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (06:13):
Why not? Right?

Speaker 7 (06:14):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (06:14):
Totally okay.

Speaker 4 (06:15):
Trace, So, like I said, I got that card ready,
give me the message and then we can talk like
name and address, and then I'll give you like an
estimated delivery time.

Speaker 5 (06:23):
Okay.

Speaker 8 (06:25):
The message would be like I love you, babe, and
I can't wait to marry you.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Love that.

Speaker 4 (06:36):
Okay, and obviously you want like a love Trace. Yeah,
at the end, and then who did you want me
to address.

Speaker 5 (06:43):
This to fiance?

Speaker 8 (06:45):
Kimmy?

Speaker 2 (06:46):
Oh my gosh, I was, I was. I was literally shaking.
I thought you were going to send them to someone else.

Speaker 8 (06:51):
Oh my god, I love you so much? Oh?

Speaker 2 (06:54):
Well man, But but also like, what's going on? You
never you pup like this?

Speaker 8 (07:02):
What is what's going on?

Speaker 3 (07:03):
Trace? Let me interrupt.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
You're on the radio on War of the Roses, the
John Jay and Richard radio program.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
Kimm you thought you've been acting kind of weird, so
she wanted to test you out.

Speaker 7 (07:13):
Okay, the goodness, this is your past.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
But you're still acting weird towards your fiance, like you're
still questions for you.

Speaker 8 (07:23):
Yeah, like how specifically? What are you talking about?

Speaker 3 (07:27):
Kimmy?

Speaker 2 (07:29):
Well, it just it feels like something's off. Trace. You've
just been acting really weird lately. You're gone all the time,
and you get really I don't know, you just get
get like really mad at me over like and our
little things, you know, tiny little things, and suddenly you're
like a big romantic gesture like, Trace, what's going on?

Speaker 8 (07:47):
No, I can't. I swear it's not what you're thinking
out Like, I'm not like cheating on you or.

Speaker 2 (07:52):
Never do that, Okay, but you're you're hiding something from me.

Speaker 5 (07:58):
Trace, Well, I.

Speaker 8 (08:02):
Think I have a problem, kimming.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
Uh, a problem, A kind of problems.

Speaker 8 (08:11):
I've been I've been gambling a lot, yes, yeah, I know.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
It started.

Speaker 8 (08:20):
It started small. I was just like playing cards with
the guys, but then I found these like underground rings
and I ended up getting in a little bit too deep.
So I've lost a lot of money, and not just money,
but like sweep as you know, and time with us,
and so that's where I've been going at night. And
then I've been just kind of feeling off during the day.

Speaker 2 (08:44):
Wait, so you're not sneaking around with someone else, You're
sneaking off to gamble.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
Yeah, oh my god, Are you sneaking off to pay
off your gambling debt by being a hit man for
the mobster guy that you owe the money to and
you're killing people in the middle of the night.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Do you no, Oh, Trace, do you have any idea
how insane this is I.

Speaker 3 (09:09):
Believe me.

Speaker 8 (09:10):
I hate myself for it. I thought I could control it.

Speaker 5 (09:13):
But how deep are you? How deep? How much in debt?

Speaker 8 (09:17):
Like more than more than you currently have?

Speaker 3 (09:21):
Well?

Speaker 5 (09:21):
What what like?

Speaker 3 (09:22):
So do?

Speaker 5 (09:22):
Basically?

Speaker 8 (09:25):
I mean, I don't want to talk dollar outs on
the radio.

Speaker 5 (09:27):
Necessarily, just just tell us so we have an idea,
like a.

Speaker 8 (09:31):
Hundred thousand dollars?

Speaker 2 (09:34):
What? What are we in dangerous traits?

Speaker 8 (09:41):
I'm not I don't think so. I'm not positive. I
know that I need to stop and I need help,
and I definitely need you. I can't lose you, Kimmy.
You're like the only good thing left in my life.
I've ruined everything else, So you know, please don't leave
me over this. I didn't want to say anything as
I'm worried about you doing that.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
I don't even know what to say. I mean, I
love you, trace, but this is a this is a
huge big deal.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
This is a really big deal, and it happens more
than you know. That happens a lot.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
It's really kind of scary too. Yeah, you have to
get help today.

Speaker 1 (10:20):
Look, you can find that. There's a website I'm on
right now. It's called gamblers Anonymous dot org and they
have meetings, virtual meetings, they have all kinds of stuff
that you can do to help.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
I think you need to kind of look at I mean,
one hundred thousand dollars a big, big.

Speaker 5 (10:35):
Gambling more than just a little out of control at
this point.

Speaker 8 (10:37):
Yeah, I don't even know what to do's.

Speaker 3 (10:41):
Anonymous, you can start, for sure.

Speaker 5 (10:43):
I do like that he's not defending it and saying
I can win it back. That would be the real
real problem, right, Like he's admitting he's in two D.
But like, yeah, so that's at least somewhat promising.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
Hey, Kimmy, let me ask you this, how does this
make you feel? It's not another woman?

Speaker 2 (11:00):
Well, it's I'm frightened. Honestly, I'm angry as well, but
I'm I'm frightened because this needs to to I'm worried
about Trace. I want him to get help. I mean,
he's the love of my life, but I'm worried about
our future together if this, If you know, if this
isn't taken care of, just we need to. We can't
have a future without Tracey getting getting you help.

Speaker 8 (11:24):
No, it's I know it's I'm gonna do it.

Speaker 3 (11:27):
Do you guys? Want to bet on whether he gets
help or not.

Speaker 4 (11:29):
No, let's just root for him, rooting for.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
You, all right, We're going to root for you, Trace.

Speaker 2 (11:37):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
I need all the hope I can get, all right, Kenny,
thank you for jumping on there with us. And I'm glad,
believe it or not, this was some sort of a
happy ending kind of Yeah, it wasn't cheating, right, and
they seem so in love and like, Kimmy really is
going to be able to be a support system for you, Trace.

Speaker 3 (11:52):
So you guys got each other.

Speaker 5 (11:54):
Yeah, that's good to lean on. You're going to need it.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
Yeah, Yeah, thank you.

Speaker 3 (11:58):
All right. That's War of the Roses with John Jay
Rich